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I love helping others. I may be young & to be honest I have NOT experienced everything there is to experience, but nonetheless I am a good listener. I am creative & intelligent, so I can hopefully give you some helpful advice. =]
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my friend and i are going to cheer camp next week and we have this thing where we decorate the room we're in and u can get prizes. well for our room we choose the theme "an evening under the stars", like its gonna be a kinda whimsical romantic theme like with glow in the dark stars on the cieling and white christmas lights, but we dont know what else to have in our room that fits but isnt too expensive
at most party stores (party city, i party) you can find star decorations to hang made from card board in all different colors!
hey im looking for school clothes to get on the internet for when school starts again. I already looked at a lot of websites and i know a lot of what i want to get. but i still want to know more places so i can look more on the internet..
like these places (i've looked at all these):
hollister
abercrombie
forever 21
bebe
guess
ae
aeropostale
anchor blue
pac sun
does anybody know other stores like that? preppy clothes, pretty much. but not too expensive, because i dont have a lot of money at all. and for most of those stores listed above id just look at the sale items.
please help!
♥ nicole
http://wetseal.com
http://www.delias.com
Ok my mom and dad are split and I see my dad every other weekend. I have a computer in my room at my father's place and from what I know no one but me uses it well I went looking in the address bar and found a porn site listed and I did not go on to one and I'm afraid if my father goes on my computer he will find it and think it was me! What do I do! please help!
Okay not to upset you or anything, but if your dad's the only other one in the house, then he was obviously the one who went to the site! Now if you still want to get rid of it at least from plain view, click "history", right click the link, and press delete.
So, today, at the camp I work at, I handed out business cards to some moms and one called me to babysit for a 9 yer old girl, 7 year old girl, and 6 year old boy. I have accepted the job at 8 dollars per hour for 4 hours. How can I keep the kids busy. I don't want to color or watch TV, and since the boy is there, I don't know what to do...
Okay first of all, do not play hide & seek! I use to do that, I alomst lost a kid! It's dangerous.
Now I babysat tonight & we made these animals out of beads...there are boyish designs too! http://www.mailorder-beads.co.uk/images/beadie-buddies.jpg
If that's not a hit, you could play charades...kids love that! You could each write down 10 things & put them in a bowl or hat & take turns choosing!
You can also play school...incorporate gyme with a bouncy ball, art class, fake math/spelling quizzes, and of course make their dessert "snack time!"
Hope this gave you some ideas!
me and my boyfirend..are very active if you know what i mean and want to know some sexy position to do .. beside doggy and etc.. how shoudl we do it if we tried it wiht a nother girl
ANOTHER GIRL? girl, rethink your life...some boyfriend you have.
What does it mean if your period blood is brown??
I am almost positive this is normal! Usually your period will become darker or even brown towards the end of it. However, if you are still unsure I would consult your mother or a doctor.
i have to pick between two things i reslly love a dog or a laptop what should i choose?
I don't mean to sound rude, but if you really have to stop and think about which you would prefer bewtween a laptop & a dog, it is obvious that you are not 100% interested int he dog. If you get a dog, you need to care for it. If you are not so sure, then there is no way you should take another animals life into your hands. Go for the laptop, you are obviously not ready for a dog.
I've been looking all day online for a Chihuaua breeder around the Dallas/Fort Worth area. I can't find a good site. If you know any, I'd appreciate it if you shared it with me! =)
this site helped me find my cousins their dog! http://www.breeders.net/ just click onFind Dog Breeders, and enter yur information!
Have fun with the puppies!
Okay so I am inlove with this guy at my school. So much so that it hurts. He is a pretty shy mexican boy. He has been a friend of mine for about 4-5 months, but I only realized about two and a half months ago that I like him as more than just a friend, and ever since I have been falling more and more inlove with him. He and everyone at the school knows I like him. His brother is not at all shy and calls me future sister-inlaw and when other guys are messing around with me he tells them to leave me alone because I am his brothers lady, ect. Most of the mexican girls at my school don't want him to be with me cuz i am white or whatever, neways, at lunch and stuff he walks by me slowly by himself because he knows I will follow him and we talk but never about us in that way. I have two classes with him and one i sit right next to him and we laugh and talk like always have. But still never talk about us. It hurts so much seeing him there right in my grasp but I can't touch him. Loving him but not being able to tell him directly. Wanting him but not having him. I wish he wasn't so shy. All my friends say to make the first move and ask him out, but I dont want to be to eager. I have called him and we talk but my bestfriend was on the line too.(we are all pretty good friends) But I am too shy to call again. I am so confused and sometimes I think to myself what are you doing even trying it will never work, but then I think of how much worse it will hurt if I don't try. I am a very pretty girl and have a lot of friends and all so it isn't like I am a nerd and cant have him. There has never been someone I wanted and couldn't have which makes it even more painful cuz this hasn't happened before. Do you think he likes me and what should I do? I am going to see him tomarrow for the first time in like 4 days. Please tell me what you think I should do. Sorry it was so long
~!^Nat^!~
Additional info;
Oh yea he has a jealous mexican ex-girl friend but it is okay if she messes with me i will kick her ass. she sometimes gives me dirty looks and I give them back and yell what the f**k you looking at you dumb bitch and she gets scared and she should be. I don't take stuff from people no matter how big they are!.
hey nat! alright first of all, because you said you & this boy never talk about your relationship, i think that is what you need to do first. i know it sounds scary...believe me i know how you feel, but if it means that much to you, then i think you should bring it up. maybe just say something like:
"hey, we have known each other for a while now, & i really like being your friend, but do you ever think of us as anything more then just friends?"
or say
"i wanted to let you know that i really like you alot...i am curious to know your feelings about us."
becasue he is shy, you probably do need to take the first step. i am not promising anything (i wish i could!!) but you will never know how he feels if you don't ask!
now once you both get your feelings out in the open, things will probably seem alot clearer!
if you need any advice after you take the first step, let me know! oh and please let me know how it works out between you two, becasue i would love to give you more/different advice!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
oh and one more thing, you might not want to yell at his ex...i know it is so tempting, but when you do that you just lower yourself down to her level. show her that you don't care what she thinks by simply ignoring her, or talking nicely with her...this is hard but it is the right thing to do.
I REALLY HOPE EVERYTHING BETWEEN YOU AND THIS BOY WORKS OUT!!!!!!!
16/f
I'm extremely shy, and I've never had a boyfriend, or a kiss. I want a boyfriend.. should I continue to be shy, do guys think it's cute? Or should I push myself to be more outgoing.. but idk how? I try to be myself, but I get so insecure, I always think people are judging me. I've had a few boys ask me out and everything.. but they were all losers, not to be mean or anything. So it's not like i've never had a chance of having a boyfriend. How do I get a decent guy to notice me?
Dear Shy,
there is nothing wrong with being shy. however, maybe you try & talk to the guys you like, even if you don't feel completely confident. maybe even just ask them for a homework assignment, or how to do a math problem. guys probably don't mind you being shy, you just have to show them you are outgoing enough to at least have a conversation with them!
good luck!
I was wondering where can you by those one things that suck your tummy in... like make it look alot smaller and flat
go to one of these sites:
http://www.mytights.com/mytights/browse/type/Control.html
http://www.alexblake.com/control-top-style.html
http://www.barenecessities.com/product.asp?pf_id=CalvinKleinHosiery720
Or go to a store like Marshalls or TJMaxx, and look at their stocking isle, they normally have control tops (stockings that suck in your tummy).
Hope This Helped!
as stupid as it sounds, i don't care! i just need help! im 13 and have been going through puberty SLOWLY. its so annoying, but my cousin is a bit older than me and is telling me when your breasts grow while your going through puberty-they hurt! and now im noticing it! my right breast is starting to hurt and grow a little more. but my left breast isn't doing anything! im getting worried that ill look like a freak because my right breast will grow faster and not gradually with the right one! i don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about it... is this normal???
-issues
Hey, I will be breif since your question has already been answered.
Yes, what you are experiencing is completely normal! Almost every women will discover themselves at one time or another.
Now you can find this info, and so much more about everything you want to know (form puberty, to periods, to nutrition, to all other body issues) in a book called
THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU
The Body Book For Girls
This book is by Valorie Lee Schaefer, from the American Girl Library.
You can probably find it at any big bookstore like Borders or Barnes and Noble, or you can look online.
It has tons of info about eveything you probably need to know!
I hope it helps you!!
ok, so im writing a story and i think its pretty good so far!!! i was wondering that if i threw in something where someone got raped it would ruin the story...(i wouldn't describe it i would just mention it)
Well because I do not know what your story is about, I can not tell you if it will "ruin" the story. However, I must remind you many great authors write books on all differnet subjects, that may not be happy or nice to talk about, but they make the book realistic. If you think rape is what the story needs, go for it!! Remember, this is YOUR book, so you get to make that description.
Is it true that chewing bubble-gum will help your ears to pop?
This is true, however I have found an even more effective way (like if you need to on a plane).
First, pinch your nose together. Then, as you are still pinching your nose, blow through it. (as if you were going to blow your nose) & make sure you are pinching tight!
I hope this works for you!
I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boyz like me. My friend, Zoe, is beautiful, gets all the boyz, all the girlz wanna be her friend, and she gets like an I-POD and an electric gutair and stuff. But, anyway, I think I am nice, cool, quiet, all my friends even say so, so I just dont understand why no boyz like me. I think its just becuz I wear glasses and that hurts. What can I do to get a boy to like me?
I am 13 years old.
Well first of all, I am sure you look awesome with or without your glasses. However, if you truly believe the reason no guys like you is becasue of them, you always have the option of contacts!
Now, let's be realistic: There are many people who have boyfriends on this earth who wear glasses. Even celeberties such as Britney Spears, Courteney Cox Arquette, Jennifer Aniston, and Julia Roberts, wear glasses, and look how successful they are in general!
Now if you are really concerned with being beautiful, try giving yourself a new look! Try changing things such as
*Your Clothes
*Your Hair
*Your Makeup
but remeber, do these things for you, not just for pleasing others!
Now about having an Ipod and having a guitar:
Many people have Ipods...but TONS do not. So if you really want one save up! (there are also ipod minis, which are less expensive).
If you want to play guitar, go to your local music store and ask about lessons!
Now I can't exactly tell you how to get a boy to like you, but what I can say is be yourself.
*Strike up a convo with him (ask about homework, classes, a new movie thats out, a sport he plays)
*Smile at him
*If you are confident enough, ask him to hang out!
GOOD LUCK!!
okay well i weigh 100 pounds and im in the 10th grade. im 15 years old and 5'4. Does anybody know of anyway to gain weight? ive already started on peanut butter and milk... like protien and clacium but i dunno wat else to do... should i just not try to gain weight? or should i... and if so what should i eat/do?
Well first of all, muscle weighs more than fat, so don't try over eating...you need to work those muscles!!
Secondly, you do need to eat alot, but it should still be healthy food (well obviously some sweets are okay)!!
Here are some other tips from a weight website:
1) Count how many calories you eat in a normal day. Don't change anything, just eat like you normally would and count how many calories you consumed. This is an extremely important step, so try to be as exact as possible. Also, weigh yourself.
2) Starting the day after you counted calories, eat 500 calories MORE then you normally do. So, lets pretend that the day you counted calories you counted 2000. For the rest of the week, you would now eat 2500 calories a day. Instead of eating 3 big meals a day or eating all day all the time, spread those calories out over 5-6 smaller meals. Eat one meal every 2 and a half to 3 hours. To get big, you have to eat big! Remember that.
3) Weightlifting! Get in the gym and lift! This is another important step to how to gain weight, so make sure you are doing it correctly.
4) At the end of that week, weigh yourself. You'll notice your gaining just after one week! Now, don't expect to see a 10lb increase. Gaining anymore then 1 or 2 pounds a week is unhealthy and means your putting on way to much fat. So look for 1 or 2 pound gains at the end of the week. Don't sound like much? You can be gaining 5-8 pounds a month!
5) Heres an important one. At some point, you will stop seeing weight gain. At this point, you will have to eat even more. So, when you stop gaining for at least 2 weeks, it means it is time to start eating an extra 250 calories a day. Every time you see you haven't gained weight for at least 2 weeks, add an extra 250 calories.
Hi ive been finding it really hard to sleep for the last few days, can anyone give me some advice on how i might be able to get a few hours at least of sleep thank you..
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This use to happen to me as well, so I know just how you feel. I don't know if they will work, but try these few tips:
1)Go to sleep at the same time each night. Your body will eventually recognize this pattern, probably making it easier to fall asleep.
2)Avoid caffeine for at least 8 hours before you go to bed.
3)Do not watch tv or go on the computer right before you go to sleep, becasue they cause brain stimulation.
4)Read in bed until you feel sleepy.
5)Have a little snack, such as (this may sound funny) warm milk or turkey (they have natural sleep inducers called L-tryptophan).
6)Don't exercise right before bed, the morning is a better time.
7)Avoid emotional upset or stressful situations prior to bedtime, or you will think about them and not be able to fall asleep.
Sweet Dreams!
My boyfriend is at his dads for spring break and his dad lives 3 hrs away from here. I am finding it really hard to get him off my mind. I just lay around thinking of him and waiting for him to call me. But he only calls me late so he wont get in trouble. What can i do to pass the time and get him off my mind?
1)Read a book
2)Go Shopping
3)Workout
4)Go to www.bored.com
5)Hang out with other friends
If you need specific books, stores, or workoutts, just let me know!
ok...all my friends have their boyfriends and all this stuff and they always want 2 do something with them and it makes me really upset to see them all have someone they like except me. Everytime they ask me to do something with all of them i will say mmm.... im not sure! and they will get mad at me...
how can i tell them so they wont get mad at me??
Well if you don't feel like telling your friends the exact truth (that you feel left out), try asking one of them to ask their boyfriend if he has anymore friends he could bring along to be with you! That would not leave you singled out, and you can still go out with your friends and have a great time!
Hope This Works!
(if u need tips on how to consult your friend about the truth or about the boy for you, let me know!)
i go to this really preppy biotchy school in dc (all girls, private, kiss kiss) but anyway, i used ta be a really sweet person and like really focused and dedicated in life, but my school has really changed me...i find that i am really judgemental of people in a bad way...and i spend way too much time deciding what to wear and i do alot of trashy stuff with guys...what should i do?
First of all, I want to compliment you for recognizing your problem, not many people would admitt to changing (especially in a bad way) as you did.
Now in order to be the sweet girl you use to be, why don't you try thinking about things for alittle while before you rush to make a judgement. It could also help if you spent a little time away from the girls at your school, by joining an after school activity that is part of your town, not part of your school. This could be anythhing from sports teams, dance, theatre, or art classes (what ever you enjoy doing). Hopefully you can meet some other people who are like the kind of person you want to be.
It may also help if you take a minute to think about what you are about to do with a guy, and maybe find some guys to hang out with that like you for you and don't just want to do "trashy things" with you!
good luck!