Name: Liz (nickname=fish)
Eyes: Green
Height: (ha like you care) about 5 feet 5 inches
Hair: Currently dark red, some light streaks, and of course, all spiky in the back
Hometown: St. Louis, MO
Age: 15
Occupation: being a sophmore, helping out my friends
Interests: Music (vinyl now but I have a ton of cds of various cool people), local shows (check out my buddy tim's band, One Down. they're gonna be huge one day), Art, English (Creative writing), doing random weird things
"A zebra does not change it's spots." -Al Gore
"I don't really trust a sane person." -Lyle Alzado.
Happy Noodle Boy is the funniest thing since Homestarrunner.com but Thora Birch is the "bestest". And for some strange reason, Joey Jordison of Slipknot and Murderdolls is scary yet hot. I don't know but I like to think that I do- so in the words of Ricky from American Beauty, "Never underestimate the power of denial."
Peace. Out.
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis, Missouri
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: June 21, 2004
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If you really like a person who is a different age than you are and you are older, what would be considered a "BIG" age difference? Is two to four years a big age difference? (link)
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It depends. If I was 17 I wouldn't date a 25 year old because the whole life experiences are totally different. So if one of you is out of college and the other hasn't even started (stuff like that) I'd say it's kind of a big difference. But no, two to four years is nothing, even though you get some bad vibes from people in highschool. In college- age differences don't matter nearly as much. I'd make sure what I'd be doing was legal though. But really it all just depends on what you're comfortable with. If you are, great. If you aren't, don't go out with people who are a couple years older.
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ok, im 12 and im so flat! is it possible to grow boobs over 1 summer? im going to a new school and itd be cool if i had achest
am starting to grow. will i be able to grow in time? if so how big?
i know looks shouldnt matter but every girl i no has a chest
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Nope. Unfortunately there's no miracle potion thing to make you grow boobs. You just can't. And it doesn't really matter. The thing is, your body is gonna grow at the rate it wants to. And don't compare yourself to other girls. They aren't you and you aren't them, so there's really not much to compare to. Just have confidence in yourself and let your body do what it wants. At 12, everyone I knew was flat. In fact, at 15 most of them are still flat. So don't worry about it. Or you know....you could just choose to believe that all those other girls have some freaky nuclear reactive thing going on so that they have...mutant breasts or something. That's what I'd do, but then again..I've always been a little off.
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hey my boy friend cheated on me and now he wont leave me alone!!hes begging 4 me to go back out with him but....he cheated on me n boy do i hate cheaters!! idk if i love him or like him or any thing!!!plez help!!!
signed~
~~confused!!!! (link)
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so forget about him. You're wasting your time if you're going out with cheaters. It just shows a lack of respect. So have some pride in yourself and date someone worth your time.
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if im 13, gunna be 14 in 4 months, and i still haven't gotten my period, is that abnormal or sumthin, all of my friends have already started, and sum people i kno who are younger then me have started, my mom started when she was 11, my sister started when she was going into 7th grade, and im entering 9th, and still haven't started,is there sumthin wrong wit me?? (link)
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Nope. Some people don't start till they're like 18. It's normal. People's bodies are set on something like a clock. You just haven't gotten there yet. And don't stress about it, it's not like it's really fun or anything anyway.
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
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If you realize it's stupid and you aren't gonna do it again then no you don't need to seek help. But if all the reasons you cut yourself before are still around, unresolved, and still bothering you, then yes seek help.
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Im 13 and im like 5'3 and i weigh 110.I dont know if thats normal are not but it makes me feel bad when im with guys and i sit down there is like a huge thing of fat om my stomach..and my thighs omg they are huge!!Does anyone know what i can do? (link)
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First off, that stomach thing is normal- it's called your skin. Without it, it's really painful to do things such as reaching for stuff. You need it and yes you are normal. Very normal. And your thighs are the same way. When you sit down, muscles relax and sort of spread out. If you're really serious about it, keep your legs/knees off the chair and your feet in front of you. And if you want (It is nice) then tone up by excersizing. But all of that is normal. And forget about the guys, they'll like you more for your confidence and self respect than a flat stomach and thighs that aren't "huge".
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i need advice..i'm a guy..and i think girls are weird..what do i do? (link)
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I have a guy friend that thinks girls are weird too, so I think it's just kind of natural. See, boys and girls are different. Physically, that's obvious but genetics inevitably makes us think differently too. As for me, I've kind of gone and given away are secrets to some of the guys I've met just because they were so helpless and clueless when it came to what girls meant. So if there's anything specific you don't understand you can always drop me a line, I'll be happy to be as brutally honest as possible and make it easy to understand. As for what else you can do, try talking to some girls and become friends with them. Don't show off your manliness by trying to beat people up- girls don't like that. but just joke around- most girls are actually more crude then they want people to know. be yourself. If all of that fails, then go be a ballerina. My friends in balet think those are hot. Strength+no fear of tights= confidence= HOT
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I have this friend with really dark hair on her arms and I think it bothers her. Well we got in this fight about how like she thinks I am bossy and I think she is slutty. Well even though we aren't friends anymore I still know her, she goes to my school and is in some of my classes in 9th grade. I ant to help her with her arms because I think she feels really insicure (or however you spell it. I know she doesn't want to wax it and I think shaving arms is dumb,so is there anyway she can dye or bleach her arm hair blonde-PERMANENTELY!!!! For like ever so she will feel better I hope. I still think she is slutty but I care. Please help my friend ASAP! B/cuz theres a rumor that she is moving to Colorado and I live in Nevada. Please hurry and help b4 she moves!!!! Thanks an much love!
Sincerely,
Lilly (link)
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Are you sure she's insecure about this or are you just guessing? There are things you can do but none are really all that permanent. I've done this stuff before- NEVER SHAVE YOUR ARMS. It makes the hair course and you can tell the difference. Bleaching will look weird and electrolosis is expensive. So chances are that she'll get over it and realize there are more important things besides arm hair (I know I did). And if she hasn't come to you for advice, don't go to her, because if she's not insecure you'll be pointing it out and then guess what? Not only will she know that you think she's a slut, she'll also know that you think she's hairy. So don't do it unless she asks you about it. And stop calling your friends names. It's not helpful anyway.
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i constantly feel like im fat i weigh 108 im 5'4 and 13 i want to slim up my abs thighs and i think they call them love-handles i want those gone but i want them gone fast! can you help me please? (link)
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Dude, you aren't fat that's just all in your head. I'm about 114 and I wanted to tone up too so I joined Curves. It's nice because it's all women and it's fast paced so I don't get bored. You will notice a difference FAST, plus it's only like ten bucks a month. And by the way, wearing a size small means nothing so don't suck it in. Wear your size, it'll look better anyway. Nobobdy's gonna care if you aren't a double zero (plus that means you have to buy in the kid's department, which sucks.)
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ok im a chic and my hair is down to... well almost my shoulders and i wanna put it in liberty spikes. but i duno what kind of gel to use or w/e or how i would go about doing it. so can anyone help me? girl or guy?? (link)
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I know a lot of people keep saying use glue but that seems to take a long time to dry. I use ShortNSexy Hair: Hard Up Gel. Your hair might be too long and heavy to stay up well, but take your hair and coat it with gel and twist it up in sections wherever you want- evenly spaced or not, it's your hair. After the gel dries, just sort of put a little bit on top so it's really strong, like coat the entire section of hair again. Then just spray it a lot with freezing spray.
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I have been having these major break outs around my hairline and on my nose..I have tryed alot of stuff that just dont seem to work any ideas? (link)
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Oooookay. For the hairline, if you wash your hair a lot, don't do it so much. The more you strip your head of natural oils, the more it produces. So, more oil+dry, dead skin=pimples. Make sure you keep your hands off your face if possible (it's hard I know, I always break this rule). For your nose, put a hot wash cloth on any pimples you have- as hot as you can stand and it'll dry them out FAST. Wash your face twice a day but don't use a normal soap because it strips your skin and makes things worse. I usually use Murad or Dermalogica- kinda expensive but it works fast. Use a light moisturizer that's oil free and it's recommended that you stick to one brand otherwise your skin tries to purge the other kind out. Don't pick at it, and once again, keep your hands off your face. Get sleep and drink water, eat right and it should help. If not, go to a dermatologist for somethin potent.
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My boy friend andi i have been going out for a little over a month now and i dont think we are quit on the same page i mean he s a complete punk and he is bbie polar im just kinda a different of personalities i want to be punk because i could just be my self and not worry what other people think but i dont want him to think imm turning punk to copie him what do i do? (link)
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First off, don't try to be punk. It's something that doesn't truly exist anyway but if you choose to believe in it fine here we go: Yes, the basis of punk is being yourself. Anyone who puts guidelines on how you dress and act doesn't know what they're talking about. The freedom of being yourself is far better than placing yourself in a box. I've tried to do that before because I liked the style and some of the ideals of it but you end up comparing yourself to a lot of immature, bratty people who seem to be very self centered. Eventually you start living for you and forget all of them so there's no point in going through all that anyway. When you put a label on yourself, you allow people to only see you as that and not for who you really are. Plus, you can be yourself and not care about other people's thought without being punk. If he cares about whether or not you're "copying" him, I'd say it's time to move on. And him being bipolar is only really important if it makes the relationship unstable. So...talk to the guy and go be you, not a label.
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Hi. I am obsessed with anime and manga. Is there any way to turn myself into an anime character and jump into an anime?
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No. This is what imaginations are for.
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there is this boy that loves me but I don't love him and he keeps begging me to go out with him
what should I do?
Love
summer (link)
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He tells you he loves you? Well that's sweet and all but if you aren't interested than don't go out with him. Or you could give him a shot and maybe he won't seems so bad. you never know. but if i'ts making you uncomfortable, then don't go out with him
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What should I name my fish? (link)
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Bob the Incredible Insulator.……Don't ask. It's only because it's you, chris.
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well i like this guy, we go to church together but that thing is that i told him that i liked him but he doesn't liked me, but even know i know he doesn't like me i can't get over him i have try so badly but i can't and we still friends, but i really love him and i need a advice of how can i get over him (link)
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Go out with a bunch of friends and distract yourself. I like going to little local concerts because you usually meet some pretty interesting people and the bands always come down and talk to us. Start talking to those people and meet people who make you forget that other guy entirely.
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ok im kinda in a bind here. there r these two guys that like me, and i have feelings for both of them. they both have qualities that i love and it seems like they are equal with positive and negative things. they both have these great qualities:
makes me laugh
football players
tall
tan
great personalities
just everything about them is perfect. how do i know how to choose the right one??
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First they aren't perfect. And second, why don't you go on dates with both of them and then gradually turn it into a relationship thing of boyfriend/girlfriend. Middleschool and Highschool are the only times in your life where people expect you to be an item and call each other boyfriend and girlfriend the second you get asked out and say yes. So, I don't know how old you are, but try to get to know them better first because then you can choose which one you really do like best. It also depends on what kind of negative things they have going on. Is one possessive and the other one is kind of rude at times? either way, you shouldn't really put up with either for long.
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okay..well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now..and hes had a lot happen in his life lately (parents divorce and stuff)..but hes been takin' it out on me..and he'll promise me something and then break it saying he cant bc hes too upset..but he only says it when he doesnt feel like hanging out..and it really upsets me bc he lies a lot..should i break up with him or what?? i need HELP! (link)
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Yes you should break up with him. You aren't doing anything wrong, in fact you've done everything you should by being there for him and trying to help him figuring things out. But in the words of my father, "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink." You don't deserve to be lied to or made to feel like you're doing something wrong. Really, what this sounds like is him trying to hold control over something in his life and it happens to be you. My advice to you is to break it off with him, because he's in no emotional state to be dating someone and you shouldn't have to put up with someone who can't tell you the truth.
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after i shave my mid-section there is ALWAYS STUBBLE and red dots.. i do the everyother day scrub but it DOESNT help! please please please give me some tips..
15-f (link)
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Midsection? Ummm anyway, shave in the direction that the hair grows. Use a good razor and shaving cream. Oh yeah, shave with the water on hot because then it'll open up your pores (According to the skin experts that's a good thing) Or you could always just wax it instead. And if you don't there's this topical stuff you can buy to fix the ingrown hairs known as red dots. Unfortunately, I can't remember it's name. Sorry.
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i just got a pet..its a goldfish..what should i name him? (link)
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Rufus! It's my all time favorite name. And if not, try fred or joe. Maybe Harry. Or…you could try Moe……but then you'd have to get two more fish and name them Larry and Curly.
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