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i like a guy thats not my boy friend
I like this guy that lives downthe street from me hes really hott and i thinkhe likes me back. he alsoalready knows that i like him. The only problem is i already have a boyfriend and i know its not good to lead him on but i love being around him even though hes a little strange all of my friends sayi should breakup with my boy friend and go with the other guy i thinkthat to but wat should i tell my boyfriend.
Im 14 15 in september
and female
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well if you are going to break up with your boyfriend OBVIOUSLY dont tell him that you like another guy. i think you should look at both guys and make sure that the kid down the street is the one you really want to be with. if you are sure that you want to break up with your b/f just say something along the lines of 'my feelings changed'. DONT tell him you want to be single. because chances are he will be pissd if he finds out you went out with another guy right after you told him you wanted ot be single.
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If you luike this other guy more then it would only be right to break up with your boyfriend. No matter what it will hurt him but try saying something like, "I think we should just be friends," or "I see you as an older/ younger brother." Something like that maybe. :)
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First of all, forget what your friends are saying to you because this is YOUR life, not theirs and if they disappeared after you made the wrong decision, you would be stuck with the consequences.
What do YOU want? You say that you like this other guy but how do you feel about your boyfriend? If you like him then stay with him and ignore the comments from your friends. At some point, they will all get boyfriends that friends think are weird so we can overlook their comments right now.
If, however, you know in your heart of hearts that you really don't want to be with your boyfriend because you prefer this other guy then you the right thing to do would be to end it. I know you won't want to hurt him so try to be gentle and you have got to give him a reason for breaking up with him. Explain to him that you really like him but not in the right way because there's not enough chemistry there for you.
I know it's difficult to do this, but if you're intending to go out with this other guy soon after breaking up with your boyfriend, he deserves to find this out from you before hearing it frm someone else. If this is the case, tell him that there is someone else that you like and it would be unfair to continue to go out with him while you liked this other guy. Your heart lies elsewhere and you don't want to lead him on.
That way, he knows the truth without making it blunt and you get to spare his feelings as much as possible by breaking it to him gently.
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i think you need to listen to ur heart and go with what you feel. if you want to break up with your boyfriend then do it. don't ask your friends what you should do because you are the one that is going to have to live with it in your life
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