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my boyfriend has a lot of experience with sex and i havn't and he said he wants to do it but i have only kissed a guy and had one real boyfriend should i say yes or no if i say no he might dump me we have been goin out for 4 months
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First, you need to ask yourself: Do I want to lose my virginity?
He shouldn't leave you because you don't wanna have sex with him. That would just show he's using you. Don't let him pressure you.
And 4 months doesn't really sound like that long of time. It doesn't matter if you've been going out for 4 months or 2 years, if you're not ready, then you shouldn't be forced.
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4 months may seem long to you, but it really isnt. Having sex after only 4 months is a HUGE step and it doesnt sound like you are ready so dont allow this boyfriend of yours to pressure you into doing something extremely foolish unless you're ready, in love and ready to face consequences that may await you. If he dumps you, screw him! (not literally) But.. seriously you will do a lot better with out this guy if he gets mad because you arent ready. Dont give in! Before anything, explain to him you're not ready, okay? If he dumps you.. yeah.. move on and you'll later see that you did the right thing waiting until you were ready.
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ok that is a really good question i think that if he will break up with you if you dont have sex with him then dont do it that just means he just wants you for all the wrong reasons and you dont want a guy like that so talk to him or sumthin to see wut he is thinking and then think about it and make sure your 100 % sure your ready!! you shouldn't rush things
hope this helped
xoxo meganlynn
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if you think he would dump you because you wont have sex, then DONT!!! its better to get rid of him now, because that sounds like a bad motication to have sex, and also, if he would dump you just for that, he isnt a very nice person, or a good boyfriend at all!!!
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ok...i know exactly how you feel...i've been kind of flirting with this guy...and i think we might end up going out...because he likes me, i like him, and we both know we like each other. But he is kind of like "the school hottie" and i knoww that he has a lot of experience...i'm not sure if he had sex...but i'm pretty sure he's done a lot of like oral stuff (blow jobs kind of thing) and if we do go out i'm worried about what its going to be like (because i'm not really that "experienced" (i've only kissed guys...and i havent even kissed that many)) and i'm not really comfortable doing much more (i'm 17)...
My point is...i've already decided that i'm not going to let myself get pressured into anything i dont want to do...b/c i'd rather be proud of myself 30 years from now (knowing that i waited for the right time) then to feel regret for having rushed things.
Dont let yourself get pressured into something your not comfortable with, because in 30 years, it wont matter if you got dumped because you wouldnt have sex...because you will have matured far beyond that...and you will be thankful that you waited.
Sorry that was so long, but good luck and i hope that this helped.
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Hey there,
Be sure that you're ready for this. Me and my boyfriend where dating 2 months (yeah I know not long) and he wasn't a virgin and I was. So I decided to have sex with him. If he breaks up with you because you won't have sex with him then it's his loss and he's not worth your time. I know that's hard to believe because I believed that too.
You have to be emotionally ready if you're planning to have sex because it will stress you out afterwards. Me and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me for another girl about a month after I lost my virginity to him. It may not happen to you but I will tell you from personal experience that if he breaks up with you after he has sex with you, there is a good chance that he will tell all of his guy friends who will tell their friends and soon it will be all over school. :(
But anyways, it's your and his decision. Don't let him or anyone else pressure you into it. And if he breaks up with you then that shows what kind of person he is: a jerk. I was pressured and it's not what everyone says it is. :)
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