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ready to move on
so my ex and i were together for a year and half. and we broke up like 2 months ago. i am soo ready to just move on, but it seems like there's no one there that likes me, or wants to be with me. What should i do? i really want to just move on and forget about my ex. but i just need somebody to move onto.
thanks to anyone that helps.
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me and my boyfriend just broke up not too long ago too and we were going out for about a year. we tried to make it work so many times, but finally i just needed to be happy and that meant not being with him anymore. what i did to get my mind off him was to hangout with my girlies :) they always know how to take your mind off guys! i wouldn't suggest getting into another relationship right away, find time for yourself first and enjoy being single. i know thats might not what you want but i definately think it's whats best! go out, have fun with no worries. live your life and don't let anyone get in the way of your happiness. if you find that nothing i said helped, be sure to let me know and we can talk some more! good luck girl ♥ Lu
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well me and my boyfriend of 10 months just broke up.it sucks badd.and im ready to move on just as much as you are sweetie.but i had my mind set..to where i told my self..the only way i can move on is if there was someone else to go to.and im now realzing thats so not true.i mean you can move on anytime.you can just forget about the past..and move on with life.you dont need another man to help you get over your last one..go out with friends..go to the movies..and slowly in time youll start realzing that you just stop caring.im trying as hard as i can to move on.do things with your family..or just get your self out there.youll see that its not that hard!
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When you move on from a realtionship, we ned to recover from that realtionship first before moving on with our lives and starting yet another realtionship.
If you rush into another realtionship before fully recoering from the last, then that realtionship won't last very long because you'd still be on the rebound, which I'm guessing is the reason as to why you feel nobody likes you or wants to be with you.
So, take some time out, go on holiday somewhere, go and visit your parents, hang out with your friends and until you feel totally free from your ex emotionally and physically, then you'll be ready to start another relationship.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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I thought the same after my first relationship went to hell. And it ended up being a big mistake.
The thing is, when we seperate from someone who has been part of our lives for a long time, we sometimes feel desperate to fill the space that they left. But if you look for someone just to fill the void, it isn't as honest.
Honestly, I'd wait until you are over your ex, and you want someone just for them, not just to move away from him/her.
Hope this helps.
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Well being single isn't always such a bad thing. I mean you have more freedom and stuff. Then again if you really want somebody then why not pick someone that you are friends with. It's great to start of with a friendship then build it up to a relationship. If not that then just go with the flow. lol. hope this helps you. =]
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