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Im tired of being hurt and feeling lost I live with my dad and stepmom but I have another family two hours away and in that family I have my stepdad he's horrible he treats my sisters with love and care but I get told I'm worthless and no one would care if I existed I can't do this anymore I usually keep strong but he's tearing down any defense I have two years ago I attempted suiside but my 6 year old sister caught me and stopped me I did it because of him but never told my parents about it they don't even know I attempted it no one knows but my sister she watches me everyday now and its getting worse again his words hurt more than it should I don't know what to do anymore 15f
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Three years and you are out. Maybe even less, depending on the laws where you are.
Hang in there. Suicide is not an answer.
Recording the abuse might be.
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I was doing laundry and the laundry facility is on the outaide of my apartment building. Some dude around my age was locked out if the building behind me and said "Hi" in the distance and I said Hi back. Then he scratched his his head and asked if I lived in the building and I said yes. So he asked if we wanted to go inside and hang out and I turned down his offer because I dont know him. Then he looked at me and said "ohh you have a boyfriend?" And i responded uhh yeah lol..
What was he thinking? Was he flirting? ... Or just a whacko? (link)
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According to Rahzie, a guy who tries to approach a woman and doesn't do a good job of it is a creep. Sigh. Then they get to 30 and ask "where have all the good men gone"? They just gave up trying, Rahzie, they just gave up trying.
But having said that - yeah, he could have been a thief looking to get access to the building. Could have been a lot of things.
Does it matter?
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I have known my ex for 7 years. He is the father of my son. We haven't been together dating wise in 5 years. I had moved away. I moved back and he's been very active in his child's life. I love him. I think about him all day every day. He doesn't want to rush or even talk about "us" we both got out of around 4 year relationships. But he says see what the future holds. Am I wasting my breath? (link)
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A lot of it has to do with how you came to divorce/break up, and how you behaved. If he is raising his son, what more do you want from him? If you got back together, would it make his life better or worse?
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I wanna find out about birth control pills like trigestrel. Is it okay for males to take them thus I want to gain weight, because I've heard that they make you gain weight. I know how they look like and know all colours though and their unction. Believe you me I won't take the red onesi just want gain weight. (link)
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A bith control pill for men that makes you gain weight? Sounds like it fools around with your hormones - effectively castrating you so you put on fat like a eunuch.
I wouldn't do it, dude. I really wouldn't.
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so there is this guy who I have had a lot of eye contact with twice we even locked eyes for quite a while and suddenly, he started to avoid eye contact with me
It's like when I look at him, he wouldn't look at me anymore.
Could this be because he lost interest in me? (link)
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You could always ask him.
Just sayin'. :)
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I want a laptop that I can download music on & burn to CD, have Microsoft word & powerpoint for school, games & built in security & under $1,000. What laptop has these features? (link)
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All of them.
Sometimes, these quesitions are easy :) .
The main expense is Word and the other office tools, although you probably get a special discount price. There are free alternatives, notably "OpenOffice". You'll need to check if your school will accept reports and stuff done with these tools. If it will, then you can save a bundle.
"Security" is tougher. Depends on what you mean. If you mean viruses and stuff, well - I use a Mac. The best security is not installing stuff that you download from the internet.
But overall, one machine is pretty much the same as another these days. The only difference is memory, speed, and storage capacity, which get cheaper every year. $1000 won't buy you a decent gaming machine, but it will definitely get you something to type school assignments into.
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I am having an issue with pay at my current job. I'm out of college and wanted to go into a field more relevant to my skills, so I left my first job and started a new one a few months ago. I was hired as an intern and after a week my boss told me he wanted to bring me on full. Unfortunately a client backed out from the company and my boss told me he could no longer pay full, but could keep me on as an intern. I was kind of stuck and took it, but he promised that he would bring me on full as soon as the company got a new client.
Let me make it clear that I am very aware that business is business, that nothing should be taken as truth until a contract is signed, that words are words and nothing more.
Two months later I'm still being paid just an intern stipend and I am beginning to look for other positions. In the meantime, my boss gets angry and yells at my coworkers and me if he disagrees with something--he's a micromanager. I get that, don't love it, but accept it. But he expects I put in full-time work, contribute full-time-quality, for intern-pay. So I'm doing the same as my co-workers but for a fraction of the salary.
How would you approach this? Should I sit down with him? I want to be professional, and I think being able to ask for raises is an important skill to gain confidence in. I think that legally something's amiss because everything I do contributes directly to the company, not for personal learning. I'm just nervous I could do something that would make him fire me. As much as my below-minimum-wage "stipend" is difficult for me to sustain on, at least it's *something*. (link)
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Hmm. Young person, abusive boss. An old, old story.
Not knowing anything else, I'd guess that your boss does this all the time. Sitting down with him is probably pointless - he'll just use you as cheap labour until you quit, then get another one. There's plenty more where you came from.
And anyway, why would you want to stay with an abusive boss? He isn't going to change, dude.
So what you need to do is to use this time to acquire experience that you can parlay into a better job. Do stuff to put on your resume - that's what working as an intern is for. Once you are not doing anything *new* at work, once you have stopped adding dot-points to your CV, then that job has no more value for you.
You are there for *you*, and for *your* career. Job hopping, particularly when you are young, is perfectly ok. It's getting experience. Move to another job without a moment of regret.
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I think it's asthma , but I'm seeing a doctor this week. I thought I'd ask you guys before seeing a doctor about this.
About me: I smoke heavily sometimes, I DO NOT inhale the smoke, and I stay for months without any smoke or anything, my breath underwater "sucks" sorry for the word if I'm not allowed to use such language on this board. I can only stay for less than 15seconds holding my breath, I face problems breathing every once in a week.
Any thoughts?
High fives to all like always
-Thank You (link)
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Dude, you are not going to get any advice better than "see a doctor". There's a thousand things it could be, and some of those things are pretty horrible: allergies, asthma, emphysema, cancer (!), maybe anaemia or heart problems you are not aware of, dozens of other stuff.
Your doctor will use a stethescope to listen you your lungs - checking for blockages or fluid, probably order some blood tests because hey: it's what you do. Maybe have you breathe into a thingy to measure your lung capacity.
Put off worrying about it. If you are seeing a doctor this week, the you are doing all you can do about it at the moment.
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If my bf jst touch his dick to my frnt hole .... will i b pregnant???? (link)
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Ok, you sound like you need some basic sex education - just how things work "down there". I did a search for "how does sex work", "basic sex education" and "basic reproductive anatomy" and found these links.
http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Sexual_Health/Basic_Reproductive_Anatomy
http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Sexual_Health/Pregnancy
There's plenty more information on the web - you just have to search for it.
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I'm 13 female, a virgin, haven't had my period like ever. I don't know if its a yeast infection or anything. My vajayjay smells VERY VEEEERY strongly of pee. When I take a shower like 5 minutes after I'm done the smell comes back a bit, then it rapidly gets stronger. I can smell it when I move a lot or in a certain position. It smells really bad and anything I sit on smells of pee after. It's really embarrassing. My underwear is wet at the middle of the day and its uncomfortable. Any remedies? Do you have any remedies that'll work on a ODOURFUL vajayjay WITHOUT yeast infection. It DOESN'T smell like fish AT ALL. Just pee. I wipe thouroughly from front to back twice after I pee. It still doesn't do anything. I also SWEAT ALOT down there an there is never any discharge or anything but its really sweaty and wet and smells like pee! I drink roughly 4 cups of water a day and I know I more. Help! (link)
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Yeah, I'll go with "possible urinary tract infection", too. Just because you don't have an obvious discharge doesn't necessarily mean anything. See your doctor - you'll probably get some antibiotics to clear that up.
Another possibility is lack of muscle tone, which means doing kegel exercises. But the most usual cause of that is childbirth which (I hope) isn't the case for someone so young.
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what does eating me out mean
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Eating someone out usually means cunnilingus. "Eating out" a guy, well, would probably mean analingus (also called "tossing someones salad").
BTW: if you are young/inexperienced enough to not know what the word means, it's also possible that the person you are talking to also does not know what it means, and is using the wrong word.
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I saw a video of how they get animal fur (Stupid idea... I accidentally clicked it and continued watching...), and now I'm really sickened by it. I'm never wearing animal fur or eating animal products again, but how can I get the image and thought out of my mind? Please help. (link)
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When you have a disturbing image, fix your eyes (ant your attention) on the immediate world around you. Look at your coffee cup, or people on the street, or a cloud. Whatever is around you wherever you happen to be at the time. Pull your attention out of your interior world of images and out into the real world.
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im 17 n im from india now n im in realtion with a boy of 19..it has been 8mnths of our relation evrything was going good..but from the last 1 mnth we have been arguing and fighting for some or the other reason frequently..he shouts at me,gets frustated simply...
he doesnt share anything with me..or doesnt talk much..please advice me to improve my relationship..!!!! (link)
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Hard to say.
Generally, a boyfriend is not a girlfriend. If you want someone to giggle with and talk and talk for hours, well - most guys won't do that. So maybe the best thing to do is adjust to that.
On the other hand, if neither of you are getting anything from this relationship anymore, you are still young, and having an amicable break-up might be best. Maybe you are fighting with one another because it's time for both of you to move on, and neither one of you knows how to break up.
I don't know. How could I? Or anyone else here?
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I have a horsefield and I have grown some weeds for her but cant seem to encourage her to eat them, she only seems toe at frozen veg particularly pees and cauliflower. This cant be giving her the nutrients she needs. How do i get her to eat proper tortoise food. (link)
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You'd be better off finding an internet forum devoted to tortises as pets, and asking them. All I know is that because they are cold blooded, they simply don't eat as much as you'd expect.
I typed in "tortise pet advice" and found this page: http://www.tortoisetrust.org/ . There's probably a dozen more.
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I asked a version of this before but I added some more details and wanted to see some more opinions
my mother is currently in jail the next eight months for a financial crime(if she serves her full sentence it will be about next April when she gets out). I might get flack for supporting a criminal but you know since her crime wasn't against me I guess it is OK to support her in this way. I was wondering what are some good books or magazines to send to an inmate, I honestly don't read much and I was thinking maybe there were some good specific books you can send to an inmate
Something I forgot to make clear last time. The types not allowed are things inciting racial hatred, rioting, making drugs, violence or escaping from jail but that's nothing to worry about she would never read that kind of stuff anyway. (link)
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Obvious answer: whatever she usually likes to read. Duh. Why not check out wherever she reads at home, and get something like whatever you find there?
I'd avoid the bedside drawer, though. Too Much Information.
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Hi, i am male and have genital warts and it is on and off even with treatment.My fiance is virgin and finished gardisil.I understand she might not get hpv from me due to gardisil protection,even if she don't get hpv from me,I want to know whether i will get oral hpv/wart if i give oral sex to her after unprotected sex with her. (link)
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Yeah, it's a risk. Not a big one, I think, but still ... .
Thought of getting the vaccine for yourself? It's not free, of course, not for guys.
On a different note - unprotected sex? Man, you think a couple of warts is bad news, try suddenly having a baby you weren't expecting. Don't do it.
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First off not sure if this goes in this section so I apologize on that.
18/m
First and foremost please do not tell me that I am under age and should not be drinking. I am very well aware of the fact. I came here for an answer to my question not to be lectured.
Last summer when I was 17 I went to a party and didn't have anything to eat and I ended up drinking a lot. I felt like throwing up at one point but never did and was hung over the next morning.
I have not drank since except for beer. Whenever I have tried to drink any alcohol besides beer I immediately feel sick and like throwing up. Ever since that party I have been this way.
Will this go away so I can enjoy drinking again or will it just stay?
I would like to over come it so I can enjoy drinking at a later age again and at college and parties. I am responsible and do not drink or drive and try to limit myself.
Thank you for any help! (link)
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Yeah, dude: drinking "a lot" on an empty stomach is a recipe for a bad time. But being limited to beer - well, it isn't much of a limit.
I was a "one beer and I'm drunk" guy when I was 20. Couldn't keep up. I decided to overcome this terrible disability. I suceeeded. Hooray for me. God - if I could have back all the money I spent on getting wasted, I'd ... I'd have more money than I really want to face admitting to. I could buy a house (or put down a sizeable deposit on one).
Being a low alcohol-tolerance guy isn't such a bad thing.
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I work with a man who is 41, and I'm turning 21 in november. We've made plans to go out before but it always fell through. I really like him and something might happen with this but is he too old? He has one kid who is younger than I, and my parents are older than him, so I keep telling myself he's not.
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Is this weird? (link)
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The usually accepted barrier for "ew!" is your age minus seven, times 2. So for you, it would be 38. 41 is just over the line.
You are an adult, so is he. If you want "something to happen" (weird how girls talk about sex as if it was just this random lightning strike that they had no responsibility for), then hey - "something" will probably "happen".
But don't kid yourself that it means more than it does.
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Hello.
Why are you on this site? You seem to not give advise but insult those who ask for it. Why is this?
Someone asks how to grow hair. If you don't know, don't answer-don't tell them how to make it shorter?
Also if people ask for help as they feel suicidal, don't turn them away and call them attention seeking, point them in a direction to where they can get help, or, preferably, don't answer at all.
So my question is-why are you giving people insulting, incorrect advice on here? (link)
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If you've seen my page, you know that my answers occasionally get fives. Insulting people isn't all I do. I just don't have a lot of tolerance for stupid.
As for the "suicidal" girl, aka: "my b/f dumped me imma kill myself!", my advice was that suicide and talk of suicide is Serious Business, which it is.
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So my bf broke up with me about a week ago saying he wasn't really ready and wasn't that interested he said we were friends for now but he blocked me on IG and doesn't respond to my kiks and he didnt defriend me on xbox. Then today, his cousin texted me and said to take him out of my bio (one of my back up IGs I haven't been on and I had him as a friend) he doesn't like you anymore. And all if this has made me so depressed to the point that I wanna kill myself because he really loved me and showed me that he cared and he changed my life and I really loved him. I really want him back so badly and i want him to talk to me but what should I do? Thanks.
(Btw: we were together for 3 months :/) (link)
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So you got dumped and pestered the dude who dumped you with texts and stuff. Classic mistake. Rookie move.
Everyone gets dumped. Celebrities get dumped. It happens. When you are dumped, it means you are dumped. It doesn't mean "you're dumped, but if you send me a zillion IMs over the next six hours you won't be".
PLEASE DO NOT TALK ABOUT KILLING YOURSELF. It's like saying "I have a gun" - if people take it seriously (and someone will), all kinds of bad, crazy stuff happens.
You are bummed because you got dumped. That's all.
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