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Can you get an std from someone by sharing carmex??

no, because an std is a secually transmitted disease. you can maybe get herpes(not an std) or a cold sore.

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Is there an age where your periods just stop? Like forever? I'm not talking about irregular periods... i'm talking about if you're 70 years old, do you still get your period?
13/f

nope. after menopause (sp?) it stops. i'm not sure when that is though, middle aged sometime lol.

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i'm 5'6" 126 lbs. big leg muscles, skinny upper body, NO boobs whatsoever. seventeen years old. my question is: how do you get boobs without getting fat? when i eat more, the fat rarely ever gets to my boobs first, it goes to my face or stomach or something. if i run, it gets rid of all the fat in the chest area as well as everywhere else, but i want to have a bigger chest! any tips?

Well you can't make your boobs grow. maybe you can make your chest muscles bigger, but it won't help. What can I say, wear a padded bra or something lol

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Are the lyrics in Christina Aguilera's song "Hurt" about her father? Did he die or something?

No, I don't think so, but I'm pretty sure it's about someone that died. But she has songs about her dad, like oh mother which is on the same album and she's singing bad about him, so yeah I don't think her dad died. Try looking it up online though, maybe you'll find it

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well i am getting to that middle school age where everyone has a boyfriend. now im not one of tthose desperate girls who must have one, but if i were to get one how would i tell my mom?

Who says you have to tell her?

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I`m going to party city in a little bit and i have no idea what to be for Halloween! Anyone have any cute ideas or pictures of the costume they got? Anything would help :] thanksss.

ooh that's where I got my costume =]. There are soo many cute ones. I got the dragon geisha costume. It's one of those asian silk things only it's short. It's really cute. There are a tonn of cute ones. Check the website you can see good ones theree.

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what are some good sites for AIM profile quotes.

like the cute onesssss or some from like the hills or laguna beach like

"love's not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone"- the hills

stuff like that..

thanks in advance.

Well I don't have any off the top of my head, but if you go to iconator.com and go to top icons they have really good quotes in them. Or you could just get lyrics to your favorite songs, or just lyrics you like.

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does any1 know any good movies

Yeah I have like a million lol.

-anchorman
-enough
-the butterfly effect
-swim fan
-thirteen
-zoolander
-fast times at ridgemont high
-sixteen candles
-never been kissed
-the wedding singer
-saving private ryan
-superstar
-the breakfast club
-not another teen movie
-all the scary movies
-can't hardly wait
-she's the man
-whatever it takes
-where the heart is
-hocus pocus
-wish upon a star
-the perfect man
-dodgeball
-breakfast at tiffany's
-angus
-twister
-kicking & screaming
-she's all that
-sorority boys

wayy more. but i think that's enough :)

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I'm not sure but I think I have TSS but I'm not sure what TSS really means. I am SUPER shy and if I talk to anyone or read outloud in class my face instinctly(as if it's a reaction or something)goes red and if I talk more than 2 minutes than my voice begins cracking and shaky. Sometimes when all eyes are on me I shake and feel like I'm about to faint and sometimes has to hold on something b4 I fall down from fear. This is not like as if I'm tlaking to a crush or something it happens when I'm talking to ANYONE and since TSS stands for toxis shock syndrum I think this might be is but is it?

Ummm no.TSS is a disease from tampons. You don't have a disease. Or anything. You're just shy, and get nervous being in front of people. It happens to a lot of people. You're fine.

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hey i real;ly want to see the movie shes the man, and its out onm dvd but i dont wanna buy it does any one know how i can watch it online or something? i checked youtube but all they have is clips. thnnx

Or you could just rent it. I think the only place you're gonna get it your com[uter is limewire or something, and I wouldn't trust it if I were you. Or you could just borrow it from a friend.

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oh my gosh, yesturday someone was singing this song and i forgot what it's called. it came out in like 03/04 and it says something about wings and it goes "i feel so small" i noe that's not very specific but its all i can remember. any ideas?

thatss everytime by britney spears

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Yea i really want to look better in my homecoming dress which means a bit darker.
So i bought this Jergens glow stuff..
Will i streak or turn orange cuz that would be horrible.
I`m fairly tanned from going tanning but i want it to look better..
Homecoming is Oct 14th

Nope, it won't streakk. Aparently it worked well for everyone else, but it didn't work for me. I would suggest vaseline healthy glow, it worked much faster and plus its not as expensive =]

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I need help choosing which magazine I want to order.
I'm 14/f and I want some kind of magazine that has these features:

Quizzes

Tips on Make-up and fashion

has those mini posters of celebritys

letters from fans about embarresing moments and those kind of things

inside stories of celebritys

pictures of celebritys


I was kinda thinking about J-14... but maybe another magazine... I dont know, can somebody help me and name a few good magazines that are approriate for 14 year olds? thanks!
Oh and I want them to be fun too! not just boring, like only having pictures of celebritys. something that tells me "WOW!" thanks :]

uuh well twist and j-14 and bop and stuff like that has most of that stuff in it. they're mostly celebrity magazines, but they still have quizzes and make up tips. and embarassing moments, so yeah any of those would be good =]

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ok im 13 and im in middle school and there is this kid who is ubsesed with me and he has told me i want to have "IT" whith u!
im not redy for that im 13 yo soo what should i do? im scard he will bad mouth about me if i dont and if i do he will tell everyone and then ill be called a slut so what should i do? :(

Uhh no don't have sex with some kid you don't even like just because he wants to. So what if he badmouths you, if he does, he's a loser. He'll look like the stupid one, not you. besides, 13 is too young anyway. Tell him to go screw if he bothers you lol.

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I believe I am starting to go anerexic. I've lost 10 pounds in one week. I can't eat and everytime I do I get sick. I'm trying so hard to eat. I'm never hungry or craving anything. What should I do? Please, I haven't told anyone and I'm scared.

Well if you want to eat, then you're not anorexic. Anorexia is a mental disease, because people who are anorexic think they're fat no matter what and stop eating. Don't try to eat a lot at once. maybe eat a few crachers, then about 2 hours later eat an apple or something. Gradually eat a little more so tou get used to eating. If you still don't get better, make sure you tell someonee because it could be serious.
good luckk

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I don't know why, but small noises (such as people smacking their lips when they eat, or someone breathing heavily) make me really annoyed. I can't talk to anyone if they are doing something like that, because I can't concentrate. Can someone tell me what's going on??

14/f

Nothing's going on. lol that stuff annoys me too. Just try your best to ignore it and try to still talk to them otherwise they'll think you're a bitch

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I dont know what to do! But it doesn't matter how much I eat, it all goes to my stomach, butt, and thighs! My arms are soo skinny and it looks terrible! What can i do to gain a little weight on them. To make them look bigger, fatter. haha thanks for the adivce?

Don't keep eatingg a lot! It's gonna go to the rest of your bodyy. You can't control where your fat goes, so instead, try to gain muscle in your arms. Do push ups, lift weights, swim. whatever. A little bit of muscle on your arms looks better than fat anyway :)

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I mean, no doubt, i love to go shopping. im willing to drop whatever im doing, even if its important and go shopping with my mom or something, even if it isnt for me, but because she usually hates shopping. but im so unorganized.. i'll take like 100 things to try on in the dressing room, and then come out with like less than 10 that were actually good, and then at the check out line i change my mind about somethigns and end up with like 4 things.. and then later in the year i dont really like the things i got, and only keep wearing 1 or so. I mean.. im so unorganized about it.. my sis doesnt go shopping as much, but always gets good stuff and i'd usually wear stuff from her wardrobe, even if theres less clothes. i just have a lot of clothes and like 3/4 of them have no purpose.. cuz they either just stay at home or I wear them at home. and then school theres not a lot. i mean i get fancy clothes sometimes and my mom says its not appropiate for school and i see what she means. so what is?? im like a kind of preppy/girly/cute/elegant/sophisticated/unique dresser... to put it, lol and basically wear things that fit well and look good. not gothic or whatever. any tips on new styles and stuff and stores i could go to to get them? and advice on my er.. problem.

thanks a whole bunches! =]

omgg I have the SAME EXACT problem.Even with the whole sister thing. lol. Try this. When you go shopping, only buy stuff you absolutely love, so it won't just sit in my closet. Go through your closet and take out the stuff you don't like, and send it to salvation army or give it to a cousin or something, then go shopping. and try to get outfits that match so you don't get random stuff with nothing to match it with.
good luck

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I like to read, I really like the book "Holes." I have'nt seen the movie. I'm 13, what is something aproprete [sorry I can't spell] for a 13 year old girl.

Not to childish though, & something I could get at barnes and nobles, or so?

You should read books by Sarah Dessen. They're soo good. I read keeping the moon and someone like you and they were wiked good.

or if you like more dramatic books, read cut or speak, they're both by laurie halse anderson. they're really good too.

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i dont know if this is in the right place.. but heres my question.

16/f ( sorry if its long)

So i know this kid lets call him marco.. and i liked marco freshman year.. im a junior now.. so yeah. and i heard from like three people that marco was gay.. and i also heard that he did stuff with some other kid.. lets call him dylan..

so i randomly started talking to dylan once.. and ive talked to him a few times.. and he asked me a question.. he asked if i used to like marco.. and i was like yeah.. that was a longg time ago.. then i asked him if marco was gay.. because i had heard it. and he was like yeah alot of people think that. but he isnt. sooo i dunno what to belive..

because the people who told me he was gay
well one of them who told me says that marco told her that he was gay.
another one who told me marco was gay said that dylan told him that him and marco did stuff before. .

And dylan said marco wasnt gay.. but i dunno if thats just because marco doesnt really want people to know.. and marco and dylan are best friends..

soo yeah... any ideas on what to belive?
or what i should do to figure this out?

thanks in advance..

hhmm this sounds like an episode of degrassi to me :)

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