ive fallen in love with my bestfriend. hes so awesome and funny and all and he isnt serious very often. how do i ask him out?
thanks so much.
First you have some one find out how he feels about you. If he feels the same way than you have to ask your self do you want to jepordize your friendship? will you guys last for a long time? If you decide that it's worth the risk then you siply tell him how you feel. Most of the time i tell ppl to take chances and things will get better but in these types of situations you have to think about the risks and if they are worth takeing because sometimes it ruins the best of friends but this one you have to decide on your own and no one but you and how you are feeling can help you answer this question.
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It's 2:16 right now so I have 4 hours until I give this kid ive liked for the longest time a note.. explaining him something that emplys that I like him and then im ganna ask him something. Im ganna ask him if im just like Daniele.. which is a supa prep who he always comlains about and i wanna kno if he says the same things to her that he says to me about her.. and If he gives me the right answer Im ganna ask him if he wants to go out and see what he says..
I NEED SOMEONE TO TELL ME NOT TO DO THIS!
Ok nooo dont tell me that I just cant sleep because im worried and no ones up to tell me what a dumb idea this is so this is my last resort. I wanna do it really in the morning because i wont see him in the after noon and I dont kno if i should do this I mean im not the prettiest girl but I would do anything for him.. and I dont wanna keep waiting.. it isnt a movie where they have to keep it going, streching it its been done and i want this to come together so smothly.. but im thinking that this is a bad idea.. give me ur opinion please and fast
Okay if you really like this kid than you need to give him that note. You need to take chances otherwise you are always going to have that question what if eating away at you when you see him or hear his name. The worst that he is gona say is no and even with that you can go on with the rest of your life knowing that you took a chance and there was a outcome. Everything happens for a reason. There's no harm on fowl when you take a chance on someone or something that you like.
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I sent advicenators.com thousand questions about my love life and they all answer "talk to her"
So I did but not face to face.(because I couldn't do it) So I told her to chat with me online and so she did.
I told her how I felt about her more than a friend. (we been friends for almost 8 years) and she respond:
"I don’t know what gender I like. (Yet), male, female, I’m not looking 4 a relationship at the moment so I not looking at them like that."
I told her I was glad that she told me the truth and we went on chatting.
Questions are:
What did she mean?
Did you think she doesn’t want to go out with me not yet unlit she is ready?
Should I wait for her?
If you really care about her like you say and you have waited this long already than what is a couple more weeks going to hurt! Or how ever long it takes. A relationship is built on trust and careing and if she cared enough and trusted enough to tell you than there has to be some kinds of feelings for you. From what you have said her life is so confused that she is going through an emotional downward spiral and the last thing she needs is a boyfriend but when she puts together her puzzle you may be in the out come so hold tight and don't act any different towards her. let her know that you are always and will always be there for her nomatter what. Then she'll know that when things get messy and tough you wont give up and back out.
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i want to date this guy and he is older and has had sex before i have not!! im know that he wont preasure me about haveing it but he is goin away to collage and i want to be with him but you are supost to have more freedom to party and have sex and if we are dating and im not ready he cant so what do i do not date him or what??
I think you should date him because you really care about him and he wont pressure you. When he goes off to collage i am sure that he will visit you and things will be all gd so go for it!
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im jessica 15 theres a boy in my class that i like a lot and i want to go and talk 2 him but whenever i try to talk to him hes busy with something else. he talks to other girls.. rarely so i dont know what to do. HELP
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jess
okay so u catch him at a time when he's not so buisy and find a common topic that you can tlk bout w/him. u shud find out what he likes and then he will want to talk b/c it's somethiun he is interested. ask a question and he might answer or even better start up a conversation.
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Hi, I like this guy but he doesn't like me obviously becoz i am always busy not exactly pretty(actually i am overweight majorly) I am in the most popular group at school and I am like boss of it but he still doesnt notice me! how do i get him to like me coz i have liked him for ages!!
Well first of all ppl don't always look for popularity and size doesn't matter. But to get him to notice you than talk to him more and ask him to hang out. and if none of that works than shock him and make him notice you something that no one knows about you that he would find interesting.
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I've been friends with this girl since third grade. This year, well, let's just say I learned who she REALLY was. (She told my best friend's boyfriend that they were a lesbian just to get him to break up with her cause she liked him. She also went on that same girl's screen name and cussed me and alot of other people out.) Me and all of my friends are s-i-c-k of how she treats us, so we're all trying to just back off from her. She also drinks, so we aren't even allowed to hang around her in the first place. She keeps coming out of no where (I don't even know where the hell the stalker is coming from) and interrupting me, yells about how we didn't wait for her, then asks us what we're talking about. If we don't do something with her, she freaks out. She's been pissed off at all of us each at least once every day for the past two weeks. She was going through our purses today looking for notes when we weren't looking. Isn't that like a little bit obsessive? GAH! How do I get her to leave me alone?!
Yess but clearly she needs guidance and I know that she is annoying but she really needs to have a good friend to help her get back on her feet and when she finally does than she will leave you alone and be thinking more clearly. And in the over all out come you will get what you want and you will be helping some one while you are at it.
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Ok so there is this guy i like and we've known eachother for 1 month.We talk all the time on the phone and just now are starting to hang out in person.He said he likes me alot and would date me.I've been totally ditched and forgot about by two guys and i told him that i didnt want it to happen again.He told me that he will never forget about me and that yea there will be a few days we dont talk because we got stuff goin on but i will never forget about you.He was like im not like those guys and i go well thats what the last guy said about the first and he says just trust me i love you.and thats the first time he said i love you.but anyway with what i just told you how long do i have to wait for him to ask me out?
-sierra
If you can't wait than why don't you make the first move and ask him. Sometimes guys are very shy and need someone else to push things along.
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hey guys, theres sum girl i like and well when ever i see her walkin i wanna say sumin but i got nun to say, what yall say?
Okay I'm not a guy but you should get a girls point of view. Girls like when you try to make them laugh and find it flattering and then be strong but not to strong.
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um i screwed a boy 2 weeks ago.. and he pulled out.. but im scared i maybe preg. what is the chance i am.. if i am i dont no what to do.. because if i tell him he will deny it..
Well first you should see if you if your actually pregnat. And if you are you should tell you parents and see thier input on it. Finally if you decide to keep the baby then you try to tell the father that you are gona have a baby and you know that it's his.
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How do you know if you're in love?
You know your in love when the person you are with makes you smile nomatter what. it's like you just can't help it there's just something about that person that just makes you happy in side. someone that you can talk to for hours and never once get bord and you can share everything with them because you trust them and know that they will understand. love is the memories you look back on and still blush about months and years after. When your in love the whole world feels like it's come to a hualt and you can take on anything because there is someone that will be at your side. When you kiss and hold each other and feel completely safe in there arms like nothing can get you or harm you than it's at that point when that beautiful thing happens that takes your breath away that's when you know that you are in love and that is when you know that, that person is mean't for you.
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Here's the story. From 4th grade all the way up to 8th I had a crush on the same guy. Simon, I'm not even gonna lie about his name. We had this kind of hate-love relationship. Basically, we pretended to hate eachother, he would "bully" me (i would enjoy it) he'd make fun of me, and I'd make fun of myself, and it was all good cause it gave us a reason to talk to eachother which we enjoyed. In 9th grade, for no real reason, we stopped talking. It got awkward, we'd just avoid eachother, and pretend we'd never met.
I couldn't get over it. Get over HIM, to be exact.
But it was okay, cause in a year we'd both be going to highschool and never had to see eachother again, I'd HAVE to get over him.
To my surprise, first day of school.. first thing I see is him. GREAT. great great great. This sucked, and it has for two years (yes, I'm almost a senior now, and I'm still talking about the same guy I did in 4th grade!) For the whole first year, it killed me to see him. I'd skip lunch and ceratin classes to avoid him, just cause I thought it was awkward, plus I didn't want to run into him sense I usually dont look that great at school. I would kinda "facebook stalk" him, if you know what I mean. But then this year, I decided to get over him, completely. So I blocked him, deleted him, FORCED myself to stop thinking about him. And it worked, it got less awkward, and thank the lord all mighty I got over him!
Yesterday, I saw him holding hands with one of the girls from my old school. I used to be popular in my old school, she used to be a loner. The tables have turned. And now she has the guy I want(ed) too!
It's hard to explain what happened when I saw him, but I kind of stopped breathing, and started crying, and fainted. I had to make up this silly excuse to everyone that I was having an allergic reaction.
I mean I knew they liked eachother, it had accured to me, and I knew they were probably gonna start dating, but still it was so hard for me to see that. I really had no right to react that way, we both hate eachother now, and we never even got close to dating (he didnt like me like that) so it was stupid that it affected me. Especially, since I have a new crush that likes me back and it's going good.
Now I just can't wait to graduate, get away from this guy.
But are there any tips on making it easier until then (there's more than a year left!)? Something I should say to him maybe?
[dont want to confess my feelings, since they're in the past - i AM over him. Don't want to tell him i regret losing him as a friend - but any other suggestions would be great, cause I feel so weak around him. Both physically AND mentally]
Thank you if you actually read all that!
okay did he tell you that he liked you? because if he did not than you can't really be mad. and there are other ppl out there and you will find yours don't worry.
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I found out my best friend and my boyfriend have been hanging out one-on-one. It upset me, I really love him, but I know how my best friend is with guys and that just worries me.
My boyfriend and I got into a big fight about it, and my best friend promised it wouldn't happen again. But then, they hung out again tonight. I'm not sure what else to do, they know it bothers me. They're aren't doing anything, I mean she has a boyfriend, but I'm uncomfortable with them hanging out without me there.
I know that it can be difficult in these types of occurences but you have to be able to trust him. If he is a good boyfriend than you should know that he won't do anything to hurt you. But you should hab\ng out with one of his friends and when he says something to you about it than you simply say that you didn't like it either.
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hi there ,
its me again talking about the same reason of love.As im very truely, madly, deeply in love with my bf those hits doesn't count right now because i hit back to him as well & the reason he hit me is mainly because of me. He told me i cannot control myself right now so just be quiet ?? but i didn't. its my fault.I want to save our relationship in any cost...i don't wanna loose him.but now i live with his family im moving my house soon on 10th may. we hardly talk to eachother but we are in same room.please give me advice? i really need help ? all my frens out for holiday.
Okay I get the idea that you like him adn everything but he hit you and that is just wrong. Even though you want this relationship to work clearly he doen't like you the same way that you like him. He's the type of man that is very abusive and will only get worse if you keep letting him control you like this and it is not good for your self asteem. If he truely loved you he wouldn't do what he is ding and he would treat you like the queen that you should be treated as. So I say just move on because you can do better and when you find the right guy that treats you good than you'll know that you made the right choice to get up and leave. And trust me you sound like a great person and you will find somebody better than the person that you are with now.
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heres the situation:
i like this guy in my chemistry class. we have a lot of similar interests and we talk when we see each other and stuff. i flirt and stuff and he flirts back but i'm still unsure if he likes me. the problem is, i'm pretty sure his best friend likes me because he's been talking to me a lot more now and i am totally disinterested in him. (i mean we're friends but i don't like him like that at all)should i go for the guy i like or would that totally upset his best friend?
Well you should first find out if this guy likes you and then take things from there. And for the other guy you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him how he would feel if you asked out his friend.
Then with the infomation that you'll have at this point you'll ahve to make a dission that only you can make and to help you with that listen to both what your heart and brain are telling you and then take things from there.
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Okay this is complicated. I'm 14. My first boyfriend and I broke up Feb 27th. We were together 8 months. It was his decision...although we both knew things weren't the same and hadn't been in a long time. He basically just said it first cause we both have been thinking it for a long time. I miss him a lot and I would love to have back what we had before. He moved on evidently. I don't see him or talk to him, but I want to. One night a couple of weeks ago I was on messenger and this guy friend starts talking to me and asking me if I still go out with ******. When I said no he just kept talking at night the next few days. He asked me out to the movies but I told him it was too soon. A week later he asked if he could come home with us after school and just hang out. We had a good time, just watching a movie and talking. The next night he asked me if I would go out with him and I said yes, but now I wonder if I have done the right thing. Is it wrong to go out with this guy? How do I know if I am using him to get over this other guy? I try to stay in the moment and not remember back, but it is hard. This guy is sweet, super nice and not the type of guy I would usually fall for. He is very athletic, smart, and treats me like a queen. He calls when he says he will, etc... I guess the other guy used me and I just hung on for a long time because he was my first kiss, my first love. How can I move on? Or, should I just tell this guy that I'm not ready to date him? Please help. I don't feel like I am being fair to this new guy if I can't go a minute without thinking of the other one.
Okay I now how hard it is to get over a bad break up i just did but you had a really great time and clearly you have some sort of feelings for this guy and he seems to really like you. You never know if your fully over a guy until you know you've met the right one and that's even hard because your only 14 and you shouldn't be worried bout guys like this at such a young age. Live life to the fullest and I personally think you should stay with this guy because things will only work out for the best in the end.
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i really like my ex which i just broke u with... but the thing is.. i do not think i am ready to commite, i want to hang out with other guys, be able to call them and talk and say there hot.. but the thought of my ex moving on makes me sad... what should i do?
You should talk to him and maybe you can work things out and if not you can maybe remain friends. and in time that love may grow again
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What happens when your inlove with someone but your not aloud to be with him?
Well if you are truley mean to be with him than destiny will bring you back together and destiny can also be testing you.So just sit tight and either you'll be back together or you'll move on and find someone better for you.
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What do you do when your stpefather beats you and your moms a drunk that doesn't care?
That's when you should go to the cops or try and get some kind of help. You need to find a way to get out of that home as soon as you can brfore you end up worse off than now.
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how do i deal with my mom haveing cancer when she's the only person you've got and your dad's in jail?
Well if you and your mom are really close I guess you just have to support her in her time of need nad let her know that nomatter what happens that you will be fine and that's where the true power of love is found and it will give her one more reason to fight to survive.
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