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my boyfriend has a lot of experience with sex and i havn't and he said he wants to do it but i have only kissed a guy and had one real boyfriend should i say yes or no if i say no he might dump me we have been goin out for 4 months (link)
ok that is a really good question i think that if he will break up with you if you dont have sex with him then dont do it that just means he just wants you for all the wrong reasons and you dont want a guy like that so talk to him or sumthin to see wut he is thinking and then think about it and make sure your 100 % sure your ready!! you shouldn't rush things
hope this helped
xoxo meganlynn


I am learning Spanish and I know the best way is to read, watch and listen.
So suggest me books to read, movies to watch, and music to listen to.
I like Manu Chao and Aventura very much.
I do not like Pedro Almodovar.
Thank you all in advanced. (link)
i think yo should find a friend that speaks spanish and ask nicely for them to teach you.


i really like this girl and i think she kinda likes me back but i'm too scared to ask what should i do??? (link)
if she doesnt ask you out you ask her!!!!!!!! rock her world
came from hannah montana but great advice.........sincerly meganlynn





yeaa soo me and my boyfriend have been goin out for about 2 weeks now..well just these past few days hes been acting all strange for some reasonn.. like he talks about how is ex girlfriend is a skank....and crap like that..... but as it turns out they hung out all weekend..and now they are cool which is totally fine with me considering the fact that she is one of my friends...every time my boyfriends around his friends wich are all skater by the way he never talks to me he pretends like im not there...but when hes not around his friends he talks to me non stop...alsoo hess veryy cute therefore ALOT of girls like him in my school...my boyfriend tends to flirts alot with these girls that like him. well today there was a rumor going on around my school about him and people went up to me saying that he likes some other girl...welll then i went and talked to him and asked him and he said no he doesnt like any1 but me..well i was cool with that then i asked him wy does he always ignores me and flirt with other girls...well he said sorry and he didnt mean too and that he loved me.. later on in the day my best friend says that he might break up with me and go back out with his ex and when they dont work out hes gunna ask me back out...

my question iss am i just his backup girlfriend?does he really care for me?or is he just dating me to get over his ex?andd shud i stay with him or dump him?

plzzz helpp!! (link)
dear boyfriend=//
i think you need to break up with him before he breaks up with you and when or if he asks you out again blow him off or just say NO!!!!!!!!! i hope this advice helped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


WELL my friend is way over weight...and she wears a 2 peice, and she looks really sick in it. She's really just embarassing herself by wearing it. How do i tell her this!? Or should i just let her embarass herself?...Help..its really sick!! (link)
well i think u should tell her the truth because u r just looking out for her. if she likes two pieces then go shopping with her and try to talk her into getting a two peice where the top goes to her hips because those r cute and dont show what shouldn't be seen.


Okay so I'm a girl and i'm 14. I like this guy he's 14 as well. He's been flirting with me alot, he thinks i'm gorgeous, hot, he says noone can resist me and such. A friend of mine asked him if he was gonna ask me out cuz he was going to a while ago but he had a girlfriend. He said that I'm a cool girl and he wants to but he's afraid cuz of how his relationships have beeng going. So, I want to ask him out. The problem is that one of my best friends likes him too. It feels like if I ask him it'll be betraying her. But if he asks me it'd be different since i didn't pursue it even though I knew she liked him. Plus, she's laid back and i'm sure she wouldn't really mind if this guy and i go out.
My question is: Should I ask him out? Or wait for him? (link)
If he doesn't ask you out, you ask him. Rock his world. sincerely meganlynn


i had this best friend in 6th grade and ever since the beginning of 7th grade i stopped being her friend (seems like it) i mean we used to have so much fun and now every now and then she will say hi hilary and i will say hi back but how could i be back friend swith her because i miss her and i had so much fun now i have another best friend (link)
just try talking to her maybe just maybe she feels the same


My neighbor asked me to mow her lawn for $25. I mowed the front yard and the sides of the house and got $15. Now all that's left is the back yard.

I tried to mow it today and I looked down at my feet and ants completely covered my feet. So I took off my shoes and ran home, slapping my feet to get them off.

Should I tell my neighbor that I won't mow her backyard anymore?

15/f (link)
All you have to do is tell her what the problem is (ants everywhere) ask if she/he could possibly swing around some ant poison. If she reall wants her yard mowed then she wouldn't have a problem putting out a few bucks to by it.


Omg, my mom just used this new brand of very strong hair dye (from the store), and she bought the color she usually gets! Problem is, since the product is so strong, the dye is put in twice as much, so her hair is completely black! (when she bought light brown!) We called the hotline & they apologized, but said we should have got the blonde. Wtf.

ANYWAY, not the problem. My question is, is there ANY way to make her hair lighter faster? Our next door neighbor told us washing your hair with dish detergent helps strip some color, but we didn't try it yet. Any suggestions? (DO NOT say lemon juice, k thanks) (link)
there is a type of stuff called sun-in and you spray it in your hair and then either blow dry it or go out in the sun and it will lighten. my hair was dark and i wanted it to be lighter so i used sun-in and it is lighter.


I like this guy that lives downthe street from me hes really hott and i thinkhe likes me back. he alsoalready knows that i like him. The only problem is i already have a boyfriend and i know its not good to lead him on but i love being around him even though hes a little strange all of my friends sayi should breakup with my boy friend and go with the other guy i thinkthat to but wat should i tell my boyfriend.
Im 14 15 in september
and female (link)
i think you need to listen to ur heart and go with what you feel. if you want to break up with your boyfriend then do it. don't ask your friends what you should do because you are the one that is going to have to live with it in your life


omg i'm really getting sick of my sister.(shes 2years older(15)) everyone is like obsessed with her. everyone just swarms to her and ignores me. it's basically been like this since we were babies. whenever my neighbors come to the door (which is like, every day) they're just like "is your sister here?" and if i say no they're just like o ok and walk away, and im just like hellooo i'm not invisible. and all adults are think shes like, the greatest thing ever. when shes around them, especially when we go to our grandparents house she acts all perfect. like when we ate she got up and started clearing the table and started cleaning all the dishes and cleans everything and acts like shes perfect just so people will think shes all good like that, but at home she'll just leave her crap everywhere. and tosay we were at my neighbors house and we were talking to his mom and she was talking about this time her boyfriend snuck over at like 2 and her excuse was ooh his parents were fighting and he had nowhere to go so he came to my house and my neighbors mom was all like awwww. and i was like noo unm he did that like, twice. so later she was like, o my god why did you say that?? its like she lies about stuff and then wants people to think she does nothing wrong. also, i really like to draw, and all of a sudden shes like oo i like arttt , all of a sudden and starts drawing eyes like, 24/7 and she thinks they're soo good. i drew all over my backpack one day because i was bored lol so my neighbor was over and she was like look how good this eye is so she drew it and i was like umm no offense that doesnt look real at all. so shes like fine show alex(my neighbor) the one you drew on your backpack and he'll rate them one to ten. so she draws this thing that basically look like an olive with a pupil and big straight eyelashes. and i showed him mine, (and i'm not bragging or anything. drawing is one of the few things i'm actually pretty good at) and i think it looked really good and realistic(so did my mom) and hes like to my sister, you get an 8. noo wait i mean a 10! and he saw mine and was like uuum a 5 or a 4. its like he went on my sisters side just because. its like no matter what i do my sister always has to do it better, even though i've been in her shadow basically my whole life. idk why everyone is so drawn to her, she has like, multiple personalities. shes mean to my mom and stuff but then she'll go see some other adult and act all nice and smart. same with people her own age. if shes around them and she doesnt really know them, she tries to act soo tough and stuff. it's like shes different depending on who shes around. it frustrates me soo bad because she always gets all the attention and everyone listens to her and. uugh i dunno. im just really sick of this. i'm sorry this is so long, i just really don't know what to do.
thanks (link)
if i was you i would sit down and have a nice conversation about how you feel because if you hold your feelings in too long then one day you will just explode. if it doesn't change after talking to your mom and your dad then try talking to the person who made this problem (your sister) i know it might be hard but take a breath and count to 10 then go and talk to somebody.


my friend have been great all year and now that ive moved out of state i feel that they are always talking about me and that will forget about me. I want to know if they are talking about me and if they will always remember me and I dont know how to ask them because they may take it the wrong way. Please help me. (link)
i am new at this but i have moved out of state before. just relax and write to them or pick up the phone and talk to them for a few minutes, so that they know you don't forget about them. if they were your friends i don't think they would be talking about you behind your back. all i can say is sit back, relax, and call them.




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