My name is Nikita. 19 years of age. i answer all questions. However i answer truthfully so don't take it personal if i say something rude. I've been on this website for 6+ years. I live in Texas. And right now i go to hcc. I love hanging out with my friends, facebooking, pigging out, and going on walks. If you have a question please inbox me :D thanks bye!
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3 years ago my best best best friend moved legit half way across the country. We still managed to saty the best of friends and got to visit eachother a couple times. then a year later she moved back a couple staes away and i was so happy! we got to see eachother all the time because it was only a few hours away. We called eachother everyday and always had stuff to talk about no matter what. We were the ideal best friends. We have never been in a fight we tell eachother EVERYTHING and were always there no matter what. Well lately we havent been talking much. yes its summer and were both busy and we keep missing eacothers calls and now we hardly even talk. And when i do call her there isnt much to talk about. Its seems weird or something. Im so afaid that were growning apart. I dont know what i would do witout her. I dont want to loose her she means more to me than my family. What should i do? (link)
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i know how you feel. i had a friend like that too. but my friend didn't move she just went to a different school. what you should do is call her and invite her to your house and hangout and keep doing that for a while and see how it goes. because the reason you feel distant from her is because you guys don't hangout with her enough well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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So I went out with my boyfriend for 2 months last night and I've been out of the country for 3 weeks and last night was the first time i've seen him since then... when I got there he was standing in the doorway and he didn't come out to hug me or kiss me which I didn't like... so when I got into his house the for the first time in our relationship, the first thing he said was ughhh my head hurts (he had a migraine) and his best friend (girl) was there and they were playing the games that I let him borrow while I was out. Well then my bf who was in pain laid on his bed and I showed him the gifts that I got him while I was out and he didn't seem really excited about getting them... he was actually kind of apathetic and gave me some weird looks when I showed him some of the funny stuff that I got for him when I was in China and Japan... By the way we're both gay which will make this part make sense... so he was laying on his bed and he asks Dana his best friend to come and lay on his chest... not me, but his best "girl" friend so then i felt kind of like shit since he obviously didn't want me to hold him or anything... then after that when his friend left we just laid there and like stared at each other
and didn't cuddle or anything and I asked him to come over but he wouldn't... then more awkward silence came and then he was like... I really need to get to bed... so then I just said.. alright well i guess i'll go... then he goes "i'm sorry..." so then I walk out and he's standing there and he doesn't hug me so then I come up to him and hug him and he doesn't try and kiss me like we usually so then I just left and he was like "bye" then he went back into his house before I got into the car... I don't know what's wrong with him... so I drove home broken hearted and was just really sad about that...
Anyway this morning my friend told me I should call him and leave him a message and an ultimatum... The thing is is that I'm having dental surgery this morning that's kind of serious cause they can actually tear a nerve if it goes wrong and my bf knows about it but he didn't call me to say good luck or anything so I left him a message saying
"Hey James I'm about to go into surgery and... I was kind of disappointed about last night since it was the first time I've seen you in three weeks and you were acting pretty distant the whole time... I don't know what's up but if you still want to be with me leave me a message sometime today...
*click*"
and yeah, my question is did I do the right thing by making an ultimatum like that?? I mean he could've actually had a migraine that would make him emotionally stagnant but I don't think that's what it was because even if you have a migraine or w/e you should at least hug your boyfriend and let him know physically and emotionally that you've missed him for such a long time....
bleh.
thanks for the answers, really appreciate it. (link)
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yeah you should've also told him that you didn't like how he asked his best friend that girl to put her head on his chest instead of yours becuase thats messed up. you should tell him that and tell him more in detail that you felt awkward and just communicate with him and it'll help him understand that you felt distant from him. well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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I want to buy bracelets and necklaces for the new school year.
Can someone give me examples of stores that sell cute and not too expensive jewelry? (link)
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try icings or claires
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okay,well i don't really like writing diaries and stuff but i want to start an online journal. a private one obivously but i have no idea how to start? does anyone know any special websites that can hellp me make one? i want it to be completely private and everything i write to be pretty much for me. (link)
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hey try xanga.com. you can write in there and keep your entires private. when you get an xanga it'll usually take you to a new weblog entry and once u type your text scroll to the bottom and it has a thing that says public or private so then u c an check private! well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
o and if you need anymore help my advice column is xonikitaxo so feel free to leave your question in my inbox!
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ok,they say the best advisors before going on a date are girls so i was wondering what to do on this particular date.First off,I need some tips on my appearance.I'm not saying i should transform or anything,but do you girls have any tips on how to give a better image.anyway,i'm 17,hawaiian/asian and here's the link
http://www.friendster.com/user.php?statpos=bc&uid=47042234
the pic with my black hair is the latest,so yeah...i'm free to any suggestions,either cutting my hair or other stuff.
p.s:I know every liking is individual so i'm not asking for a perfect image,just makeover tips for this date.thanks (link)
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okay you should cut your hair like really short. and secondly get rid of the lip piercings not all girls like them. and just be yourself and have fun. flirt with the girl if you really like her and you just might snag a new girl i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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okay im 16/f and i met this boy he's 22 on myspace and he lives in the same city where i live katy,tx and i met him and seemed really nice. but i mean he still is nice and i've gotten to know him over the week. and we started dating. but i feel like he doesn't really like me. because like on myspace he'll tell me im beautiful and on the phone he'll tell me that plus i love you. but the first time we met we were dating he just hugged me and kissed me. but he didn't say i love you and that im beautiful. and i sent him a message on myspace that if he really likes me that he needs to start showing it. he just read my message but didn't say anything. oh and i called him like 10 times today but he doesn't pick up. i've noticed that when i call sometimes he won't pick up. and we're suppose to meet at the park today around 3. and i don't want to break-up with him so what should i do? (link)
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and whenever i talk to him he's like uh huh okie dokie or yeahh. i don't feel like i can talk to him or connect with him. what should i do?
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what happens when you PMS? i know it's something about your period but how do you know when you're PMSing? (link)
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well it means you on your period and you bleed down there. the PMS symptons are mood swings, you get tired, you get cramps, bloated, back pain and sometimes leg pains where your vagina is.
nikita♥
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how do you know if you are double jointed? iv tried googling it and basically got nothing. but in my shoulders i can hear the joints or bones rubbing against each other sort of. and sometimes when i move my shoulders they pop and make this huge popping noise. sometimes it hurts and sometimes it doesn't. and then every now and then they get really sore. then sometimes with my knees it will feel like my knee cap is going to dislocate? my ankles crack and pop when i go up the stairs, but that happens with my mom too.
i have no idea why its doing this. it started maybe 6 months ago?
i have played soccer for about 10 years and used to dance for about 6 years, if that helps.
thanks so much (link)
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well its probably genetic since your mom has that same problem. your probably just double-jointed but it shouldn't hurt. but since it does you should go see a doctor. i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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I am starting college this fall and I need to know what kind of supplies I should buy. I know I'll need my textbooks, pens/pencils & paper, but what are the other necessities for an English writing class and a Math class? Answers from people who are already in college would help. Thanks in advance. (link)
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you'll probably need a calculator, a daily planner.organizer to write down our assignments, a protractor, 5 subject notebook, and some highlighters.
nikita♥
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so i met this guy at the beach and gave him my myspace url. we made out and stuff. he commented me on myspace and said "all YOU baby HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHa"
what the heck is that supposed to mean?
kthnx (link)
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haha maybe he likes you and
is flirting with you you never know!
nikita♥
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17/f. So there's this guy that I've liked for awhile now, and I just want to get over him. I mean, he's a good guy and all, but I just don't really feel like I have a reason to like him anymore.
This whole summer, I've been making an effort to hang out with him, but we haven't hung out once, so obviously he doesn't like me back.
Whenever we talk online, he talks about himself alot and always takes a long time to respond whenever I'm talking, and sometimes when I talk to him I feel like I don't like him.
I'm probably not going to see him school next year, and I'm sick of being upset that I haven't seen him in a really long time and that he most likely does not feel the same way about me.
So why can't I get over him? Any ideas on how to get over him? =/ (link)
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hey im 16/f and i had a b/f too that i broke up with and he didn't want me back. but i got over him. i started talking to other guys which helped me! you should try that! and maybe if you really want to get over him stop talking to him because thats what i did and it really did helped!
nikita♥
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I am startign to Jog a mile each day, i can do it, but i have had some lower back provleams and my back tends to get sore well doing it and i just have a hard time unless i can get my mind off it. so any tips to make it go by quicker or stretches to make it easier. (link)
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well you should stretch before you go jogging. take a friend with you to be safe because you never know these days, and also take your mp3/ ipod with you if you have one.
i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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Can you get AIDS by drinkin after somebody that has AIDS?
thanks :] (link)
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no you can only get AIDS if you have sex with someone, share needles, or breast feed.
h0pE i HeLpEd!
nikita♥
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Ive never had a boyfriend or anything throughout middle school. ANyways, this past year in high school, freshman year, no guys really liked me either. However, in the last two months of school, and since, I've gotten 5 guys to like me, and I like every single one, like I've fallen for them all =[
I'm not sure what to do, because they're all nice and hott, but I've never been in this situation before so I'm extremely confuseddd! (link)
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okay see the pros and cons of each guy and choose the best one for you!
i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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Does anyone know a site where I can get a code for a comments scrollbar on myspace? All I can find is a scrollbar that will put comments AND friends in the one scrollbar. I only want my comments in a scrollbar, not my friends.
Thanks (link)
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try www.whateverlife.com
or you can go to xanga and go to blogrings and type in myspace codes
i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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Ok so i have this boyfriend and we get into aguements alot. He tells me that im stupid and retarted. sometimes he even calles me a stupid bitch, dumb ass bitch, or jus plain bitch. he says that im tha problem and that im always getting him mad. Im only 15 and my friends and familly say leave him but some say dnt if ur happy. Im tired of heareing that hole "theres more fish in tha sea" cuz thers really not im in love with him not anyone else. I dont know wat to do anymore im in love with him and want to spend tha rest of my life with him but not like this..
Please someone help me wat do i do????
-shawttii (link)
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This boy doesn't love you at all if he's abusing you. you really need to get out of this relationship im telling you. because one day he's going to hurt you really badly. and you should report him for abuse if he's doing this. and tell your parents that he's abusing you. and also your friends and family are right there are a lot of other fish in the sea. i know your tired of hearing that but its true. so please end the relationship and report him for your sake. and if you need anymore help email me. tulips979@yahoo.com
love always,
nikita♥
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i cantt think of a new screen namee. i want one with my name in it, my name is gina.
any ideasss? (link)
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okay you could try these.
babygurlgina
babyygina
ginaXOX
geenah
itsGiNa
omgxitsginax
ginapinacolada
well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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hey 13/f
all my fiends that i hang out with have all kissed a guy at some stage i feel really left out and stuff sometimes and they treat me like a baby..i just want to get it over and done with but want to like the guy as well
Please help me!!!
thanx mwa (link)
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chill! its okay if you haven't had your first kiss yet. it doesn't matter. you should kiss a guy that your comfortable and you really like him. and its okay if a guy doesn't like you. there plenty of guys out there. and if they do like you and you like them don't ignore them. talk to them and flirt with them and you just might snag a guy and get your first kiss! i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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can you go into the ocean with a tampon?
i really wanan go to the beach today.
or will the tampon like fall out or something? haha && after i get out of the ocean should i change the tampon? please reply asap and thanks for reading =] (link)
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yes you can go into the ocean with a tampon on. and it won't fall out. and you should change it. i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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Recently at walmart i saw these really cool sleeping bags. They were pirates of the caribbean and they way you store them is you roll it up, and then stick it into its holder which looks like a small sofa chair. of course this is for kids, and my little brothers have been asking me to buy it for them. Could anyone suggest somewhere to find these, or something similar? (link)
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try target! there sleeping bags are really cheap there
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