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Well there isn't too much to say about me. I love to give advice. It makes me feel great. I am very short lolz. I have blonde hair and I'm in love. =] Also don't be afraid to give me feedback because I'd like to know how good of a job I am doing. Don't be afraid to ask me questions or send me a message.
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When a couple goes to the movies, how would be best to sit if u wanted to finger or to feel up or makeout?
The back. Sit in the back because if you're in the back, so most people will be paying attention to the movie and not you. Plus make sure you're not too loud and wait until the lights go off.
we have cartoon character day for homecoming and i need some good ideas on what to be. i want to be something that not many people would be and would be able to make/buy a good costume...any ideas? thank youu
(im a girl btw)
Okay here are some ideas...
-Jenny the Robot.
-Any character from Naruto.
-It's always interesting ot be a SpongeBob character.
There are just a few ideas that might come in handy. Good luck. =]
so homecomings coming up and i wanna make it really special for my boyfriend. i want to do something that really makes him happy...could be anything but sex...any ideas?
There are so many things you could do. I will list a few good ideas that I have for you two.
-A romantic picnic. Make all of his favorites and make it cute and special.
-A movie marathon. Get your favorite movies or movie series and watch them for hours. Be sure to have plenty of snacks and stuff and cuddle with him if you prefer.
-An arcade. These are always fun. Also I'd suggest a really good laser tag place if you have it where ever you live.
These are just a few things I can think of off the top of my head. I hope this helps you out. Good luck. =]
Well, I'll start with the basics:
My best friend and I have been best friends for a couple years now. She has MAJOR codependency problems and flirts with/dates almost every single guy she meets. She is EXTREMELY clingy, and always just HAS to be with me every second of every day, which isn't fair to my other friends. A lot of people chose to dislike her for these reasons, but I thought our friendship was strong because I could ignore these little things. She's pretty much trying to be me. She started to draw just because she found out I liked to doodle, she claimed to know how to play the guitar, just because I was learning. It's like she has no opinion of her own, she always agrees with what i'm saying! Example:
Her: Oh I'm SO going for McCain! He's the best!
Me: I like Obama...
Her: Oh yeah, me too. I hope Obama wins!
(An actual conversation we had)
You see what I mean? Not to mention she's really bipolar. So, another of my friends and I went up to her about a week or 2 ago and confronted all of her "issues". We said, "You don't have to change for us, but it would make everything a lot easier". We stayed calm so she wouldn't be offended, and explained everything perfectly. Well, apparently our friendship wasn't strong enough for her to want to fix the bad things. She continued doing all of these things and it was quite obvious that she did not even attempt to change at all.
Well, last Friday, we were at a local football game. She completely ditched me to go hang out with some dude she'd just met (while she STILL had a boyfriend.) and flirted with him all night. I happened to run into a guy that broke both of our hearts and we both disliked him VERY much, so I called her to warn her. She said she was "not into that boy drama anymore" which is the MOST ridiculous things i've ever heard come from her mouth. She pretty much starts all the boy drama because she flirts with everyone, cheats on most of them, and then is shocked when she gets dumped by them. Well, just when she said that, something clicked, and I realized "wow, why am I friends with this girl? She lies, she steals my personality, she does everything we told her not to do and doesn't even try to change!"
After that night, I thought about it over the weekend and decided to just not be her friend. I know it sounds childish, but I put a lot of thought into it before I decided to end this 2 year friendship. I knew there was no way I was going to be able to go back once it was done, and i'm glad I did it because it's like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. So much drama has left along with her and i'm so much happier! Unfortunately, eve after I explained clearly, but not in a harsh way, why we couldn't be friends, she just couldn't comprehend why. She's been crying, talking to the people she thinks are her friends, talking about how she has no friends and her dad abuses her ( Which is a complete lie). Anything to make people feel sorry for her, which isn't working. Now, my question is, did I do the right thing? I gave her a chance after I talked to her the first time, and she blew it. Should I have given her another chance?
Thanks so much for taking the time to read all of this!
:)
I do think you made the right choice. I mean she had the chance to change her ways. You have been dealing with this for two years now. I mean enough is enough! I would probably do the same thing. Just make sure she doesn't turn people against you. If she is doing that then talk to either her, or somebody else about it. I hope this helps you. =]
josh 17 me 15
Ok so i have this BF we will call him Josh. Well He asked me to home coming like 5 mins to home coming because his date ditched him for his friend.We will call her Jess. He was going to ask her out but changed his mind because she went after his friend named Zach. Well Josh asked me out at home coming and I told him yes.its been about a week and Zach and some of his other friend said that josh might dump me soon because thats how he is. I stoped worring about that because he dosnt seem like he will. Well Jess found out we were dating. She has 2 BF's and is still going after Zach. Well now she is going after Josh and I am afraid he will dump me for jess. Today she confrunted me about it and I almost punched her because she said she wouldnt stop till she got Josh. I dont knwo what to do. I mean he thinks she is stupid now but i dont know if he still likes her and I cant ask cause its been a week. i have liked him for a really long time so I am already head over heels. What do I do?
Okay, if he dumps you for her then he just doesn't deserve you. Since she didn't go for him the first time then maybe he wouldn't want her this time. I bet since he has you he wouldn't. Even though you don't really believe he does I'd confront him about this whole situation. I hope this helps. =]
as soon as i saw the new ipod nanos when they came out last month i knew i wanted the purple one. well one of my bestfriends just bought it like a week ago with her birthday money, which i'm fine with. but now she's saying that she'll be mad if i buy it too. on top of that she also bought herself a new red phone, and it just so happens that i've been planning on getting a red one in december when i am eligible for an upgrade. so now it's gonna be like if i get the purple nano and a red phone im doing everything she does and then i'm never gonna stop hearing about it. so my birthday is coming up and i don't know what to do. i really want the purple nano, i know she got it first but i don't feel like i should have to settle for another color just because my birthday is a couple months after hers. and she knew the whole time that i wanted the purple ipod & a red phone. so what should i do?
I would ignore her. I mean it's your right to get what you want. Don't listen to her. Especially since she knows you were planning it first. Maybe this person isn't really your friend if they treat you like this. I would try telling her that.
I'm a 41 year old female and I've recently found out that my husband of 16 years is communicating with a women he was engaged to when we first met. I don't really care that he's spoken to her, I'm not an over jealous person, but I am rather hurt that he hasn't mentioned it to me. It gives me the feeling that there's a reason why he didn't say anything. And the longer it goes on and he doesn't mention it I'm starting to become terribly hurt by this because it feels like a type of betrayal.
Am I over reacting? I know people react differently but if I was in contact with an ex-boyfriend I would probably tell him about it right away.
Thanks
I would be jumping to conclusions to in a situation like this. It makes you think he's hiding this for a reason. Maybe that's not the case. He could just not be telling you because he knows you are the love of his life and nobody can take your place. But if he's been acting strange around you and it seems like somethings up why not talk to him about it. Talking is key to a good relationship. Just don't go off on him. Talk it through calmly.
Yep, again the same girl I'm always talking about. I just adore the girl, and whenever I get into scenarios beyond my control, I ask the people who are experienced with this type of stuff.
Anyhow, we've been good friends for about 6 1/2 months now. We started out talking about casual stuff, harmless subjects, ect. Which grew into a bit more of a stronger friendship, and she's told me she's comfortable with me, I'm one of the few people she trusts. Anyhow, we tried the dating thing for about two weeks, and she was worried that one of us would be hurt in the relationship, incase we found someone else, or just ended up hurting each other, so we broke it off.
After taking a break for a couple days from talking, we resumed talking, but it was weird. We're back to just casual/harmless stuff, and now it's grown into more of a "personnal" conversation. She even she told me she loved me, which she hasn't told me in a couple of months.
So my question is, do you guys think she may be interested in me again, or am I just getting hopeful?
Sounds to me like she never stopped liking you. I mean the only reason you guys broke up was because you didn't want to hurt each other, right? Well I think you should talk to her about it, if she's the one you wanna be with. Tell her you'd never hurt her. Just be sure of what you want. Hope this helps you. =]
where can i get a obama button pin thing?
You can get them at the official website.
(sorry i don't have the link.)
Or you know, it'd be really cute and crafty if you make your own. That'd be neat and original.
What happens if I accidentally swallow phlegms and muscus because I couldn't spit them out?
Nothing really will happen. If you swallow too much of it though you could get sick or throw up possibly. I mean I wouldn't suggest to swallow it at all.
okay well this is my first time having a boyfriend during homecoming season and i was just curious....do you think he'll get mad if i dance with my other guy friends? cause i want to have fun and i don't wanna feel that i can only dance with him. don't get me wrong, i love him, but i kinda wanna bounce around the whole night....what do you think? is that okay? i dont wanna be a bad girlfriend.
Well from what I've seen from boys I'd say this is a bad idea. Maybe you could talk to him about it and if it's okay with him then you could do it. Good luck. =]
ok so i want a myspace really bad cause like very one i know has one and there always talking bout itand it makes me fell left out. i had one but my mom found out bout it( i didnt know i wasnt allowed to have one) and made me erase it and i really want to ask her if i can make one but i dont know what i should say and how to bring it up( i am 13).
Well, what I did was give her some good facts about Myspace. Tell her it's safe if you get a private profile and you could tell her that she can check out your myspace sometimes. I hope this helps. =]
I have a mac laptop, one of the older versions.
And i wanted to know, do you get connection
at houses which do not have a mac laptop?
or is there a certain connection you need to have
to work a mac laptop that regular computers
don't use?
I'm pretty sure you could get a connection without another Mac laptop in your home. I hope everything goes well for you. =]
Ok, well when my mom was trying to help get my internet back she accidently gave my computer a system recovery. So now all my songs on my itunes are gone and also the folder in which I kept them in too is gone. So you know how when you hook up your ipod to the computer to sync your songs? Well is there a way where I can still add songs to my ipod where the syncing doesn't delte all my songs? Like for example when I sync my songs all the songs I just got gets in my ipod and the ones I deleted gets deleted from my ipod, but since all my songs are gone I don't want all my songs to disappear from my ipod.
You could either buy all your songs back (that sucks but yeah) or you could recover your files. I am not sure how to do this exactly, but you could find help with a computer teacher or something. Also you could maybe make a new folder for your new songs.
so i was watching private practice on thursday. and in the show, there was a boy who had i think hiv, or hpv. i can't remember which one. anyways, his parents knew he had it, but never told him. he had sex for the first time with this girl that he loved and found out the next morning that he had it.
at the end of the show, they come in together and are like we have a lot of questions.
i figured that she got it in the show.
but could she definitely get it? like no chance that she wouldn't?
like she had sex with him, and now she automatically got it?
or is there a possibility that she doesn't have it.
That person might not get it. They are very lucky if they don't. Just because they had sex with that person though doesn't mean they will absolutely get it. But I hear it takes awhile to find out if you have gotten the virus transmitted to your own body.
My parents are thinking about letting me get the Gardasil shot to prevent cervical cancer, for my health. But I was wondering where they give the injection? Is it on your arm or what? It's kind of a dumb question but the form we got about Gardasil made me think that I would get it somewhere else and i wasn't sure. Please let me know.
Don't worry. It's in your arm. It does hurt more than most shots though. You can feel the fluid run through your body. I strongly consider this shot though. It helps so much in life. Good luck. =]
I never really had a problem with public speaking, only the typical slight nervousness before i would go up and speak. But lately ive been having real problems with going up infront of a group of people and speaking. the last three times i did it, i started sweating, and feeling fain, very similarly to an anxiety attack. Now im becoming anxious that next time i public speak this is going to happen again. Is their anything i can do to be less nervous?
All I could think of is practicing for your family and friends before you go up there. Even practicing in front of your dog or cat might help...at least a bit. Just don't worry so much. Also maybe since you have the sweating problem you might want to waer an outfit that makes you feel cool. Like doesn't make you any hotter. Hope this helps. =]
so my ex and i were together for a year and half. and we broke up like 2 months ago. i am soo ready to just move on, but it seems like there's no one there that likes me, or wants to be with me. What should i do? i really want to just move on and forget about my ex. but i just need somebody to move onto.
thanks to anyone that helps.
Well being single isn't always such a bad thing. I mean you have more freedom and stuff. Then again if you really want somebody then why not pick someone that you are friends with. It's great to start of with a friendship then build it up to a relationship. If not that then just go with the flow. lol. hope this helps you. =]
So, there's this guy that I've liked for about a year or so and mostly everyone in my grade (9th) knows because of my blabber-mouthed ex-friends...
I really want to go to the dance with someone, so I would very much like to ask him.
Problem is, he's ALWAYS around his friends (the preps) and he's extremely shy. I don't think he's going out with anyone right now, however, but I don't know how to ask him without it seeming overly obvious because, as I said before, he's ALWAYS around his friends.
We're friends on myspace, but we don't usually talk a lot inside or outside of school - would it be alright to send him a message, asking him if he wants to go to the dance with me?
I'm confused and sort of sad since I asked one of my guy friends out about a week ago and he lied to me saying that he didn't have time for a girlfriend (he ended up going out with one of his other friends after I asked him...).
Sorry that this is so long, but I'm really confused right now and most of my friends already have dates to the dance.
Thanks!
It's really better to do it in person but since you're in that situation I'd say the messaging thing could be a good idea. But if you decide not to do that how about getting his number from somebody...? I hope this helps you. =]
13/f
i want a costume that uses these striped socks/knee-highs (can be any color other than black too)
http://media.photobucket.com/image/black%20striped%20socks/dianastormo/ICONS/bwsocksies.jpg?o=6
also,i dont want to get my costume anywehre,i want to put it together. any ideas on what outfit [HALLOWEENISH] would look good with any striped socks/knee highs like those?
Well you could always be a witch. Or you could be an emo. That'd be really good.