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Okay, so I have a large number of friends in 10th grade and I'm in 9th. I'm good friends with a guy named "C" and he's gay and in 10th grade. He has a bestest of best friends named "A". It seems like "A" doesn't like me much and she always seems to try and make me feel inferior most of the time.
But anywhos, should I just ignore "A"? And also, the school year is getting pretty crazy and "c" and I haven't had much chance to talk outside of school and at lunch, we're both not very interested in what each other's rambling about. I really want to be good friends with him but I don't know what I can say or talk about to keep our friendship awesome...any suggestions? (link)
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Ask him some questions so you get to know him more. and as for his friend dont even worry about her she is just jealous! she wants to have him to herself! ignore her. just try and see what you two have in common and talk about things like that.
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Why do guys lead girls on and then stop? Like just completely stop and act as if you guys were just friends and all that flirting never existed?
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because they are jerks. if they do that they are not friends at all. i wouldnt want anything to do with them. dont worry about the guys like that. they have no respect for girls. there will be some other guy for you. theres someone for everyone. dont stress it =]
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i want to make new friends, but i dont really know how to. You see, it's just kind of weird to go sit at a lunch table that you don't usually sit at, or start talking to people at school that you don't really know. So, my question is, how do you make new friends? (link)
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well what i usually do is stay to myself until people start talking to me. Or ask someone a question. Or for help on a problem. If they seem frustrated or dont wanna help dont worry about it. but if they help you then start talking to them. once you start getting closer to them ask where they sit at lunch. and if u can sit with them. might not seem that easy but it takes time. not everyone makes friends in a second =]
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Ok so I'm gonna keep this short and simple.. I'm in love with my bestfriend and everytime I see her I fall more and more in love with her. She don't like me back. I'm a very emotional person so it hurts that I can't be with her like that. I have stopped talking to her to get over her. But she and I dont wanna lose our friendship. How do I get over her and be her friend? (link)
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it wont be hard to get over her. i have a best friend to who i think likes me. but we are still friends. dont worry about it too much. just try to find someone else to keep on your mind. theres someone for everyone out there! so dont get all worked up over one girl. there are plenty more.
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does whiting gum and tooth paste really work? cause i dont want to use crest strips or anything else, i just want a little whiter teeth. which gum or tooth paste is most recomnded (link)
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first of all make sure you're brushing you teeth 2 times a day, using mouthwash and flossing. thats the first step. so to the dentist schedule an appointment to get your teeth cleaned. A good gum is trident it is sugar free and whitens teeth. not sure about the toothpast tho.
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15/f
You know how when you get "turned on" your vag gets wet, well literally everytime I am with my boyfriend, that happens. And to the point where it's like i can feel it with just moving, its kind of strange. I'm just wondering if this is normal? is there something wrong or am i just really turned on by him? haha. and if he goes to finger me will he be weirded out or will it be a turn on for him???
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it is 100% normal! it happens to me ALOT! and i guarrantee it will turn him on. unless he is afraid of pussy! haha. but yes it is very normal happens to almost every girl! even boys sometimes! but its like when boys get boners. but for girls we get wet.
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Well one of my friends who i have been really close to since 5th grade has been having boy trouble but its complicated. She had a thing with one of our friends and then were cute together for awhile but then she broke it off with him and has been accusing him of things that she used to like. Like she is accusing her best friend of being all over him but really tey are just talking or something. And the first time she said it i believed her when she accused them of being all over eachother becuase someone else agree'd who was there, but now its just rediculous.And she is telling us not to talk to him pretty much because if we hang out she gets mad at us. I dont know what to do because i dont want to ruin either friendship but i feel like i might flip out on her at any second because she needs to get over it but i dont know how to tell ehr nicely because she is a very emotional person who lets her angry get the best of her way to fast. (link)
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tell her she needs to get over it. if she is making a big deal about who youre friends with she really isnt a good friend.
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Okay so I'm dating this guy and we have been for about 4 months. This New Years Eve we couldnt hangout beacuse we we're both busy, I had some girls over and he went to one of the guys houses... we're all friends. So anyway , we havnt kissed (its not that we're prude or anything.. like we just wanted it to be speacil) so anyway, this guy's house that he went to has an older sister who is a junior and she had all of her friends over on NYE too ! Now my boyfriend lets call him edward, he thinks thinks his friends sister is amazing liek he thinks shes funny and cool and it used to make me jealous but i got over it... so to the point, SHE KISSED HIM . On the cheek but still it makes me mad and i dont know what to do. I explained to edward how upset I was and he just thought i was over-exaterating. Is this silly? I just dont know what to do. I want him to know im mad but not break up with him, i really like him. BTW, we're 14 (link)
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happend to me. it hurts alot. and trust me once you let him get away with that it will end up worse. you shouldnt worry about him anymore that shows he just doesnt care as much as you do. once you let him go with it once, he will keep doing it thinking you will stay with him still. then he will be cheating on you alot. and it sucks. so i would definitely find someone new. im sure there is someone better than him for you. i know i found someone way better than that guy! and he is amazing! you can find an amazing guy to. just let him come to you. dont go out looking for a guy. that will lead into going out with the wrong guys you think u like at the moment but u realize you just dont really like him like that.
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well theres a boy in my class name anthony i have this big giant crush on him and my friends thinks he likes me because he stares at me and waves at me and bothers me in a fun way but he has a girlfriend i think he wants to break up with her but maybe he thinks i dont like him HELP ME PLEASE (link)
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well maybe you should flirt back with him. give him hints that you like him. it seems obvious that he likes you.
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Hello my friend is an only child and her parents are going through a very ugly divorce and I really want to do something for her to make her feel better but I have no idea what to do can anyone help me please? (link)
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maybe you should have her sleep over your house. have a good time together. show her that youre there for her and that she can talk to you about anything. or maybe take her out somewhere fun, maybe skating or the mall.
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Is there any way to get like the little pop up in the corner to pop up when someone signs on, off, is idel, comes back, etc. like on 5.9 but enable it on 6? (link)
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go to the top then edit, then settings, then general IM and at the bottom it should have a box to check where it says buddy chat
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I have been exercising and trying to get in better shape. My question is, is it okay to do 3 to 4 ten minute intervals of exercise (say, run 10 minutes in the morning, 10 minutes after lunch, and 10 minutes after dinner)? Will it have the same effects of 30 minutes of straight out exercise? (link)
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yeah it probably is better than working out for a half hour all at once. lesser chance of pulling a muscle. also to get in shape you have to eat healthy. its not all about exercize. =]
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what is a wet dream? do girls and guys get them? (link)
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Yes, both guys and girls get wet dreams. mostly while having a dream about a fantasy or something sexual, they wake up wet. or a wet spot in their underwear. =] hope that helped
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my boyfriend and i had sex and afterwords there was blood from me on his boxers and im no where near my period. what happened? (link)
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he popped your "cherry" (hymen). The hymen is just being stretched. so it causes it to bleed. that happens to every girl. mostly losing their viginity. sometimes it can happen while playing sports though. odd but true.
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15/f. i am friends with a guy who is bi. and i'm a little confused. it just seems weird to me because i don't even think twice before hugging him and it doesn't seem weird to me at all. but then when i think about it it would be really weird for me to hug any other guy.
so why do i feel more comfortable hugging my one friend and not any of my other guy friends. is it because he is bi? and if so why does that make it less weird for me? (link)
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its fine. maybe because you know that he wont get any idea of you liking him. because he has that feminen part of him. and he knows you's are just good friends. you shouldnt think thats weird its normal!
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so i need help please!! i got my hair highlighted in the summer blond some of it was like a pretty caramel and then i have some whitish strands of hair because the lady did it so light. i want to change the color of those strands but my sister said that it will dry out my hair and my hair will fall out if i do that. is that true? what can i do to take the white out of my hair? i hate it, it looks so fake :(
thanxx so much (link)
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your sister is completely wrong.. i dye my hair very often. it does dry it up tho but dont fall out. all you have to do from keeping it from drying up is condition it very often. i do it twice in the shower. leave it in for 2 minutes each. buy a darker shade of blonde to go over it if you'd like it to still be blonde. it will be fine!
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I started my period for the first time on December 3, and it ended December 11. Also, i was supposed to start again on December 30, because it was 4 weeks later. However, i haven`t started yet, and it`s been a week. is it normal for 5 weeks and a day to be between my periods?
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usually you dont get it exactly that ammount it depends how your body functions. you just get it around the time you get it. like example. i get mine either at the very end or very beginning of the month. so 5 weeks is more likely to be happening than 4. very nomal.=]
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14/f
i would really like to become a veggitarien. but i really like chicken.lol. so i dont know how to start being a veggitarien. i dont know how to still get protien. i really dont know much about it at all. i could really use some step by step help. and if anyones a veggitarien themselves i'd really love to talk to you about it. thank you. (link)
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well slow down eating chicken. dont eat it as much. find something else to eat something healthy that you really enjoy and whenever you want chicken get the substitute =]
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im 14/f and i have the symptons of bipolar disorder. i thought only older people could develop this order. is it possible that at my age i have this? (link)
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of course it is, any one of any age can have it. i am 14 also, ive had it for a while. its just how our brains function. we cant necessarilly control it ourselfs. we need medicine to help balance it. So if you are not being treated right now you should see a doctor =]
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last friday i was with these guy, and i had drank a bit and , onething lef to anothe, and so we finished kissing. the problem is that he is a firends`s ex guy. they had been togehter for two months or more, but these was like a year ago. this friend of mine is not here, se went on holidays, and she wont be back until next week.
i know i have to tell her about these episode, but, how can i do it????????? help meeee (link)
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tell her you had drank a bit, you wernt really sure what was going on at frist and you's started kissing. if it didnt mean anything tell her. say youre sorry if she still has feelings for him. make sure she understands it was a mistake
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