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My friend asked this guy what he thought aboout me, and he wouldn't answer her, he just tried to get away from her.
Does this mean he doesn't like me?
He was probably just caught off guard and didn't no what to say.If you want you can have your friend go up to him again see what happens this time. That way he knows what to exspect. I hope that I helped but if not please visit me at my column.
well im a fresman in high school and i still haven't gotten mi period! ( i no pretty sad huh?) well anyways im afraid ill get it in school and ill be wearing white pants... what can i do? i don't want any surprsies
Don't worry a few days before you will get your period you will get some cramps and when that happens then you worry about carrying around tampons or pads. If you can't afford those things just carry enough money for one of those machines in the restroom some schools have those if not you can always ask one of your friends for a tampon or pad and they will help you. Hope that I helped you but if not please visit me at my column.
okay, so this might sound familiar, but i like this guy. and i have no idea whether he likes me back or not, but sometimes he stares at me. i don't think it's because i have something on my face or something. also, i'm way too shy to even tell my friends that i like him and definitly won't tell him either. so please help! thanks so much!!
You should try telling your friends because they might have some suggestions on how you can approach him or something like that. You never know what your friends will say unless you tell them. I hope that I helped you but if not please visit me at my column.
Before I start I'm a sixteen year old girl.
Well I have my first boyfriend now but that's not what this is about. Well you see my friend is feeling left out because both me and our other friend now have boyfriends and she doesn't. She has liked this same boy for three years now but nothing is happening between them. He hardly even looks at her anymore. She doesn't want to give up on him because she knows she won't like any other guy. I keep telling her to go up and talk to him but she is the shy "wait for him to come to me" kind of girl. I feel bad for her but I don't want to break up with my boyfirned just because she is feeling left out. She has met and gets along really well with both my boyfriend and our other friend's boyfriend but she never wants to go anywhere with any of us. I would never put my boyfriend above my friends and my boyfriend understands that. We ask her to come to football games or movies with us all the time but she thinks she'd be getting in the way. What should I do?
You should have a girls night out more often like at least once a week or something that way she won't feel left out. Also the three of you could have a talk about the boy she likes and how they can become more then friends. I hope that I helped but if not please visit me at my column.
Ok, i have these three friends who treat me like conmplete shit! I mean i do everything for them, yet its not good enough. I dont know what to do anymore, i dont wana stop being there friend, but i cant deal with it. What should i do??
I don't think that you should continue to be their friend because what kind of a friend would do that to another. But if it really bothers you that much how they treat you then do something about it and ask one of them so you can find out what's going on. If you feel like you can't do that then just go ahead and forget about them because those kind of people are not worth being friends with. I hope that I helped you but if not please visit me at my column.
ok so my couisn has these to friends that i have been talking to on the computer, we have hung out like 3 times or whatever, but that was before one of them and i started flirting, so i was talking to him and i was talking to him about my school bonfire/homecoming thing and i dont no how it happened but now he is coming, and i dont wnat him to feel lonely, because he really doesnt no anyone at my school, so do you think i should invite the other boy too and my cousin, but i dont want to make anything akward with them because we will be all flirty adn everything...so i dont no what to do i just need help...thanks!! xoxo
I think that you should go on ahead and invite the other boy and your cousin that way he won't feel so awkward and neither will you. I hope that I helped but if not please visit me at my column.
OK so my mom and me never really got along but she was okay to live with and everything
now a days shes getting unbearable!! And I cant live with her anymore she drives me crazy... ON WEEKENDS she gets drunk sometimes and yells like crazy and she told me last night
"if your grades dont improove im going to make your life a living hell" basically meaning no phone because I usually talk to my b/f since he kinda lives like 30 minuts away and we dont see eachother often.. if I loose him I dont know what I will do.. Im in love with him and loosing him to me is just not an option
what can I do??
Since you have a mom like that why don't you try talking to your mom when she is sober and leting her know how you feel when she drinks that way she knows. As far as your grades go why not try harder to improve that way your mom won't treaten you anymore and you can see your boyfriend whenever you want and don't have to worry about what your mom will say. I hope that I helped you but if not visit me at my column.
I like this guy. One of my best friends likes him too. She knows I like him. She's really open with people and can talk to him easily. I go all quiet when I'm around him. While they get closer I feel like I'm getting farther away. Please help me figure out what to do!
What you should do is try not to be so shy around him I know that it's not easy but if you don't stop being shy your friend and him will continue to be close and you will regret not doing anything about it when you had the chance.I hope that I helped but if not please visit me at my column.
My friend i kinda like and i went to his house yesterday and he came ut without a shirt on just a towel around his neck.... we talk and talked about how our friends see a guy and a girl talking and they thought they liked eachother but didnt and them i heard tweo more of my girl friends coming down the rode...He said" o ill be right back i have to go get a shirt on' .. y was he okay having no shirt on with me but not his other two good girl friends????? does he like me or does he just feel more comfortable about me
I think that he likes you because he only feels comfortable when you are around. I hope that I helped but if not please visit me at my column.
i'm 14f and this guy at my school likes me and i like him too ALOT! but my best friend likes him too but she said she only liked him like a little and everything. and the guy asked me out and he's still waiting for my answer.. so what should i do?
You should go for it because you two like each other and he asked you out and you're thinking about saying no. What if you tell him no and then he asks your friend out and she says yes you are going to regret saying no. But it is up to you. It you say yes and your friend has a problem with it then she really isn't your friend because a real friend would want you to be happy don't you think? I hope that I helped but id not you can visit me at my column.
well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!
If he cares so much about you like he says then why can't he break up with the other girl that way you know he is telling you the truth.Because if he doesn't break up with her then he didn't mean a word he said. If you guys really do care about each other you should do what ever it takes to make your relationship work. I hope that I hepled but if not visit me at my column.
wats it mean 4 your cherry to pop???? and when does it pop???
Sorry if this si a stupid question but i need the anwser
Your cherry poping just means that when you have sex you are no longer a vigin that's all and no it doesn't pop.
Okay, my mom is practiclly forcing me to go to homecoming. I really don't want to go, because I don't have a date, and theres no guy I would feel comfortable going with. But the problem is that she already saved up all this money for a dress and accessories and shoes and she is looking at things like hairstylists. I don't know how to tell her that I just don't care and that I don't want to go. Help me please!! I rate high!
You should go with some of your friends that don't have dates that way you don't have to worry about having a date. You will feel better if you didn't have to go alone. That way you will be having a good time with your friends and you don't have to worry about tell your mom your not going. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
i like this girl who is a junior and im a sophmore but this other girl likes me and she keeps asking who i like. i dont want to tell the girl that likes me that i like someone else and hurt her feelings but that might be the only way out. what do u think i should do?
How about you telling the girl that likes you that you like her too but only as a friend that way you won't have to worry about hurting her feeling and you will feel better that you didn't and that also tells her that you don't want to be anything more and that way she will find someone else.
ok so im 13f and i have a friend who is almost 17m. he goes to a different school but he asked me to go to homecoming with him. He is my exboyfriend tho and allll of my friends hate him because he either dated them nd played them, or he is just a prick to them. so idk. i really wanna go...but i also dont kno ne1 at that school and i dont want to act all weird. what should i do?? should i go or just forget it?? i rate high..*
It is really up to you and no one else since he did ask you. Of coarse you care about what your friends think but if they are really your friends then they should respect your decision no matter what it is. You will never know when he will ask you out again and you will have regrets if you don't go. As far as your friends advice they are just trying to let you know how he treated them when they went out but that doesn't mean that he will treat you the same. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
Okay this was like a couple years ago i was in 5th grade and he was in 6th and like he talked to me online and he was from my same school so i started talkin to him and he IMed me and stuff and then he stopped talkin to me online for a while and we dont talk at school but now he seems like he likes me because he always like looks at me and stuff and when i was in a school play and so was he i was tieing my shoe before i went onstage and he like looked right at me. But I'm scared to go up to him and start a conversation with him and then he doesnt like me but hes really cute and i like him and i think he likes me. what do u think?? i'll rate high for good answers!!!!
Why don't you ask one of your friends to talk to him and find out what he thinks of you and see if he does like you. He might just be the shy kind and doesn't want to walk right up to you and ask you out because he is afraid of getting rejected if he asked you out. If that doesn't work then one day be real brave and ask him if he'd like to study together sometime and if he says yes then you know he likes you for sure. I hope I helped but if not I am sorry and good luck.
well i got into a fight with a friend of mine, something she did really hurt me, but it isnt something so horrible that i want to end the friendship over it, basically this would all be solved with an appology but im not sure how to go about this. its been two days and i havent talked to her since then, so should i need help on what to do, should i wait until she IMs/calls me and appoligizes or should i do something else? 18/m if that matters at all
Why don't you try to call her and see if she will listen to you. Once you have done that tell her your side of the story and that you don't want what ever happened between the two of you to stop you from being friends. I hope that I helped you but if not you can visit me at my advice column.
Tonight I'm going to the movies with a bunch of my friends and the guy I like happens to be coming. I want to flirt a little, get a seat near him & maybe even ask him out after. How should I do this? I'm 15 and a female.
-mae
After the movie you should talk to him about it and see what he has to say and then afterward say something like "would you like to come back to the movies with me to see?" and see what he says. He might like you too but wants you to make the first move.
how can you let a guy know you like him, without sounding too desperate?
Why don't you try to be his friend first and then see what happens you never know he just might like you back but doesn't want to come right out and say it.
is it weird for a grl to ask out a guy?
I think that if you like the guy you should go right ahead and ask him. But before you do you should make sure that it isn't going out with someone first and if not then ask him. If you wait too long to ask him he could ended up going out with someone else and you will regret it you will never know when you will have another chance.