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hey. yeah. i keep it real, and i'll try to help out annyway with annythin i can. im Em, and im a pretty smart chick. im a preddy good person, you know the type you would let babysit ur kids. dont take me for granted. i k how to rock it and keep it kool. w/o all the drugs and tequila. go ahead, ask me. ill anser. cuz u k im good lik that ;)

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I'm 15. I met my boyfriend (alias Jake) through a really close guyfriend of mine that is also good friends with him. They live 2 hrs. away; he can drive, I can't, I see him twice a month on average. I love Jake dearly, I have for the past 5 (give or take) months, but sometimes I feel as if he doesn't think I love him as much as he does me. It's like he really and truly thinks I'm too good for him, which is totally untrue (I'm not-I actually cheated on him a couple of months ago;I didn't mean anything by it, but I was really bad for doing it). Jake's the kind of kid that will let me win all little arguments before they turn into fights because he loves me too much to make me unhappy. I am crazy about Jake, and I need advice on how to let him know and believe it! He's probably tired of all the lyrics I send him, his are much better. I'm going to see him this weekend in a play. PLEASE give me some ideas!

if u love him, tell him. get him alone and say "u know jake, i have no clue what i would do w/o u. i love u" then kiss him. he should get the message. hope i helped

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13/f

There is this guy and he supposedly likes me!!! and I like him a whole lot! My friends have asked him if he lieks me nad they said that he said he does.. and then some ahve asked him if he is gonn ask me out.. but he said that like Wednesday.. and he still hasn't... I am still wondering if he is going to.. and should I tell him I like him myself? and What should I do about if he likes me??


mroe info.....

We flirt a bunch and stuff and he is in some of my classes... and he alwasy stares at me in them .. but he hasn't asked me out yet.. am I over reacting? PLEASE give me some pointers on how to Help him like me

he likes u. maby he ment to ask u out but got 2 nervous. if i were u i would ask him out myself. hope i helped

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There is this kid whos 15 and I really like him..but he doesnt like me only because Im younger than him. He flirts w/ me and stuff when Im alone. Only when Im the only girl around. Then when hes around other girls, he totally acts like Im not there...what is up with this? I need help on this because I dont know whats up w/ him....(hes my cousins friend)

maby he is just a big flirt and your easy to flirt with. im a big flirt and i do that alot with out meaning to. or maby he likes u, but he doesnt want people to gess that, sence u r younger then him. he could have just been acting friendly too. it really depends on his personality. hope i helped

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what are some good products for me to use to have the little hairs on my forehead and upper lip go away? i dont want a product that will have my hair grow back thicker, because that will be embarassing. i want a product that will have the little hairs removed quickly and wont come back for a while AND not grow back a lot thicker than before

thanx !!!

ps im not going to a doctor or whatever, lol sorry

nair is really good for that tipe of thing. it gets rid of the hairs, they grow back thinner, and they dont grow back for weeks. hope i helped

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hey this is the friend with the friend leah and this guy joe and her ex who forced her to do stuff.

she does and he is really nice they just dont know eachothers dating style yet so he doesnt know what upsets her i guess. so i told her that she needs to talk to him and tell him that calling her and tell her he cant come would be better than not calling at all. they dont really know thier dating styles so when i told her to call him it was alot better.
thanx

cool! im glad i could help

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i joined lacrosse and my legs hurt really bad from running.. how can i make it feel better?? and do you have any lacrosse tips?

i dont really now about lacrosse... but a good tip to make ur legs feel better is take a warm bath then get some lotion and massage it into your legs. it always works 4 me when im sore. hope i helped

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Well, I think I might be spotting (Menstruely lol) when I use the bathroom my undergarments are covered with a mixed waste...when I wipe, i get alot, or a little, blood on my toilet paper, sorry if im too graphic...anyway, I havent started my period yet (I'm 13). Do you think this is spotting? or do i have a problem?

well maby u did start. thats how it was 4 me the first time i got mine. hope i helped

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ok well my best friend is/was having a HUGE bday party for herself (shes got a huuuuge house, an amazing pool and her parents said that max was like 60) so yeah everyone looks forward to her partys.. and ya know how it is in high school.. you cant go to a party like this without having someone to "hook up" with.. thats just how it is.. so me and this guy planned to hook up and blah blah blah.. you know how that goes.. well the party kinda got canceled and so now me and this guy are just "talking" about doin stuff like goint to the movies or w.e and "hookinh up" there but the thing is we have been talking a lot now and i think i like him.. (wich i knew this was gonna happen :/ ).. and hes telling ppl he likes me (a little) so thats a high point.. BUT (and theres always a BUT) :/ theres another girl.. that hes like IN LOVE with.. but this girl has a bf and has for a looong time now, but this bf goes to a different school then her so her and this guy i like act like they are together at school, but outa school she just totally ignores him when shes around her bf (gay huh?) and i dont go to the same school as the guy i like or this girl, and ive never met her either but everyone tells me shes really not all that pretty.. so yeah im just wondering.. should i take him out.. just me and him and show him who i really am and try to steal him away from this "other girl" and make him change his mind to want me?.. or what?

if he already likes u a little then it wouldnt hurt to ask him out. he probly knows it would help him to get his mind off her and go out with someone else for a little while. it sounds like him and the other girl r never gonna be together so i wouldnt expect a serious relationship with him intil he gets over her, but the odds r in ur favor. hope i helped

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don't bother reading if you can't manage, but 5's to any singly word of response because i really really need some advice here...


i have this twin sister- we're both 14- and she is really immature and selfish and just a totally disgusting and impossible person. sometimes i love her, but alot of times i could just explode! she is just so hard to take!


the main problems with her are that she is really into herself but at the same time extremely insecure and self-consious...and the second is that she just can NOT get over things...like tonight she was trying to get me to remember something by repeating like the same vague amature description over and over and I was like, OK I DON'T REMEMBER CAN WE DROP IT OR CAN YOU GIVE ME A BETTER CLUE?!?!


See its little stuff like that, but I just want to rip my brains our and throw them at her face!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE sharing things with her when I just don't really like her as a person...and she really harms me as a person, because I spend so much energy being infuriated at her or trying to ignore her pesty existence.


I really feel like we are the only people in this world that each other has, so we need to get along...but I just cannot tolerate her at ALL! Its like her brain is so many pages behind, and I can't stretch to reach her and make her stupid accomodations.


Is there any way I can coexist with her as a step towards actually liking her? There are some people in this world that I just cannot ever like, and that's okay, but I really don't want her to be one of them...and how can I vent my feelings in a healthy way? lol i've been sitting in my room screaming (literally) for the past 20 minutes...ew and I wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone so don't go there....


snaps to you for reading this!
xox and SOS

u should get a diary and in it rite notes to her ( the kind that u dont actually give her ) about how she is making u feel. thats what i do and it makes me feel better. and try to accept her. its not her falt she is insecure and self consious. hope i helped

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Hey, i have had this girl as my girlfriend for a month and 3 1/2 weeks. But, we have not kissed yet, the main reason is, because we both have braces, i am affraid of all the roumours of linked braces that are going around. I get my braces off in June or July, and i am having her over tonight with a few friends for a movie night, should i got ahead and kiss her, or should i wait til i get my braces off and play it safe?

braces dont get stuck together. its almost impossible. i wouldnt worry about it if i were u. hope i helped

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Hey, I'm 13/F and I just got my period in January. I had it for 6 days. I haven't gotten it since!! It's the end of March now which means I skipped two months?? I know I'm not pregnant (I have no idea how to spell it)
Is something wrong with me???

normally your first year or so is really irregular. i wouldnt worry if i was u. u can also skip multiple times from stress too. hope i helped

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We've all seen a million questions on "HOW CAN I TONE MY BODY?"

Well, I'm wondering how to just well, make your abs more.. defined and a little bit flatter. I already know about Tone Teen and Seventeen Workouts so please don't suggest that, thanks.

i did 30 sit-ups when i woke up and 1 hour befor i went to sleep ( so thats 2 times a day ) 5 days a week and i had results in about 1 month and 1/2. hope i helped

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I have my period about every 2 1/5 to 3 weeks.. then, when I do have it.. I have it for 2 days then I stop that night then I have it for one day then I stop that next day then have it for 2 more days.. is somthing wrong with me.. :-x
--I rate 5's!--

no i think that happens to alot of people. it happens to me every once in a while. your most likly fine. hope i helped

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A friend of mine is having trouble finding a date to the prom. She has even asked most of her guy friends. All of them are either taken or dead-set against going. I suggested to her kidnapping and blackmail already so please do not inform me of those options. My question is, what should she do?

have her find a guy she thinks is cute and have her start flirting with him 4 a while. after about 3 days or something when she is talking to him have her just ask, "so do u think u r gonna go to the prom? i might... but i need to find someone to go with first." he will probly say yes thats how i ask guys to dances and all of them said yes. hope i helped

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ok well i have this friend call her leah shes 15 and im 14 and the guy joe is 16. ok well leah had a boyfriend who was her age hit her forced her into sex and he did drug her parents found out and she has alot of regrets. well she met this guy named joe hes really cute and nice. he was supposed to come over but never did. leahs really upset thnking hes going to be like her ex she should give joe a second chance he was at the mall instead of coming over what should she do.

signed stuck in the middle

she needs to meet him. if her ex raped and hit her, i can see why she would be worried. but if he really is nice when she meets him she will probly notice it right away after having a boyfriend treat her like crap. tell her he is different and make shure she meets him if he is really that nice. she sounds like she deserves a good boyfriend hope i helped

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My friend really likes this girl and he is to scared to ask her and a keep bugging him what things should i say to him to maybe help him out (my friend is such a wimp)

your friend should flirt with her a little befor asking her out. he should talk to her too. after he has been talking to her 4 a while like 3 days he could just ask her out lik say "do u think it would be fun to see a movie this weekend?" then she will no he is nice or funny or whatever and she will probly say yes. thats how past boyfriends have got my attention. hope i helped

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im a girl and Im not a lesbian or bisexual & i dont ever want to like make out with a girl/date one or anything..but i get reallyyyy turned on when i like think about girls being active w/ echother..is this NORMAL


i gess it is. guys feel that way all the time. i dont think girls do as much though. hope i helped

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Yesterday my b/f thought i was mad at him which i wasn't. today he started being really sweet. he was walking me to all my classes and everything..(he used to sometimes but not all the time like today). Before his lunch and one of my classes he said "c'mon forget about your friends we need some alone time." and we started walking down the hall and he grabbed my hand. :) Now my question is do you think he just said that or do you think he really wants the time alone with me, because he was talking to his friend as we were walking

h is your b/f... he probly does want alone time with u. or maby he is just being nice because he thinks u r mad at him. tell him u were never mad at him and see how he acts. hope i helped

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Do I have the right to be offended..this girl considers me her BEST FRIEND [we are good friends but not BEST BEST friends]. When we leave a class, she never waits for me, unless her little other friend is absent. When that girl isn't around, she waits for me and she talks to me. I mean, I have other friends I walk with, I just find this, weird.. and awkward you know. And at lunch, whatever I say, it's usually the opposite. I don't really care, but am I wrong to be a bit.. you know.. offended?

well, just because u r her best friend doesnt mean she has to be yours. and maby she has more then 1 best friend. i personaly try not to rate my friends and all of them are best friends. that may be the case with her. hope i helped

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What are some symptoms of a sign of a yeast infection? i dont know if i have one or not...i just notice i have this yellowish stuff on my underwear...it's like dried or something like a crusty ish stuff but not excatly like a crust thing..please help! thanks!

it might just be discharge, but if it is a yeast infection your 'area' would be like, really red and it would feel really really itchy, so thats probly not the case. hope i helped

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