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hey, my boyfriend and i just started going out last sunday (of this week). he tells me he loves me and tells my friends that he does and that hes crazy about me.
im not crazy about him, lately ive been getting mixed feelings about him. i dont know what to do about it either.
i dont know why im not crazy about him. whats wrong with me? has this happened to you? what should i do?
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well, men tend to have with quick and one track feelings were they believe that "she's the one or love lasts forver" like every other lie starts. it's probably that you may get the feeling that maybe not having a boyfriends not up you're ally. I've never had a girlfriend but i've heard from a lot of people and talked to alot of people about this type of thing. My guess would be is to just focus up on school and stuff. i know people around you seem to be all lovey dovy, but be reminded. That in the next gen they'll be married and probably get sick of eachother for the things they used to like about eachother.
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I know exactly what your talking about, the same thing happened to me. Just relax though because i told the guy that i wasnt comfortable telling him i loved him when i just liked him alot. You need to sit him down and tell him that you dont love him and that its crazy of him to think he loves you when you just started going out. If he truly loves you, or at least cares a lot about you, then he'll understand and wont care as long as you still like him ... well thats what happened to me. Just think about whether you like him, decide, if you do then tell him what i told you, and if you decide you dont then break it off. good luck!
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Ahh.. it's totally okay. You see, he probably wants to make you feel loved because you obviously deserve it. He's proud to say that you are his. Now, feeling a little unsure it common. He's completely overreacting, after all, how well does he even know you? Boys often times misuse, "I love you," because they don't know how deep that is.
This has happened to me plenty of times. When he says "I love you," just reply with an, "Aww.. you're so cute," instead of lieing to him and responding with an, "I love you too." The thing is, you can be honest without being mean. That's the trick.
It's happened to me tons of times before. Just don't immediately turn away from him, he really really likes you. Try to learn to love him as well. If you can't, it's alright to break up with him. It's better to speak the truth than live a lie.
Hope this helped <3
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Dont worry hunni, theres nothing wrong with you. Your just not as compatible as you thought you were. This happened to me. Before we went out I really fancied him, but as soon as we got together, it was like the thrill of the chase was gone and there was no excitement left. He really liked me but I found myself getting annoyed at his constant I love yous. I was like "Wait till you actually mean it". I ended up dumping him after only two weeks, a decision i regret now.
What I reccommend you do is give him a chance. Give him one more week, try to get closer to him and see if you can relight that spark that made you say yes when he asked you out. If you still feel as you do now by the end of the week, dump him. Its not fair on either of you to keep it going if your hearts not completely in it. It would be for the best, for both of you.
Good luck hunni, dont do something you'll regret
Sapphire Lily xxx
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