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annoying best frined.
One of my so called best friends
- I dont want to be friends with her anymore.
I'm sick of her always talking as us as a "we" and that "we suck" "we are stupid"
because i dont like downtalking myself.
she can, but not about me.
dont tell me to telll her not to talk bad about herself either becauase this isnt the point.
SHE loves drama and stupid crap like that,
so she will do anythign to cause it.
she plays the victim all the time.
I'm sick of it, how she always thinks shes right.
What do I do?
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i used to have a so called best friend like that too. she is OBSESSED with drama! she made up shit about my friends, talked about me, started rumors, everything you can think of.
if the girl you're talking about has done anything similar to that, get the hell away from her. she's one of those people who once she's pissed at you -- she's gonna make your life like hell & make up anything she can to turn people against you.
as a matter of fact .. rather she's done something like that or not, if she loves drama like you say she does -- she'll end up doing that sooner or later. the best way to avoid this, is NEVER tell her anything bad about ANYONE behind their back & never tell ANYONE anything bad about HER behind HER back.
you don't need to be around her. trust me -- and i know from experience -- your life will be a whole lot happier without her, which you've already figured out. don't be rude & randomly call her or go up to her & start cussing her out no matter how badly you think she deserves it.
calmly talk to her about it instead of just ending the friendship right then & there without TRYING to solve the problem. now if you've already tried doing that, you just need to slowly stop hanging out with her & she'll eventually get the hint hopefull & leave you alone.
good luck!
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I can not stand people that live for drama. I know friends that feed on that crap! It sucks having a friend that annoys you constantly but you don't know what to do. I think that the best way to do it, is that the next time she does something that makes you mad, just ignore for a while and she'll wonder why. When she asks just tell her your mad at her and your sick of her doing those things. If you let the fight last long enough then, you won't have to deal with her and you might not have to be friends with her anymore. OR, instead of not being friends with her, she could change. (I know a lot of times thats SO no likely, but, hey, if she really wants to be your friend, she would do it.) But to the point: If she's a horrible friend, and she's just weighing you down, then don't waste your precious time! She doesn't sound like the type that's a good friend, you don't need that. She's not worth your friendship if she doesn't stop doing these things that bother you!
BEST OF LUCK:) hope I helped!
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I say you just try to tell her that you dont wanna be in that stupid crap that she does and that you wanna be your own self and not add you into the we suck situation and if she says she doesnt care what you want shes not a true friend and you should dump her as a friend and as an associate as well
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I know you said not to tell her to stop talking bad about herself, just talk to her and tell her that you don't like it when she talks bad about you.
If you don't want to be friends with someone, you don't have to be. If you decide to not be her friend, give her a chance first, and then if she doesn't stop with her drama, tell her you don't want to be her friend anymore, please let her down nicely.
If a friend ever does crap that you don't like, just talk to them, because sometimes they don't even know that they are doing it.
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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Tell her straight out how you feel. Or you could get in an argument with her on purpose & stop being friends with her that way if you're too scared to let her know the truth.
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