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Heyy! My names Anna! Im 14!! And Im a Freshman!! Im gonna try to give you the best advice possible!! Im Usually the person my friends go to!! Especially when they're talkin to guys and dont know what to say! And also to tell people off. hehe! My friends would say Im good at giving advice and Im a great listener! I usually get back to questions people ask me very quick! So if you need a answer to something hit me up!! Ill get back to you ASAP! x0x!! advice
hey i'm 13 years old in a month, and i still havent gotten mi period, and most of myy friends have... i'm kind of skinny, and really short... should i be worried about not getting it yet, or is it normal? (i'm also kind of worried about not getting tall... i'm like 4 foot 10/11)
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Yah your NORMAL!! :0) dont worry about it.. it'll come sooner or later.. and you'll grow even though you dont have it dont worry about it!!
hey.im tryin to look for a quick job something easy.im 16f.can anyone give me a few suggetions?that would be really helpful thanx
hMm!! Work at the grocery store, a music store like fye, work at a stores No1 goes in :0), The Movie Theaters (how hard is give ppl the tickets and givin them popcorn!! lol), work at a clothing store (if u no how 2 fold clothes!!), etc!! :0) BabysiT?!, Telemarketer (even tho they suck lol!!) and Work at a tanning salon!! :0) ReAl EAzI JoBS!! HaVe fun workin!! :0)
Im really depressed right now..and i dunno why..its weird. How do i cope with it?
Well I think you should try 2 figure out why ur depressed first... Because if you dont know y ur depressed you cant really get to the problem!! If you figure out why ur depressed leave a question and ill b happy 2 help u cope with it!! Hope ya feel better soon!
A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u
Well you really shouldnt feel uncomfortable or guilty.. But if its bothering you tell them about it!! Im sure they'd understand!!
i am 14 and i have had sex with almost every boyfriend ive had since i was 11..if i want to or not..is this normal? Advice?
I wouldnt say thats normal.. But I think that you should just take things a little slower in your next relationship.. Because you dont want to get pregnant or get a disease! And you'll get a bad rep!! Take things slower n you'll be fine!! x0x!!
ok, what is the best way to reject a guy without giving the "lets not ruin our friendship" speech and not making them hate you? THANKS :)
annie
xoxoxo
(15, f)
Well You can tell them your not ready for another relationship rite now!! They should back off lol!! Or tell them ur parents wont let u date... (if they dont no u had a bf b4..) Or you can just tell them ur parents aren't lettin u go out with ne1 bcuz of sumthing u did that they didn approve of!! :0)
my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do?
Dont do nething your not ready to do!! If your not sure.. u probably arent ready.. When You feel totally comfortable with him and ur ready.. you should.. But Remember Be SAFE :0) Just tell ur boyfriend that your not sure.. and if he pressures u into sumthing.. i'd dump him!! You do need him!!
hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend?
Well I think sumtimes.. u should help her not cuz shes on her period just cuz ur her friend.. But if shes asking u 2 do like EVERYTHING for her.. tell her 2 get it herself or that u dont feel well either.. She'll go do it herself if its really that important!!
Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?
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0o0o0 That sounds familiar!! lol!! Well just tell her that she needs to stop talkin about him.. if you can set her up with sum1 else mayb she'll finally stop talkin about him so you wont have to hear anymore of it!! When your on the phone with her and she starts talkin about it.. be like oh hold on. then bring up a whole different subject.. Or when ur with her.. and she starts talkin about him.. b like OHH U I GOTTA TELL u... lol.. she'll figure out u dont wanna hear it!!
alicia i met some guy online and he's really hot, well i didnt meet him online he's my bestfriends cousin but i dun want to meet him in reallife cuz i dont know wat he'll think of me. im pretty but i dont want him to stop talkin to me becuase he thinks im ugly but im not, im just afraid that he'll tink that and never talk to me again
what should i do??
Well Im not Alicia! But I think you should meet him!! I highly doubt he'll stop talking to you but.. if he does.. dont worry about it.. he doesnt deserve u!! :0)
hi. im like bone popping skinny and im small boned. alot of ppl call me anerexic and stuff. some ppl look at me like im sick or something and then stare at me while im eating just to see if i actually eat, which i do. what should i do?
thankz *megan
Well if you are skin and bones I think you should probably eat a little more than usual. Just so that your at the right weight for your age and height!! So your HEALTHY!! :0)
P.S~~ Dont let the ppl who stare at u bother u.. just ignore it!!
Ok here is what happened. The other nite when we were @ my friends house we all decided to play truth or dare. I was dared to make out w/ my best guy friend. We decided we would do it since it was just a dare and didn't mean anything. It turned out to be different than I expected. My friend got a little carried away and was really into it. I mean he was like passionate about it! Soo i dont know what to do cause everytime I'm hanging around him I feel funny cause of us hooking up or whatever. I've tried to talk about it w/ him but he doesnt seem to wanna say anything bout' it....well help me out if u can! please..thanks ;)
Well since he was like all passionate and such lol.. i think he might like u!!
But back to ur ? ... Well try talkin 2 him again.. and be very serious about it!! Ask him about wat happened. But if that doesnt work than when ur with him dont think about what happened.. bcuz then you'll get nervous and feel weird around him!! Just act like it was b4 u guys hooked up!! I hope I helped ya!! If u need more advice, hit me up! ;0) xox
ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..
Dont Do Anything your NOT ready for!! Take your time.. Tell him ur not ready.. and if he tries to convice u into doing wat he wants u 2 do .. DUMP HIM!! yOu dont need him!!
My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do!
Well If i were you I'd keep my mouth shut on who I liked.. Because she might start to think that your going 2 "steal" him from her.. and then you guys would start fighting :0(!! But If you think you should tell her.. I would stop liking the guy.. I know you cannot just stop liking sum1 that easy.. but try.. Bcuz ur friendship shouldnt suffer bcuz of a guy!! And when she gets over him maybe you can start goin out with him!! Good Luck with everythin!!
do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks
~*a*M*y~
Well I personally wouldn't have one.. But I dont think its bad at all, If you feel you can trust the person do it!! Maybe you can even meet the person (if u do.. please bring sum1 along with u so u arent hurt in neway and we no ur safe!!) I think that they very good for people who dont really want a commitment.. Although I do no of a couple who met online and actually wed!! :0) *YaY!* So there is a possibilty that it will work out!! Basically do what you feel is right.. If you want to have an online relationship have it!! It doesnt matter wat ne1 else says!! As long as u Stay Safe!! :0)
see every day im home alone for about 10-11 hours and i get really bored have any ideas on how to make the time really fly i rate good!!!
HmM!! Well I dont know how old u r buT.. You could go on the comp, play ps2 or xbox or any game system!, listen 2 music, watch tv, talk on the phone, go hang out with ur friends!, Invite a friend over, Play Solitare, uMm, Clean ur room (for a lot of ppl that takes a while so y not! lol!!), start keepin a diary and mayb if u have already do.. write in it!! lol, uMm!! You can create a advicenators account so then u can help other ppl with there probs (it feels good knowin u helped:0)!!).. EtC!! If ya need more things 2 do just ask 4 sum more!!
whats the best thing to clean ur ears with BESIDES store solution?? hydrogen peroxide or rubbing alcohol? let me no one of the 2 plz. thank u much!
Megan
PeRoxIdE!! It DOeSnT HuRt At ALl!! :0)
Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here.
Well it seems like u dont wanna go back 2 him!! so dont do nething u dont wanna do!!
ok well what would you do if your boyfriend told you that they though someone who is 4 years older then them(hes 15, shes 19) is "bangin"? with me it kinda hurts...but i dont know what to do about it. do i just ignore it or what? please help. it would be nice to have someone to talk to about it...thanks
Well you can ignore it!! Thats what I would do.. Just because yall r goin out doesnt mean he cant think sum1 is pretty or in his words "bangin" lol! But as long as he doesnt try 2 hook up with them or flirt with them.. D0nT let it bother u!! If he does flirt/or try 2 hook up with her.. Which i doubt he'll succeed.. Break up with him!!! You dont deserve that!
I know that i like guys, but iv always had a fascination with girls and have begun to wonder if i might be bisexual. If i was i wouldnt know how to come out and tell ppl because i would be to afraid of rejection. I hope that this fascination for girls goes away because i'm getting tired of wondering if i might actually be right! If you have any kind of advice for this difficult question please help!!!Thx
Well idk how old u r but!! u mite just b curious!! most ppl are when they r like teenagers!! Most of the time it goes away! but if it doesnt than dont b worried or scared or w/e! bcuz its ok a lot of ppl are bi sexual and u arent alone!! I Would wait 2 c if the feelings t0wards gurls stay the same b4 i tell my parents and friends!! If they do.. Just come rite out with it bcuz they should luv u as u r!!! Good Luck with everything!!