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I'm really scared bcus i'm only 14 and i've found out i'm pregnant. my ex doesnt know bcus we had a really bad fallin out and my mom wud totally freak if she found out. Wt shud i do. i'm scared to tell enyone even by best friends! i just act normal but i can nevva take my mind off it! (link)
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aww.. i'm so sorry =(. you need to tell your parents and your ex-boyfriend. those are the two most important people to tell. don't worry about your friends right now. don't let it get out because people will tell othersz and it'll become a huge mess and we all know how badly that sucks. i'm sure your mom will be disappointed at first, but i have no doubt in my mind that she'll support you. your boyfriend on the other hand might be an ass and will be a jerk overall. don't let him bother you if he says anything or whatever. also, you need to figure out what you're going to di with the baby, ((raise it)) ((abortion)) ((adoption)) .. please - if anything, don't do abortion..it's not fair.!!i wish you the best of luck, and if u need to talk u can im me at shad 0 w x5! hope i helped!
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There is this guy whos 15 (freshman) and i think he likes me, but i dont know how to be so sure of it. I really need advice on how i can talk to him without being so "goofy" all the time. (link)
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hmm this one is always tough.. you could have one of your friends/his friends talk to him and ask him who he likes or if he likes you.. your probably better off asking who he likes.. if you like him, you could just straight up ask him if he likes you, or that you like him. if u need more help, im me at shad 0 w x5 hope i helped =)
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heyy i have lime wire and i have all this awesome music for it yay, but i wanna kno can u burn it on to a cd, and if so how thanxx, ps i rate HIGH! plzz help! (link)
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i have limewire too.. go to library.. and then click explore... click all the songs you want to burn.. (more than 1 song.. press ctrl while clickin songs) and then copy the selected items to "my music" folder.. go to windows media player.. and burn it =) hope that helps
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i need to know stuff about having boobs. i'm 15 years old and i need to know stuff. like should i wear one at night? what kinds of bras are right? and they hurt sometimes, so what can i do? (link)
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i don't wear one while sleeping.. i heard it can increase the risk of breast cancer, plus it's uncomfortable... and theres all sorts of bras you can get... sports bra, one w/ an underwire.. whatever ! if your in sports or you don't like your boobs sticking out or whatever.. wear a sports one.. if not, wear a normal one. it all depends on what size u are .. hope i helped =)
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ok im a girl and i get turned on very easily i guess because anytime i guy touches me in the right way or kisses me or sometimes holds my hand i get really wet "down there".. is that normal for girls to get really wet at the smallest things an to even get wet?! (link)
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haha ya.. i get like that too. don't worry, perfectly natural.. just means ur being turned on! congrats =) lol
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hey! well this is the scoop. ive been like totally in love with music since like.. as long as i can remember. and ive played the guitar for about.. 2 1/2 years now. and im pretty good at singing. im more into the.. taking back sunday, green day, fall out boy.. all them good bands. my life dream has been to start a band but i have no idea how to start it?! i have a few friends in bands but.. i dunno you dont need to answer this question if you dont know. i was just wondering if you have any suggestions for me or anything. but thank you! (link)
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i don't really kno much on starting bands, but i think you should ask a couple of your friends that play other instruments (drums, bass, etc) and if they're interested, then learn some tabs together.. and if any of you guys know how to write songs, then write some songs, and figure out a beat n stuff for them. im sorry.. i don't really know much on starting bands, but i hope i helped =)
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Hey! haha i wanna get my tongue peirced with my friend but im only 14. my friend is going to have her 18 year old friend sign for her and she said she would sign too. but i dont know what my parents would think if they saw that i got my tongue peirced =/. hehe what do you think i should do? (link)
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ahh your such a rebel! haha.. well.. hah im not sure what you should do! it'd be cool to get your tounge pierced and everything.. but you'd probably get into deep crap w/ ur parents.. i know i seem all old and stuff when i say this but i don't think you should do it.. because you could get into a lot of trouble for that.. and i'm sure u don't want 2 be grounded right ? maybe you should ask them first ! hope i helped =)
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hey! i wanna get my cartilage pierced. i know that straight guys are supposed to get their ears done on the left side. are straight girls supposed to get it on the left side too? thanks! (link)
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im a 14/f.. and mine is done on the left side.. i dont think it really matters. i used to have mine pierced on the right side, but it got infected. hope that helps =)
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okay. well i have this friend and her and i have lost our friendship over my boyfriend. ive went out with him about 3 times off and on and my boyfriend went out with my friend once but now we're back together. my boyfriend asked my friend how her love life was going with her boyfriend and all and he told her about me and him and she got all mad. she then talked to me and said "just forget that we ever met" is she just jealous because my boyfriend likes me and not her anymore? or i dunno. but we havent talked since she said that to me. what would you do if you were me? thanks =) (link)
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it seems like she is jealous or she's mad because you chose him over her or something retarded like that. i'm in the situation right now. but, if you truly want to make things aright with her, you should talk to her and try to work things out. ask her why she's mad at you or why she hates you, because obviously you don't know.. ask her how she feels, and you tell her how you feel. =) i hope everything works out for you, and if you need more advice - im me at shad 0 w x5
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alright well ive know a kid for about a year now. and hes friends with my one of my friends but he lives in a differnt state. he likes me and i like him and he is going to come up soon and see me. how far should we take it right now? please help! thanks (link)
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if i were you, i wouldn't take it too far when he comes and visits you. you shouldn't want to get attached on this guy when he has to leave back to his state. you won't be able to see him, and you'll be very sad over it. i wouldn't do anything dramatic.. ya know? like anything big.. or anything that'll get you hooked. kissing, cuddling, that stuff is okay.. the huge stuff like bj, hj, w/e.. that could pry hook u on him.. i hope i helped =)
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What are the administators going to do about the bad adivce people? I mean peopel like... The Cardboard Samurai or the Russian Mailman person? these people obviously aren't even trying and feel many people feel even worse. They may think its funny but their advice can lead to peopel doing stupid things. Any one else worried? Are they going to be banned? There seems to be more of them everyday. (link)
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i agree with you, people shouldn't be on here making fun of others problems. reporting them would pry be the best thing. they really should be banned, and i know how you feel =)
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i have acne on my back and ah i have tried getting it away but it doesnt really work...but i have a party to go to and i wanna wear a dress that shows my back. im wearing it to the party at the end of the month. what is something that would work quickly to get it away? (link)
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put meds on ur back.. i gotta have medicated medicine for my acne so i put that on there.. you can also use those little pads and wash them with that. hope that helped =)
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I am in middle school right now, and I don't have many friends. Like I'm not shy or anything, but I don't hang out with a lot of people. Do you think when I go to highschool (next year) I will have more friends? Or is it just me? (link)
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i think you need to talk to more people and you need to be more outgoing. you might have more friends next year, considering there's three other grades in the school - but i think u need to be more outgoing. good luck =)
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I know that this might sound stupid but, today my mom was just telling me stuff that I don't know about my family, and she told me my sister got pregnant at the age of 21 (shes 28 now) and got an abortion, because she got pregnant not from being raped or anything, just with her boyfriends baby n stuff. I've been brought up to believe women have equal rights, and I have believed in abortions up until now. Knowing that I could've had a nephew//niece, and I don't because my sister got an abortion is really weird. I'm only 14, and I know I'm going to get a bunch of life altering situations, as this one. But, if my sister asks me one day if I believe in abortions, should I tell the truth, and say, no. or yes? Thanks. (link)
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tell her what you believe in. abortion is killing somebody before they are actually born. and it's really sad. tell her however you feel, you shouldn't say what she wants you to say, just because she's had an abortion. hope i helped =)
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i know it's still possible to get pregnant when you have your period, but say someone has sex during her period, preferably near the END (and still wears a condom) will that lessen her chance of conceiving? or is there a certain day where you are highly likely to get pregnant? (link)
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don't do it while ur on your period in general.. i think that's when it's the most risky. the least likely day is 18 days before your next period. =) hope i helped
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ok i went out with a guy who was like my best friend for a pretty long time we had an amazing rlationship but after a few months we broke up over a stupid argument. the problem is i still love him so much whenever i see him i get this feeling like i did when we were together. is there anything i can do to get over him? (link)
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ohh i know how this one goes.. i think you should go out there and try to forget this guy. just flirt around a bit, but don't make it seem like your a whore. you can also hang out with your friends more often, i'm sure they can help you also. hope i helped =)
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I have a friend that sleeps with a lot of people, I tell her it's bad but she still does it. Well one day during lunch she took a pregnancy test (she never uses protection, and she's been pregnant before but had a miscarriage) and well it came out positive. She got home and somehow her mom found out, and was like "How many times are you going to do this, you act like a ho, stop sleeping with people" and stuff like that. And then she told me she took another test and it came out negative saying that she wasn't pregnant. So that's what she belives, she thinks she isn't pregnant. Is she pregnant? I heard that the only time pregnancy tests can possible lie is if it comes out negative, and that if it comes out positive then she's defninitley pregnant. Which is true? Is she pregnant? (link)
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k.. your friend took two pregnancy tests, right? take one more, and whatever it is, thats probably the more likely answer.. =) hope i helped
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i really need help!!! i cant seem to stay organized at school and i have possiable tried every method out there. So does anyone have a suguestion that might work ??? (link)
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i have horrible organizational skills also.. so we're in the same boat. for me to stay organized, i use a five star notebook and label all the folders with my class name, or use a binder and put sepereators for every subjects, and use an assignment notebook. if its your locker thats messy, clean it out once a week. i used to do that. hope i helped =)
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Ok...well I met this guy online and we're really good friends now and somehow he got my cell phone number. Well one night he called me and we talked on the phone for a while but it was like a free call because i have free long distance and free after 9. So does anyone know if it still shows up on my phone bill? Because my parents are all like "don't talk to people on the internet you don't know" and they would freak and want to know who I'm talking to in other states and junk. So what should I tell them if it does show up on the bill? (link)
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tell your parents that it's one of your friends that moved away. and i'm not sure if it shows on phone bills. it might not, considering you dont pay for the calls. look at one of ur old phone bills and see if theres any calls after 9 on your phone. good luck~ hope i helped =)
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i am a 36 yr old mother of 2 boys ages 10 and 3. my mother who has been married 3 times, with her third marriage adopted a special needs baby about 2 1/2 years ago. now, i know that that is a comendalble thing, but i still have a problem with this whole thing. she decided to adopt the boy shortly after i had my second son. my son was about 3 months old when she announced that she was going to get into foster care. well, that was great. so, the first child she gets to foster is a special needs boy named charlie. he has a shunt, spina bifida, and is paralized from the knees down. Not long after she has him in her home, i begin notice that she is becoming very attached to charlie(naturally so). i asked her if she was considering adopting him , and she stated "that's a life changing decsion, and she would have to discuss it with everyone in the family before a decsion of that magnitude would be made". ok that was fine. well, about 2 weeks later she called me and annoced that they were adopting charlie. i told her that i didnt think that was a wise desicion condidering her husband is 72, and she is 58, and this baby would be a life long challenge. in addition to these factors, who would care for chalrie, when they pass? also, the state care worker told her that he wold be adopted immediatly, because even though he ahs special needs, he was a whilte baby and they were adopted quickly. she took my advise as offensive and told me in a spiteful way that they were adopting him! end of phone conversation. i just didnt get it. here i have two beautiful children, who despitatly needed a grandmother, and she would'nt give them her love and time before. i even spoke with her before the adopiton about spending time with my children, because i felt she really did'nt--because she did'nt. why wasent being a grandmother enough? so, i didnt speak to her for a year. well, we've reconciled since. but i still have a problem with this whole thing. its just to weird. everything she does is about charlie. she spends no time or attention with her own grandchildren at all. she's constantly going to physical therapy, and devoting every minute of the day for this child. now, dont get me wrong, these are things you would do, to take care of a child. that s not the problem. the problem is, i believe you cant be a goof grandmothe and a mother at the same time. also, i cant believe she didnt value you me or my opinion enough to ask my opinion first. i mean she didnt have to listen to me, but she could of at leat talked with me about it. they have burned so many bridges in our family. my step brother with 2 kids has recently just cut off ties with them for this same reason. they were hurt as i as well because my mother has maybe 1-2 pictures of her grandchildren, but the house is filled with pictures of charlie. i just feel that she did'nt consider anyones feelings not even charlies when she did this. i'm sure i look like the awful jealous daughter, but its not like that. although i will admidt i am jealous fo my chlidren. for the attention i think they deserve, from a grandma the will never have. should i cut all ties from my mother, or continue to pretend to everythings ok? talking toi her is not an option, because she will not want to hear that she may be wrong.
thank you
traci (link)
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i may not be a mom or anything, but i think the right thing to do IS to talk to her.. if you have any other brothers or sisters, consult them and ask them if they feel the same way. if so, then you guys should get together and talk to her. if your an only child, you should do it by yourself. tell her that she's a grandmother, and she needs to act like a grandmother figure to your children and she needs to act like a mother figure to you. tell her everything you are telling us.. hopefully she'd understand. i hope i helped.
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