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Asking Guy to Sadie Hawkins Dance... :S
So, there's this guy that I've liked for about a year or so and mostly everyone in my grade (9th) knows because of my blabber-mouthed ex-friends...
I really want to go to the dance with someone, so I would very much like to ask him.
Problem is, he's ALWAYS around his friends (the preps) and he's extremely shy. I don't think he's going out with anyone right now, however, but I don't know how to ask him without it seeming overly obvious because, as I said before, he's ALWAYS around his friends.
We're friends on myspace, but we don't usually talk a lot inside or outside of school - would it be alright to send him a message, asking him if he wants to go to the dance with me?
I'm confused and sort of sad since I asked one of my guy friends out about a week ago and he lied to me saying that he didn't have time for a girlfriend (he ended up going out with one of his other friends after I asked him...).
Sorry that this is so long, but I'm really confused right now and most of my friends already have dates to the dance.
Thanks!
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have that kind of friend. if you know him well enough, start messaging him on myspace about something you know he's interested in. it'll make it easier to talk him at school. like...whoever answered before me, it is better to ask in person, but if you are having an actual conversation and not just saying "hey its me, let's go to the dance" it may be a little less weird. otherwise, i know rejection is scary, but if you really do like him, and he's decent at all, just ask, before you don't have a chance anymore. anyway, hope that helped. :)
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It's really better to do it in person but since you're in that situation I'd say the messaging thing could be a good idea. But if you decide not to do that how about getting his number from somebody...? I hope this helps you. =]
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