Hey, my name is Ana Barrera. Im 14. I have brown/black hair, dark brown eyes. I basically give my friends advice when ever they need it, and my advice always helps. I like to dance, draw, and in the near future I hope to be a DJ at the hottest club in LA, California. I love to hang out with my friends alot. On my free time I give people advice.
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about how much does contacts cost?! and how easy are they to use?! i rate high! (link)
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It depends on wat kind of contacts u buy, if they are clear then they are about $20 if they are colored then they r about $40. They are easy to use because they don't really need cleaning and they can never get scrached.
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ok im moving ... im painting my room dark purple and light purple ... but i have no clue what colors to paint my bathroom .... here are some of my fave colors
- green
- purple
- pink
- blue
- yellow
- black
p.s i dont just wanna paint it i wanna paint some cute stuff LOL
Anggie (link)
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Try sum black and purple or u can just use yellow.
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ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx! (link)
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If u like the guy give him a chance, if he gets to sexul for u that u can't handle it them tell him to stop and if he doesn't then do wat ever it takes. Doesn't matta if u hurt him really bad, he desirves it if he didn't listen to ya.
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hey yah the guy i liked said i was ugly so should i confront him? (link)
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Hell yea u should confront him, no one should eva call u ugly and don't let them.
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My mom and I haven't been getting along very well lately. It's like she never lets me go anywhere anymore. I'm almost never allowed to hang out with my friends and I'm 13.. I'm at the time in my life when I need to be with my friends. I've tried talking to her but it doesn't seem to work. She told me that I'm a problem to her. I almost cried. I just replied "It's nice to know that your own kid is a problem," and I walked into my room. I just don't know what to do anymore. I lost my best friend because my mom didn't ever let me go to her house because the parents weren't home. I know she's just trying to protect me, but it's like she doesn't trust me. And she won't let me walk around outside when I'm with my friends. She says she doesn't know why I need to if we're just walking around and not going anywhere. I love her and all but I feel as if she doesn't understand me anymore. What do I do? I appreciate any help! Thank you! (link)
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I kno u just want help on how to get ur mom to let u out of the house, but ur mom just want to protect u just like her parents probably did or never did. U never kno she might have a past that she doesn't want u to kno about or go through.
Hope ur mom lets u go out!!
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i'm 16/f and am totally confused my the actions of my recent ex-boyfriend. We recently had a discussion and he really said some things that threw me totally off. First off, the reason he dumped me was because he said he didn't love me anymore and that really hurt. Alright, well then today he tells me that he wants to be careful of other guys and he flipped out when he heard i was interested in another guy, then he tells me he still cares about me, and that he has to tell me something that's very important, but doesn't wanna tell me because he's afraid that it'll screw stuff up. I don't know what this stuff is, but anyway, I really need some help! I think my ex doesnt want me to be with other guys and wants me to be devoted to only him! What should i do??!?!?!? (link)
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Do wat ever u want, he doesn't own nobody does onlu u. Besides ur right he does only want u for himself, but if u keep on hangin around him he just might end up hurtin u alot more than he already has. So if u want to go out with this otha guy then go for it gurl. Don't eva hold bak on a thing like that cuz u never kno u just might regret it.
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okay, i have a question, i like this one guy, and he likes me back, but the problem is that he lives far away like 20 minutes away, and we can hardly see each other, were're not going out or anything, we just like each other a lot, we want to see each other more, well at least i do, i like this guy alot, but i don't know what to do, can u help me?? (link)
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Just talk to him alot ova the phone and try to see him as much as u can!
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Um, I like having sex, I'm not going to lie. But the last time I did, the guy I did it with kind of... made me have anal sex with him. And I tried to say it hurt but he didn't stop. I said it loud but when I told him afterwards, he said he didn't hear me. I cried afterwards b/c it hurt so bad. Is it my fault? I didn't want to do it... I feel gross. What do you think?
xoxo Alyssa* (link)
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It is not ur fault at all. Just if u do have sex with this guy again make sure to tell and if he doesn't listen try to slap him in the face or do wat ever it takes to tell him.
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I have almost clear skin, but I get really large zits ever so often, and i try so hard i use everything to get rid of them, i even have proactiv but sometimes it doesnt work too well. Is there anything, (ive tried the clean and clear stuff in the silver bottle) that works good for getting rid of somthing that big before it takes over my facee!!!=(
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I kno it might seem weird but try using a little bit of water, abit of salt, and the rest vinager. It helps me and I hardley ever get pimples. So try that even though it will stink try it, and if u pop a pimle after u do that put the vinegar stuff on it, it will sting alot bit it will help.
Let me kno if it works!!
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After putting chap stick,lotion,etc on my lips, my lips are really soft, but when I add lip gloss over it my lips tend to peel. I use Clinique and MAC lip gloss some of those most expensive lip glosses n it still makes my lips peel. Is there anything I can do to not make them peel? Its driving me insane! This is the ONLY thing I cannot figure out! (link)
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Try to put sum lotion or vasaline on ur lips before u put lip gloss on ur lips then put on the lip gloss that might help a little bit.
Let me kno how it goes.
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Me (14) and my current boyfriend(14) have a had an on and off kind of relationship. like we've broken up 3 different times, but things seem like they're going down hill again for a 4th time. He's stopped saying he loves me when we get off the phone or off line. We dont' see each other all that much cuz he lives 45 minutes away from me ... and that kind of presents a problem. Especially now that im going into highschool. Its like a whole new world of oppurtunitys. He to is going into in highschool adn i think things are pretty much coming to an end between us, and that breaks my heart but at the same time im relived because i can be open to new experiences ... i love him but im not sure he's feeling what he says he feelings, how he says he feels and how he acts on those feelings are to different things .. i just don't know anymore ... (link)
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I think that u should take a break from each other, even if it's really painful, u should take a break so that way u can find out if he really loves u, I mean when u get to skool just look @ his reactions around u and if u want to date otha guys then go ahead so that way u can find out wat to do.
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Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out? (link)
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I think that u should give the guy a chance, u never kno u might like him more than ur ex.
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i like this kid, ive been friends with him since kindergarten n weve dated before but it never works out. im starting to like him again, and he kind of likes me but i dont want the relationship to fallto pieces again. and i like to be single, yet i really like him. what should i do? (link)
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If u don't want to go through the same thing that u did when u went out with him, just follow ur heart and u will do the right thing. Hey if u stay single for a while longer u get to flurt with alot of other guys!! LOL!
Hope it works out between u and him!!
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im 18 and my sister is 24. me and my sister dont get along much. once in awhile, were fine, but other than that, shes always screaming at me. a lot of my friends dont like her, nor does my guy. as the years gone by, ive learned to adapt to the way she treats me, but lately, it has gotten too out of hand and it makes me cry a lot. i told her plenty of times before that she hurts my feelings and shed apologize, but the next day, she still treats me like shit. i know that sisters are supposed to be there for each other through thick and thin, but its more like i have her back and she just brings me down, because basically, she does. she makes my parents go against me, which causes me more pain. what should i do? ive tried talking to her numerous times, but that doesnt ever seem to work? help.. because its literally killing me inside.. (link)
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I kno this might seem so obviouse to say but talk to ur relatives and if that doesn't help try to get into thrapy or sumthin like that. An eventually u'll get to the point to where ur parents and ur sister will go with u to therapy and they will finally here u out, and realize how much pain they put on u, espacially ur sister.
Hope everything works out!!!
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do u know a way u could practice slow dancing WITHOUT a guy or friend or anything like just up n ur room>? (link)
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I don't think there is a way to practice to slow dance, when ever u start slow dancin it'll sort of just come to ya.
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Ok i had cheer camp on monday and tuesday i hurt my knee really bad i mean i iced it and i have it wraped but i dno wat else to do and tylenol dint help and i have a sk8in comp thiz weekend so i dunno wat to do?!?!??! (link)
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For ur knee, try sum muscle rub cream if that doesn't help then u might wanna go see a doctor.
Let me kno if it works and how ur sk8in comp goes.
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Ok, today my mom called me fat. Well, I don't think I'm fat because I'm 13 (turning 14 in 2 weeks), I'm 5'5, I weigh 113, and I pretty skinny but I don't have a 4 pack. I don't know what to do. I think I'm just gonna stop eating and become anorexic. I don't wanna go on a diet because I get of them in a few days and they are not help. Also, I don't wanna watch what I eat because I usually eat healthy food. Please help! (link)
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Aright, I think that u shouldn't listen to wat ur mom says because if u don't think that ur fat, then just tell her that. If u listen to ur mom then u might end up in a medical institution and u could go to bein ballemic. So if u kno ur not fat don't let ur mom tell u that.
Hope this helps!!!!
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I am a mother of young children . You probally dont have any , I hope not . Anyways you are young so I'll see if you can help me ; WHAT CAN I DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO LISTEN TO ME ? I have to tell them to do something like a hundred times by then I just get mad . Thanks AAWE (link)
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I think that when ever u want them to do sumthin, tell them that u will give them their favorite food or sumthin like that. That is the only way that I get the kids that I babysit to listen.
hope this helps!!!
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Okay...I know a lot of people ask what they should do if they're bad dancers and mostly they're told that they just need more confidence and that they can't be THAT bad. The thing is, I'm REALLY bad, and I'm not just saying it. There have been dances at my school and whenever I go I feel really stupid when I'm out there dancing because I know I suck at it. My boyfriend wanted to take me clubbing once and I had to make up an excuse because I didn't want to embarrass myself! Is there any way I can improve without taking classes? Or is it something that you sort of have to be a natural at? I don't want to have to avoid dancing situations forever! (okay, I'll stop with the drama) Anyway, any advice would help. Thanks! (link)
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Ok, I think that u should just turn up ur favorite dance song at home and start jammin to it. Listen to the beat and think about it for a while and once u get the beat in ur head, start movin ur feet to the rythim. Trust me it helps alot.
Hope that i helped u!!!
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i really like my best friend but i dont know how to tell him cuz i dont want to ruin wat we alreadii have...hes like my goofy brother but ive liked him for soo long! what do i do! thanks! (link)
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I have the same problem, with my bestfriend and I like him alot but I just don't know how to tell him. But if u have known him for along time make sure that u really like him, because if u don't and u tell him that u do u might regret it for a long time. So don't tell him quit yet just wait a few more months an if u realize that u really like him then go ahead and tell him.
I hope this help!!
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