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falling too hard.
Hey. Well, I'm thirteen/female. My problem is that when I get to like someone, I fall for them hard. Which I guess wouldn't be a bad thing, but like I can't stop thinking about them. I know like that's a sign of loving someone, but I feel it for everyone. I guess you could say I love flirting, but if there's one bad thing I'm not it's deffinatly a slut. I was wondering if there is anything I could do to fall a little less hard for people. Thanks anyways, even if you can't answer my question, thanks for reading. ♥.
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Darling, You may think that you Love these kids, but you dont. its mainly a psychological thing. Hormones. running rabid. Its a phase that will pass.
Just stick it out. Dont do anything rash like making out with everybody you think about. Everybody, whether or not they admit to it, has gone through just this. And if they want to call you a slut for it, just tell'em to go shove it cause they've had the same feelings at one point or another. You might just be a little more upfront about it.
~Webby
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Focus on other things, like school and friends to take your mind off of the boys.
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well let me tell you. if anyone falls hard for guys, i am that person! And honestly there is no easy way of dealing with it. It's not that you are "in the moment" and get caught up in flirting, but you really do like them a lot. its not a deep down love but they obviously start to mean a lot to you. But really i think that's pretty normal for someone your age. I am 20 now and i still have problems falling for guys to quick. But the best thing to do is to just try to see all sides of that person. Don't let all of the good things shine through and be blind to all the bad. Cause once you start noticing that this guy isn't superhuman, and he makes mistakes, it will make it a little harder for you to fall head over heels with him too quick.
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I'm going to be completely honest, trust me when I say this you really aren't falling too hard, you may not want to hear this.
But in the "moment" and times when you are flirting it may seem like you are falling hard and what not but when you honestly think about it and break it down, you really don't have that much feeling for that person,
so basically what i'm saying is keep crushing and try not to get cuaght up in it that much and take things in at little doses and really think about that if you were to strip everything away would he really be there for you?
-irene
-good luck any more questions just holla~
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Hey every girl is like that Im crushin on a dude hard omg I like him alot I cant stop thinkin bout him is so 2 DAMN sexy!!! I swear I fall to hard to you cant stop this from happening because its called love!!!
All I can say is tell this guy how you feel and he might feel the same!!
hope I help
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