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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

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My brother is ten and does not have enough self confidence. He is shy around everybody expecially at school. In class he totally blanks out if a teacher asks him something. The worst thing about this is that his french teacher hates him. He comes home everyday saying that he has no friends yet everyday he is seen talking to someone comming out of the school building. My parents sent him to a psycologist and he (psycologist) made him answer questions for around three hours. The psycologist is not helping what so ever and I am the only one that actually understands my brother. What do I do?

Maybe since you understand him you can help him. Invite friends over and make him talk to them and stuff. Talk to him one on one and ask him what he thinks is wrong with him. If there is somthing he wants to say to the teacher PUSH his to tell the teacher MAKE him tell the teacher or whoever else he has to tell the thing to. Make him say speeches or stories in front of family, friends, ect. Tell him tricks such as when you are on the stage saying a speech pretend everyone is in their underware. My friend had the same problem but we all cared about her dearly and made her talk her mind and now she is a confident girl ready for the world ahead of her.
Sorry if im no help
♥ Michelle

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umm...yea...dont think ima nerd or w/e but i hav NO clue which books you read first in the star wars series....i just saw episode 3 which is the first time i've ever seen star wars...and i RLY wanna read the books but i dont exactly know which ones to read first.I wanna read the ones with anakin skywalker first so that would be the episode 1 throught 3 books i suppose but i went on the internet to this site and it showed the order by like "45 year after star wars" and "15 years before starwars" and wen i saw the episosde 1 books and all that it showed books that were befoe it and in the middle....so i dont kno if there are books before anakin was even discovered er sumthin that dont even include luke or wut... so plz could some give me the order in which to read them by the ones that come before episode 1-3 and the ones that are in between the episodes 1-3 then the ones like episode 4-5 er w/e and so forth....PLZ help!i am becomin really confused!!!

Hey i didnt know until i asked the libraian. BUt im so stupid and i forgot!! All yo have to do is go to barnes and nobles or somthing and ask them the order in wich you read the books!!
sorry im no help!!
♥ Michelle

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I am going on a field trip tomorrow with my fellow freshman classmates and I'm a bit self concious about something. You see, we are going to a theme Park (Dorney Park... It's in NJ. Sort of like 6 Flags) anyway, they have a water park and I am going to be wearing a bikini. I'm a bit self concious about my back. I have a few pimples on my back- not big ones but they are very red and noticeable. My hair since it is long covers up a few of the pimples but I'm still a little nervous about going out in public like that. I've always been covered. I've tried a few acne medications on my back and nothing seems to work. Does anyone have a way of covering them more or helping me so that I am not as self concious about it? Any help would be appreciated.

Well if this makes you feel any better, i have the same problem but im a dancer and go to dance like that wearing a leotard. No one minds it, and besides, you can just put cover up on it!!
♥ Michelle

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My 7th grade class is going on a school trip to Lake Compounce in Conneticut. It is on June 16th and (this may sound weird but...) I want to GO with someone (as in a DATE) I am not sure what to do. Should I drop hints, or ask? Ask one of ym guy friends and tell them I want to go as friends? Or tell them it is a date? Please help!
Also although we usually have a dress code we can wear w/e we want (I am going to wear a bikini under my clothes) but I am not sure what to wear. I want to dresss attractively, but not sluty.

I WILL RATE 5'S FOR ALL ANSWERS!
(As long as it is not retarded)

THANKS!

Hey well drop hints to the guy you like and if he doesnt get it like most guys just say will you go to the lake thing with me as a date? And as for what you wear. Layer difforent color white beaters over your bathing suit and then wear a cute mini skirt and, flip-flips. For your hair put it up or down and make a popodore, dont forget your glasses!!
♥ Michelle

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f/14
Recently my friend just broke up with his girlfriend. Before, i wasn't really sure how i felt about him and i started to lean toward the not really liking him more than a friend choice, but now that he broke up with her, my feelings are starting to change because he's single now. She was my friend but it looks like a mutual breakup because they still talk a lot. It seems like he's starting to flirt with me again but then he told me about this girl that i hate that flirts with him a lot. It kinda freaked me out. I told him that his x-gf thought that i liked him but he was like cool. Obviously he doesn't care or he wants to sound like he doesn't care. I don't know.

He wants to sound like he doesnt care so he doesnt show it too much you know? He is a typical boy. But before you do anything talk to your friend and see if she is okay with you doing stuff with him, afterall they were going out and might still ike eachother. Flirt with him more and stuff untill he admits he likes you.
♥ Michelle

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Ok....well me and my friends are really tight and all (thats what i thought) but like i like one of my friends more then a friend and no one knows that besides my bf Tashnique. And yesturday my sister and her friend were in the lunch room when i was in there and i went to go say Hi and this EX friend named Sade' told the guy i like to say "your sisters better then you" and "id rather go out with your sister then you" and all that and he did and then my best friend was like "Sade' told him to say that" and i was like "f**k her!" and then shes always talking behind my back but shes like "you need to stop talking behind people's backs" and i was like wtfe and me and my bff dont like her anymore. What should i do?

Well dont talk to her. Dont do anything to her and then she wont have anything to talk about you know? If she still continues she might be jealous or insicure about herself. Dont let her push your buttons. If she sees that you dont care then she will stop but if you give into it and are like wtf stop you biatch and stuff she will do it more and more you know?
♥ Michelle

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ok so theres this guy. hes like 3 yrs older than me nd he asked me out ((i said no)), nd he still hits on me, flirts ALL the time, always tells me how hot i m nd wants me to send him pics of me! now i kno hes not like a COMPLETE freak cause hes my bbf's bro! but my bf is like really jealous, i feel bad nd hes freakin me out. also, his parents told him not to talk to me cause i told my bbf he was freakin me out, but he still does. i dont want his family to think bad of me for talking to him since its my bbf! this is like pmo so please help!!!

Hey well when he talks to you dont ignore him but try not to talk to him either you know? Just be like cool o okay.. thats nice. And when he flirts with you "brush off" the flirt you know? Im not a good explainer. If he really freeks you out then tell your bro to tell him to stop talking to you or somthing or tell your bro to talk to him.
♥ Michelle

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when you shave your cha cha lol is there any way that you can't get razor burn.. ((the bumps)) thanks

well if you dont want to get razor burn i recomend you use nair. You dont shave its a cream you put on your cha cha for like 5 min and then you clean it off and the hair will come off with it.
♥ Michelle
ps its called nair bikkini wax and it works really well!!

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i was wondering what the difference is between a graduate and an undergraduate is. could someone please explain or give me a link to go to. also, when i want to apply for a college, can i do it online or do i have to go to that college. by the way im 14 and i was wondering bcuz college is right around the corner!

hey undergraduate has not yet recived a bachlors or any degree and i guess a graduate had ricived it. You can also apply online!
♥ MIchelle

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O.K. I have this friend... an unusual friend... he's a marker. We did all kinds of things together like going fishin' and riding bicycles. He was my BEST firend! HE WON'T WORK! I THINK HE DIED!
PLEASE HELP!
I WILL rate high for anyone who answers seriously... P.S. This is a true story, not a prank.
Luv,
Jonathan

Sorry what do you mean by 'marker'? Well maybe you can be enthusiastic around him.. cheer him on and just be happy when you are with him. THis will defenatly make him 'work'!!
♥ Michelle

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Hi, I know this is really random question, but I need to find a certain LJ icon. When I was in school, I had a computer class, and we had to make a presentation using powerpoint, and I used the icon that says, "Back off, it's my raspberry" with the cute little hampster? Well I love that icon, it's so cute, but now I can't find it, and I forget where I got it! So does anyone know where to find it? Thanks so much.

maybe iconator.com mytheame.com or mytheme.com
♥ Michelle

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I have a few pimples and alot of open pores and my skin is very oily. I want to get rid of the open pores and my oily skin (I really dont care about the pimples I dont have many). My question is does anyone know a product that will take away the excess oil in my skin and close my pores. It can be 2 products. I dont think there's a product that will do both.

Well after using the oil your pimples will be gone because the oil is causing the pimples. At save on there is somthing called oil catcher and its ilke 10 dollars.
♥ Michelle

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I noticed how people bribe in their questions, as in "I'll rate a 5 if you answer". Isn't advicenators supposed to be about HELPING? What happened to the world?

Hey.. people say ill rate '5' beacuse they might need the answer 'pronto' or are desprate for help. I rarly answer questions that say ill rate 5 anymore. And you are totally right about the helping and world thing!!
♥ MIchelle

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ok i have this friend and he is gay but i didnt kno till the other day he didnt tell me i cought him wit a boy and well u kno what happend then... but i really need 2 kno what i should do should i be his friend? or should i tell him that im not his friend no more b/c hes gay?

I dont want to be mean but you dont want to be friends with him cuz he is gay? THat is shallow. Its like saying i dont want to be friends with you cuz you have a red shirt. He is the same person he was when you talked to him 1 week ago 3 days ago.. you know? That is hurtfull to him. And why do you think he didnt tell you all these years/months/weeks you have been friends? What did he do wrong?
♥ Michelle
sorry for the shallow/meanness

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Hey im a guy and girls always tell me that when i get older that if i have hair on my chest i should shave it! and i am not sure about it! like is it like when girls shave their legs how it has pointy hairs? do you have to do it often? is it weird? where do i shave like by my belly? answers like that!

hey
well its not really normal for guys at my school/area to shave.. they just leave it. But if you really give in to the pressure and want to do it then go ahead you just shave your stomach and you have to shave every 2 days. Its not weird once you get used to it.
♥ Michelle

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when you sahave down there... are you supposed to shave in a certain direction or use a certain shaving gel or razor?? b/c everytime i shave i get bumps and its obvious that i shaved- i can never do a good job..

ps. im a girl

Lol i love the ps.. anyway.. you are supposed to shave up wards.. but i use nair bikkini wax gel and it works better cuz you just leave it on for like 5 mins before you go to the shower and then wash it off..
♥ Michelle
ps the nair is like $5

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hey i was just on the phone to my boy friend he lives an hour away and he was just saying how we're not as playful as we use to be (i've had a few home probs just not in the mood) like on the phone playful dissing each other and stuff but im confused about the playful in bed what can i do to make it "playful" thanks!

Phone- joke around, laugh, giggle, talk about random things, be silly, crazy wild
bed- make out, hand jobs, *sex*, bite his ear, kiss his neck.. ect..
♥ Michelle

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im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do?

Well if he says he loves you and doesnt show it you should talk to him about it. After all he is the father of your baby and loves you.. be open about these things.. if the case is that he doesnt love you the way you thought and wont help you with the baby maybe you should consider an abortion.
♥ Michelle

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well, i have this friend and she recently a break down in drama class and the teacher let us go outside and just sit and talk, but i didnt know if i should talk about her problems or just try to distract her since there wasnt really anything to do about them (family problems). i ended up asking her what she wanted from me, (in a less demanding way than that) but i feel like i was making the situation more about me and less about making her feel better by doing that. anyone have any advice on how i could have handled this situation better?

Talk to her about her problems so she can let it go and get it out of her system.. you know?
♥ Michelle

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My boy friend's best friend is my ex...and he is always over there and I get so mad because duering school he was always at hme on weekends and stuff so that we could spend time together...I mean just us...and now he is always over there nd when I won't to do somenthing with him or when he asked me to do soemntihg his little friend (my ex) has to come along!Uggghh! It makes me so mad! What do i do about it?

Talk to your boyfriend about it.. you should be open about it.. its no big
♥ MIchelle

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