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Annoying friend - I JUST WANT TO BE LEFT ALONE!
I've been friends with this girl since third grade. This year, well, let's just say I learned who she REALLY was. (She told my best friend's boyfriend that they were a lesbian just to get him to break up with her cause she liked him. She also went on that same girl's screen name and cussed me and alot of other people out.) Me and all of my friends are s-i-c-k of how she treats us, so we're all trying to just back off from her. She also drinks, so we aren't even allowed to hang around her in the first place. She keeps coming out of no where (I don't even know where the hell the stalker is coming from) and interrupting me, yells about how we didn't wait for her, then asks us what we're talking about. If we don't do something with her, she freaks out. She's been pissed off at all of us each at least once every day for the past two weeks. She was going through our purses today looking for notes when we weren't looking. Isn't that like a little bit obsessive? GAH! How do I get her to leave me alone?!
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tell her off and get all of your friends and say "We don't want you around here and just go away".if she does not get the point just abandon her and don't ever include her.take out all of your personal things from your purses so she doesn't get anything from it.
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just tell her exactly how you feel about her. and then drop her. that's it. no compromises or helping or anything. she's already helped enough being the annoying thing she is. don't even call her a friend. what kind of friend would tell lies to her best friend's boyfriend just to get them to break up? that's just messed up. you don't need people like that. just be honest wit her. you don't have to take all this crap. and stand by what you say. mean it.
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Wow dude, if I was friends with this girl I would've hit her already, but that's not the solution I'm giving you.
You & your friends need to tell her exactly what you think of her. Tell her you're sick of her shit, she's annoying & you don't wanna be friends with her. She's evil, kaniving, backstabbing & obsessive.
It's rude to drop her, but enough is enough. Cut her loose.
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Yess but clearly she needs guidance and I know that she is annoying but she really needs to have a good friend to help her get back on her feet and when she finally does than she will leave you alone and be thinking more clearly. And in the over all out come you will get what you want and you will be helping some one while you are at it.
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