Am a bit of a wrinkly now (i was 24 on 4/9/05, but I had the best birthday I've ever had in my whole entire life!!!) but I know an awful of stuff about an awful lot of stuff!
I am COMPLETELY NON-JUDGEMENTAL and you can always inbox me with stuff you wouldn't ask anyone else @ MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Mel xxx
"Dance like no one is watching and love like you've never been hurt"
E-mail: MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Gender: Female
Location: Long story, born in Germany, Parents are Spanish but grew up in the UK!!!
Occupation: General Superstar and all around heroine!
Age: 24
Member Since: December 24, 2004
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Why do girls help a guy cheat on his current girlfriend, then date him after they break up? They've already proven that this guy is totally willing to cheat, so do they actually think he wont do the same to them? Are girls really that stupid? (link)
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Fraid so!
Some girls just can't help it. It may be cos they still love him, it may be because they want to ruin his current relationship and then get revenge by doing o him what he did to her. It could be for one of 1,000 reasons, but either way you look at it, you shouldn't give someone that's hurt you once a chance to do it a second time!
Mel xx
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my hair falls out in the shower alot when i brush it and even when i just put my fingers through it...it used to be pretty thick and it has thinned out ALOT! my mom says it from straightening my hair (i only straighten it 2-3 times a week) and my friends says its from stress from high skool! i really want to fix this problem which one or what is the problem? (link)
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Hiya,
This happens to a lot of teens. It is more than like;ly a combination of stress and straightening.
I would stop straightening your hair for a little while and treat it to some intensive conditioning treatments, like hot oil, for a few weekd. You can also get vitamin supplements that increase strength and shine.
Also try not to worry about it too much (I know it's hard) but the more worried you are, the more stressed you get, the more your hair falls out!
Take care
Mel
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Is it normal to have the feeling like your going to pee during masturbation? even when my boyfriend fingers me i feel like i have to pee even if i pee before. Is this normal? (link)
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Hi there,
This is completely normal!
It is because your bladder is very close to your vagina and depending on which way your partner is touching you it may be pressing on your bladder.
Try getting him to change positions if you feel the sensation, if you don't feel happy doing that then experiment on your own then next time you are together guide his hand to an area that still gives you pleasure but doesn't make feel like you are gonna pee!!
Take Care!
Mel
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I've got patches of itchy skin on various parts of my body. On my legs I can see largish insect bites but on my wrists/arms and my breasts the bites are less visible. It's itchy really badly and I'm starting to cause red marks and little blodd blisters.
I thought it was the work of some biting insects I've seen flying around my room. However, as the weather gets colder then I'd expect them to die out for winter but this has lasted for a week or two now.
I live in Halls so it is quite possible for me to catch something contagious.
How do I treat whatever-it-is? Should I go and see a nurse/doctor? (link)
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Hi there,
The symptomns you have could be anything!
I would definitely go to the doctor/nurse. Whatever it is you have, they have probably seen it before and there is nothing to be embarrassed about you'll be able to get it treated and put an end to the irritating itchyness that you are experiencing at the minute!
Take care!
Mel xx
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ok so I have this back problem.. my muscles are waaaay too tight for my age (15/f..they are like rocks and suppose to be like silly putty), my bones at the base of my skull are too small and the hole that connects my spine to my skull is too small, and I have pinched nerves.. so my doctor perscribed me hydrocodone for the pain but the problem is it's not working.. at all.. so does anyone know any stronger medicine that I could ask my doctor about that might actually help my back? The pain keeps me awake at night so I need something strong. Sometimes it makes me cry because the pain is so overwhelming even after I've taken the hydrocodone... and I don't ever cry because I have extremely high pain tolerance.. so I need something really strong
Thanks in advance! (sorry so long!) (link)
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Hi there,
You would really be best asking your doctor for advice on painkillers.
You must be in mega-pain if you are taking hydrocodeine and it's not working.
When I broke my leg I was given a combination of Di-Hydrocodeine and another painiller called Voltarol (Diclofenac). It worked really well as the Di-Hydrocodeine on it's own wasn't enough. The only problem with it though is that it makes you sleep and sleep and sleep!
Have you tried alternative medicines, things like acupuncture, herbal remedies, homeopathy.
It may be worth giving them a go - nothing ventured nothing gained!
Whatever happens I hope they sort it out for you so that you are not in pain anymore!
Take Care
Mel xx
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I just started a job two weeks ago in a large store where I am on the floor as a sales rep in the clothing department.
Before I was working at the store I had a lot of spare time and would work out every day at the gym for a half hour or more. Since I started working I havent had the time or energy to work out anymore, but suprisingly I've lost more weight at my job than at the gym!! My jeans are hanging off of me and a month ago they were tight. My job consists of a lot of walking and cleaning up. I have to walk around quickly to assist customers and put away all the clothes. Do you think this is the cause of my weight loss? (link)
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Hi there,
I would say that this is most definitely the cause of your weight loss.
It's great cos you don't even know it's happenning!
I work in a bar 2 nights a week just for some extra cash and since doing that I have toned up LOADS!
Who says work is a bad thing eh!
Take Care
Mel! xx
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Well christmas is coming up and i think i know what im doing for my Girlfriend, if you have read my past questions, i'm doing this thing, i get a vase with 11 roses in it, and one glass rose in it. And a card on it that says "when the last rose dies is when i will stop loving you" Hence... a glass rose wont die. Then besides that im gonna do one of those build-a-bear things.. and a silver neckless. Sound good? anyone know a good place to get a silver neckless? like a heart emblem of what ever? (link)
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Hi there,
You have a REALLY lucky girlfriend!!!
Depending on your budget you could get her a Tiffany necklace. I have one and they are definitely a big hit with girls!
Take care, nice to see there are still some true romantics out there!
Mel xx
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So. I know gross but i think it is safe to say this is mostly populated with girls so you all in some way sometime in your life come into a problem simular to this.
So my boyfriend and I have been sexual active for 6 months and a month ago we stopped using condoms because it was comfortable for either him and or i. Sex without a condom was much more comfortable for both him and i. But I do not recomend it to anyone, use protection...Anyways after the first time we did that I got a urinary track infection, which i didnt go to the doctors for because it wasnt life threatning or anything. Anyways after a couple days it got worse, i was getting white discharge all the time when i used the rest room or when i was just walking around i felt leaking...about two weeks later it got worse, i was ichty down there every once and awhile and the white discharge increased and it started to get an oder. Well I douched and started taking care of myself as much as I could and it went away. While having the UTI i was still having sex but it didnt seem to bother it. Well today after intercourse he noticed thick white discharge on him and I on me. I smelled it but it didnt really have an oder at all and I was very confused, so i went to the restroom and whipped and noticed spotting of blood im suppose to start my period tomorrow so i just wrote it off to that and put a tampon in but when i took it out, it was completly dry not one thing on it. Well later last night we had sex again, but the thing is I orgasmed more than the first but I didnt have the thick white discharge this time...I thought that was kind of weird.
See I was thinking could it be, because we are having sex without a comdom and my body is just getting use to it. Or is it what my boyfriend said...that we dont have lube so he was rubbing me too much and maybe tearing me a little and that could be the reason but I dont know how it could be...
Im very confused. Please dont tell me to go see a doctor i cant afford to no health insurance and Im just wondering if it should be something to be totally freaked out on?
if you have any advice let me know. i will rate you very high...thank you for your time have a great day...and sorry if this grossed you out. (link)
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Hi there,
I know you said not to advise seeing a doctor but you really need to see some sort of healthcare professional.
There is no-one on here that can really advise you what it is as there are all sorts of discharges you get for all sorts of reasons.
When it comes to your health it is really not worth risking it. You BOTH need to be checked out to rule out the possibility of anything nasty.
It could be something as simple as your body not being used to sex without a condom or it could be something that needs medical treatment.
Am not sure where you live as you don't say but in most countries of the world there are free sexual health clinics, you and your bf should get along to one!
Take care and sorry I can't tell you waht it is but this is the best advice I can give you.
MEl xx
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The guy that I'm seeing is a real pig. He has a beer guy because he'll go out drinking all the time with his friends and down 12 beers. He farts all the time and has bad breath and body odor. He has red veigns on his nose from all his drinking. Also he dresses like he's thin, he'll wear tight jeans and t shirts but it looks ridicuous because he's about 30 pounds overweight.
It's really hard for me to get turned on by him. It's not just the way he looks sometimes he can be a real jerk. The last straw was when I phoned him on his cell on he told me to only phone him if it was after 6.
I want to dump him but I don't know how to go about it. Should I tell him that his appearance turns me off or would that be too mean? (link)
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Hiya,
It doesn't sound like it just his appearance that bugs you. It sounds like everything about him irritates you.
I would get out of there! You don't have to give him a reason for wanting to end it, just explain that you don't feel the same about him anymore and don't want to continue seeing him anymore.
Then get yourself out there and find a bloke who does treat you right and looks good with it!!
Good Luck!
Mel xx
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So today I got this message from some random person. I called that number and I found out it was an adult. He started asking me for personal information and I told him fake stuff like my names this and that. Then he started saying I want to start a realationship with you and I just went crazy. I messaged him ssome really rude messages because I want them to leave me alone SO BADLY!!! It really pisses me off to know that I haave stalkers that might.. Who knows what???
Also, I think I know who those guys are. I have a guitar teacher and hes perverted and he loves me. (eew... hes 20 years older then me.)
So I think he gave my number to his friends.. UGh.. What jerks.. Any ideas on how to stop this?? I cant ignore them because they keep on messaging me. I told them that I will call the police if they don't shut up.
Oh and by the way I live in Indonesia where it's really dangerous to just walk outside. (link)
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Hey there,
What a nightmare!
The first thing I would do is tell my parents. They can then contact the police and your mobile phone service provider who can find out who these people are.
am not sure of the laglities of it but over here if you recieve 3 threatening/obscene messages then you can press charges.
I would also try and get a new guitar teacher, cos even if these messages are nothing to do with him he doesn't sound like the sort of person that should be teaching children!
Take care and I hope it all works out!
MEl xx
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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com
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Hey there,
Sounds like you are in a bit of a dilemma to me!
You have 2 options, say yes and sleep with her. Or turn hurt down.
What you need to do is weigh up the pro's and con's. What bad things could happen if you do sleep with her/what good things could happen if you do sleep with her, and decide from their.
It sounds to me though that she is preying on the fact that you are young and she is hot just to use you for sex.
Do you have any other feelings for this woman, does she have any for you?
If I were personally in your situation I would say politely but firmly that you don't want to have sex with her. (you don't have to give a reason)
Think how it could affect your family life - I mean what if it all went wrong and it started to affect the rest of your family.
You don't say whther she is married or has kids or not.
If you wanna chat anymore about it then e-Mail me at MelHarvey@hotmail.co.uk
Whatever you decide to do, do it because you want to not becuase someone else wants you to, and ALWAYS have safe sex!
Take Care
Mel xx
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is it really a smart investment to buy dinar? if it was a scam why is everyone spending ungodly amounts of money on ebay for it? i am thinking about it. what do you guys think? (link)
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(PMSL at the other 2 answers)
Ahem,
Hiya!!
Looking back at history it is possible that the Dinar value could be as high at $0.20 to a US Dollar. If that is the case a $100 in dinar could potentially return $20,000! If the value reached, over time, is the pre-Desert Storm value of around $3.00 that same $100 could potentially be valued at $300,000!
"More professional investors are buying. commodities, foreign currencies and equities, creating tension in the stock market." - Wall Street Journal 11/24/04
Iraq has been granted 32 billion dollars in debt relief. "The Paris Club agreement represents a major international contribution to Iraq's continued political and economic reconstruction. I encourage (other) nations to agree to comparable debt reduction for Iraq." George W. Bush 11/22/04
Opening International Trade has increased the wages to Iraq's 25 million people who have pent-up demand for goods and services. An estimated $33 billion has already been collected for rebuilding Iraq. Coca-Cola, Chevron, Texaco, and more are investing! "...wages are triple those paid elsewhere in the Middle East." - Wall Street Journal 11/24/04
More Iraqis are holding on to the dinar as a savings vehicle after years of hoarding dollars. The limited circulation of the new currency as compared to the open-ended printing of old notes by Saddam's political leadership.
"Iraq has a stable currency; value of the new dinar has already risen 25 percent."
US Department of State Bureau of Public Affairs 06/30/04
Iraq has the World's largest natural gas reserve and is the world's 2nd largest oil producer.
"No one doubts Iraq's potential for enormous production. Only 17 of its 80 known oil fields have been developed, and the costs of new production are among the world's lowest."
"A senior Iraqi leader evoked the eternal dream that Iraq could produce 10 million barrels a day."
The New York Times 05/03/05
The Kuwait currency devalued by the same margin in the '90's has completely rebounded.
"If post-war Kuwait is any example: A Kuwaiti dinar was valued at about a dime after the war. Each now brings in $3.40 ...If (Iraq Dinar) jumps to a few cents, (investors) can start paying off mortgages." Stars and Stripes Mid-east ed., 10/15/04
Following World War II, it took three years to institute a new currency in West Germany. Iraq has taken only six months.
Oil revenues and existing assets from the Saddam dictatorship are being pumped into government operations and reconstruction projects such as: paying 350,000 teachers (rehabilitating 2,200 schools), 100,000 doctors and healthcare workers,(30 times more funds over pre-war levels, restoring 240 hospitals), upgrading electrical grids, water, sewage, irrigation systems, and expanding oil output.
3 dozen countries are contributing financially to the renewal of Iraq, and 19 countries are providing personnel for operations in Iraq.
The new Iraqi Government and the US treasury are working together to reinstate a strong decentralized banking system in Iraq.
Iraq has vast areas of fertile land and the most precious commodity of all in the Middle East, water. With the rejuvenation of the Tigris and Euphrates River, Iraq's agriculture sector may once again be the Breadbasket of the Middle East.
Iraq holds the second largest oil reserve in the world, with 95 percent of Iraq?s revenue coming from exported oil. Combine that with the continued rise of oil prices and you have the makings of a strong economic comeback. The Iraqi Dinar has also managed to appreciate in value from it?s all time low of 3000 Dinar to one US dollar to the recent level of between 1500 and 1400 Dinar to one US dollar. Before the 1991 war it was 1 Dinar to 3 US dollar. Keep in mind that the new Dinar has only been in existence since October 15, 2003. The monetary system established by the new government encourages foreign investment, a key to developing a strong economy.
A new stock market opened recently with over record trading volumes pushing stock prices drastically upwards for the 27 firms listed, with over 2 billion shares changing hands in only 6 trading sessions. Real estate in Iraq is booming, largely because of the severely depressed prices due to the restrictive policies of the old regime. With money flowing into Iraq, citizens are now buying houses in neighborhoods generally reserved for government officials.
I myself have bought 500,000 Iraq Dinars for the bargain price of �£250 (english pounds)
If the information I was given id correct I can buy hundreds of pairs of shoes! If it was incorrect then I've not lost too much!
As with any risky investment only risk what money you can afford to lose and keep a close eye on the markets.
Happy investing!
Melanie
P.S - I didn't get mine from e-Bay but a friend has bought some from e-Bay so it seems legit enough!
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There are still a lot of grey areas as to where you can wxchange these for US Dollars or in my case English Pounds. Am still looking into it, there are a few places that are prepared to do it for a slice of the pie (infact it's not so much a slice as a large chunk!) which I'm not really prepared to do so am still on the lookout for a decent trafer. If you mail me your e-Mail address I will let you know if/when I find one!
My e-Mail address is MelanieHarvey81@hotmail.com
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Hey guys. I'm sorry if this is kind of long, but I have something on my mind that is REALLY bothering me, and I really need help on it ASAP! I rate high, so PLEASE help me.
Ever since eighth grade, my mom has been impossible at times. I remember the summer that I was going into eighth grade. It was the first time that I ever really started to communicate with guys because i go to an all girls school. so, i was about twelve or thirteen when I first started meeting guys, going to parties, and all that stuff. well, i really really liked this guy named JC. I was like in love with him. And he liked me too. But, my mother was so overprotective, that that whenever I was talking to him, she would sit next to me on AIM and told me everything I had to tell him. And she would sit next to me while I was on the phone and she had to hear everything that was going on. She never let me tell him that I liked him. And guess what? the boy lost interest and to this day I cry myself to sleep because that was my first love and my mother never let me even talk to him. Therefore, him and his best friend say that I talk like an old lady all thanks to her.
Time passed by and my heart was healed my new love, Rafael. Rafael healed me and I healed him. He has been like a blessing to me. I love him so much. but, now i am in high school. my mother should be giving me more priveledges and space and privacy. But, she sits by me even when I talk to Rafael. So, Rafael sends me a music video and he told me just to listen to the words of the song. So, I did. and the words were very sweet. But, the video had some material in it that my mother did not like. It had like contrivercial things in our society. and it wasnt evey like sex or anything like that. It was like weird people. so, anyways, she took it very personally and made me tell Rafael that I did not want to have anything to do with that. And now, when I told her that she should let me make my own decisions and that I want to be with Rafael and she should just let me do what I want, she says that I am crazy and that I have no dignity and self respect. I told Rafael that I didn't like the video and he said that he was sorry for it, but my mom is so overprotective of me!
And another thing that she does is that whenever I tell her something, she always has to tell like the entire world. She tells my grandmother, my aunt, and she even tells the hairdresser! and then she tells me not to tell my best friend since like 8 years anything about whatever.
I've already tried talking to her and it doesn't work. SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME!!!! TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! PLEASEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!! I'VE ALREADY TRIED TALKING TO HER! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!
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Hi there,
Seems to me you are in a bit of a nightmare situation! Overprotective parents are a real pain in the behind!!
If I were you I would send her a copy of the question that you asked us on advicenators. Either e-Mail it or print it out and leave it at home on the counter one day when you go to school.
I am sure your Mom isn't trying to ruin your like, although it seems to you she is. She's just looking out for you although this is too extreme!
Haveyou thought of speaking to your aunt or grandmother about how you feel? If you are close then maybe you could ask them to speak to her about the way that she is treating you.
Whatever you do don't run away as you will have to go back and not only will this make her even WORSE but there are lots of strange scary and dangerous people out there.
Take care and if you need a chat then feel free to INBOX me and I'll send you my AIM.
Take Care
Melanie xx
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I'm M/13 and During the summer I met this beutiful girl with a great personality. I asked her out but she wan't allowed to date, yet I got her phone number and I've called her a couple times, but I'm not sure she feels alot of me. I realy care about her. Her name and face are constantly running through my mind. She my first thought when I wake up, the last thought before I go to sleep, and she's the only reason I wake up in the morning. I asked her out again to home coming but she said she wasn't going. We are both very social, but when we're around each other we don't talk much. Yet we talk forever over the phone. Our seats were seperated in the only class we have together!!!!! I hate my 7th period teacher!!!!!!!! I have had alot of girl trouble in my past and I'm scared she doesn't feel the same way, because over the phone she said we were just friends after someone spread a rumor about us. I've waited all my life for her, and i don't want to drive her off. I love this girl, but can I ever be her bf.... I don't know If she feels for me. (link)
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Hiya,
You sound like a real sweetie! Girls can be such b!tches sometimes!!
I think the only thing you can do is play the waiting game, until she is ready to take things further. Stay friends with her and be there for he if she needs you but don't smother her otherwise you are likely to push her further away.
Take Care and good luck - remember you are only 13 and there are plenty more girls out there, so even if this girl decides that she'll never go out with you don't worry because there are plenty more fish in the sea. (And in my opinion the girl that gets you is gonna be one lucky girl!)
Take Care
Melanie xx
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I have a really bad reputation for being mean. I can be, but I'm not constantly.
How can I get people to see me differently over a period of time? (link)
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Hiya,
The only way you can do this is by treating people better.
Make a conscious effort to do nice things for people - thank people when they do nice things for you, even little things like keeping a door open.
You'll find you feel a lot better for it too!
Take Care
Mel xx
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ok this is long yall but stick with me and i'll rate high. anyway im f/17 and ive been talkin to this guy whose 18. we go to the same school and we kind of started talking about 2 weeks ago. and he seemed like the perfect guy, literally, there was nothing wrong with him. but then he started hearing rumors about me that were so untrue about how im like a slut and stuff. and i told him that he just had to believe me when i say that they are not true because theres nothing else i can say or do to prove that they are not true. and he believed me. it took a little while to get past all of it but we finally did. the thing is though, were not boyfriend and girlfriend, we've just been kind of getting to know eachother in more ways than one. but then today i hear that the whole time that we've been talking, he has a girlfriend! and i was soooo upset at first! and when i went up to him and started yelling at him he told me that it wasnt true. he said theyve been best friends for a long time and stuff but they dont think of each other like that. and i was like "so if i ask her she'll tell me no yall arnt going out?" and he said yes. and then he said youre going to have to believe me like how i believe you. so should i? do ya'll think hes telling the truth? i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance...please help! (link)
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Hey there,
I think you should give him the chance - after all he gave you one!
He seems like a nice guy. If you are really worried about the relationship between them then why don't you suggest that you all go out for pizza/ a movie or something. He would definitely say NO if she was anything more than a platonic friend and it'll give you a chance to suss her out - you never know you might even end up liking her!
Take Care!
Mel xx
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Is it true that lifting weights stunts your growth? (link)
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PMPL!
As long as you are lifting them correctly and they are not far too heavy for you to lift then there is nothing wrong with weight lifting! It will not stunt your growth - have you seen the size of some of the weight lifters out there!!!
Have fun and take care!
Mel xx
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Here is my problem my dad and I are kind of a like but that isn't always a good thing. We are always arguing about some thing or another. We try to be nice to each other but that doesn't last long. Does anyone else have this kind of problem with your parents? If so what is your advice. (link)
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Hiya,
You are not on your own! Everyone has trouble getting on with their parents when they are teenagers (unless they are emotionless robots!!!)
I had the same problem as you, I am very similar personality-wise to my Mother so our personalities clashed ALL the time!!
The best thing to do if you feel an argument coming on and you are rubbing each other up the wrong way is to leave the house/room/area. Take 5 minutes (Or longer depending on how wound up you are!) listening to your favourite track, reading a bit of a book you like or checking your e-mails etc etc and then go back to them and say you are sorry for leaving the room "BUT" and then calmly tell him why you had to leave.
Take care
Mel xx
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O.k Well my best friend is a total whore... i mean like shes the type like if you have a dick .. shell suck it like after an hour of knowing you.. i confronted her about it like.. why have you changed so much (because she was never like this)The Other night i said some
things to her i maybe shouldnt have said..
but i meant them she told me i was never on her side, and i never helped her through anything meanwhile when she broke uph with her boyfriend i was there, through everything and when other people called her a whore i was there through it allll!!!
Well I Told Her i hoped she got pregnant and, shes a f****** whore, and a slut, and guys only want you for a#$ soo yea, i was pretty mean she was probably crying...
But today i was thinking am i just jealous of her. I mean shes a whore and she gets all the guys she wants, i always thought that if you havent done a lot of stuff with guys they'd want you more, am i wrong... AM I JEALOUS? (link)
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Hi there,
Do you want to be viewed as a whore? If your answer to this is NO then you are not jealous.
What you did is give your friend a few home truths, we all need this done occassionally! It's not nice to listen to someone slate you which is probably why she was upset, but hey, the truth hurts sometimes!
Guys normally go for girls that are fun to be with, don't worry you will get your share but unlike your friend you won't have to bribe them with sexual favours.
I would talk to your friend again and just tell her that you weren't intentionally trying to upset her but the things you said were true and that is how people view her - I mean if you, her best friend, thinks these things about her then what must everyone else think!!! Reputations are SOOO easy to get and almost impossible to lose!
Take Care
Mel xx
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I am a 19 year old female who has dated a lot of immature 18-21 year olds. I joined an online dating site recently, just because I thought it would be fun. Well, now I seem to be drawing myself towards older men, such as 30 year olds. I suppose it's because of their maturity level, financial stability, and experience.
Would this be socially acceptable for me to have a relationship with a 30 year old, or a bit taboo? How would others perceive us? What should I consider before dating an older man? What sort of problems may we encounter in our relationship? Any thoughts would be appreciated. (link)
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Hi there,
If you love someone (and you have used this dating site to find someone you could possibly fall in love with) then it doesn't matter what anyone thinks about your ages, race, religion as long as you are both happy with it.
In this day and ages there is nothing really anymore that is socially unacceptable when it comes to dating so get out there and don't worry about what other people think! If we all worried about what everyone else thought then no one would get anywhere!!! :o)
Mel
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