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long relationship
so im in a really long relationship with my 16 year old boyfriend. im 17. weve been together about a year and a half. yes i love him, if i didnt then i wouldnt be with him. we fight over EVERYTHING! we cant joke about ANYTHING nemore. he just frustrates me SO QUICKLY! ive tried breaking up with ihm 6 times but it never works because i love him. how do i handle this? how do i make him not blame me? how do i not fight? how do i not get frustrated? thank you.
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I think that you can salvage your relationship by finding the route to the problems, when did the fighting become more frequent, why do you think that you fight? Just sit down and tell him how you feel, tell him you love him but cant stand the way hes been acting and that if he doesnt try to help and fix whatever went wrong then you'll have to break up. And obviously you dont want to since you love him but if its meant to be then hopefully when he gets his act together then you can get back together. Plus, if hes smart the threat of breaking up will make him realize how much your worth to him and he'll shape up. good luck
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"how do i handle this? how do i make him not blame me? how do i not fight? how do i not get frustrated?"
Counseling. Couples counseling. No question.
With rocky relationships like this one the outlook isn't good. I honestly think that couples counseling NOW is the only way you two will have a real chance to make it work. Because believe me, relationships with a lot of fighting don't spontaneously improve all by themselves.
It takes work. But if you both WANT the relationship to work, I think - with help - that it will.
Good luck!
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