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Again, Confused. Perhaps she likes me, again?
Yep, again the same girl I'm always talking about. I just adore the girl, and whenever I get into scenarios beyond my control, I ask the people who are experienced with this type of stuff.
Anyhow, we've been good friends for about 6 1/2 months now. We started out talking about casual stuff, harmless subjects, ect. Which grew into a bit more of a stronger friendship, and she's told me she's comfortable with me, I'm one of the few people she trusts. Anyhow, we tried the dating thing for about two weeks, and she was worried that one of us would be hurt in the relationship, incase we found someone else, or just ended up hurting each other, so we broke it off.
After taking a break for a couple days from talking, we resumed talking, but it was weird. We're back to just casual/harmless stuff, and now it's grown into more of a "personnal" conversation. She even she told me she loved me, which she hasn't told me in a couple of months.
So my question is, do you guys think she may be interested in me again, or am I just getting hopeful?
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Sounds to me like she never stopped liking you. I mean the only reason you guys broke up was because you didn't want to hurt each other, right? Well I think you should talk to her about it, if she's the one you wanna be with. Tell her you'd never hurt her. Just be sure of what you want. Hope this helps you. =]
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ok well my guess is that shes interested in you, to be honest i dont think she ever became uninterested. if she was worried that one of you were gonna get hurt in the realtionship, obviously she shows that she cares and doesnt want you to get hurt like that.if shes comfortable with you..thats also a good thing too.im sure shes been acting flirty around to, of course i cant be sure but it seems like she would be..so anyways i dont wanna make you read like a whole page or anything lol but i would definatly say shes interested and to keep talking and maybe things will turn out better then you think they will.
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I'm going to start off by saying this: if a girl smiles A LOT when she's around you, she probably likes you as more than a friend.
The Top 5 other things to look for:
1. She laughs at your jokes.
- No matter how many times she's heard them, or how totally lame they are, she'll laugh at them. End of story.
2. She touches you (not sexually, get your head outta the gutter!)
- She plays with your hair, or fixes your shirt or something. Maybe she even holds your hand, that's a pretty good sign that she likes you.
3. She includes you in things.
- She talks to you even when she's with her friends. She makes an effort to include you, like by asking you things. Even lame questions like, 'What color should I paint my nails?' might be her way of trying to include you.
4. She makes an effort to talk to you/see you.
- She texts you just to say hello, she's late to class just because she wanted to hug you good bye, or she calls you just to see what you're doing.
5. She trusts you, and talks to you seriously.
- She tells you things that she might not normally tell others. Like, if she's in a bad mood and tells others she's fine, she'll actually tell you that she failed that geometry test, or her friends aren't including her lately. She opens up to you and isn't afraid to be herself.
Even though every girl is different, these are the top 5 things girls do when they like a guy. So, chances are, if she's holding your hand and texting you saying :" Hey whatcha up to? :)", chances are she's doing it all for a reason.
To me, it's kind of hard to tell if she's interested or not. Maybe if you add more information, I can help you out?
-Laura (16-f)
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