heres the situation:
i like this guy in my chemistry class. we have a lot of similar interests and we talk when we see each other and stuff. i flirt and stuff and he flirts back but i'm still unsure if he likes me. the problem is, i'm pretty sure his best friend likes me because he's been talking to me a lot more now and i am totally disinterested in him. (i mean we're friends but i don't like him like that at all)should i go for the guy i like or would that totally upset his best friend?
x0xJENNiFERx0x answered Thursday April 5 2007, 1:37 pm: That is confusing, but I totally understand what you are saying.
You should follow your heart.
I would ask this boy you like out because you may hurt this boy that likes you even more if he asks you out before the boy you like asks you out. Just ask the boy you like and then he'll probably say yes. JUST GO FOR IT! [ x0xJENNiFERx0x's advice column | Ask x0xJENNiFERx0x A Question ]
hillary39 answered Thursday April 5 2007, 1:09 pm: thats a tough one..if i were you i would go for the guy you like because its better t o upset his best friend earlier so he doesnt get too hurt. because maybe the guy you likes best friend is planning on asking you out in a few weeks and if you didnt go for the guy you liked it would be more akward so i say go for it. [ hillary39's advice column | Ask hillary39 A Question ]
torresjasmyne answered Thursday April 5 2007, 1:09 pm: Well you should first find out if this guy likes you and then take things from there. And for the other guy you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him how he would feel if you asked out his friend.
Then with the infomation that you'll have at this point you'll ahve to make a dission that only you can make and to help you with that listen to both what your heart and brain are telling you and then take things from there. [ torresjasmyne's advice column | Ask torresjasmyne A Question ]
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