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i dont know if this is in the right place.. but heres my question.
16/f ( sorry if its long)
So i know this kid lets call him marco.. and i liked marco freshman year.. im a junior now.. so yeah. and i heard from like three people that marco was gay.. and i also heard that he did stuff with some other kid.. lets call him dylan..
so i randomly started talking to dylan once.. and ive talked to him a few times.. and he asked me a question.. he asked if i used to like marco.. and i was like yeah.. that was a longg time ago.. then i asked him if marco was gay.. because i had heard it. and he was like yeah alot of people think that. but he isnt. sooo i dunno what to belive..
because the people who told me he was gay
well one of them who told me says that marco told her that he was gay.
another one who told me marco was gay said that dylan told him that him and marco did stuff before. .
And dylan said marco wasnt gay.. but i dunno if thats just because marco doesnt really want people to know.. and marco and dylan are best friends..
soo yeah... any ideas on what to belive?
or what i should do to figure this out?
thanks in advance..
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hhmm this sounds like an episode of degrassi to me :)
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Okay, rule number one of schoolyard relationships, never ever under any circumstances believe what people tell you about someone elses sexuality. Almost always, they're lying to hurt that persons image within the school. The only way to really know for sure, and this is going to be exactly what you DON'T want to hear, is to ask him yourself.
If you really like him, go up and tell him. Or, if you're like me and can't stand talking face to face, get his number or e-mail address. With E-mail especially, it lets you plan what you're going to say to the person without blundering and blurting out "I LIKE YOU!".
If the person that he supposedly "fooled around with" says that he's straight, there's mostly two possiblities: Either he's not entirely out yet and doesn't want anyone to know until he's sure about his sexuality, OR, he's straight and nothing ever happened.
Either way, the only way to find out is to ask "Marco" yourself.
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