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im 13 and i have 2 b/f :( and i had sex with both 1 guy does it better but the other guy is way more cooler...... wat do i do ?

1 . youre 13

2. you have 2 bfs

3. Your sleeping around.

Slut.. thats the definition. Look dont date guys fer sex or status. Its just dumb. Get someone who treats you good and really likes you for you. Sex with someone you love is more satisfying than with just some guy. Im serious. not trying to hurt you , but sometimes the truth hurts.
Kay hun ? Thanks Bye

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wat is TSS.. i talked to my friend about wearing a tampon and she told e never to leave ti in more than 5 hrs or i might get TSS.. wat does it stand 4 and wat does it mean???

Toxic Shock Syndrome. Basically the fibers in the tampon stay in the vagina and cause an infection. Actually its 8 hours but I also recomend changing it every 4 or 5 hours to stay clean. You can learn more about TSS on the instruction thingy in the tampon box too. K hun ? Thanks bye.

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Ok so I pierced my ear last Saturday...it swelled up so I took it out on Monday of last week and they said it would be ok to re-do it on Friday...So I go in on friday and they recommended to give it another day. I go back on Saturday (yesterday), and she re-pierces it getting just my cartilage. It swelled up the first time cause they got the very edge of the nerve. So right now, its really red and it looks like its gonna swell up as bad as it did last week. I've been cleaning it as the instructions say, havent been sleeping on it, and it hurts like hell when I put the antiseptic on it. Am I doing something wrong or should I continue and ignore the swelling and pain?? This is the first time i've ever done this so I have no friggin idea what to do so help me out please

Well it usually does hurt but if you cant tolerate it call the doctor. Put some ice on it and feel better. Kay hun ? Thanks Bye

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I just started my period and i have a very difficult guesion to ask every1....
WINGS OR NO WINGS

i rate high

WINGS ! It gives assurence and keeps the pad in place. Also if your active in sports and what not it helps a lot.

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my parents finally let me have a pet, but they said it has to be quiet and not stink too bad. i wanted something i could really play with, you know take on walks or something. Will rate good.
Cheyenne

Chihuahuas are awesome. I have one and its playful doesnt smell and you can train it not to bark. Also if you do choose that socilize it with other dogs and people at an early age so its not mean. Or a ferret i know someone who has one and its cool.

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why do you get discharge?

to "clean" out the vagina. Just in case if theres anything uhmm .. well left over or something got in there , ya it just cleans it out lol

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Im gothic,I dont have friends of course,duh!
How do i get some so I can get a clique!

You acctually want a clique ? Just get friends that are actual friends.. who cares about if theyre goth or not.

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My mom is making me go to youthgroup.. and I hate it, and tomrrow SUNDAY i have to go to the youthgroup kick off to play "mud volleyball" to some it sounds OH SO fun but NOT TO ME, i do not want to dothat. I DONT WANT TO, and my mom said I dont have to go, but I know the next day the lady will callme, and yellat me and everything else. ANd I dont want to deal with this all AT ALL, itsmaking me so annoyed and frusterated.. cause its either I go and sit out all by myself while all the stupid kids play a dumb game and get yelled at for not participating or not go and get yelled at for not going.
UGH

You dont want to go, you dont have to go, so dont go ! And if the lady calls yelling tell her youthgroup is gay and you dont like it. She cant make you do anything. So tell her to leave you alone.

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hi im 13 yrs old and i just strted my period about a day ago and im having troblewith all this new crap..... does anyone ave any suggestions on wat i should use and wat r good products a could use...... thxs.....i need adive fast!!!

Well id say use pads until your period gets heavier. I use Kotex. If you play a lot of sports you might want to get the winged kind.. And if you do choose to wear tampons, dont wear them to bed, and dont leave them in for over 8 hours, try to change them at least every 4 or 5 hours. If you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox =)

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wat does PMS stand for and wat does it mean??? all my guy friends ask me that wen i get mad and stuff??? im confused id it a insult?

Pre Menstrual Syndrome. Its when your right before your period and some girls get kind of mean and crabby. There are more symptoms but i take it someone said you had pms .. so ya it probly meant you were being mean to them.

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Why can almost no-one on Advicenators spell correctly? It isn't really that hard, and don't use the excuse that people are young, because I'm not at all old and I can spell without too many mistakes, or none at all.

This isnt a question.. its an argument. Whyd yooh even bother ? Its not that they cant spell, its that theyre creative and like to do it. No use pointing it out. Everyone already knows and people like the way they spell. Just becasue you dont like it doesnt mean they cant.

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hi im 13 yrs old and i just started my period i have no one to talk to and i am running out of the supplies i got at 'the talk' i dont have a mom or any sisters or brothers .. just a dad...... how do i bring up this subject with a guy?

Just ask him for money and if he asks why say you need to get something at the store and if he asks what just say its girl stuff and if he stilll doesnt get it tell him that you need pads.. it may be embarrising but its better than not getting what you need !

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Theres this guy that rides my bus that I really like. The problem is that we have never talked to eachother. I think he likes me too because every time I glance at him, we catch eachothers eyes. This has happened a lot and I keep liking him more and more. I just dont know how I can get to know him. I cant sit with him because he always sits with his friends and I cant just walk up to him and start talking. What should I do?

Weirdly .. the EXACT same thing is happening with me.. except none of his friends are on his bus. Just sit kinda near him and be like.. its raining. or sonething random like your shoes untied (if its untied) my friend suggest i go and ask him to homecoming but thats a little forward fer me lol.. just be yourself and dont be fake.

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where is the cholesterol found in eggs? the yoke (yellow part) or the whites?

YOLK ! But its good for you too.

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can you be in love when your 13?

Yes. But yooh wont tell for sure untill something really amazing happens. Youll see when you have that moment =)

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i sit with my friend every day on the bus and this kis like sits in the seat next to us and we like talk about stuff but he ALWAYS looks at us and it gets so annoying is there a reason why he dose that??

he wants yooh

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Okay, I am a catholic and christian. Have been for my whole life. I go to church every sunday, and pray every once in a while, not as much as I should. I do believe in Jesus Christ and have strong faith, but lately I have become obsessed with exorcism rituals, paranormal, and OBE's(out of body experience rituals) I have tried many times to have them and they actually work. Sometimes I feel like something is trying to enter my body when I do this, but before hand I come out of it like Im fighting it off.. I am scared that I could possibly one day become possesed myself. After I saw the movie The exorcism of Emily Rose it really made me intrested...so I am asking is this wrong and what can I do to stop this before I get deeper in?

Well i dont know how to answer your question .. but how do yooh do that ? like .. OBEs ? ive never heard of anyone doing that before im just curious.. But maybe if yooh explain what your doing i might be able to help ?

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what are some self tanners that will make me tan without having it look fake?

Jergans daily moisterizer . its give yooh a gradual tan and it loks so good. i use it =). Its in a tannish bottle. im not sure the exact name of it but its Jergans

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Ok, I am runnin for homecoming Queen at my school, and i really really want to win. We are allowed to have four posters to hang up around the school, necklaces (like on index papaer and yarn or sumtin), candy, and fliers. But we are only allowed to spend $35 because they said some people would have a bigger advantage because they could spend more money or someting. well, I was just wondering like what should i put on the signs and stuff and the fliers and what kind of candy should i get?.....I will rate a 5 please help! -Amy

Go to the dollar tree so yooh can get more for your money. Get glitter, candy, beads and string to make necklaces.. and judt put a few beads on it and like yooh said an index card. make flyers on the computer obviosuly.. and just things like that.. make your posters creative and showy.. like glueing beads and stuff on it. make 3-d things.. just have fun with it and goodluck !

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Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!!

Yooh can still get stds while on the pill. And no its not 100 % safe pregnancy wise either. But if yooh know that he has no stds then id say its on the safer side.. yooh might still want to use a condum though.. jsut in case.

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