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Ok, My names Mike and I was wondering, I'm a very random person and will do anything to get a laugh from anyone. So. I do alot of random stupid things just to get a luagh, but sometimes the things I do make people think I'm just a retard. So, I'm wondering if anyone thinks that people like me are funny and great to have aound? And what I mean by people like me is, people with no care of what people think and will is unhibited and will act wild and crazy just for kicks.

if ure actin just like wild nd crazy thats fine those kinds of ppl r awesome,madd cool and its awesome that u don care wut people think thats cool too, but if ur jokin nd we donno it nd ure sayin sum mean shit that thatd be not cool or w/e hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Ok this question is for all the sexy ladies out there. Why is it that when a guy looks at a girl and makes a sound or says something about it, we get yelled at or lectured? I mean you can't tell me that you girls don't look at guys and mention something to your friends everynow amd then. I'm single and I still get yelled at for looking. So please answer.

idk y ure girls that r frends do that.. maybe they like u or sumthin.. idk.. i would only yell at my guys if i was goin out wit them and everythin but if theyre just frends and they just make lil remarks i wouldnt care really.. hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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what are some good concerts to go to. i'm into pop, emo, pop/rock, punk rock, and a lil of r&b and rap. let me know soon!!! summer's almost over :) i'll rate fast!!!

Warped Tour 2004!!! its warped tours 10 year anniversary!!! lol!! so yeah theres gonna be tons of punk/rock bands nd stuff its gonna be awesome!!!! i cant go tho its sucks ass!! lol!! i think depending on where u r, if ure in massachusetts its in Foxboro stadium... i think im not completly sure.. but htats in august!!! its gonna be awesome!!! lol!!! hope i helped!!!

.:Keryn:.

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So tonight I got my first hickey. I always told my boyfriend not to give them to me cause I'll get in trouble but NO! What do I do to get rid of it, I can do makeup but it just wont work covering it up. Any ideas? Thanks!

wen i got my first hickey i was scared shitless of wut my mom would do.. so i covered it up wit cover up nd all kinds of make up but that doesnt work very well so i wore clothes nd stuff that would cover up mostly like lots of necklaces all different lengths, shirts wit long necks (i kno their ugly but it helps!!) the bad thing is theres like no way to make them go away quicker i dont think... my mom ended findin mine cuz i gave up nd the kid didnt kno how to give hickeys nd put it like smack in the middle of my neck.. then she sent me to a confession thing it was madd funny tho!! just keep it covered as much as u can!! hope i helped!!
.:Keryn:.

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hey how do you rate somebody?!

when they answer ure question u look under their answer nd its got a 1-5 thingy nd u click wut u want to rate them hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Okay I am really into rock/hard rock and some classic rock. I have a lot of CD's already but I am looking for all the suggestions I can get cuz I really need some more for this upcoming road trip I have. If you could please just leave a few bands names and their CD's names that fit into the rock/hard rock/classic rock column. Thanks a lot!

Shinedown- Leave a Whisper
AlexIsOnFire
311-greatest hits
Kill Hannah
hope that helps idk if its the kind of rock u were lookin for sorry if it isnt!
.:Keryn:.

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I was just wondering what r some websites to get quotes off of?

firehotquotes.bolt.com
its kick ass! u click the kind of quotes u r lookin for nd it'll give u like 10 pages of quotes! hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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i need to listen to some new bands... i love the ones i listen to,so i'd like something like them (the strokes, weezer, von bondies, and coldplay)
not rap (spare me), or hip-hop or anything. just rock... and i usually end up liking the bands that aren't very well known...
hear of some?
if so... let me know.

heres some good bands:
shinedown
311
kill hannah
sublime
my chemical romance
korn
metalica
chevelle
i could go on but i think thats good for now, just ask if u want more hope i helped
~.:Keryn:.~

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I'm going to get braces within a few weeks and I'm kinda starting to worry about playing flute with them. Do any of you have braces and play flute? If so, is there anyway you can position the flute so it's not right on your chin when you play? Also, will having braces dramatically change my performance?

Havin braces doesnt effect the performance of playin the flute idk ne like way to position it wen playin so its not on ure chin but i think u just gotta get used to them and everythin will be fine hope i helped\
~.:Keryn:.~

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Do any of you know where I can buy Evanescence's CD "Le Nouveau Gothique"? I've searched the local Target, Wal*Mart, Best Buy, Circuit City, and music store and I've not been able to find it. I don't really want to buy it on eBay because shipping and handling is ridiculously expensive. So... any of you know where this magical CD can be found?

u should go look online for a place cuz i dont think u can find it in any cd stores but i wouldnt kno cuz i havent gone lookin for it but u could go find it online sumwhere where the shippin and handeling isnt as expensive as ebay maybe hope i helped
~Keryn

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Well I know this is kinda sick and all but im gonna ask neways..when I shave down there its gets all red like a rash and then sometimes it bleed and i really dont know what to do..

it could be razor burn.. u could just put cream on it nd it could get better
hope i helped
~keryn

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k, me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, and we've had sex like...a lot. like every time we see each other at night, we get turned on. we've done it everywhere. now he's telling me that he's got another girl, and he accidently called me her name last night. i got mad, and he got mad too, and said that he didn't want me anymore and he was just using me for sex, and she was his real gf, and she fucked better than me anyhow. so what do i do now, i love his sex, and i love him.

Sorry, but he sounds like an asshole.. so i guess u gotta get a big box of chocolates nd sit down watch movies nd get ova him!! lol thats fun!! whew hew get fat!! lol!! u should go find sumone better than that! i mean seriously anyone can do wayy better than a piece of shit like that!! hope i helped and hope things get better for u!
~Keryn

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Can you get prenaunt from fingering?

NOPE!!! lol! dude if that did happen a lot of ppl would be mad screwed!! lol!!! hope i helped
~Keryn

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I REALLY REALLY like this guy, but he only sees me as just a friend, is there anything i can do that might change his mind??

jump on him nd start makin out wit him!! lol jp u could do that or u could let him kno ure interested in other ways like tellin him u like him, and then see how things go, but u should do it ure self like dont hav one of ure frends do it for u hope i helped

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Hi I am a 16 year old female I have a boyfriend but in a way I think he might be cheating on me because one of his best friends will either call me or talk to me on the internet and tell me all kinds of stuff about my boyfriend and when I talk to my boyfriend about it he denies it all. And his friend is even telling my best friend about it all. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I'm not sure what to do. Should I break up with him or talk to him some more about what his friend is telling me?

well do u trust ure bf or his frend more? do u think ure bf's frend would make sumthin up like that? cuz sumtimes kids are assholes nd say shit like that which is really gay.. but i guess its how shit goes.. if u trust ure bf's frend enough then dump the kid cuz he wouldnt tell u if he was cheatin trust me

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whats the best way to start a conversation with a friend that is a guy or a boyfreind...if they dont talk much at all?

ask him wut hes been up to, wut he did that day, wut hes doin rite then, wut kind of music hes into, wut kind stuff he likes to do, wuts up wit him, all kinds of random fun lil questions

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when i was in 4th grade my dad came to my school and told me he was leaving forever. My dad is a very abusive person and threatend a lot of stuff on my family. Its been 5 years and hes back. My mom is afraid she wont meet any guys again. So my dad is living at my house and he yells at me a lot when my moms not home. Im scared of him bcuz he might still be abusive. My mom doesnt understand and i dotn know what to do. i get in a fight with him every day. Please help.

u should talk to someone about this nd tell them about how hes bothering u and u are afraid of him. u should tell someone u trust nd believe will help u out. hope i helped and i hope things get better for u
~Keryn

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i love my friend from down the street. WE shared so many things together, ive known him since i was 2. He grabs my one day and tells me he loves me and kisses me softly. I really thought he meant it. The next day my total flirt best friend comes and steals him away. I know he still likes me but it was so hard seeing them flirting. He may like her. I am hurting so much inside knowing that there could be someone else besides me for him. What should i do? i really love this guy.

straight up ask him, ask him if he likes u or ure frend and if hes smart he'll say u and u two will be happyilly ever after lol but if he says ure frend u get to hav the fun of bitch smackin him and then workin ure hardest to steal him back hope i helped
**Ker~Bear

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well im having a few trust issues lately....ever since my bestfriend and me went out and broke up i havent been able to trust anyone....he told me he'd always be there for me and stuff and then breaks up with me and totaly ditches me as a friend all together and now me and him have absolutly no contact....not only that but thanks to him im having other relationship issues...i cant trust anyone and everone knows that all relationships are based on trust....i dont know what to do part of me says take a chance and get hurt whats there to lose. I've found the perfect guy but im scared to trust him...what do i do?
Sincerly
Confused in Love
Nikki
13-f-Tx

well if uve found the perfect guy then u should try to trust him every relations ends someday or atleast wen ure 13 but thats part of life its nice while it lasts isnt it? plus by breakin up it makes u stronger and thats always good. so i say u should try ure best to trust this guy. hope i helped
**Ker~Bear**

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I am 14 and i just started going out with this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago.. he lives like 30 mins away and hes a total jock so we don't really get to hang out much... so when I have him over I want him to enjoy it with me do u think 14 is to young to be giving head? some of my friend think it is but I don't..

i dont think it is but u shouldnt do anythin ure not ready for. hope i helped.
KerBEar

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