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my friend is being annoying but i dont want to be mean
well..my friend is being really annoying..recently a guy has hurt her..and all she does is talk bout him and its getting very annoying..im tired of hearing about it..i dont want to be mean and tell her to shut up..but what should i do?! help me please!
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Well this is what I would do Tell your friend that you know she is hurt but I am getting annoyed about it. Just tell her that there is plenty of fish in the sea..
AND THEN TAKE HER OUT TO THE MOVIES AND BUY HER SOME ICE CREAM
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Well,you dont have to say "shut up" just tell her how ya feel. Tell her you are sorry that that happened to her but she needs to let go. If you arent up for saying that then just change the topic. Hope i helped and good luck :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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I think you should just talk to her and tell her that he is not the only guy that is going to be in her life.....plus many people out there get there heart broken....Just talk to her and if she wont listent to you...just tell her that your only there to help her....! But i hope everything will work out for you!
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It sounds like your friend is feeling pretty low. Though high-maintenance friends can be very difficult to deal with when you've heard it 15 times before, the last thing she probably needs is being told that it's getting annoying. Instead, be there for her in other ways than just listening to her talk. Suggest that you do something fun to get her mind of the guy. Take her to the cinema or out somewhere similar and tell her you want her to have a whole day where she's just having fun and not thinking about him. If she then starts to talk about him, remind her that this is supposed to be about her having fun and moving forward, not dwelling on it. Hopefully this will help her move forward and stop thinking (and talking) about this guy so much, and she'll get back to being hte friend you love.
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omg i have exactly the same problem! my friend was hurt really bad by this boy shes been in love with forever and will never shutup about him. i just pretend to be mildly interested in what she is saying when she talks about him and shes getting the idea that she hasta learn to shut her mouth. hope i helped!
~JJ
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hey
just change the conversation. or you could be like" you always talk about him" hope i helped
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