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i have been asked to sing at a wedding!
i am only a young teen and have no idea what to sing.

They was like heyy do you wanna sing at my wedding;
you pick a song!
and i just do not know what to sing ?

any advice?
what song was at your wedding (if your married)
what songs do you want at your wedding ?

you get the jist ?
thankss ! xx

Hey, my name is Faith42!!

How about Heaven by DJ- Sammy ?? I love that song it's very pretty. I think it would be a great choice. Check it out on you tube, than you can see if you like it.

I hope I helped,
Faith42 :0

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14/f
I'm sorry this is going to be sort of long.
Sometimes a really...well, sometimes I HATE my best friend. I know that's a really bad thing to say, but that's really how I feel sometimes. She never wants to do the same things I do-like when I say, do you want to come over? She says, flat out, no, which is not only rude, but it's really hurtful, or if I want to go on a walk, I always have to talk her into it, otherwise she says she's "too tired". I can never have fun with her-like if I say, I love you! She starts freaking out on me and calls me a lesbo, so I can never say that to her. And the most annoying thing she does is she ALWAYS cancels on me! Here's what normally happens:
I invite her over for a sleepover 2 weeks before. She says yes, and we get all excited and start planning out our sleepover. I have to bend and negotiate with my parents for it to happen- usually something like double chores, a lot of begging, or etc. So for the two weeks we talk about it and whatever. Then the night of the sleepover, the phone rings, I pick it up, and she's on the other line. Here's what she says: "Hey. Uhm, I can't come." The excuses are normally: 'I'm tired.', 'I don't feel like it.' 'My stomach/head hurts.', 'My parents don't feel good.', 'I haven't seen my mom for two days.', or 'I have too much homework.' Something along those lines. Once it was something totally out of the blue--her dad broke his foot, so apparently she couldn't come over. This really wouldn't bother me, but it's just that it's happened more than once. Actually, WAY more than once. Maybe fifty or so times.
So I don't know what to do. I've tried talking to her about it, but she gets all upset, and she doesn't understand where I'm coming from. I really love my best friend, I've known her since 3rd grade, so I don't want to end our friendship. I really need help! I'm sorry that was so long.

Hey, my name is Faith42 :)

I think your friend isn't a really GOOD friend. I think you should REALLY have a good talk to her about how you feel. You can't help it if she get's upset. That's not really fair to you...to make plans ...and have to do a lot of work to get to go places, and than having her break the plans . Tell her that... it takes a lot of work to make plans...and it's not fair for you at all. You don't have to end your friendship with your friend. Just, talk to her.... let her know how you feel, and understand how she feels. Everything will work out! I hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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My friend, she's really cool.
She's really funny.
But I'm worried about her.

You see when it comes to her home life, she just
shuts off. She'll never talk about anything
personal. And she always wears this jumper, even
when it's stinking hot!!

When we were changing for PE one time, I saw her
take of her jumper and I saw lots of scars on her
wrists and arms.
I know she saw me looking, and it's really
awkward between us now.

I want to say something to her.
But i don't know what.
I don't want to say something like "If you want
to talk, I'm here" because the school councilor
has said that to her like a billion times, and sh
really hates it!

Anything?

Hey, my name is Faith42 !!


I think you really should talk to adult about this because this is a bad situation. She could be hurting herself, or worse someone else can be hurting her. Also, stay being a caring friend like you are now. She knows that your here for her and if she really needs to talk ! I bet she would talk to you first than anyone else. I know I had the same situation with my friend, I didn't know what to say either. For , the awkward situation I think you should do your best to act like you did, before you seen her scars.Keep being friends and I hope everything goes alright!!!!

I hope I helped!!!!

Faith42 :)

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i really like this guy and i think he likes me too
and i want to know for sure but i dont want to ask him because that might ruin our friendship. Can you help?

P.S.were best friends

Hey, my name is Faith42 !!


I have the same situation to...! (LOL) I'll to my best though. I think you should just write him a note, and tell him how you feel... I know so.. hard
to do...but please give it a try.. and don't give up. Okay ? I hoped I helped!!!


Thanks so much for asking me a question!!!!

Faith42 :)

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i am 18/f. right now i am working a part time job for a makeup company about 3 days a week. the days i have off, i have nothing to do! i live at home with my mom, and i am not going to school right now. all my freinds go to school during the day, and i am starting to get bored! what are some things i can do during my free time on the days i dont work?

Hey, my name is Faith42 !


You can always read a good book for a hour or so.
You also can go to a public pool and take a swim.
You can call a friend. How about take your animals
for a walk? You can take a bike ride around the block. You can go to movies with your boyfriend, or
just good friend. You also can go shopping.
That's some of my ideas. I hope you can think of more!

I hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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I dye my hair by the box. My hair is a natural Dirty Blond. However, whenever I dye my hair..after about two weeks the color starts fading to a reddish color. ALWAYS. No matter which color I try to dye it. Its happened with Blond, Brown, Black, any color, you name it, it'll turn red after a little while. What can I do to make it not turn red?

Hey, my name is Faith42 !


Try, getting a dye but not to dark it might help . Also, try getting a shampoo for color treated hair.
That , really helps. Get , a good brand . My mother
has highlights in her hair she uses Loreal vive , and Garneia Frutise (sorry for my spelling). That's
what I recommend. Any shampoo that's for color treated hair would be great. Good luck!


I hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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Hey you guys well my friend is having a party in a few weeks and like i have a million of dresses
but i was wondering if you guys can like throw some website at me so i can do some online ordering or maybe give me just store titles.
thanks so much.! :)

ABERfitchyy.

Hey, my name is Faith42



These stores that I went to has nice dresses.

- Forever21

- Deb

-JC Pennys's.


I hope I helped,

Faith42:)

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What do you think of a girl who wears a tank top,neck tie and a short? cute or not?

Hey, my name is Faith42!


I think it's alright but I wouldn't wear that myself.I have my own type of style and so does
everyone else so ...if a person wore that to school
or some where I wouldn't really care because that
may be their style , and they may be comfortable wearing
something like that , and I don't have any reason to
say anything about it because people can wear what
they want and so can everyone else.

I hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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whats a good nude gloss? what do you use? like?

Hey, my name is Faith42


What, I use is Bonnbell liplittes Vanilla swirl. It's pretty much looks like a nude color. It's very
pretty and smells really good.(even tastes good)LOL. I think you should really try that, also
you can try Avon 's perfect wear all day comfort
lipstick in the color bubbly ,I know it's lip stick
but it feels like a lip gloss. It's very nice to it's very pretty it looks like a nude color.

I hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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when i apply concealer,
do i put my foundation ON TOP OF IT?

or below it?

or eiher way?

which WOULD YOUU PREFER?

Hey, my name is Faith42 :)


You are suppose to put the foundation on first than,
the concealer.So, you won't wipe it off when you put on the foundation.That's what you should do
it works much better.

I hope I helped,
Faith42 :)

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wats the diff between ponder and wonder

Hey, my name is Faith42 !



Ponder means you think deeply about something, wonder means you think about something that
could happen.


I hope I helped,
Faith43 :)

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how do you get people to ask you questions?



thanks:)

Hey, my name is Faith42!

Well, you can't really get people to ask you questions. Really, you have to give out your best
advice, and hope people can see that you do a great
job.It's hard but a lot of people need help in this
world. So, keep giving your advice and soon their
will be a question waiting in your inbox for you to
read!

I hope I helped..thank you for asking me a question!!

Faith42 :)

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Hey i'm 13 years of age, and im five foot seven, and i weigh 140. thats alot. and the thing is i'm not fat, i'm actually pretty skinny, its just i really need too drop about 20 pounds brfore december. Becuase of cheer tryout's. and they have a weight limit. so any idea's??? i'd like too start dropping fast! Thanks is advance!!

Hey, my name is Faith42 !

Well, I think you should just do something that you
like to do to work out. What , I do is go to the gym and walk on the treadmill for 25 minutes and
I do 100 crunches or I do laps in my pool and still
do about 100 crunches. That's just me though. You can always practice cheer leading 20- 30 minutes a day. Just , make sure you take breaks and drink enough of water. Try, to just drink water, it's better than energy drinks.


Also, you can eat normal stuff you eat and just in smaller portions. Also, try to stay away from pop. Water, is very good for you it cleans out the acids in your stomach.Just make sure you don't skip meals , if you do you will feel awful and ran down most of the day, also when you go to eat a meal you will probably eat more because you are so hungry from skipping the meal you didn't eat before. Don't worry , you will lose wait just gradually. That's the best way!

I hope I helped,
Faith42 :)

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I'm so unfashionable and no one will help me... what should I do??

Hey, my name is Faith42 !


You should wear things you feel comfortable in , but
if you don't think its fashionable try looking for
things that are close to your style. Make sure you
get stuff you like not stuff that you want to wear
to be like everyone else!You can never go wrong with a nice designed tee and jeans or jean skirt!

Hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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i recently got this peiercing on my cartalge on my left side. i was so excited it to get it i had original planned to get it on my right but changed my mind last minute because they lady said it was gonna hurt and to get it on the side you dont use the most so i was like ok ill get it on my left well i forgot that my bangs are parted to the left so when i wear my hair down or even in a pony tail my bangs fall in front of it and i want it to be seen and i dont know wat to do about it any suggestions??

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!

You can always pin your hair above your forehead,
thats really pretty , you should try that. If, some
reason you can't do it like that or you don't like
it that way try pinning your bangs to the other side.

I hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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why is mineral makeup better?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!


Mineral makeup is better for your skin than normal make up it won't give you break outs because it is
oil free. It, helps your skin look more natural than
other makeups.It, don't hurt your pores.

I hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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what happens if the condom breaks?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!


Usually , you have unprotected sex, and you have a
chance to get your partner pregnant.

I hope I helped,

Faith42 :)

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What should I bring to a babysitting job and what should I wear?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!

Well,this is what I think,

You should bring :extra things to wear, (incase you
do things with the kids that is messy),Some nice movies that you can watch, and occupie the kids, some
games for a computer or t.v. system(if they have those appliances ) .

You should wear A tee, and jeans would be fine and
flips flops or tennis shoes.

I hope I helped,
Faith42 :)

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my school is doing a musical and i additioned but i never thought i would make it and i did but i have really bad stage fright. can you help me? PS.the school the musical is in 2 days. HELP ME

Hey, thanks for asking me a Question,I hope I can help!

Alright,a lot of people have stage fright to so don't feel your alone. You, really have to think positive thoughts if you do those butterfly's will
fly out of your stomach! Also, drink a lot of water before you perform that helps calm your butterfly's , also it helps calms the acids in your stomach.Take , a few deep breaths and make sure you again
think positive! Also, think you worked hard and went threw everything and I know everything, and i can do it!

Hope I helped and good luck!

Faith42 :)

p.s.
ask me questions any time and thanks again!!! :]

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Okay, I really want to get money for stuff my parents won't get me. I'm only 12 gonna be 13 in October. I really want money!! Do you have any suggetions on jobs i can do at my age?? PLEASE!!! Oh, and how old do i have to be to be a babysittier??Would you hire me???

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!

I think 13 is an alright age to start babysitting.
My parents said once I 'am 13 I can babysit.Where , I
live you have to take classes, at the hospital. Maybe, you don't have to where you live.If that don't work out her are some jobs you can probably do!
- a dog wash
- walking dogs
-cleaning your house
-washing cars for your parents
-delivering papers
-doing laundry for your parents
-lemonade stand

I hope I helped,
Faith42 :)




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