Ok....well me and my friends are really tight and all (thats what i thought) but like i like one of my friends more then a friend and no one knows that besides my bf Tashnique. And yesturday my sister and her friend were in the lunch room when i was in there and i went to go say Hi and this EX friend named Sade' told the guy i like to say "your sisters better then you" and "id rather go out with your sister then you" and all that and he did and then my best friend was like "Sade' told him to say that" and i was like "f**k her!" and then shes always talking behind my back but shes like "you need to stop talking behind people's backs" and i was like wtfe and me and my bff dont like her anymore. What should i do?
Crazy_E_Fish answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:10 am: Um, well, since you were friends with Sade, you should ask her why the heck did you tell the guy I like that? She'll give an answer and you ccan decide if thats an ok answer or a bad one. You can chose if you want to be her friend. Hope I helped!
devil9221 answered Friday June 10 2005, 10:22 am: Don't talk to her! Do whatever you want and just ignore her. It's none of her business anyways.
Hope I could help!
~K.C~
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Halfpint answered Friday June 10 2005, 9:44 am: The good news is that you will graduate one day and not see her again! In the mean time I think you should "Kill her with kindness" Don't be mean. That makes you just as bad as her. I didn't have any sisters. If I did I think she would be my bf. Family bonds can't be broken. When nobody else is there you will always have family. A thought to also keep in mind... if you wouldn't say something to the person's face don't say it behind their backs. There is no guarentee that what you say to your bf or anyone will stay between the two of you. If you wouldn't want someone else to repeat it ...don't say it out loud. Maybe writing in a PRIVATE journal would help get your feelings out. Saying things outloud but to yourself sometimes helps make sense of things. And remember ... you are young what is a big deal today may not be such a big deal in a month. [ Halfpint's advice column | Ask Halfpint A Question ]
IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Thursday June 9 2005, 4:54 pm: Well dont talk to her. Dont do anything to her and then she wont have anything to talk about you know? If she still continues she might be jealous or insicure about herself. Dont let her push your buttons. If she sees that you dont care then she will stop but if you give into it and are like wtf stop you biatch and stuff she will do it more and more you know?
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