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ok, i have lots of moles on my arms, legs, face, back, stomach, EVERYWHERE!!
and it's so embarassing, i stopped wearing skirts because of it, they're so dark and so many of them
how can i make them less noticable?


any advice will help
thanks in advance!!

What I think is best for youis "Shiseido Stick Concealer" it works and covers up stuff. Even though it might not make it INVISIBLE, it will be so much more unnoticible :] Hope i helped! If you really want to get it off, I guess you can do lazer surgery. but that costs too much. So i prefer u use concealer sticks :]

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Hello
My daughter needs to get surgery
She only has a 50% chance of surving the surgery
My husbands uncle is a surgeon and offered to perform the surgery
I am having second thoughts because if my daughter does not make it through the surgery i dont want my uncle - in - law to feel the blame for her death
I could have the surgery performed at a hospital 4 hours away
My question is . Do I let my uncle - in - law perform a life threating surgery on my daughter or have someone not related to me perform the surgery?

I think you shouldnt let ur uncle i law do it. It will be too much pressure for him, and think about it. If For some reason, it goes wrong, the family relationships will be tense. So i think youshould get a another doctor you dont know. I hope youre daughter succeeds :] and find a good doctor too:]

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hey...i got this big-ass bruise from my brother slamming my arm in a door...twice...and its all like dark brown and yellow...and i know that it turns yellow when its getting better but it keeps getting more brown and blueish instead...is that bad? what do i need to do?

you should leave it alone and it would be alright. maybe put a ice pak or something to cool it :] This happened to my friend. We were having a punching game like in 7th grade.. (yea i know) and herbruise turned purple, blue, green yellow and orange. it eventually started belnding in with her skin color andi t got better :] hope it gets betetr

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My dad always calls me spoiled.. and i don't wanna be- but i think i am. I only buy designer stuff(not versacee.. but like a&f .. and hollister) i have 3 tiffany necklaces && 1 bracelet. I have lacoste polos. Ipod.. tv&& computerr.. and more...
I just don't want to be noted as spoiled..
am i?
thankss

I don't think your spoiled. I mean ur spoiled compared to a lot of people.But being spoiled inst particulary a bad thing :] I buy A&F and designer purses and juicy stuff. Im sometimes called spoiled but I dont think its a bad thing. People tell me to think of the people out there who are way poorer than you..but I mean, i can help them by doing charity , but just because they are different doesnt mean we have to act and buy what we dont want. Cause were teenage girls and therse many things we want right now :] Just dont be stuck up and annoying, cause then you'll be labeled as a Spoiled "Bitch". Theres nothing wrong with being "Spoiled" though. Hope it Helped So dont really care about what others say, just think you're lucky

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Okay, so I usually straighten my hair and it comes out really good and straight... but how do I make it like really smooth and silky?
What are some of the best products for that?
Thanks for any help

:D

Paul Mitchell Super Skinny Serum. the Clear bottle with a lime green top! it works!

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Hey Just wondering when you all started wearing makeup regularly. i am a high school freshman and dont wear makeup, but i do want to start. just wondering who old everyone else was when they started!

I started in 7th grade, i think. im a freshman too :] i just gradually started wearing it, like some eyeliner, and some lipgloss (:

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Okay, I tried out for a solo in choir on Friday, and we find out who made it and who didn't. Everyone says I'll get it, but how do I get rid of the nervous feeling in my stomach untill Monday? I couldn't sleep untill after 1 in the morning last night.

you shouldgo out to the mall or listen to music to get it off your mind. you probably made it, but just keep in mind of the worst too. try not to make calculations of who you think made it and who you think didnt make it cause that wouldnt make you forget about it:] When you come across the subject over the weekend, try to think of something else to get it off your mind. Or if you wont mind, eating good food relieves stress. cause it always works for me :] I also am about to have that problem. I have drill team tryouts next monday..and im afraid that would happen to me too. I hope you made it!!


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15/f. i have a very annoying body figure. i have no hips whatsoever so i have to buy a size 00 in jeans. but then i have a very square body with some flab on my stomach. this gets so annoying. like i have a small frame so i buy xs or small shirts but them you can see my stomach under the shirt. (its not sticking out the bottom or anthing like that it is just showing through the shirt. but if i buy a medium shirt then it is really baggy and drying it doesn't shrink it enough.

also when i try to buy sweatpants they never fit. if they actually fit in the waist then they are super long. so does anybody know of a good store that has small sizes in their sweatpants and jeans?

thanks =]

i think you should try Hollister , or Abercrombie and Fitch. :] Abercrombie Kids actually has really skinny waist. Abercrombie and Fitch works cause the waist isnt too thin. hope i helped

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I want to dye my hair blonde. Right now, I'm a brunette, and I am SOO scared that I won't like it!!
I was wondering --> If I dye it blonde, and I don't like it, can I just ask the hair dressers to dye it back, or would I have to pay more?

what you should do is get a blonde wig and try it on. if u like it, then go ahead and dye it :] & yes they will make you pay double if u ask em to redye it cause it was your choice that you didnt like it . I mean some people look good in both. so i think you should try and go for a new look. hope it looks good

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Does anyone have any recipes (or links to recipes) for healthy snacks that are quick and easy to make?

well appels are healthy and easy :] go to www.allrecipes.com and it you can find a LOT. any kind of fruit is healthy too :] I also have a good recipe. Its a low fat + calorie smoothie. Get different kinds of frozen fruits[whole foods], and any kind of fruit juice[tropicana orange juice]. and mix them together. and WALAH you got a healthy smoothie!

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I've been a cheerleader since I was 7. I am now 14. I've been trying to quit for three years because quite frankly I'm sick of the fear of tumbling, the drama with the snots, and just the pressure of being a cheerleader and meeting expectations.

My moms forbid me from quiting for so long, she's even bribed me to keep cheering. But I've had it, I'm going to high school next year and I want to concentrate on my volleyball instead because it appeals to me so much more. I also want to shake of that cheap, snotty cheerleader image people get of me before they even know my name.

However, what do I do if I begin to miss it?
Cheerleading to me is sort of like my first love ya know? Its something I don't just hate right away, I still love it, but at times I can't stand it.

What should I do to make myself move on?
My moms certainly not helping. Thanks.

im a cheerleader too and sometime i also get sick of it. practices, reaching goals. im just like "you kno what i dont care" Ive also done volleyball too and i think tis fun. if you dont like cheerleading anymore, i think you should quit and do volleyball. Its much more fun doing what you want to do than doing somethin people expect you to be! same thingh happened. Ive been doing cheerleading, and as much as its fun, it gets really annoying sometimes. Which is why i joined basketball.

It's okay if you miss it. You have to move on in life. maybe quit cheerleading but take some tumbling lessons. But i think if youre getting tired of it, you should quit and moveonto volleyball. Trust me. if u stick with something you like, you will make cheerleading your past. Good Luck :]

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I havn't got much money and I need to buy my friends christmas presents. Two of them have already told me what they want, one said 'anything to do with johnny depp' and the other said 'anything to do with orlando bloom', so I figure I can just buy them giant posters and little treats (y'know, face masks, chocolates ..).
Two other girls, lets call them Jessica and Lindsay, aren't sure what they want.
Jessica is crazy, and likes rock music, black clothes and accessories and chocolate. I can't buy her music cos she just downloads albums for about a pound on the internet. It's also her birthday soon so I have to buy for that.
Lindsay is very happy, flirty and girlie. She loves the colour pink, shoes, handbags, makeup, perfume, chart cds and toiletries. I can't buy her shoes cos they would be too expensive, or music cos I don't know what she's already got. I can't get her perfume cos one of my other mates is buying her that. So thats narrowed it down to handbags, makeup and toiletries, but they're very normal presents y'know? and i'd like to get her something original. Is their any way I can make that original?
It's her birthday soon so I have to buy for that as well.
Also theres this guy, lets call him Chad (no hes not my bf) who's very funny and loves xbox games.
So, what I'm asking, is any ideas of what I can get Jessica and Lindsay for birthdays and christmas, and what I can get Chad for christmas? (and it needs to be cheap as I havn't got much money)
Thanks, xxx

For jessica buiy her sometin from hot topic . they have alot of black clothes and like accesories with skulls. and get her chocolate. for Lindsay, maybe make her a bag with her name on it or sumtin. m,ake it special. you can also get makeup from XXI Forever 21 cause theyre really cheap and cute. You can also buy ehr flip flops or somethin from hollister they shouldnt be that expensive.
For Chad maybe buy him giftcard to Best Buy or Circuit City :] Hope it Helped. and dont forget. You can make them cookies or brownies. it looks special and i mean everyone lvoes food :] Good LuCk

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sooo
i wash my face almost everyday
and i use biore
the green scrub one
and my face has gotten greasier and its really gross
and idk what to do/use!
whats a good product for it so i dont have a greasy face!!
help!

i think proactiv works casue i use it and it .. works :] neutrogena works well :] and clean and clear is ok. What you should also do is.. buy Clean and Clear Oil Blotting Paper its $5. and it works. I use it during classes in the bathroom to get the excess oil off! Hope it Helped Some :]

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I have some acne on my face and I need a really good foundation or concealer or any other product that will help hide the acne well and will always work. So, any suggestions?
Thanks. =D

Bare Minerals. it works and it never goes away! I mean this mroning i had a little zit so i covered it with bare minerals. all the other cheap ones make your acne way worse. But this wasnt doesnt really do that cause its "minerals" no weird chemicals.:] use it! GoodLuCk

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My best friend is moving away tomorrow! Tonight I was going to bake cookies or cake for them, which do you think is better? THANKS!

cake! it looks more special and homemade :] but cookies are fine too if that doesnt work out . write am essage on it too :)

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I dont know what to do anymore. My face is bothering me SO much. I can't have proactive anymore. I've tried every product. I have had the same acne for months.. I dunno.. for a year or longer. It's just not going away. What can I do?

It's killing my confidence. It's like I'm the only one with acne at school. I can tell who's wearing coverup since I had to wear makeup for years for my acne. I can't keep my head up because people just stare. And i dont know.

It looks like i have a lot of acne.. but it seems like it's all scars and cysts.

I dont know what products to try because most just make my skin WORSE.

If I go to a derm.. could they really help me?
I've already tried the medicated creams.
My face just looks rough and red.. just gross.

I always wanted smooth skin but I guess I won't get it.

Don't tell me to wash my face because I already do. I don't over wash my face or anything. Just once or twice a day. I'm not rough with my skin either.

Somebody suggested Birth Control but I heard that can make acne lots worse. Is that true?

you should go to the dermotologist. mine healed with proactiv. but one of my friends had the same problem as you. there are amny people who tried every thing they can and didnt work. She went to the derm,. and they gave her cream and it worked. So i think you should go to the derm. and im sure theres something that could help you.

& chocolate does worsen acne. it says it doesnt on some sites. but it does because im a victim of it. If i eat chocolate, bam. im a pizza.

dont pop em. try not to. i sometimes do cause it gets annoying but try not to.

and dont wash your face TOO much. it will worsen it

what i do is i bring "clean and Clear oil blotting paper" to school and take extra oil off when im in the bathroom or whatever. you can take excess oil and dirt off and it will be less likely for acne!

hope i helped!!!

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ok so i need 2 get gifts for like 10-15 ppl (half girls/half guys). there all 13. i want it to b rele thutful, and feel like each one is personalized, but i dont have a huge amount of money!

any ideas?
thnx!

Food always works :] you should bake them brownies or cookies and then attach it with like soap or hand sanitizer , lip gloss, or sumtin liek that for girls. for guys, trust me. FOOD WORKS. LMAO or u can get them "TAG" the man body spray for a joke :]

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I was thinking about getting a digital camera for my boyfriend for christmas but i'm not sure what kind to get, do you have any ideas on what ones are good?? Thanks!

if its camera then canon and nikon are the best :]

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i was thinking of getting my 12 year old cousin this bag from abercrombie for christmas: http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10101&catalogId=10851&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12103&categoryId=12148&productId=2&langId=-1 in white.. && i was wondering if it would be to big for a 12 year old ? im buying it for her as a purse, not a bookbag. thanks!

i have the same exact bag from abercrombie in white. I think that it can be used as a purse and a bookbag :]

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Im 13/f. This guy from my school asked me out and I said no that we should just be friends. We talked for a while after that(same day) but now at school he wont say anything to me unless he is making fun of me (which he did twice). I have heard him talking about me and his friend (who I talk to a lot) says he always is talking about me. I don't know what I should say to him if anything.

okay he still likes you and is embarrased because he got turned down. He sounds really annoying, and is embarrasing himself even more for talking about you. you should talk to him straight into the face to clean things up. Hes still obsessed with you though :] I think he wants you to feel bad about it. But first i think you should talk to him and clear things up./ Hopei t helped somee? Good LuCk :]

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