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Hey everyone. My name is Anastasia, and I love to give advice and help others. I have experienced alot, and can understand most things people go through, so feel free to ask any quetions.
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its a long story but my bf posted a question on here & i answered it & i found out it was his question, and it wasnt bad bad but it really upset me & ive been crying & i cant talk to him yet & i juss need help on what to do in the mean time, it should be an hr er so so if anyone can help me please i juss need something to do to keep my mind off of it.

thanks (link)
umm...well i think you should talk to him when your ready, im sure he didnt mean to hurt you...but untill your ready to keep your mind off it you should do some stuff like: sports, hangout with friends, internet, games, and i guess if you like shopping...
ANK


well i started writing poems and songs about sucide and dieing and cutting and popping pills! im sucidal?? PLZ HELP!!
(( and plz dont tell me to go see a counslar or therpist because my family doesnt know and i dont want them to find out)) (link)
well, this can get complicated, but if you have any thoughts about it, or you have been verry depressed lately, yah maybe. umm..if you think you are then talk to someone, anyone, your bf/gf, anyone. and if you WANT a caunsular, you can go to the one in school, and for the first few times, i dont think they are required to tell your parents. if you need more help, email me because there are alot of symptoms and stuff. good luck!
ANK


Hi. 15/m. Weekend mornings I try to cook breakfast, and as the title suggests, scrabled eggs. After pouring the contents into the pan, i try to bunch it all up...because lately I've been trying to make an omlette. Do the same rules apply, or should I try to use a lot less cooking oil? Any tips/suggestions? Thanks a lot. (link)
well, i think it woks better if you use no salted butter (salted makes it brown) instead of oil. when you puor the egg in just let it cook then when you see that it is cooked, put the insides in it, give it 30 more seconds of so, and fold it over and put it on the plate.
ANK


i haven't had my period for 2 months and i know i'm pregnant because i'm a virgin. relatives and stuff think that i have a problem with reproductive system or something and wants me to see a gyno, but i really don't want to do that and i'll make that my last resort. they think it's because i always drink cold stuff and don't eat. my weight is the same as before and idk. help? i'm 14/f by the way (link)
your young enough where your period hasnt made an exact pattern yet. you may not get it for a while, then get it, then not. dont worry, its perfactly normal. i know alot of people who have gotten it. trust me, your fine, but next time you talk to your doctor, just let them know, not that its somthing to worry about. if you have any more questions, feel free to ask!
ANK


15/f
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months. 2 out of the 2 months we have been going out he has been grounded.(grades he && he doesnt try to bring them up) i really like him but its not working out what do i do. i like him so much but we only get to see each other at school and i like him so mucb but the fact we never get to see each otehr out side of school is hard what should i do break up? stick with him? or take a break. i dont want things to be awkward between us at school uhh i hate high school
*will rate high (link)
well i dont know...i say give him a week or so then tell him that its hard and see what he says. but...stick with him unless he does somthing you really dont like.
ANK


I just started a new job. The store is new, it's only been open about a week and a half. I've had about 7 shifts so far.

Well I had today(saturday) off. I knew I didnt have to work again until Sunday. The problem was that my boss left a message at 10 in the morning today saying that she needed me to cover someones shift at 5 today. I didnt actually get the message until after 5 pm because my answering maching wasnt working. So by the time I phoned the store the manager said my supervisor was gone for the day. I know that I wasnt scheduled to work today but could I get fired for not atleast phoning her? I talked to my friends and they told me I am worried for nothing and that I am allowed to have a life, but I just wanted to check here first. (link)
well, the only way you would get fired is if you have to meanest boss in the world. your fine. just make sure you tell them you didn't get the message until after 5. and besides, even if you did get the message, you woulnd HAVE to come in.
ANK


hey i ham dating this guy i met off the internet. we have been dating for a month and i am starting to get feelings for him. he already told me that he is opening up to me and the more time we spend together, the more he is likeing me even more. well he also said he could see him loveing me soon. we get along so well, i mean it feels like i have met my match but i am not for sure. i wrote him a letter telling him how i felt and i dont know if i should give it to him. so my question is should i give him the note? i feel what my heart feels and i listen to my heart. i havent felt this way since my ex about a year and half ago. i think i am in love again. but should i give him the note? please help decide what to do

Thanks, punkbaby69 (link)
well yah you should...but if you haven't met him you SHOULN'D. if you haven't met him face to face....he could be anyone. if you have met him and stuff...yah tell him. good luck
ANK


Hey, well I'm 14 female and like when ever I see a cute guy I fall for him. Like I like a guy at my school and another one and when I went to some men's college soccer games i like feel madly in love with them but i know I'll never ever be albe to have then and I can't cause that's like a 18 years dif. and yea. So is this normal for me to be falling for like every cute,hott guy i see? Thnaks (link)
yah its normal, just be careful...some 'hot' guys can be the biggest jerks you have ever met...lol
ANK


How can I bulid up my arm strength so I can throw the ball farther? (link)
umm...you could do push-ups, pull-ups, weight lifting, all-arms, and practice throwing the ball more and more.


My dad has blood cancer and has been in the hospital for the past 6 months. His whole family is basically just waiting for him to die so they can get his money. None of them have even visited him in the hospital in the whole 6 months. Actually, his brother did--on his birthday. It's my mom's family that has been there for us and my dad. They don't want anything from my dad.


Everyone has been telling my mom to not even give them the chance at my dad's money if, god forbid, anything should happen to him. But we don't know if there is any legal way we can keep them from getting anything. Does anyone have any knowledge of this or any ideas?
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Well, from what i know, no one has the right to the money except you and your mother, unless she is devorced or your father leaves behind a will saying that the mony goes to so and so. if she is divorced...she may or may not get it..im not sure, it matters where you live. get a lawer, or if you already have one, ask them. if you want me to anser it more, let me know.
ANK


I'm very shy but I want to be more outgoing, i'm popular but I think I would be more popular if I was more outgoing, What should I do? (link)
over time, try to talk more and more. even if its just to your friends at first. the trick is to talk to EVERYONE!! hope i helped
ANK


I was invited over to my friends place one night to play a card game with her and another friend that is married.
We started playing the game and joking around, and then I mentioned that my ex boyfriend was trying to get back together with me.
I was laughing about it because my ex is such a loser. Everyone else was laughing too except for the married guy. When I looked at his face he got this really angry, jealous expression and didnt laugh at all.
Does this mean that he might like me as more than a friend? He's married so I was a little suprised by his reaction.
I rate high, if you answer my question I promise I'll give a 5.
Thankyou (link)
maybe he didnt like the fact that he was trying to get back together with you after dumping you, of he might know him and be mad that your laughing.


16/m. I find that I have much dificulty in telling stories to my friends, like to a group. Even with jokes sometimes. I have no trouble whatsoever with talking and joking around, but when it comes to tell a story, I just can't do it, not even about me. It sounds terrible, I lose their interest too quickly, and they completely miss what I was trying to say. I feel confident about it, but whenever I try nothing comes to mind on what I can do to improve myself. I listen to other people tell stories and jokes all the time, and try to learn from them, but when I apply it to myself, it just doesn't turn out right. I think its leanining more toward a lack of practice. What do you think? Any suggestions on what to do or how to approach this problem? Thanks in advance. (link)
start with one person first and then go to two, then three, ect. i dont know if this would work, but maybe once a week you should write he most interesting thing that happened. writeit exactly how you would say it, and dont edit the writing. i guess you could edit the spelling, but not the content. over time you will get better. just try to do it more often.


Well ive been cruching on this guy for like EVER! well tonight i finally told him. and we didn't get to talk anymore about it b/c someone walkied around the corner. but i just want to know if it was stupid of me to tell him or not? he is like always staring at me and what not, or he was idk if he still is but i need help!
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yah i think you did the right thing. if your old enough, maybe you should talk to him and ask him out. good luck
ANK


Ok I am in High school and I have 3 freakin rumors going around the school about me and my best friend. This girl is telling me that me and my best friend are lesbian lovers, which is so not true, because I am straight, and now I have people talking about me, and also I have another rumor which isn't as bad, but that one is that I am going with this boy, and that I am a slut. Its going around the whole school, and it upsets me, and makes me want to cry. I don't know what I should do. I haven't had these problems, til I met this one girl. (link)
i had somthing like that happen with me too. well one thing you can do is dont talk about it and when someone asks just denie it. if you find out who spread the rumor, talk to them and tell them to stop...if thet will do anything. or you could ask your crush(or someone) out and date them and then that would prove those rumors wrong. but trust me, it will ware off....good luck!
ANK


does anyonw know where i can get punk/pop rock music? like along the lines of fall out boy, the juliana theory, panic! at the disco, etc.?

www.cdzinc.com re-did the site and doesn't have them anymore :(

thanks! (link)
you can go to www.limewire.com and download i frome there, or you can download www.itunes.com, but that costs money. if you have aol and/or yahoo you can use theirs.


I have a really bad reputation for being mean. I can be, but I'm not constantly.

How can I get people to see me differently over a period of time? (link)
well try not to show your anger around people and ry to talk to more people, but when you do, dont be mean. im guessing someone started saying that about you and it went out of control.
ANK


What do i say o a girl that i like but she likes someone else in my school?
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ok, so you like a girl who likes someone else? go up to her and tell her you like her. get into a conversation with her then say "hey, this is kind of strang but, i have a crush on you...do you wan to go out with me?" or if you are too nervous to say it to her face get her screen name or write a note to her. have on of your friends giver her the note and there you go. let me know how it works out!
ANK


My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?

What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?

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Kelsssss
(K2204) (link)
i think its a good idea....try to do other things and hang out with friends and stuff, that might get your mind off it.


In my Math class(7th period;last period), I sit in a table of 5 people(including me). There's only 2 girls (including me..) and 3 guys. I usually talk to the guys. But anyways. In the math classroom the teachers have phones that the school can get it touch with the teachers and stuff since the school is so big. But somehow i got the number and me and then 2 guys just call the phone and let it ring and as soon as he answers, we hang up! Lol =). And this is during class,too.With our cell phones. I know its stupid and immature but its soo funny because our teacher just gets soo mad.
I told my sister this and she started laughing. But then shes saying how i should stop because my number can come in the bill because the school gets a bill and they could call up the number(my number) and if they find out its a student then i could get in trouble. Can i really? And will blocking my number be any different? Those are the only 2 questions i have. So thanks! (link)
wow thats funny. ok well in my school we have phones too, and i dont think they could trace it....but you school may be different. i would stop, but if you want, before you dial the number press *69 then your number will be blocked.




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