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My boy friend andi i have been going out for a little over a month now and i dont think we are quit on the same page i mean he s a complete punk and he is bbie polar im just kinda a different of personalities i want to be punk because i could just be my self and not worry what other people think but i dont want him to think imm turning punk to copie him what do i do?
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talk to him about it!tell him that u r doing this for u and not to mesh better with him!!i say go for it if u really want to become punk!!
goodluck
*~xHalliex~*
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First off, don't try to be punk. It's something that doesn't truly exist anyway but if you choose to believe in it fine here we go: Yes, the basis of punk is being yourself. Anyone who puts guidelines on how you dress and act doesn't know what they're talking about. The freedom of being yourself is far better than placing yourself in a box. I've tried to do that before because I liked the style and some of the ideals of it but you end up comparing yourself to a lot of immature, bratty people who seem to be very self centered. Eventually you start living for you and forget all of them so there's no point in going through all that anyway. When you put a label on yourself, you allow people to only see you as that and not for who you really are. Plus, you can be yourself and not care about other people's thought without being punk. If he cares about whether or not you're "copying" him, I'd say it's time to move on. And him being bipolar is only really important if it makes the relationship unstable. So...talk to the guy and go be you, not a label.
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Who cares what he thinks. He shouldn't judge you becasue you don't do it to him. Hope I helped! :)
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You can be yourself without having to turn punk. You can be a mixture of punk/hip hop/prep. whatever you like all in the same day. It doesn't matter what your socail group is, if you like what you like then that is your style, who knows maybe someone might like your style. Hope I've helped you out a little.
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Hey-- For starters, do you want you want to do. Tell him how you feel about being punk. Asure him that you are not doing it to copy him, but to just be yourself- {inside & out}. If he still think you are just copying him, then he is not worth it at all. No one should stop you from becoming who you really are. He should be supportive. Well i hope i helped!
xox Tay
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Just do what you want. If he says you are copying him just tell him why you are punk. Explain that it is cause of the music you listen to or just the style and way you want to be. If he thinks you are copying him, then he isn't worth it. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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Well u two should talk to each other and just ask him if he can change a little to let u feel more comfortable....because a relationship is not a good one unless u both are happy.
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