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my friends r still mad at me and i asked them why and they will not tell me the school year is coming up and i do not want to be without any friends i want to have friends and i want some of the same friends but they wont talk to me someone help me plz how can i keep them as my friends?
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They definitely aren't the kind of friends you want if they're going to be mad at you and not even tell you why. When school starts again just say hi to EVERYONE you know, smile, be nice. Because i'm sure you most know other people besides them, right? So talk to the ones you know, get to know them better, & introduce yourself to new people! That's the best way to go about it, trust me. I had to totally start fresh one year because my "friends" were mad at me for something I didn't even do. but i kept smilin', made new friends and things couldn't be better now! good luck


Well I'm going withtwo guys at the same time!!I love both of them and they don't know bout each others presence.But the thing is that I don't want any of them to come to know!!Could u plez advice me on how I can go out with both of them at the same time?? (link)
I did that once.. it doesn't ever work. I know it can be hard to break it off with them because you don't want either of them to be hurt but they'll be even more hurt if they find out what you're doing.. Either pick the one you love most, or end it with both of them..


What is Birth control and what are the side affects? (link)
There's so many different kinds of birth control.. there's a pill you can take (and there's soo many different pills, too) there's a shot..

When I went on the pill I asked the school nurse to help me, and she did an assessment that helped determine what would be the best one for my body..
The possible side affects are things like break through bleeding, and blood clots and a few other things.. if you want to go on it, i suggest you do some major research first.

I've been on it since February and haven't had any problems whatsoever.


u are so awesome.. u flirt all the time and it always works.. can u give me some pointers on how to flirt??! (link)
I can't really give pointers because.. I flirt all the time and usually don't even notice I'm doing it. It's just something that's involuntary..


all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ?? (link)
It's his business, first of all. If he IS, then let him accept it on his own, and he'll tell you when he's ready to. That's a really big thing to admit, you know.


Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 3 months starting tewday...and i have this problem with cutting ( my wrist ) and i havn*t told hym untill yesterday....and he got really mad at me and said i either have tew stop cutting or i have tew brake up with me cuz e doesnt wanna risk losing someone he really loves......but i think he is just running away from the problem.....wat dew u think he is doing (link)
First of all, try as hard as you can to stop cutting. It doesn't fix anything, it just makes things worse. Think positively about things, because thinking negatively just helps with the urge to cut. Put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes.. how do you think he'd feel if he DID lose someone he cares so much about? What he was the one doing it, and killed himself.. how would you feel?


hey do you have any ideas on how to lose weight fast over summer? (link)
Run. Try going for 15 minutes 3 times a week, and then eventually try for longer so you're running for about half an hour and more frequently. It's always a pain to get started because after the first time you go, you really don't want to do it again. So if you have an image in your head of want you want to look like at the end of summer, keep thinking of that so you'll be motivated to keep running. Second, try to cut back on things like pasta, bread and rice. If you do have those things, only have the suggested serving size. Drink tons of water because it flushes out all the bad stuff in your body and also burns a few calories if you drink enough. And no junk!


i have been talkin to this gurl on aim and everything was goin great until she sent me her pic and my dads friend said she was hott. he told me to tell her so i did n she got mad at me bc he said that! now she cant stand me and i didnt do anything to her for her to hate me! what should i do? (link)
If things were going great up until the point of you telling her that, she'll probably realize that it's stupid to be mad at something that you didn't even say. You were just passing on a message. Plus, even though he was your dad's friend, she should just accept the compliment and get over it. I'm sure in a day or two things will be fine again.


well me and my friend are over..and i was j/w if anyone knew any quotes about friendship being over..thanks. (link)
I don't know any off hand, but you could look it up on Google or something..


I'm having some troubles getting guys to come up to me and start a conversation. How do I get them to start talking to me more?

Signed,
Guy Troubles (link)
Catch their eye and smile so they know you've noticed them, and sometimes they'll come over and introduce themselves and start talking.

Or, *you* could start up a conversation with one of them if you're brave. =o)


whats the best way to start a conversation with a friend that is a guy or a boyfreind...if they dont talk much at all? (link)
I find that if you get him talking about music your conversation could last for hours.


I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend..everytime he wants to i back away. I knows it getting on his nerves..HELP (link)
At least you're not like me.. I used to laugh when i was nervous about kissing guys. =oP They didn't find it too amusing.. if you don't want to kiss, then don't. Just tell him you wanna move slow at things, and you'll kiss when you're ready.


well i decided i would ask a question for fun. mm i really dont need advice on anything though... oh oh i got one - boxers or briefs?
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Well hellooo, justin. =oP

Oo oo, boxahhhhhs. hehe.


are u in loooooo000ooooooo00oOooo0ve?
cuz theres been sum mentionings of a guy in there lots of times...
anyway my Q is how did u get ur job?? cuz i've sent out millions of resumes n filled out millions of apps but no luck! how did u do it? (link)
I don't know, anymore.
Mentioning of a guy where, exactly?

I didn't get my job right away, you know..
I gave out resumes to almost everyone in the mall and didn't even get a call from any of them. So I edited some stuff on my resume and went around again. But then my Dad's friend got me a job at the police station so I stopped looking for a job. A few months after i handed them all out, Bonnie Togs called and asked if i was still interested. It takes a while. If you don't get any calls, go back and look on your resume and see if you can add more things since you last looked at it, or find a better way to word some things. Right now will be hard to find a job because almost everyone has already hired for the summer. Don't stop handing out resumes, though. 'Cause in the fall, lots of people will quit since they only wanted summer jobs and there'll be tons more openings and you might get it.


How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
Not worth your time at all.. trust me.

You want a guy that's going to wanna show you off, and be so proud that he's with you. You want a guy that won't even be able to believe that he's with you because you're so great. You don't deserve to be treated that way at all. You need to lose the boyfriend and go find someone worthy enough to be with you..


should i tell the one i love how a feel even threw a 2 year difference in age and a hour distance in where we each live ? (link)
Definitely..2 years isn't that bad, and an hour is nothing. Go for it, tell them straight up.


i'd like to start my own babysitting business. how can i get started?? (link)
Ask around your neighborhood too see if anybody needs a babysitter. Get your parents to mention it to people at work. Make fliers and hand them out to people. Just keep putting yourself out there. If you get a job and do really well, they'll help spread the word too. You'll have lots of jobs after a while.


well i like this one guy and i think he like me! we talk all the time like on the internet and phone. i asked him one day on the internet if he likes me and didnt answer and signed off! does that mean he and is probebly to shy to answer or he doesnt like me??? (link)
Don't ask on the Internet because then if he's too shy or something and doesn't want to say, he can either go offline or block you or something. Ask in person and watch his reactions because even if he says no, you'll be able to tell if he's lying or not.


I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird?? (link)
No. Soap operas are great.


Hey! my hair use to be really healthy..i use die it and i strighten it.. do u no of ne hair product to give my life back to my hair...~XOXO~ (link)
My first bet would be to get split ends trimmed off. Then look for a hydrating or moisturizing shampoo and conditioner. It's not going to fix it right away, but it does help. And you might want to stop dying and straightening it, because both of those fry your hair really bad.




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