John has known ive liked him since about october, durin football season i wore his jersey to the games, we havent really hungout and stuff but i dont know theres something about him. he is now in my gym class the last semester and lately he has been acting weird, flirting alot. and i used to just throw myself out to him but now i want to sort of play hard to get while flirtin at the same time.. what can i do? i think he has some thing for me even know i know he probably wont admit it ( its not really anything personal towards me though, its just how he is) i see him in school sometimes, hes in my 1st period spanish class and we dont really talk(hes on the other side) and hes in my gym class .. i want to attract him more and i might ask him to this party tomorrow me and my friend dave are having.. what is some cute things to do in gym? or body language things?
Ivy921 answered Thursday February 9 2006, 8:08 pm: well definitely invite him to your party. I'm sure that he would be psyched about that. I'm not so sure about body language in gym class. It could kind of back-fire. Gym is so awkward. I think first period class could be a good thing. Smile a bit at him, ask him quietly how his weekend was. If he's kind of shy, coming on strong could be a turn off, actually with most guys coming on too strong is a turn off. Just be yourself and talk to him, find out more about him and be nice. Playing games is so lame, if he is going to like you, shouldn't he know the real you. The big test will be if he comes to your party this weekend. look super cute and feel free to flirt at a party, thats a different story.
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greeneyedgirl9o answered Thursday February 9 2006, 7:37 pm: ok well it does seem he likes you, so some things you can do to play "hard to get" is act as if hes not your main interest. Flirt with him but dont throw yourself out there, you know just act like its a game that doesnt matter who wins. But dont over do it because he may think you dont like him. Also just act very sweet and innocent, try smiling sweetly, you know playful flirting that isnt trashy or slutty because guys may like to flirt with that but dont want to date that. good luck and i hoped i helped, but i dont think im very good at playing hard to get, i usually go for the sweet friend who happens to flirt. lol [ greeneyedgirl9o's advice column | Ask greeneyedgirl9o A Question ]
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