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umm.. i have this friend and she is like my best friend but ever since her and this other girl that she met have became closer friends she has shut me out and i dont know what i should tell her and so i said something to her about it and she told me that she didnt want to tlak to me ne more if you have ne advice that would be helpful plz answer me i will rate everyone that answers my question thanks alot
-DesPErTlY WoRrIEd-
she must not be that good of a friend then! i must admitt ive done it to some of my friends before and theyve done it to me too but maybe you need to just take a breather, theres nothin really you can say to her that shell say what shes doing is stupid, you oculd try to talk to her again, but maybe it is time to just hang out with other friends .. .sorry i cant actully say somthing that would change it
I've been having these dreams that are really weird and I don't understand them. First, last night I dreamt that I was being very intimate with this guy. It wasn't anyone that I know, but this is kinda weird but I dreamt that I was kinda having sex. I've dreamt it before and I just don't understand. Maybe you could help me out? Please..these are really bothering me and I've been having them more often now. Also I dreamt that I was going to marry this one guy that I know and he lives far far away from me. But the thing is I barely know him! So I'm confused. I don't exactly want an answer about that dream just the ones where I'm being very intimate. Thanks for your help!, If you need anymore info, IM me at AnnaxBanana45 or email me AnnaBanana146@aol.com *Love Me*
lol ive had a few of them myself, does anyone really know why we have dreams, some people guess. have you ever had sex before? maybe its your bodys way of telling you it wants to ! lol they guy that you marry, is he hot? maybe youve never thought about him that way but your self conciouse might.
For homecomming I want to be able to actually dance fast. I dance in my room all the time by myself and I think I'm fine...but then I look at other people dancing and I feel dumb! None of my friends can dance either, so do you have any tips or anything??
-Zero
-Thanks!
dance fast as in what? my friend to learn how to grind and all that fun stuff, watched rap videos and some fast ones like that, and tryed to do what the guys in the video did, she downloaded the videos on kazaa and rewatched them, and shes awsome now!or you could invite friends over and learn with them
where could i put my hands when im makeingout?
i really want 2 know please help?
you could put them anywhere,i usally like it when aguy puts his hands on my cheek and i put mine around his neck or waist or on his arms
ok well here it goes: i got dis cuzin hes like a second cuzin i think nd in my opionin hes cute..but is it wrong to think that hes cute jus bcuz his ma family member? some1 helpppp
2nd cousins arent really relitives, i think its legal to marry him as long as hes not blood, but thats just in my state, i guess its better then going out with a 1rst cousin
hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend?
alright now ive heard it, dont let her get away with that!! girls are supposed to do that to guys, they always cringe when you mention period so theyll do anything(thats always fun) but your just her friend, you shouldnt have to do anything, it doesnt kill you to do things yourself while you have cramps!
omfg...im such a dumbass...i acidentily deleted all the names on my buddy list...is there any way i can get them back cuz i had like 200 and can only remember like 5...!!!!please say yes!!!!!!
did you ever save your buddy list? if you go to My aim ; load buddy list, you might have saved it, if not, did you have a subprofile? cuz they show you who viewd it and you can take names off of that, ive done it before it sucks. if not your kinda stuck, sorry
my mom wants to go to the beach with her bff and her neice but i just got something aka my ****** and i don't want to go swimmming and if i fall asleep in the sun im gunna get burnt..how do i get out of going?
if your afraid of going swimming ask your mom if she can get you tampons, you can go swimming with them, and wear sunscreen, but if you just dont wanna go tell her, shes a lady im sure sshed understand =)
My boyfriend has been smoking pot for a few years now.. and we just hooked up a lil over a month ago. I have already talked to him about it.. and he lied to me and said he quit. Then one night I was with him and he was hittin pot again.
Is there any way I can talk to him or convince him to quit or even lay off of it a lil bit without him getting mad at me?
ive been with a pot head before, sorry to say lol, if hes really hooked, theres a great possiblity that if you tryed to talk to him he might get pissed. is there any reason why he might do it? i mean some ppl do it cuz they need to and others because there unhappy ya know. if your willing to risk a fight with him, talk to him about it and just ask why he cant maybe just lay off around you at least, if not im afraid you might have to live with it, like i did
My sister is a lesbian, and I am good friends with her girlfriend. When I am introducing the two of them to other people I always find myself saying "this is my sister and her friend."
I know I should say girlfriend, but I never can get it out.
Is it alright if I just say friend to avoid akward moments and let coversations to contiune to flow, or do you think it is affending to my sister and her girlfriend?
talk to your sister, if shes out of the closet, then she must be able to at least talk to you about it, explain how you dont want to ofend her but youd rather say her and her friend, some people accept things like that, others doont mind, but its still hard eithor way, i wouldnt blame you because its not my sister, but iwould feel just as weird if that ws my brother instead
My ex and I were friends before we got together in March. We talked a lot and got along great but I never really found myself interested in him until one night when we were flirting over AIM and he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend.
Anyways...As we went on, he seemed less and less interested in me until he, finally, broke up with me. It wouldn't have been that bad had I not fallen in love with him. And he had, in turn, told me that he loved me. He would send me emails signed 'Forever Yours' and 'Love You Always'. And his dumping me made me feel gullible.
After he dumped me, I stopped talking to him. Recently, he told me he wanted to be friends. And he also told me that he's loved me ever since he broke up with me but that he didn't want to hurt our friendship. But a friend told me that he LIKED me but didn't want a RELATIONSHIP with me.
I have a boyfriend that I'm happy with but I find myself still having feelings for my ex. Who doesn't want anything. What do I do?
i, myself, seem to always feel more for bf's and the men who hurt me, but when i break up with them it doesnt effect me. if hes hurt you once before, hell probably do it again, and if your happy with the man now that dont hurt him at least. this X must have not even been that good of a guy if he broke up with you, you gotta think of it like that, and thoses feelings, are there probably because he hurt you, and because you werent able to break up with him on your terms
Hey everyone, I need some advice on a situation I'm in. So me and this kid went out on and off for about a year and I was madly in love with him. I had never loved a boy that much in my entire life. So after the last time we broke it off, I was obviously devistated. I turned to one of my best friends to help me through it, and for some reason she wasn't very supportive of the whole deal. A few days later the two of them were all over each other and hanging out on a regular basis. It killed me to see them together. So I pulled my friend aside and had a long talk with her about it. She promised me on our friendship that she would never ever go out with him, because she knew how much I loved him. I was so relieved, but not convinced. By the end of that month they were going out. I was rippin mad at my so-called "friend" that I wouldn't talk to her or look at her for days. We finally talked about it and she apologized, but it didn't change my feelings. Now, about 2 months later, they have broken up, but I still have so much hate for her. I consider a friend someone who I can trust, and I have lost all of mine for her. I don't even feel the need to talk to her anymore ever again because of what she did to me. Am I overreacting? I'm not gonna lie about how I feel, but I don't think I should be friends with a lying bitch. Should I let this ruin our friendship? Or was it never even there ..thankss
no friend would have let herself gotten that attached to someone that you were in love with, and even after you talked to her twice. me myself, would probably not talk to her for a long time, since yo udo need trust for a relationship. maybe im over reacting to but i think you were right with what you said
I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me
if she likes you she might think you exspect sex so you could just get close to her and simply have a converstation with her if its unconfortable for her that youve already had sex
Hi I am 16 f and i was raped and the guy who did it told me not to tell anyone.so i havent said a word to anyone until now but the thing is my bf wants me to have sex with him but im not ready cuz it was just recently that i was raped. should i tell someone what happend or just not say a thing and try having sex with my bf? I rate.
Tell someone, your parents, you probably dont want to tell anyone so there are hotlines you can call or just tell someone you know wont tell anyone. you dont have to tell your bf, but you should go to the doctors if he raped you with out protection, you could have any std or be pregnant. tell your bf your not ready unless you want to
15 female
me and my boyfriend(Tyler) started dateing really early this morning like 1 something
well i was talking to Laruin and Ashley(Tyler's ex) iMed her and was like hey this is Ashley Tyler's girlfriend....well laurin was like are u still going out w/ Tyler and Ashley was like yay y! welll Laurin told me bout this...so me and her 3ways Tyler at wrk and asked him about it and he said that he wasn't going out w/ her so i told him he better go str8en things out w/ her before i decided to get crunk on him!
what should i do?
is his x someone that would lie? try to just make sure hes not going out with her, ask her, and her friends, if he wants tobe wit you hell straighten it out
I RATE.
Hi. I have been going out with girl for about 2 weeks now and she is coming over to my house tommorw. We have not kissed or made out yet, and I was wondering if anyone had any advice to get her to want to do it. Such as things to do, etc. I got a pool, TV, dvd player, computer, anything, lol
watch a movie that she wants, cuddle while you are, and when you feel ready, go to kiss her, kiss her cheak first if shes not looking twards you, itll get her attention
Is it ok to go out with someone two years younger than you?
yeah, its iilegal if your 18 asnd there two years younger and your having sex, if your parents dont agree with it. but if your 12 and hes 14 kinda thing, its fine
hey how do u like let a guy know u wanna getta know him better
tell him you like him, or ask if hed like to do somthin together soon
can sum1 im me on aim xogiggles37xo and ill send u a picture of me and plz answer the question yes or no and ill rate you!! ill rate you good if ur honest onllii!!
not ugly lol.. again =p
I'm friends with this one guy and I like him alot. I've heard that he used to like me too, but I'm not exactly sure if it's true. he is the only guy I've ever felt this way about, and I know it sounds stupid of me to say that because we are only 14. In the past, he has hurt me bad emotionally and once physically. But now, everything between us it great we talk all the time I just don't know if I should tell him how I feel, just forget about him, or keep it a secret. Me and him are like best friends.. I don't want to screw up our friendship..
xOx* kandiie
you should tell him, but if he ever hurts you physically again its over, but only if the first time he apologized alot and it wasnt that bad, no guy who hits a girl should be given alot of chances