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is it a good way to make money

yea! if ur under 16 then its probly one of the best jobs that you are able to get.

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i have these kids i babysit for, and i mean theyre okay and everything, but they dont listen!! i dont know what to do, i even take out my cell phone and pretend to call their moms! theres a 8 year old A.D.H.D. boy, a 4 year old girl, and an infant. i get paid 4$ an hour...does that seem like enough for what i have to deal with?

no not at all! if u babysit them all at once then you should b payed around 10 dollars an hour. if ur babysitting one kid at a time though then 4 or 5 dollars is OK.

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What's a good rate to charge for babysitting a 1 and 3 yr old?

if u babysit them both at the same time then about 10 or 8 dollars an hour

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Hey I have natrually thick wavy hair a few inches past my shoulders..and I try and scrunch it all the time...but I always have a few problems. I have a lot of hair products ( Scrunch spray, curl revial spray, moose, scrunching gell, regular gell..a lot more ) and I don't know which one is the best to use. Also it's really poofy when I scrunch it..any tips? Thanks so muchhh!

well if it gets too poofy then wear it up. but also if u havent already try using a curling iron or a waving iron.

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my hair is straight...and up to my waist...all my friends have wavy hair nd always scrunch their hair..its reallie cute..but when i try doing mine it doesnt turn out right...like i'll put my hair in braids over night, take it owt nd use my aussie sprunch spray, but it just doesnt stay in..any advice?!

try using an iron that waves hair. sorry thats all i can think of

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hey im about 5'7 i have medium brown hair but then kind of light.. im pretty tan and i have green/brown eyes.. i want to find sum hairstyles and make that will make me look hott!..plz dont tell me look in magazines for hair.. plz explain a hair style to me and makeup.. thank you

or jus IM me at ulshxo

u sound almost exactley like ma friend! she used to have medium length brown hair and shes rlly tan and has brown eyes and a year ago she got her hair styled and it looks sooo good on her. its hard to explain what she got done but its layered and she also got bangs. sorry if u dont get what i mean. i hope i helped!
~jj

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What should I wear to a dance? It's not formal. I am a blonde with green/blue eyes and pale skin. I'll rate high. :-)

wear a pink or wite wife beater, lip gloss, n some tight pants or jeans, n a little eyeshadow n if your hairs straight then curl it and if your hairs curly then straitghen it. itd be sumtin differnet then people are used to

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I have been taking paxil (An anti-depressent pill) for about 3 years, and I'm now 16. Recently I stopped taking it because I feel like it blinds me. I feel like i'm too happy on it and I'm not myself. I was thinking about lowering the dose but I've already been on that and It didnt seem to do anything. I think that by taking the pill it changes who I am. My parents are getting really worried now because I havent taken it, and i'm not sure if I should get back on it. Does anyone get what I mean?? I was born who I am, and that is depressed, anxious, and with anger. I think I should be myself and face these problems on my own, with out medicne. I dont think medicine is the best way to deal with problems. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do. Am I doing the right thing?? What do you think about this. Thanks! -Jenny

if you dont want to take it and dont think you should then dont but if it makes you happy then you should because it shouldnt be that you feel depressed all of the time. hope i helped!
~jj

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I am a 17 year old female and my exboyfriend is 16years old. My ex-boyfriend which is the 2nd guy I ever dated is my first love and he told me that I am his first love. Ever time we see each other we end up making-out even if one of us has a boyfriend or girlfriend. He also like to irritate me alot and he like to play a lot of stupid little games and its annoying. I tell myself that I'm over him but every time I see him I fall in love with him again. What can/should I do?????????

it sound like u like him but you are just trying to make yourself think that your over him. i think u should go out with im again and see what happens. hope i helped!
~jj

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I am not looking forward to thanksgiving this year because everything is so messed up. My boyfriend (of 5 and a half years) was best friends with this guy for 6 years. Now they are complete enemies (I won't get into why, it'll make this ? way too long). Well, this guy he was friends with, lets call him "dildo," has been with my sister for 2 years and they are now pregnant together so he is now in my family. So my family is all getting together and stuff for thanksgiving and Dildo is going to be there with my sister and my b'friend was really looking forward to going until he found out Dildo was going. Now of course he can't. My family says they can't both be there because no confrontations can be stirred up because my grandmother is old with a weak heart. So they (as in my mother and my sister) decided to choose to let Dildo go because he can't go to his families because they all hate him. (Dildo is an Italian tough guy who is a thief and con artist type of guy), they chose him even though he is the one that left a threatening message on our answering machine because he decided to jump to conclusions one day and listen to false accusations. I am so mad! The rest of my family would have chose my b'friend over him, but they have to pretend to be nice for my sister's sake, so they kinda gotta stay out of it. My b'friend is a Sonny Corinthos from General Hospital type of guy who if you betray him he doesn't forgive (no, he's not an Italian mobster). Now I am supposed to go over there with my 1 year old son and just leave my b'friend here at home alone. I am supposed to eat there, come back home, and then go to his family's. But eating takes so long, I'll be there so late I know it, my b'friends day will suck so bad for him waiting for me alone (we have 1 car, he has to wait). I am tempted to just stay home with me, him, and the baby and skip thanksgiving dinner altogether (I don't know how to cook birds). I don't want to spend the entire day at his family's either cuz they're all bi-polar psychos who just argue all the time. Sorry this was so long, but what do I do??? Thanks to whoever can help.

spend a couple of hours with your family and not eat too much over there and then spend the rest of the night with your bf and treat him and the baby to dinner at a restaurant of his choice. hope i helped!
~jj

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Okay so my friend just told me that my other friend got raped about 2 years ago.. and I am just now finding this out. And oh my god, I didn't believe her at first, but I know she wouldn't lie about something like this. Ah I am in total shock, I like still can't believe it. I just don't want to believe it... oh my god but I really need to tell my mom, she's good friends with my friend's mom and she deserves to know. But how in the world do I tell her? I like can't come right out and say it.. ahh I really just want to forget about all this though... HELP!!

just when u feel comfy tlkn to ur mom about other things just bring it up and tell her. youll fel better aftrward. hope i helped.
~jj

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well..my friend is being really annoying..recently a guy has hurt her..and all she does is talk bout him and its getting very annoying..im tired of hearing about it..i dont want to be mean and tell her to shut up..but what should i do?! help me please!

omg i have exactly the same problem! my friend was hurt really bad by this boy shes been in love with forever and will never shutup about him. i just pretend to be mildly interested in what she is saying when she talks about him and shes getting the idea that she hasta learn to shut her mouth. hope i helped!
~JJ

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My b-day party is coming up and i just switched skewls now i'm in a public skewl. Now the kids at my old skewl r more care free and like wut they like. The kids at my new skewl care about wut other people think accept some (key word some) of my friends. I'm a mix of both wen i'm with certain friends i'm care free, but with my other friends i'm not.I'm not having a theme party (thats just wrong for a kid my age altho i'm only 13) but i dont kno wut i should say or do. Please help me!

u should hav an all glrs sleepova with only a few of ur new care free friends to get to kno them betta n to feel betta bout urself, with ur friends u should rent a movie n eat snacks n put on each othas makeup n otha grl stuff. itll b alot o fun! hope i helped.
~jj

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i'm going to be moving soon and i was wondering if there are any teenagers out there with some good ideas on how to decorate a new bedroom?? you know, something fun yet classy, but not too crazy.

u shold paint it ur fave color n put up movie posters n get stuff like curtains n lamos n shelves thats the opposite color of ur walls

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OK, I am 15 and I like this guy who is yonger then and he is only 13, do you think it is right to go out with a guy that is 2 years yonger then you. O, and by the way he looks like he is 16, but he isnt.

i think u should go out with him if hes mature enough

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alright this guys..lets say collin and he and i are best friends. but when im not around he'll go around and ask my other friends where im..but when i get there he'll like ignore me! then last night we were at a party and he was flirting with me..then the next minute hes flirting with this other girl..but looking at me well doing it! i mean does he like me or not?! cause i really like him..but i dont kno if i should keep liking him! also he has a girlfriend and they have been going out for 5 months..but they havent kissed or anything.

i think he likes u n is sumtimes shy bout it or hes just trying to make u jealous but i dunno what to say bout that gf thing

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ok, heres the deal. i have long, straight blonde hair. i was wondering how can i get my hair into ringlets cause i think they look so cool, but nothing seems to work! please help, it has gotten to my LAST nerve.

try using a curling iron or curling shampoo or just try any otha hair product that sposed to make ur hair curly

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should i change my look from preppy 2 punk 4 a guy?

depends how much u like the guy

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I have a 6 month old beagle and he bites me all the time..and only me and sometimes my mom but not my dad or brother..he never used to to this! It started about a few weeks ago and I don't think he's mad because half the time he's around me and happy..and then the other half he just starts chewing on me and I tell him to stop and I move away and he get's even more mad! I don't know what to do it really bothers me and it hurts! I know he's not teething because he's past that age and he chews his toys too. If I try to stop and disiplin him he doesn't listen..but he listens to everyone else in my family! Please help! I'll rate high..thanks!!

he probly is just playing with u .wen u move away he thinks u want him to chase u or sumtin

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my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends?

well u can tell if u can trust them if they tell u otha ppls secrets. like if they tell u who 1 o their otha friends like n they make u swear u wont say anythin then u probly cant trust them

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