my name is elizabeth. i love to have fun. i've experienced a lot for my age. i love too easily. i have goals for myself. i'm an open book so ask anything you'd like.
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ok so in 3rd grade i had a crush on this boy. he was the first boy i ever liked. in 4th grade i found out he liked me too. in 5th grade he asked me out, and we've been going out ever since (over two years - we're going into 8th grade). so basically hes been like a major part of my life for 5 years, and we're like best friends and bf/gf at the same time. i love him more than anything! he really loves me too and he says he hopes we can be together forever.
well we both know that we're probably gonna break up at some point. we've even talked about it, that if we ever break up and go out with other people, maybe we can get back together when we're older and get married and stuff. well who knows if that would happen. you cant tell the future. but right now i just get so scared when i think about us breaking up. being without him would be like having part of my body cut off. i know in my head that i would get over it, but its so scary to think about being without him. its like before you have an big operation, you know that it will eventually heal, but its still scary to think about how much its gonna hurt.
i dont know... i guess im just hoping someone can tell me something that will make me not worry about it, or help me handle it when it happens. :( (link)
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if he has been in your life this long, what makes you think he's going to leave now. like you said, you can't tell the future, so there's nothing saying you're going to break up. you're young. don't worry about the negative things that are going to happen, just live in the moment and have fun.
to answer the other part, if it does happen, which it doesn't sound like it will, but just incase, be sure to have good friends and a whole hell of a lot of chocolate and any other junk food. you'll feel better the next day.
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I have the sweetest boyfriend in the world and I feel really bad because we got in a fight and he's going to be gone all this weekend.. So I wanted to know if any of you have some cute ideas for a gift or something to give to him when he gets back.
thank you :] (link)
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hm, when he gets back, ask him to come to your house, rent his favorite movie, get his favorite food and have a cute little movie night. orrr get his favorite candy, be cheesy and write him a poem, uhmm. make a photo album of you 2 together. things like that.
good luck.
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my "so-called-friend" ignores me when were around other friends and im friends with them too. why is that ? i didnt even do anything to her. and she acts like shes older than me and shes not. she always tries to act like shes popular but shes not. she gets jealous when people talk to me and stuff and tell me im pretty or something. (link)
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she probably ignores you because she's jealous of the attention people give you when all eyes aren't on her. she might just be starving for attention and acts superior to get people to compliement her. talk to her about it, if she freaks out, well she's probably not someone you want to be around all that much.
good luck.
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Okay, so I asked a question revolving around this, earlier, but I don't think I explained it very clearly, or may not have provided enough information.
I'm warning you, this will be long; but I'll rate high to anyone who will sit and read, and help me out, with a straight-forward answer.
So, I'm trying to lose weight this summer. Not even specifically that, more revolving around the fact that I want to look more thin. My first question would be, if I work out, will I look more muscular, or look more toned?
Here is my eating plan:
Eat three meals a day,
Healthy snacks (grain cereals, fruits and veggies-anyone wanna list more?) any time I want, when I'm actually hungry.
Fatty snacks require extra workout, ect-certain amount of curlups for each snack, ect.
Workouts will consist of:
Running on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays for cheering,
Cheerleading practice five days a week, starting in August,
Curlups for snacks
Curlups just, generally every night
Swimming, basically every day. At least 20 minutes at a time.
So, I was wondering if anyone could tell me how well those combinations will work out, and possibly how much weight I'd be able to lose in maybe a month, or over my whole summer break?
Btw, I weigh about 100 pounds, am 14 years old, and am at about five feet tall.
Thanks for any help! (link)
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that sounds really good, and because you have a plan all ready, you'll probably get to where you want to be. the only thing you might want to change is eat 5 or 6 small meals a day. you'll have more energy for excersizing and whatever else you want to do.
good luck (:
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I go to the worst school in the area. The girls are bitchy sluts (I'm not saying that out of spite, what these girls have done...) and the guys are just stupid manwhores.
The school is run down, and because I'm the most real person in that place I get picked on.
I dunno...It doesn't really hurt me what they say, but no one seems to care. It sucks how I'm the only kid in my year level getting CONSTANTLY picked on.
I have no friends either, someone spread a rumour about me bitching about them behind their back and without proof or hearing my side of the story ditched me.
Anyways, I seriously can't take this. I can only move schools in 6 months and I can't even take one day. I don't mean to sound like an attention seeker here but I once overdosed on pain killers 'cause of school and I'm scared I might do it again.
Obviously there's nothing I can do to stop it, believe me I've tried.
But my question is: How should I manage 6 months of school? If I can find a way to manage it, even slightly it will help. (link)
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that's terrible. i give you a hell of a lot of credit for staying true to who you are. anyway, you really can't listen to what people are saying to you. you know you're better than that, and to be honest, they probably pick on you because they know it too. keep a journal just to get things out of your head and then after the 6 months is over you can burn it or rip it up and discard that part of your life. you've put up with it this long, you've got to be strong enough for 6 more months.
best wishes, and good luck (:
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ok...well I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months and I love him very much and he loves me. The only problem is he wants to have sex and I don't know. I am only 17 (will be 18 in December) and he just turned 19.! There is a part of me that wants to but another part of me that doesn't cause I kinda want to wait till marrage and I don't want to take a chance of becoming pregent. I thinks it more the pregent part. What should I do? (link)
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if you're not completely sure, then don't do it. it's good that you're thinking ahead to what the consequences could be, but it also shows you're concerned. if you're not ready, he should understand, if not, you don't need him.
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this guy completely broke my heart. it was one of those stupid nights where he didn't know what he was doing, he says he regrets it. he knows i can't stand guys that don't say how they feel, and i know if i did date him again, he's probably do the same thing, but everytime he calls, i get butterflies, and everytime he i.m.'s me, i smile, i'm completly head over heels. and i don't know what to do. (link)
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may you should stop talking to him for a week. just not answer calls or I.M.s and try to move on. it's hard, but when a boy treats you like that, you have to make sure you don't fall for the same thing all over again.
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OHHHHH YOU TOUCHED MY TRALALA...MMMMMMM MY DING DING DONG. ARE YOU WEARING A TEENY WEENY STRING BIKINi?!?!? (link)
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hey brian.
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ohkay so my friend kelly just recently introduced me to one of her friends nick. The first time i talked to him i knew their was something about him. he made me smile all the time and we would spend hours on the phone every nite talked about stupid random stuff but i loved every minute of it. so the other nite i was talking to him and hes like hey hold on and he answered the phone and hes like hey ill call you backk. i asked who it was and he said kelly. i knew kelly liked nick so i was like ohh you should call her then ill go, but he was like noo i wanna talk to you. i knew kelly would really want to talk to him so i was like no its fine i have to go ne ways. so today i was online and kelly told me that nick asked her out and she said yes. shes my bestfriend and i really want to be happy for her. i have a boyfriend and i dont want to go out with this nick kid but i loved talking to him. i feel bad not being happy for my friend but i thought that now she was going out with nick i wouldnt be able to talk to him ne more...but i was wrong. he called me and i was really sad and he asked me what was wrong and i was like ohh nothing. but im really depressed because of this and i dont know why..i mean i have a boyfriend that i really like. sooo is it ohkay to talk to nick because he thinks its fine?? do u think it would hurt kelly if i talked to him?? (link)
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it sounds like you might like nick and not really realize it yet? i think you should talk to nick still and see if anything comes out of it. since kelly introduced you to him, she really shouldn't have a problem with you and nick talking as long as you guys don't develop feelings for eachother. as long as nothing's going on you guys can talk all you want. no harm done. (:
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ok so i started a job back in march and met this guy there. The girls who work there would talk about him alot, because almost all of them liked him and he had hooked up with 2 of them and liked another. He sounded like trouble, but he was just so cute i couldn't resist. To get to the point we started hanging out outside of work alot and one day he asked me out we went out for about a month and one day he texts me saying "can we not go out anymore but still be together because i dont have time for a girlfriend and it doesnt feel like were even going out" i was sooo confused because things were fine with us. After our breakup we still hungout and acted like boyfriend and girlfriend just without the title, i guess you could say we were friends with benefits. me thinking that it could lead to us going back out again. well that lasted for another 2 months. So the other day i went into work to get my paycheck and he was working so we were flirting and acting like our normal selves, so when i went to leave i went to give him and kiss (like normal) and he was like "stop your not my girlfriend" so i was like "well you had no problem with it before" he was like "well im a changed man now" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? do you think he likes some other girl and not me anymore? someone help cuz im really upset and i dont know what to do. i want to move on from him but i still like him sooooo much. (link)
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aw sweetie. this guy sounds like a "player." you got mixed in with him and i know how hard it is to control your feelings. take my word for it, move on. he is not worth a second of your time. you want someone who is going to treat you a thousand times better than that. good luck with trying to figure this out. you deserve so much better.
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Hola Isabel! Me llamo Roberto! Anoche tengo sexo con mi perro Jose. Pero, Jose me comio mi peine, y me duele mucho. Habia mucho sangre y ven a la sala de emergencia para saque una venda para mi peine. Es un desastre! Que tu prefieres, una venda, o un yeso. Gracias senorita! (link)
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no comprendo.
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well theres this girl i like alot and i guess she likes me too but when i told her how i feel she said she didnt know if she wants a relationship. what do i do (link)
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give her space. i'm sure she likes you just as much as she says she does. give her time to just think about things and get her feelings straight. try to not pressure her for an answer or anything like that, she'll like you more for it, i promise. be patient, she'll come around.
good luck
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im naturally pretty thin but my hips, butt, and thighs are bigger & not proportioned with my body at all. i want to lose about 5 pounds and just tone up in those areas but dont want to do a lot of running to lose alot of weight or weight in other areas. will squats/lunges/leg lifts be enough? (link)
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if those are your target areas then, yes, enough of those excersizes should get you to where you want to be.
good luck!
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Okay i know this is really a dumb question but what's orgasm? (link)
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The climax of sexual excitement in the male or female. Ejaculation usually accompanies male orgasm. The occurence of female orgasm is more variable dependent upon both physiological and psychological factors.
that's what google says.
pretty much, it's just a sexual climax. feels really good to the body and happens when guys/girls masturbate.
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i would like to hear from girls who have had a friends with benefits relationship with a guy. like how it started, and how it ended up. did you have feelings for the guy beyond friendship? did you end up becoming boyfriend & girlfriend? or did you end up getting hurt or feeling used? do you regret it, or are you glad you did it? basically, do you think its a good idea or not? (link)
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i've been in a "friends with benefits" situation a few times. it was fun in the moment, but in the end, someone got attatched and felt used and hurt. when you're just messing around, you don't realize it at all, but you're waiting for something better, or just something new to come your way. i wouldn't recommend it, but if you're the type that has to learn for themselves [like me] then give it a try. all situations arent' the same.
good luck (:
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HELP!!!! i think im becoming anorexic cauz im about 5ft 5" and only 130lbs and when i look in the mirror i instantly think im fat, and people tell me im not! but i havnt gone completely anorexic cauz i still eat one or two meals a day, so my parents wont suspect ne thing, but ive lost 10lbs in... well a little over a month, and i still think im fat! what should i do?! (link)
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don't worry about the way you look. that's a healthy weight. if you're eating 500 calories or less a day, you're considered to have anorexia nervosa. i good way to maintain your weight is to eat 5 or 6 small meals a day. i'm sure you're beautiful and what people think shouldn't matter.
good luck (:
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Hi my name is Jayson. I recently had sex with my girlfriend, and as she was giving me head, my mom walked into the room, and now it's really awkward. She thinks sex is wrong at my age(I'm 15), but it was my girlfriend who wanted it. How should I get back in touch with my mom?
(btw, you're beautiful) (link)
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hm, i think that the only way to get back in touch with her is just talking to her. as much as you don't want to hear it, even though your girlfriend wanted it, you could have said no. you just have to reassure your mom you're using protection [if you're not, start], and tell her that it's not every girl, just your girlfriend. she should understand because she was your age once. be careful and good luck (:
[and, thanks(:]
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My bf generally rubs my clit to turn me on...But it takes a lot of time...And I never had an orgasm...What is going wrong here...Is he rubbing the wrong place? If so where exactly is the clit...Also, are there any other ways to get an orgasm??? (link)
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if you're ready, i would have him finger you. if it's the first time, make sure he's gentle and his hands are clean.
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I have the best husband in the world i love him so much.....but there is one BIG problem he abuses me....he hits slaps pulls my hair elbows me pushes me....but there is another problem i love him to much to leave him i love him so much so leaving him is not an option....what should i do?
Broken hearted and torn (link)
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you need to get out of your relationship as soon as possible. he isn't the best husband if he is abusing you. if you REALLY don't want to leave him, try talking to him about it and standing up for yourself telling him to stop. if things get worse, or he gets more angry then you need to get out.
good luck, best wishes
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i'm sorry if this is long, but i really, really would appreciate some help because i'm going bananas....
ok, i'm trying to remain calm while writing this because i'm about to scream at the top of my lungs. My boyfriend and I have been together for more than three months. We are very, very close. We talk on the phone every day, and pretty much he is my best friend and I love him so much. But, he can be very forgetful, and I know that he doesn't do it maliciously because his mom and I talk too, and she tells me how forgetful he can be. he does not have a good memory according to his sister, his mother, and his friends. So, pretty much, I believe it if that many people are saying the same thing.
Now, I have to start from my first encounter with a boy to really send this message accross. I was thirteen years old when I had my first "encounter" or first started talking to a boy. I really liked him, and this is such a special time in a girl's life. My mom completely had to take over. I guess me going to an all girls school has something to do with it. But, whenever I went on the computer to talk to him, she would follow me into the room, sit next to me, and bring in the entire family into the room to tell me everything to write to him and when I didn't write what they wanted, they would start screaming at me, doors would slam, and you get the idea. I'm not exaggerating, this is just how it happened. Well, he got away all thanks to her just because she liked his best friend better for him. so keep all this in mind
ok, so my boyfriend the other day forgot our anniversary and I was really, really upset about it. But, he felt so bad and he was even like almost crying. So, I felt kind of bad. But, I forgave him because I remembered that he was forgetfull. But, on Wednesday, his sister, whos visiting from colleage, invited me to go to their beach apartment (we live in miami), and she told me to save the date. But, yesturday he didn't call me to give me the address of the apartment. I don't want to call him anymore, I want him to call me, but what should i do.... i need a really good solution and right now honesty is NOT the best policy. He needs a wake-up call and someone has to call him, preferrably a guy, and tell him that he likes me or something. He needs to feel jealousy, rage, and want to keep me away from them. I just need a plan...... BY TODAY!!
Now, back to my mom. All she does is bother me and tell me that he's cheating on me because he didn't call me for one day, and tell me all this stuff and telling me that these are signs of resentment, and i'm done following her advice!! She ruined everything with my first guy, and she's divorced.... so she thinks she knows everything about men, but not all men are the same, people are very different and show things differently, and I don't want her advice on this. I don't want another episode of last time, so I really need your help..... please and thank you
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alrighty then.. basically, you need to just tell your mom to butt out. it's gonna be hard for her because [im guessing] she doesn't want you to get hurt the way she did. about your boy. all boys are forgetful. it takes a while for them to remember things that are important to you. so right now, i'd say the jealousy thing, not such a good idea. i think YOU need to appraoch him and tell him that it's upsetting you that he doesn't remember. hell, even try buying him a cheap date book so he can write things down and will remember. cheesy, but if you want things done right, you're gonna have to show him how.
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