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so i just started shaveing "down there" and it never comes out like a good clean shave is there anything i could do to make it softer skin and get all the hair? (link)
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I wouldnt suggest shaving actually. I swim so i know how you feel about wanting it clean and soft ... lol. So what i do instead is Nair. It takes 4 mintutes, its fast, easy, doesnt smell to bad if you rinse, and most importantly clean and soft. Good luck, and if you dont want to use nair, you should try shaving downwards, going up creates the red bumpy irritation.
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where is the best place to get a cheap phone that is nice...thanx (link)
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ebay works i heard. good luck
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Well i like this boy and my friend gave me his number since im to shy to talk to him she said i should call him i am but i dont kno what to say anybody have and idias on how to start a conversation and make it last hes really in to football like the Baltimor and hes in to like all the political stuff can any of this help on a good conversation????????? thanx
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ok well i dont think you should call him, talking in person or on aim is better to start. Just calling him up randomly wanting to talk isnt going to make him like you, infact he'll think your a freak ... been there done that. I think that once you talk at least a few times a week then call him and ask if he wants to hang out, guys dont really like talking on the phone that much anyway. just be yourself and dont push too hard, you dont want him to feel forced into a friendship ... potential girlfriend. good luck
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ok so well like one of my best friends and i got in like a big fight a couple weeks ago .. im really sorry for what i did and i would never do anything intentionally to hurt her, or tell her secrets. i try never to talk ab her behind her back too .. but how do i know if she has forgiven me? how do i know if things are back to normal or what? idk if shes talking ab me behind my back or not or what im confused as to whats going on it seems like were normal but i dont know and i'd like osme reassuranceee. thanks & ill rate fives (link)
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I know its hard to have a fight with a best friend and make sure its all good. What i do is not become a suck up to them so they'll forgive you, but instead act normal apoligize from your heart and all true friends forgive so thats the best you can do. good luck!
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John has known ive liked him since about october, durin football season i wore his jersey to the games, we havent really hungout and stuff but i dont know theres something about him. he is now in my gym class the last semester and lately he has been acting weird, flirting alot. and i used to just throw myself out to him but now i want to sort of play hard to get while flirtin at the same time.. what can i do? i think he has some thing for me even know i know he probably wont admit it ( its not really anything personal towards me though, its just how he is) i see him in school sometimes, hes in my 1st period spanish class and we dont really talk(hes on the other side) and hes in my gym class .. i want to attract him more and i might ask him to this party tomorrow me and my friend dave are having.. what is some cute things to do in gym? or body language things?
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ok well it does seem he likes you, so some things you can do to play "hard to get" is act as if hes not your main interest. Flirt with him but dont throw yourself out there, you know just act like its a game that doesnt matter who wins. But dont over do it because he may think you dont like him. Also just act very sweet and innocent, try smiling sweetly, you know playful flirting that isnt trashy or slutty because guys may like to flirt with that but dont want to date that. good luck and i hoped i helped, but i dont think im very good at playing hard to get, i usually go for the sweet friend who happens to flirt. lol
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I need advice for Girls AND Boys would be good. I have a boyfriend that is in another city far from mine. How many times should we talk on the phone a day and GENERALLY who should call who.
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You shouldnt worry about who calls who as long as you talk and have a commited relationship. Take turns calling, talk for maybe 1-2 hours a day, talk on aim, and email. It should come naturally, Ive been dealing with the same thing and it can be diffilcult but love requires sacrifices. good luck and dont worry about those silly little details.
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hey, my boyfriend and i just started going out last sunday (of this week). he tells me he loves me and tells my friends that he does and that hes crazy about me.
im not crazy about him, lately ive been getting mixed feelings about him. i dont know what to do about it either.
i dont know why im not crazy about him. whats wrong with me? has this happened to you? what should i do? (link)
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I know exactly what your talking about, the same thing happened to me. Just relax though because i told the guy that i wasnt comfortable telling him i loved him when i just liked him alot. You need to sit him down and tell him that you dont love him and that its crazy of him to think he loves you when you just started going out. If he truly loves you, or at least cares a lot about you, then he'll understand and wont care as long as you still like him ... well thats what happened to me. Just think about whether you like him, decide, if you do then tell him what i told you, and if you decide you dont then break it off. good luck!
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so im in a really long relationship with my 16 year old boyfriend. im 17. weve been together about a year and a half. yes i love him, if i didnt then i wouldnt be with him. we fight over EVERYTHING! we cant joke about ANYTHING nemore. he just frustrates me SO QUICKLY! ive tried breaking up with ihm 6 times but it never works because i love him. how do i handle this? how do i make him not blame me? how do i not fight? how do i not get frustrated? thank you. (link)
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I think that you can salvage your relationship by finding the route to the problems, when did the fighting become more frequent, why do you think that you fight? Just sit down and tell him how you feel, tell him you love him but cant stand the way hes been acting and that if he doesnt try to help and fix whatever went wrong then you'll have to break up. And obviously you dont want to since you love him but if its meant to be then hopefully when he gets his act together then you can get back together. Plus, if hes smart the threat of breaking up will make him realize how much your worth to him and he'll shape up. good luck
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hey I asked you about how do you show someone you love them..yea I just wanted to let you know I added you to one of my favorite columnists. I wanted to tell you that you give gReAt advice!! I will ttyl love ya girlie!
my advice coulumn is seXy_LiL_BOo_BeCkY
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hey thanx glad to help! I know its hard to tell someone, infact the reason i answered yours is because i had just told my best guy friend that i loved him, so i was kinda in that mood. lol btw tell me how it works out for you and him!!! good luck
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can someone help me get ideas to get more money for babysitting...thanks (link)
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The trick is you have to babysit people who live in a nice house and have 3 or less kids, they tend to pay more because they can afford. Also the longer you babysit for someone the more they trust you and the more likely there'll pay for you. good luck
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What is something i can do to calm down. I am so worked up about everything all i can do is cry. Is there something else i can do besides cry?
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When i get that worked up ... which i happen to do alot, i write lists of everything thats bothering me. it doesnt matter how long or short as long as your honest and get everything out. While you write these lists listen to your favorite music, the best is really mellow, like my favorite is indie rock (the shins) it soothes you and isnt so loud you cant think which tends to make things worse. good luck and relax it'll all be okay, even when it seems like it wont. (btw getting a hug from someone you love also helps)
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I am 15/f
How do you show someone how madly in love you are with them? No matter what I do..he still doesn't believe me. He says he loves me, and I do believe it..but how do I get him to believe me?? Help me please! I will rate!! (link)
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I love you, isnt just some words its an action. The advice you need to follow isnt mine but it applies, "Actions speak louder than words"! Do someting extreme and romantic, fill a room with flowers play his fav. music in the backround and tell him i love you, kiss him on the cheek and forhead and hug him, these show love more than making out (that would be lust)! good luck and if you need more ideas just email me at greenbluebabe123@yahoo.com
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I read that if you eat breakfast everyday you will lose weight, is this true? If so, then how can I start eating breakfast without gaining weight because I have not been eating breakfast for a few years? This is so confusing! Please explain and help. Thank you so much. (link)
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hey ok the thing is that eating breakfast doesnt necessarily make you loose weight but it helps because it jump starts your metabolism, allowing you to loose weight. Make your breakfast healthy and nutritious, try toast with organic penut butter on it (organic has no trans fats) good luck
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can anyone name me some foods that have protein but arn't really fatning. thanks!
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Nuts, Grilled Chicken, Eggs, and thats about it, oh and peanut butter. BTW penut butter is not fatning unless you buy the kind that has saturated fat in it! try organic it tastes better and is really good for you! And penuts arent fatning either unless you buy them with lots of salt and flavors on them!
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hey everyone. Ok, my friends and I are all having a hard time telling if the guys we are into like us back. The two guys are a lil shy but not totally and sending mixed messages. can anyone give me some advice? Thanks a bundle! Luv Megz2009 (link)
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Well some signs are elongated eye contact, frequent glances (with smiles), smiling, body contact, if during the conversation he tilts his head slighty to one side (this shows hes listening to your every word). Good luck and keep in mind guys are confusing so it can get confusing! hope i helped!
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tomorrow my friends during 13, and she has nothing to do, at all.
Im going to call her and stuff, but ill be busy and so will all our other friends, so shes not having a part plus she told me that she didnt feel like having one anyways. she is getting presents but there coming after her bday, like during the week. And she may or may not be going out for dinner, she doesnt really care..
any suggestions of what she can do ALONE?
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If i were her i'd rent like 7 movies and vegg out all day! Its fun, and relaxing. Plus if she gets bored she can read a book! tell your friend to have a happy b-day!
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actually we broke up lyk 4 times! and i know i shouldn't go back out with him! but idk what to do!! and everytime i try and flirt with other guys he gets mad! cuz he's not ready for me to move on but he said he dont wana see me with another guy! (link)
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ok, well then give him the cold shoulder, show him you mean business! Dont just let him stop you, flirt with other guys and when he gets mad tell him that you can do whatever you want because he doesnt own you, your not his girlfriend, and he cannot tell you what to do unless he wants to be in that position again. This will throw him off and hopefully he'll realize that he does want to be in that position! But I think that you shouldnt go back to him, its obviously an unhealthy relationship, if you want to shock him more when he wants you back tell him hell no! Tell him that you arent his backup plan if his other relationships dont workout! good luck and love hurts, dont go back to him because hes safe go out and get somebody new who knows how to treat you! u can email me anytime if you need more advice on this or any other subject, im always happy to help! My email is greenbluebabe123@yahoo.com or you can im at greeneyedgirl9o! (btw dont b a pushover, im one too, but not in love, its too risky)
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okay my boyfriend (we were dating for 6 months) and he broke up with me saturday! well he already has another girlfriend! and i want him back because i am sick of crying every night and i miss him! how do i get him back he already misses me he said but he said that he likes the other girl too! and so i want ihm to break up with his girlfriend now and go back out with me how do i make him realize he should break up with her for me? and how do i make him realize how much he misses me!? (link)
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Umm thats hard. I dont think its the smartest thing for you to go back out with a guy who broke your heart that easily! But if you want him back make him jealious, try to show him that hes not worth it. Dont beg or plead, date around and rub it in his face that your happy without it! good luck and just to tell you if he did it once theres a good chance he'll do it again!
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Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl. I have a best friend named Dylan. We have been close for three years. I like him alot, but he doesn't feel the same way. I am really miserable and depressed, but I want him to be happy. What should I do? Should I move on and stay friends?
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I went through the same thing except kinda worse because Ive known him since i was 3, and he liked my identical twin and not me. Were still bestfreinds though. I think that its better to stay friends, it hurts alot, i know but your feelings will fade, you will proboly always have a thing for him but it wont be as strong. When your older and still best friends, that would be the better time to go out and tell him how you feel. Because when your older,your both more mature and it will last longer. Just remember that its hard to go back to friends after dating, so be careful. Hopefully if your great friends, you will stay freinds even afer all this. Good luck! and im sorry that it has to be this way, friends make the best boyfriends but its hard to stay friends if it ends.
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okay so we are from new york state, and my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and he just found out that his grandpa was supposed to die within a week liek a week ago he found that out.. and his parents are down with his grandpa right now and he just found out he has to fly down to florida in 3 hours bc he had just passed away. I really need help on how to try to help him and liek what to say to him besdies im sorry and i love you. i feel so bad and hes so upset about it and im just really sad i cant be there to cofort him bc he has to go down to florida. HELLPP and maybe you can think of somethign i can do for him when he gets back (he leaves today saturday, and comes back tuesday) (link)
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Im sorry, theres not much you can do. Just hug him and hold him, comfort him. Let him know that your here for him. Just love him thats the only thing you can do. Its like on real world with Danny and Melenie, his mom died and she just loved him and held him while he cried. I'm sorry about the loss and that there isnt really mcuh you can do. And good luck!
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