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ok there was this guy i dated not tooo long ago like over the summer for about 2 years. one night he came over the mom was away in her bed snoring and no one else was home. the guy kissed me and tried and tried to go further and further i pushed away adn said not ready..he kept trying. now 3-4 years ago i was raped so i got scared and so a little while later i heard from a good friend of his that he had a "girl" at school so ive been using this as an excuse to everyone whether its true or not. i am scared...i was raped once and I AM NOT ready to have sex. since then ive dated 2 guys and have no boyfriend now. but this guy is kinda coming back into the pic through a best friend...he asked my best friend why...WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!! (link)
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Sweetie...
I'm not sure what to tell you. Myself I have never been raped. I know it must be hard but you should not build your life around being raped if you do it does not let you live life the way you should. And if you are not ready then tell them that your not ready... Plus since you have been raped you know like the warning signs...Good Luck
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(How many times has THIS question been asked?) Okay, my stepmother hates me, or rather, she hates my mother and takes it out on me. Everything I do is wrong to her. Once, my cousin and I were fighting over a pillow, and she tells me to stop pulling on the pillow or I'll rip it, and my cousin didn't get in trouble, even though he hit me several times. She insults my choice of clothing/music/accessories. She once told me my mother cheated on my father, and I know that isn't true. She used to go into my room and go through my stuff. It drives me insane. Does anyone have any advice? (link)
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Does your mom or dad know? Stepmoms can be really bad and it sucks...I really don't know what to tell you so yeah if you want to talk more and tell me a little more and I could help you a little more email me miss_adriauna04@yahoo.com
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Here is the thing I don't want to live anymore sometime because all I am to anyone in my family is there slave my brothers are always coming home and yelling at me to clean there mess or clean up the dog piss and do everything for them. And my mom is always asking me to clean the house before her boyfriend comes over who I can't stand and she won't get it through her thick head that I don't like him and then she trys to buy me stuff and pay me like that is going to win my love for her when I don't even feel like a daughter to her cause whenever i try and talk to her she is with don (her bf) and wants to spend time with him or on the phone with him and it is all about don and nothing about her own freaking daughter all her daughter is to her is someone to clean her house and shit and my dad is always yelling at me and i don't even live with him. I guess my question is what should I do about my family cause my mom won't listen when I try and tell her how I feel and always makes everything my fault? I don't know I just don't want to go on with life anymore and I don't know what to do please help. And don't say you need to talk to someone about it cause I have and it doesn't help and don't say you need to tell your mom how you feel cause i have tryed to nothing freakin works i am on my last string before i do something i am gona regret help!!!!! (link)
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All I have to say...Is I know how you fell my family is like the same way!!! if you want to talk more and I can help you more email me at miss_adriauna04@yahoo.com
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ok, i have this boyfriend which i love very much and hes moving to california in 30 days and im thinking about breaking up with him because i think it would be better to not see him b4 he goes so i wont be as devistated s i would be watching him leave in front of me so should i break up with him or not? (link)
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Do what you feel is best..Maybe you should brek up with him but not until like the day he moves...spend these last days with each other and make them the best
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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians? (link)
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You guys may have developed feelings for each other and may have become bisexual but there is nothing wrong with that... but alot of girl experiment with their friends who are also girls and there is nothing wrong with it I did it to...
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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
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No it doesnt make you one!! You were just experimenting...You may be bisexual though
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Me and my ex bf were together a couple months but it had to go to a long distance relationshiops for awhile and he thought i hated him and then we broke up cuz we didnt talk cuz of that and now i found out he still loves me what do i do? (link)
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If you love him...tell him you do and get him back
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okay, Me and this guy have been together 9 months tommorow..nd I love him more then anything it is a long distance relationship which sucks, and i never thought this would work out, but it has been..I see him 2 or more times a month because my gramother lives down there and soon he ll be able to drive, but anywho I really feel like he loves me, when im with him we lay together and he holds me soo tight and tells me how much he loves me and its like perfect..soo anyway about 4 months ago he dumped me or we *took a break* and he went out with this girl that lived down there named kirsten..and i was very upset but then 2 days later he called me back and at that point i didn't even wanna talk to him but anyway he said that he dumped her because he loved me and it took him this to see that he really does and i was completly understandable about that and we were only togethr for 5 months..okay that is along time but ?..so neway we got back to gether and everything was going great then 2 weeks ago he seemed weird like he was alway s like ill cal you back and never would but then it ended soo i thought u no he was busy..well he just admitted that he liked this taylor girl and she is very pretty but shes a flrt who gets guys to like her then doesnt go out wit then but then i found out she liked him soo i told him and he like said ill call you back soo he got online he didnt talk to me but taylor was on soo i figured he was asking her if it was true so then he called me saying he wants me to think about are relationship and maybe we should take a break i cried and stuff and he said ill call you back well he called me back and said he was an idiot he doesnt want lose me then that nite i foudn out that he called her nad was tallkign to her and her friend for awile so i asked him abotu it and he tod me that he had feelings for her again but there all gone and i said you know you shouldnt even be thinking about other girls and he said im sorry and then i went to see him 3 days lata and everything was perfect and he kept telling me he was soo stupid and im soo beautiful and everything too make you feel good about yourself and everything seems fine but im afraid he mite do it again..soo anyway sorry this story goes on long there is this other guy named nick who this past fall i hung out with alot at these dances thats where i met him adn we got rele close and i almost dumped my bf for him bc hes soo sweet to me nd well we ve kept in touch and stuff i mean he lives here lol soo i can see him whenever but mi bf doesn tlike him bc he knows that he lieks me alot this nick kid he always tells me how much he wants to be wit me and that he loves me and im alway slike im sorry..u no and everyone tells me that mi boyfriends treats mme like shit and i dont deserve it but he doesnt he jus has in the past..so am i being stupid should i dump him and move on? or stay wit the guy that im rele in love with but mite hurt me in the past?
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Sweetie,
Dump your boyfriend and go out with Nick...If you want if not stay with your boyfriend but it's just gonna up with you heartbroken...Nick seems really sweet..But I can't tell you what to do because yeah I have made that mistake before...So just listen to your heart not your mind or what anyone else says...
Good Luck Sweetie
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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying (link)
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Sweetie,
I'm really sorry about that! It hurts alot. I'm also guessing you have alot of feelings for him...But there is no way anyone can really help you get over him it's something that you have to do yourself...And your not worthless dont ever ever ever think that...and feeling worthless is something that is just in your mind and the only way to stop feeling it is to stop thinking it...I can't really give you an excat answer on what to do but if you need to talk rant whatever you may need email me at miss_adriauna04@yahoo.com ummm crying is very good so maybe once you cry alot and vent you will feel better and you can maybe talk to him and try and get him back
Good Luck Sweetie
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im 14.. My ex boyfriend ( of 9 months) is now going out with this other girl who is his best friend. I still love him very much.. and im almost positive that he still has major love feelings for me (but extremely sectretly and doesnt want to show it..you can just tell). Anyways, i love him so much, but sometimes he's not the best guy for me, but i can NOT GET over him . :( .. its so confusing but plz help! what do i do? (link)
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Sweetie,
Let me tell you I was/am still sorta in the same situation...Ok...I'm also 14 and I'm madly in love with my ex boyfriend of about 7 months...The other night he admitted he loves me too...But all last year he was dating his best friend off and on...I also wanted to get over him so I could just stop loving him and hurting but I gotta tell you...There is really no way to get over a love...and if he is your first love you'll never get over...Ummm...It's really hard...There really is no answer on how to get over someone...but if you want to talk more or rant or whatever you may need to do...you can email me at miss_adriaun04@yahoo.com....Also sweetie...Listen to your heart not your mind or what anyone else says...thats what I did and my heart told me to hold on and wait and he would come around sooner or later!!
Good Luck Sweetie
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