I didnt exactly have sex withmy boyfrind but we were about to and he only put the head in for about 10 secs then the comdom ripped but he pulled out right away and we didnt do it again afterwards i havnt gotten my period at all this month i was supposed to get it around the 21st this happened the 22nd and no sign of it. I tok a pregnancy test and it said im not pregnant but what if its nto accurate. i have another one and ill wait 7 days to take the test again and if my period doesnt come i want to ask my doctor but i dont want to tell my mom becasue she would jump to conclusions and i know i would never be able to see my bf again
A delay doesnt always mean your pregnant may be its just stress over the possiblitity of being pregnant
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One of my so called best friends
- I dont want to be friends with her anymore.
I'm sick of her always talking as us as a "we" and that "we suck" "we are stupid"
because i dont like downtalking myself.
she can, but not about me.
dont tell me to telll her not to talk bad about herself either becauase this isnt the point.
SHE loves drama and stupid crap like that,
so she will do anythign to cause it.
she plays the victim all the time.
I'm sick of it, how she always thinks shes right.
What do I do?
I say you just try to tell her that you dont wanna be in that stupid crap that she does and that you wanna be your own self and not add you into the we suck situation and if she says she doesnt care what you want shes not a true friend and you should dump her as a friend and as an associate as well
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Last year, this guy and I had something going on. We weren't dating though, but we might as well have been.
We both knew it. No one else did. Anytime anyone would ask who he liked, he'd be like "I don't want to go out with anyone".
It doesn't help that my idiot former-friends would call him and bug him forever. So my former-friends, his friends, the girl, and social standings ruined it.
But (from what I can gather), he was too embarrassed to admit that he liked me, because of my burden-friends (who I'm not longer close with), his popularity, and lack-thereof, and this other girl (all american, blond hair, blue eyes. the type of girls he usually likes. he looks like that as well. I'm black, and pretty much the opposite of that) who was "in his league", who liked him as well. So, he basically ended up going with her.
Yes, that was a sucky thing of him to do, but I don't blame him. Because really, who wants to go out with a loser? And not to mention, his best friend hated me, and vice versa.
Now, we've gotten into high school, and things have changed. He's pretty much faded into obscurity (at least from where I'm standing. No one I know knows him), and his popular, always smiling persona is gone.
On the other hand, now, I'm pretty stable, and in social standings, I'm a little well-known.
So, things between him and the other girl basically blew over. They admitted that they "used" to like each other, but as far as I know, they are finished. She treats him like crap, now.
Every time I see him, he stares at me. Just stares. When I walk, I can feel his eyes following me. I used to be in one of his classes, and he'd try and start conversations with me, but they'd end up going nowhere.
I do still like him, deep down inside. Perhaps because he's the first guy that ever liked me back.
I'm irritated. I'd like to get him out of my head, but I can't. And he's not really helping by staring shamelessly. I haven't actually talked to him in some 6 months, because we no longer have classes.
But, I have no idea what to do. I think he may like me a little bit, too. But things have changed. And I wonder why he's been so sad (since the whole incident last year, he's been down, it seems).
What is wrong with him?
Edit: Today, I was standing near him, for the first time in like 4 months. When he noticed I was (I was doing an errand for my teacher), he proceeded to let his mouth hang open, and stare in shock. Then, he slowly walked by JUST so he'd have more time to stare in shock, and to see what I was doing.
I would talk to him; but say what? What is there to say?
Hey I know he did you wrong but why turn the wheel around and do the same it seems like he wants to hook up with you but first you need to fix the broken friendship between eachother 6 months is a long time since yall talked and I think you should be the mature one to start a conversation be nice dont blow him off like his lat girlfriend did and if you still like him why not talk to him to see if he likes you too..
If he seems always down maybe its because your totally ignoring try to become a friend of his if not his girl because hes only down because he does not have you.
I say give him a chance
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You may find this weird, but I really want to wait till I am married to have sex. Temptation is all around, and its really hard to resist, but i always have. What are some "things" you can do with your boyfriend without actually undergoing sexual intercourse?
you can kiss him or make out but not trying have sex make out just the romatic kiss make out thats the best thing to do and to tell its 1 percent less better then sex but
its sure DAMN GOOD!!
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I'm a 23 year old girl
This is important ,...I love my bf with all my heart but it seems like I completley lost interest in sex .
To be honest I never was interested to have sex with any one ,....I do love him but I just don't want people to get close to me ..I DON'T LIKE THAT.When he is on top of me I get sick and very uncomfortable and sometimes want even to cry ....But I never told him nothing
I hate the fact that I can't satisfy him ,since I always has an excuse or come home very late just to escape from the occassion....
I want to stop feeling this way ,.....The problem is me not him
Tell me what to do ....,
Tell him the truth if he was your love of your life he will understand.If he don't understand why that mean he is proubably useing for sex but hopefully hes not so tell him the truth. thats the best thing to do trust me on this one.
hope i help :}
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ok. i'm studying in an exclusive girls school. and so there's this girl i liked recently. and i havent told a soul. i can control it sometimes. but there's this other girl who likes my crush too. so sometimes, i wished i had someone to confide to. should i tell?
ok the best thing to do is tell the girl you like your real feelings before that other do and ruin your chances with the girl you like make sure you ask her to go out with you after you tell her your reall feelings
hope i help :}
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why do i keep getting bad grades? i used to do so good in school adn now my grades are slowly falling. i got a 74 on my math mitderms.. i cant believe it! its adv math and usually im good at it.. i dont know what went wrong, i thought i'd get a better grade than that. and in science class i know i failed my sci test cuz.. i just didnt finish the test and i studied for a little bit but not that long. ugh.. also there was something on my mind cause i was in a little fight with my friend. its happened before for a math test. i was worreid about something and when i did the test like i thought so much about it that i dont do so well. when i know like all the answers. well for that test atleast. i told my teacher i knew the answers so i corrected it myself and showed him and they were all right. the next math test i took i got a 100 percent. ugh.. how can i stay more on task? i wanna do real well. and its hard to show your parents a good grade. usually im scared so i hold it off till the morning when im about to leave, like right now for school. i had a half day.. i should probably leave soon or i'll miss the bus.. like i usally do. but ive been trying harder so i can stop doing that. we live kinda far from school so its a hassle to drop me there. once my mom got so mad she made me miss school. that kinda sucked. and like sometiems i dont even get my homework done.. i do clubs and stuff so sometimes that takes like 1 hour or 2 off my hw time.. but like i guess its the internet adn tv. sometimes if something goods on or whatever i forget my hw kinda. like im bad on keeping on task and like time can fly by and i wont really notice. how can i help myself? thankyou!
Hey there.
The best way to maintain good grades is to stay focus dont let the little things bother you.
Study everyday and try to get to school on time.
Do your homework everyday, and work out misfits with friends so that wont let you fail a test!!!
Just take notes and preapre for every exam if you wanna keep an a average in every class you have to get a journal or note book and list all the homework and exams for that week in the book.
Than write and take notes to study for the test.
Bring home books and just keep up with your teacher when she is teaching ask questions and dont be affraids to answer them if if you know there wrong..
if you feel your slipping take up a tutor to help you or stay after school and have your teacher futher explain your problems
hope i helped
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ok i'm about 5'3" and i weigh 145 lbs. i really want to loose 30 lbs asap. can anyone help me out about how i should go about loosing this weight? please don't say "eat healthy and exercise and lay off junk food" can you give me examples of some exercises and foods to eat and foods not to eat and how much a day i should eat? i'd really love to hear from the people who lost weight and what worked for them but anyone will do. thanks so much!
Less is more..
Dieting has to be in a "healthy" way because you dont wanna starve yourself and end up looking like Nicole Richie"anerextic"
But I can give you ways of helping you to loose 30 lbs.
You have to run about 3 to 4 miles at least everyday.
If you wanna burn fat and gain muscle you can lift 10 lb weights everyday..
And to stay attive in sports such as track and field...
get an ab cruncher if you wanna loose fat of the stomache
for legs and arms use a tredmill
Cut back on fatty foods such as greasy fried chicken, all fastfood places have lots of caleries cut back on that
and just get lots of protein like a protein shake
This might sound gross but crack open 3 eggs without staring put in cup and drink it down its good for you...
Just take it slow
Dont push your body to the limit
Hope I helped
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Hey. Well, I'm thirteen/female. My problem is that when I get to like someone, I fall for them hard. Which I guess wouldn't be a bad thing, but like I can't stop thinking about them. I know like that's a sign of loving someone, but I feel it for everyone. I guess you could say I love flirting, but if there's one bad thing I'm not it's deffinatly a slut. I was wondering if there is anything I could do to fall a little less hard for people. Thanks anyways, even if you can't answer my question, thanks for reading. ♥.
Hey every girl is like that Im crushin on a dude hard omg I like him alot I cant stop thinkin bout him is so 2 DAMN sexy!!! I swear I fall to hard to you cant stop this from happening because its called love!!!
All I can say is tell this guy how you feel and he might feel the same!!
hope I help
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Hey. Well, I'm thirteen and I'm in 7th grade. I get honors, but I think that might stop this term. See, I used to not love school, but I still didn't mind it,and I always did my homework and got good grades on pretty much everything [I'm only talking about this year, not before then]. But now, as it's into third term, I hate school.I find myself faking sick a lot, even though I've missed what, 11 days so far? I guess my point is, I hate school. I count down the days to the weekends. I don't do my homework and try to find the easy way out of everything. Now I'm really lazy and lie a lot to get out of doing things school related. I can't do this anymore, I need to get through this year. I thought it was because I needed a vacation, but now I've gone through the whole February vacation and I'm still not ready to go back. Please help, I can't do this anymore.
Well you have to focus on getting your grades back up or your gonna fail I hate school to but you dont see me faking out to get out of school just try to make it because school is where you get your education not to meet new people and interact all the time yes you can talk sometimes but mostly your head in them books...
try to make it
hope I help
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i dont know why but i have no friends. seriously, i dont mean that i have a few friends.. i seriously have none, well except on the internet. i dont know why but like everywhere at school nobody likes me. not even the loser kids or the populars. like nobody . i dont know what im doing wrong.. i mean ive only had one school friend and that was four years ago in third grade, and then she had to move to a different state. it sucks.. i dont know what to do.. i mean you just canth ave internet friends. my parents worry about me alot. ive joined clubs and such in school but they treat me the same.. like they dont really like me, really acknoledge me.. and stuff. ive even joined like friendship clubs in school and out of school, even with people i dont know. but like.. its not really the same like that. i dont even really click with the people but who am i kidding at this point i'll take anyone as a friend. i just read in class and etc so that i wont be too loneley and just stand there.. somedays i feel so bad i want to kill myself. what is wrong with me? ive tried getting a new wardrobe, or just being myself.. nothing seems to work. they. just. dont. like. me. am i hopeless? what can i do? i mean like in gym class your internet friends arent gonna be there so you can partner with them and not be the "extra" person that has to join a group with people who'd rather not have you there. -sigh-
I feel so BAD for you..
Not 1 friend I feel your pain...
Try to interact with them try to fit in the crowd... I know its hard but your gonna have to come out of that shell you could make friends if you just connect with them in the right way I mean you dont have to change just try to have another side if that doesn't work just have your mom transfer you because you cant live life without at least 1 friend....
hope i helped
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i know questions like this are not enjoyed.. but hear me out. i would like to find some songs that connect with the way i'm feeling right now. yesterday my boyfriend & i got in the biggest fight we've ever been in (during the past year of being in a relationship). it was bad. we made up & are still dating.. but i'm still hurt by the things he said to me. anything song that would express those emoitions would be great, thanks.
Alecia Keys
Beyonce
Avril Laveigne
Mary J. Blidge
etc...
hope i helped
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i'm going to paris in a month and i would really like some new clothes with some european style. i've been looking in my teen vogue magazine but everything in there is designer and i can't afford that. does anybody have any websites that have good ideas for outfits that look high fashion but are at a reasonable price?
I suggest you going to forever21 or Charloutte Russe they have types of clothes for paris and accesories to match
Hope I helped
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My hair is naturally curly and frizzy. I blow dry and straighten it all the time. I was wondering if there was anyway to achieve nice, soft curls without the pain of a curling iron, or any heating product whatsoever? I don't want to damge my hair anymore if I don't have to. I have tried using a diffuser on my hair, but it turns out even MORE frizzy than before! Any suggestions?
I have the same problem!!
Use herbal essence shampoo
Or pink lotion that makes it look natural curly without the poof
and use hair oils
if this doesnt work you can ask the beauty supply store
hope i helped
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I've been sick for about 5 days....
But I'm getting better...
My question is, what is a good & fast way to recover from:
1.) Lack of energy.
2.) Not being able to fall asleep.
3.) Constricted airways, lungs, cheast, throat, ect.)
If you lack energy drink lots of fluids like orange juice, water, and portein shake..
not being able to sleep I would recommend you taking nitequil it helps my mom sleep when she cant.
constricted airs, lungs, chest, and stroat you can take advil or tylenol that will help a little.
but get plenty of fiber and vitamins because that gives you energy you dont wanna lay in bed all day.
hope i helped
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OKAY. my hair is already wavy.. but i dont like the way it is
like i dont know i want it like flat kinda and wavy. but falt becasue when its really big waves it makes my hair look a whole lot shorter and poofyer.
i want it like i came from the beach!
help!
dont say anything about braids or scrunching because it doesnt work!! any advice
My hair is kinda that way to that is why I straighten not everyday!! Because then you will be damaging your hair try hair oils and conditioners that pervent poof and frizz try herbal essance that is a good shampoo that will make your hair look healthy and natural if you wanna you can use a crimper it makes a wavy natural yet smooth look or you should try straightning or pressing it and see what yah think!!
hope i helped
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well iam 27 years old and i wear teeth braces i want to do face laser hair removal does this affect the braces by any mean????
Um I have braces and I'm 99% sure that it doesn't affect your braces but just to be sure search it on google I dont think it would have any affect at all because its not messing with the wiring and bracets or you can ask your dentist...
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ok,well i just want to loose like 3 pounds-but only in my stomache! how can i do this,any exsersizes (sp sorry) that i could do just for the stomache?! also,what are healthy foods to eat,and how much? also one more thing- will swimming help me loose weight? thanks!
yes swimming help you lose weight but not for your stomache.but to lose weight for your stomache is to do some crunches everyday or you can do some sit ups then later see your body results
hope i help
good luck!!
also,eat healthy
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After my best friend's death her troubled teen daughter came to stay with my family. Of course there were conditions. Job, school (g.e.d.), no drugs, booze. After just 5 weeks she broke all the rules. Got fired from a job that I helped her get etc....THEN she started an affair with my teen age son. Claiming she's "in love", he works and goes to school. He was being rail roaded. She just dug her claws in deeper. It was getting crazy. I had her leave yesterday. She went to a shelter, I feel grief and relief at the same time. Maybe she should have never came. Maybe (somehow) I should've dealt with it. For at least a week I didn't sleep and eat (lost 6 lbs.). My husband is supportive of my decision but my )OLDER son (29), says I was unfair to her. What do you think, please I need advice !!!
i think you could of talk to her and say if you are going to stay with me you need to follow my house rules 1.don't mess with me son 2.find a new job if your going to stay 3.get your life together.That what you should tell her and if she don't obey your house rules make her leave again cause you gave her a second chance
hope i help good luck!!!!!
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Ok so I have rather thin hair, I don't dye it or highlite it. I was wondering if anyone has used something that helps get the frizz away. I am currently using sunsilk anti-frizz shampoo and frizz-ease serum. I recently went to flordia and we went to the beach just to take a walk. Almost instantly from the time I got out of the car, my straight hair (oh yea I straighten it almost everyday) turned curly and frizzy. Anyone with a similar problem? I want to find a solution before summer so I don't walk around a frizzball all the time. Please let me know if you have any solutions.
OMG!! That is the same thing that happends to me when my hair gets wet it get curly and frizziest up. You can get a full relaxer or just ue hair oil everyday and to strengthen it up you can use hebal essance shampoo and grease it will thick it up an look healthy!!
I have rather thin hair to so its good to give you advice hope i helped
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