I smile,laugh,love,and live in the moment. I don't think lifes worth wasteing on a boring day. I am happy and with who I am. lifes about friends who hold on to you,the people who you love and return it. I don't believe in changing for anyone, i can say that everything happens for a reason and if its not a good ending,then its not over. I Love music, and interested in anything to do with style,makeup,and fashion. I also love heroes, south park, and family guy :]. I'm done with the fake people,i've basically dropped all who never cared. and i'm actually happy,i feel so much better ! I've been through it,the friends,family,and the whole finding yourself. And i think Marylous Coffee is bomb.I have the most amazing friends; and i'm so lucky to have those crazy bitches >:}.I'm obbsessed with Harry Potter
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i've been really depressed for the past 4 years and i'm literally crying right now. i'm 16/female. i have no siblings, and really old 'step' parents like in the 60s, and they have alot of trouble relating to me, and i don't really like them. i have like a few friends and only one i hang out with like once/twice a month... that's it. please don't tell me to invite them over more, i try. so i live like in the middle of nowhere...not literally but it feels like that. and, there's nothing to do at home. i can't do anything i want to do in these conditions like write songs and read or w.e. i just watch tv, go to chatting rooms on the internet and eat alot of junk food. i feel so lonely and seluded, i've been trying to get a job but noones hiring me. every summer i feel like this and wish to move, but the other times it didnt work out. im still waiting for an answer right now. but i'm thinking about killing myself. i feel so hopeless. nobody knows i feel like this, i just put on a 'happy face', people don't like depressed people or loosers, so i fake it. i have no life and i just want to die and give up. i don't know what i'm asking just... please help, ifeel really bad right now. and i'm driven crazy doing the same everyday sitting in a room all alone. (link)
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let me tell you; you're not alone here.:].
even i have felt so alone and different from everyone; i felt like no matter what i did; i couldn't meet ANYONES standards.
but then i realized. why the hell would i want to actually try so hard to meet a standard?Someone else's judgement, some one else's classification they can just fit you in. So okay; obviously; you don't like yourself right now. actually; you probably don't even know who you are. But thats why, now, you can prove everyone wrong.
and the first thing i did was just completely let go of everything i had. people who don't care; thoughts of "i'm not good enough,i'll never be happy again"; or even crying because your so alone.
Get a new look. figure out the things you like.
Revamp your whole style;work out even if you want to.Smile at yourself(haha, corny,but it works =]).Set goals.
Forget about how people see you; and don't think they see you as any negative thought. they don't know you, so why worry what they think?
If you go in thinking the worst; its bound to happen. I really think you should read a book called "The Secret"; a book about how to find happiness by atracting it to you. Instead of thinking your a "loser", say "I have something to offer, I am here for a reason, and i don't care what people think of me." or even just say "I'm Happy, and greatful for everything i do have"
Think of it this way; Why do you feel hopeless?
you have so much to give. right now; you need some more confidence =]. Find a drive, such as writing songs. find anything that makes you feel good and embrase it.
You keep saying "i can't.,i don't"
if you keep thinking of these negative thoughts; you'll attract more negativity to you.
For example; the first day of school. if you think "what if they don't like me" it's a good chance they won't. because,
That leaves an open door to that one option. when theres so many other out comes than the one thats already in your mind.
but if you go in thinking "I'm going to make amazing friends; have fun; and be myself." and focus on that thought; it will happen. and hey, if it doesn't turn out that way, just say "Oh well!" because thats all you should think if something bad happens to you. move on, shake it off, and don't let it ruin your day.
look, i know i'm all over the place with this haha;but i just really am hoping you realize theres sooo much more out there, and being 16, your just at the beginning. Today, is a clean slate.
when you're home alone, SCREAM. at the top of you're lungs. let it all out. dance! do something you're not used to doing. Spark up a conversation or smile at anyone. It takes time. It may take awhile. but don't give up, just keep going. what i like to do is listen to really up lifting songs. sing to them, even if someones in the room.I mean, just go for it, what do you have to loose anyways?
well i know this was long! so i'm going to leave off here.. haha, woww! i really hope i at least gave you a little advice that was worth reading :]
and good luck, please don't give up
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does anyone know the best cream to get rid of undereye bags?
ive tried the clinique, and i didnt really do much.
i know i need to drink a lot of water and get sleep, but nothings working, does anyone else have any suggestions?
thankssss if you can help me :D
im 16/f by the way, so no surgeries pleasee :/ (link)
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hmm, i've had the same problem with my under eyes.
Best cream out there i've used is "eyes alive" by wei east. its deffinatly worth it,and all they're products are natural. :]
some other things i've heard are ..
*put two spoons in the freezer for 15 minutes. after the spoons are pretty cold, put them under your eyes for as long as it takes for the bags to reduce.
This might be true,because coldness helps circulation.
*make tea (haha) after you've used the teabags, take them out and let them sit till they cool. put them under your eyes for 10 minutes.
I'm not sure if this works,but its worth a try. They say the herbs in the teas reduce swelling/baggage.
Other than that, it could be hereditary. nothing helps that =/. if you mom or dad has under eye circles too,then thats probably the culprit.
everyone has them, no doubt about that one,just,some more than others. try investing in a good concealer, i can't really tell you which one, because it also depends on how the rest of your skin is. lately i've just been useing Powder on my undereyes,so i wouldnt really know :p.
hope i helped :D
xkisakissx
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Recently, my friend's life just got a whole lot better. Everything is "perfect" now. Honestly, it is her year. At first I was jealous, but to be a good friend, her needs definitely go before mine. I'd rather be a good person, and squash my envy, than to lose a good friend.
Anyways, as a result of her "perfect" life, there is nothing to talk about. Nothing at all. We've already talked about all the "sweet" things her boyfriend says to her. The fact that he's going to give her her first kiss on her sixteenth birthday. The fact that her dad is throwing her a killer party. The fact that her grades are awesome, and she's winning so many awards.
There's just nothing to talk about. She doesn't call as much. Doesn't ask about me, how I'm doing or anything.
I'm just shocked. We had such a strong friendship. She (used to, anyways) claim that I am the reason she is her life is in order now, because I listened to her and helped her through all the hard times.
Can I save this? Does it even need saving? Is it worth it? (link)
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Well, your best friends!
you were there for her through it all,so it'd make sence if you where with her for the good times.
maybe instead of talking about how good her life is,
try to improve yours :]. talk about boys for instance. maybe her boyfriend has some single friends ;]. you could always start a "what if this happend?" kind of thing. not in a bad way,but jokingly. Or, i know you might not want to hear it, but maybe it is time for you to split apart. just for a little while. so you can get your life on track. Maybe doing what you've done to help her, is all you really can do.Now its her turn. What i'm saying is, your friendship is based on advice and helping,sticking together. so keep that bond by hanging out with her more and just creating memories. now that all the dramas out you guys can have care free fun. I think it'd be interesting if you guys went on a double date,if you have a boyfriend. if not,have her bf invite someone ;]. that open millionss of new doors for conversation.
Basically,to me,your saying your friendship is getting awkward. Change that by having fun. going out.
ugh, i feel like i'm rambling. sorry!
haha, i hoped i helped with all of this ;D
but please, if you need help, just drop one in my inbox. because, who hasn't had this feeling before?your not alone.
xkisakissx.
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my hair was probably down to the middle of/almost under my boobs. and it was getting split ends so i went to this really nice haircutting place and they took so much off. it probably has atleast an inch off when i asked for a half. i have really wavy hair & they layered it too, so it looks even more shorter. i hate it when my hairs short.
how much does hair grow in a month!? :( (link)
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hair grows generally a half inch a month,
but its different for everyone.
i personally think its cuter to wear your hair wavy, since spring and summer are coming up! straightening it would deffinatly make it look longer,but i wouldn't do it so often if you wanted to grow your hair out.
i heard peppermint oil stimulates the scalp,to help it get healthier, but nothing really makes it grow faster. they just promote growth. don't buy into those expensive pills either,hair grows back :]
if any pills,try "Hair, Skin and Nails"
but,like i said, it only makes hair healthier.
it will still grow a 1/2 inch a month,
but at least it will look better, and not break so often :]
also, invest in some good hair products for wavy hair! like Aussie. it'd be a change. i just started wearing my hair curly, and people love it.
i really hope i helped, good luck hun.:]
xkisakissx
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I REALLY NEED HELP! i have a 6 week old puppy, he is a lab/pit bull. he was crated when he was with his mom and brothers. but now that hes crated here even if hes falling over tired he still cries! he wont stop. all night long. non stop.. we have to put him in the basement where we cant hear him but i feel so bad!!! even in my room if the door is shut he starts yelping. i know the crying is just cause hes out of what hes intouch with but everything people have said to do does NOT work. even if i lay down with him and my fingers inthe crate singing or talkign to him he SCREAMSSSSS and i cant take it. i start to cry. if anybody has ANY tips pleaseee help me.
*a vet told me not to put any hot water bottles, school clocks, blankets, or toys unless they are kongs. they choke on toys and blankets, pop the water bottle, pee on the toys and blankets. it makes a mess... so i cant put anything int here!! i put his stuffed animals outside looking in thinking that would help. it didnt.
*I take his water and food up about 2 hours before being crated and i take him to go to the bathroom and run him around alittle bit untill he gets SUPER tired and is falling over. (he still wakes up when he is put in there and starts howling)
any tips, stories, anythiiinnngg!!! just please help me! thanks sooo much in advance. (link)
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you have to make him feel like his crate is a good place. bring him back upstairs,
everytime he goes in his crate,give him a treat.
do this everytime, and he wont be so sad. and it'll be easier then dragging him in there.
also, (once you bring him up from the basement) only let him stay in one room (my puppy stays in the kitchen, you could get gates. but we just use big boxes,haha.) and buy one of those doggy-beds. put it in a corner of the room, where ever really, but i think corners are best. that'll be "his area". so when he's bad, he'll probably go in the corner.
(it can also be the place where his toys and treats are.)
he might need a bigger crate, even if he's small.
besides, they grow really fast! trust mee, my dog went though 3 crates already-and he's only 7 months!
i'd keep him out (in that one room) during the day. like, right when you get home from school let him out. i doubt he likes to be in the crate all the time!
so i hope i helped. and if you need anything else just drop it in the inbox
good luck!
xkisakissx
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my windows xp laptop is (was) connected to Linksys. it was working fine and now i cant get on the internet!!!
when i hover over the local area connection it says network cable unplugged...and when i hover over the wireless network connection it says not connected. there are 2 laptops in the house, and the main computor works fine with internet. the laptops are both wireless, and one of them works with the internet still right now.
when i click view available wireless connections, the screen says: windows cannot configure this wireless connection.
also, when i right click on the icon and click repair it says connecting, but then says: windows could not finish repairing the problem because the following action cannot be completed: connecting to the wireless network
IM NOT GOOD WITH COMPUTORS! STEP BY STEP WOULD HELP! AND THANKYOU!!!!!!!!!
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thankyou so much you did help me remove the 1397 or whatever that was....but after steps 1-5 when you say go to view available wireless networks...nothing is there. it says windows cannot configure this wireless connection.
thankyou xxxxx (link)
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arghh, sometime that will get fixed on its own, a few mintues after it should say "auto-recconnecting"
If not,double click on "Wireless COnnection"
and it will say "Wireless Connection Status" for the name of the window.
1.and here you can click on the button saying "View Wireless connections."
2.next to the Wireless Network Name;(ex;Linksys)
3.it should either say manual,automatic, and one of them should* say "connected" next to it.
4.If none of them say "connected" , Double click on the network your house provides. (like a belkin, the name of your router)
5.And if its connected,but still says "cannot configure wireless connection" when you try to repairoutr it, there might be something wrong with how the connections are set up. and if its not working, i'd just play around with it and see if you can figure anything out. thats how i learned how to do all this, now my friends ask me what to do when it happens. So if all else fails, try playing around with it , make sure you dont disable things though. At first i thought it was tough, but once you understand your computer, it'll be much easier. Besides, i'd rather see if i could fix it myself before i go out and have the trouble of getting someone to fix something.
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my windows xp laptop is (was) connected to Linksys. it was working fine and now i cant get on the internet!!!
when i hover over the local area connection it says network cable unplugged...and when i hover over the wireless network connection it says not connected. there are 2 laptops in the house, and the main computor works fine with internet. the laptops are both wireless, and one of them works with the internet still right now.
when i click view available wireless connections, the screen says: windows cannot configure this wireless connection.
also, when i right click on the icon and click repair it says connecting, but then says: windows could not finish repairing the problem because the following action cannot be completed: connecting to the wireless network
IM NOT GOOD WITH COMPUTORS! STEP BY STEP WOULD HELP! AND THANKYOU!!!!!!!!! (link)
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ahhh this happens to me all the time. okay, well go to..
1.start>>
2.control panel>>
(it'll say pick a catorgory)
3. click on network and internet connections>>
(now it'll say,on the second half of the page,"or
pick a control panel icon" )
4.click on network connections>>
5. Now, you'll be on your network connections.
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**IF YOU SEE A CONNECTION called "1394 Connection"**
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if you don't,skip down to step 8!
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6 this is probably the reason for a slow and annoying connection =//.
6 A)Click on the connection only once, so its highlighted in blue.
6 B)There will be a Blue Box called "Net work Tasks" on the side of your page
6 C)Double Click on the "Change settings of this connection" with the check mark next to its name. it should be VERY last task there
6 D)Now that your there, You'll see a Box come up that says "1394 Connection Properties"
6 E)Stay on the tab that says "general"
6 F)You see the text just under the tab labled general? It should say "connect using:"
6 G)You'll see a "CONFIGURE.." Button next to the "connect using:" Box. Click on that.
6 H)Click on the tab labeled "DRIVER"
6 I)There will be four buttons you can click on, but the one you want to click on will say "uninstall driver". Once you click on it something will pop up, just click "okay"
7 Soooo now that(what i think is a virus) is gone, you can EXIT out of it,and go back to steps 1-5. Dont worry if "a wireless network cable is unplugged" ;; it says that on mine AND my friends laptop too.
Now i'm going to continue with the following steps After this, but
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*****IF YOU DID NOT SEE A CONNECTION CALLED "1394",********
this is what you should be reading after step 5*!.
8. Okayy, so steps 1-5 brought you to the network connections. Now click on "WIRELESS Network Connection"
9. Click "view wireless networks" Try to connect to your wireless router (for example, mine is called a belkin. so i'd connect to "the belkin54")
Its not as good to connect to linksys, because linksys is just the network that is for all laptops,but not a real reliable connection.
AHHHH , so many steps!
I REALLLY hope i helped, because i know how its so frustrating when you get that "server not found" page! haha. if you have more questions about this, write to my inbox and i'll deffinatly help you.
xkisakissx
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I recently found out that my baby is going to be a girl. I was just wondering what everyone thought of naming her Gracie Mae. Please be honest! (link)
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auw, its very unique and lovely.
i absolutly love it.
go for it
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16/f
This 15 year old guy asked me out (5 month difference in age) But I don't like him so much. I used to..when he was better looking and not so much of a jerk..as he is now. He assumed that I said yes. I didn't say yes. (He thinks I like him so much)
Well, I want to tell him no..Like in school. Or even online. But I don't know how to. I've never had a boyfriend before, and I don't want this one to be my first.
(Also because he told me we were going to engage in sexual acts. He told me that we would progress as a couple...I don't want that. It's disgusting)
How do I turn him down? =\ (link)
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since you have no feelings for him,it'll be a lot easier to turn him down. tell him straight, that you think he's coming on too strong and only want to be friends. this could be a good wake up call for him, so i'd deffinatly turn him down before everyone thinks you two are official.
i hope i helped somewhat :].
good luck hun,
xkisakissx.
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Okay, well I know that a recurring dream is something that's trying to be told to you but you're often missing the point of it. I've been told by people that you have to have an objective standpoint when looking at dreams. I'll just tell you all my recurring dream and if anyone could tell me what they think it means it'd be greatly appreciated
my dream:
I have a dream about every month or couple of weeks, and in it I move back to my old house. It's not always the same house though, but i can just tell that it's where I used to live even though it doesn't look the same. In every one of my dreams I see my ex-boyfriend there. In one of them It was as if we were going to a dance together. In a couple others he was always just outside and i'd be looking at him from afar (oh, we used to be neighbors) In one of them we kissed. So, if anyone has any input on what those might mean, it'd be great. thank you! (link)
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this is funny, because i've been having dreams about my ex boyfriend, and in it we've been talking, we've been in forests and malls, wherever.
What i'm thinking for your dreams is that since you were so close once,your dreaming of what you could've done, have done, and your looking at the different out looks. In the dreams your watching from afar, your looking at him like you're still so close to him,but so far. you know?
point blank:your dreaming about him.
this doesn't necessarily mean you still like him,
but you like some parts, and are just filling in the rest with your imagination.
Next time you dream,try to remember what was there and your surroundings,it all makes a difference.
You could also be dreaming about your old life in general, the house,boy friend, where you live.
i hope i helped some what=]],
xkisakissx.
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it's better to fail at originality, then to succeed in imitation.
What does that mean? (link)
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i get what the person below me is trying to say, but they just took it way to literal. all this saying is saying, is to not copy what everyone else is doing. or basically, just be original. meaning don't follow trends, make them. find something someone hasn't warn in awhile, and wear it. simple, just be you.
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there is this kid that i like. not a little crush "like", but the kind of "like" where your chest feels all compressed and your heart feels like its going to crawl out. i talk to him and think i've gotten to know him a lot and we say hi in the halls and stuff and he's just starting to get to know the real me. i can't get him off of my mind...ever! i want to tell him i like him but i'm not sure how he'll react or what he'll say. his last relationship wasn't that great and i know he got hurt. please give me an idea on how to tell him. (link)
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just out of curiosity, is this by any chance Taryn?
haha, sorry if i sound like a creep.
anyways, tell the boy you like him! whats there to loose? theres a reason for people being in you life, and telling could open up a whole new door
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Does anyone know some pretty quotes about life and love and friendship? things about simplicity and joy just things like that. I love quotes and wanted some new ones so if u know a few good ones or have a favorite or anything please tell me! For your help i will rate you all!!! :) (link)
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you don't need to know everything, just the things to be happy.
theres a lot in the world to think about,but nothing to worry about.
save an egg,crack a smile.
xkzx.
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hey my friend had these really comfortable looking shoes on today but i cant find them anywhere, there kind of like house shoes except there not, does anyone know where i can find them? (link)
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i think i know what you're talking about, they're like slippers, only with (for example, they'd be brown on the outside,really plushy or furry on the inside, and then some of that plush/fur in around the rim of the frount?) haha, sorry if that confused you! i think i'm catchin' what you're saying though. Check out Target, thier exactly like the "ugg" brand, only so much cheaper. (only 12.99 ;) )
Also try macys, they'll deffinatly have them. if you want to get really pricey, try uggs.com. well i hope i helped! good luck on your search (:.
xkisakissx.
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I'm writing a short story, and I need help picking names for my characters. These are my top 8 names for boys and girls. I'll have teenage girl and boy characters, adult male and female characters, and a 6 year old girl character.
Lettme know which name[s] you like best, and If you think a particular name would work best for a
character of a particular age. Thanks!
Girl Names:
Roxanne
Juliette
Isabelle
Natalia
Scarlett
Raegan
Annabelle
Jade
Boy Names:
Damien
Peter
Lukas
Blake
Aiden
Riley
Derek
Blaise/Blaze
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Teenage Girl: Natalia, Scarlett, Raegan (nickname: ray).
Teenage Boy: BLAKE. Aiden.
Adult Female: Roxanne, Juliette
Adult Male: Peter, Lukas.
6 year old girl : i actually think Riley*, the one you put down for a boy, would be wicked cute for a girl. its my friends name, i love it. it would be perfect. :]
hope i helped!
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^Where do you think she got the things to make her outfit? i really like it, what stores (besides urban outfitters) can you get those type of clothes? thankyouuu :] (link)
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if the link didn't work, try this one http://i23.tinypic.com/15dlwnm.jpg
thankyou :]
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I just got an exander for my braces, and my prounciation is horrible now. I have a very hard time prounanciating the word me, and I have a singing competition this Saturday. Is there any way I can improve my speech. The expander presses against the roof of my mouth so... (link)
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i know exactly how you feel, when i had mine in, i had to do a reading in acting class. horribleeee. anyways, just keep practicing your diction, like the really hard ones. (e,r,k,anything that doesn't sound right) practice the songs,and when you sing open your mouth bigger than you used to. when you start getting a space in between your frount teeth, you could put wax (the ones they give you when you get your braces) in between it. it wont look as noticeable. okay, well i hope i helped
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Does anyone know where I can get a job at 15? Like at an actually store. Thanks! (link)
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Dunkin' Doughnuts,
Stop and Shop
Shaws
(any kind of grocery store, or coffee shop basically)
Babysitting(obviously)
not so sure about Mcky D's.
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Hey this question is for anyone and I'll rate you on how truthful it is, just tell me about a time when you were left out of something.
I need to write kinda like an article so the more the merrier!
thank you very much for taking your time reading this (link)
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one time in 8th grade, my friend thought i told my mom that they where drinking. (in reality, they were just talking about it jokingly,i wasn't even in school that day, but someone somehow decided i was to blame) anyways, there was a big group of kids in that class that were all friends. i was in it, but she turned them all against me.in that whole class, i just sat alone at my table and did my work,while listening to everyone have a good time. i'll never forget feeling so alone, mistaken,and betrayed. i was left with only one true friend in that group, and she basically brought me back. in the end they found out who it was,but most didn't say sorry.
the enddd.
haha, i've learned to go with your gut on something, confrount people on things, and be stronger. soo hey, at least i got something good out of it?
hope i helped :] .
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ok so im white, and i HATE IT! but in the summer time i can tan so i dont mind it so its okay, but now that its almost winter time im getting really white again and its annoying as hell! and halloween is coming up and well all my friends and i are dressing slutty and it shows my legs and well my legs are really white and stuff and my my friends are all pretty tan so anyways my question is what is a good way to look semi tan with out going to like a tanning bed because like if i went to a tanning bed you could TOTTALY tell i went and that would be tottaly embarressing because one day i would be pale and then the next day i would be tan and i dont want indoor tanning stuff unless it like ACTUALLY WORKS! and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEE let it work because i had the worst experience with indoor tanning stuff, please help me i hate being white, it makes my self confidence go down so much! and i dont know what to do to make my self look tan! and there is so sun in the winter! (link)
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ppleasee don't go to a tanning bed. its so bad for your skin, no lie. i've used many other things that work just as well. Jergins natural glow, is a lotion, and i've been using it for awhile now. It gradually tans you so you look naturaly tan. i love it
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