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and he fell asleep. I was texting him and he didnt text back. It was about something really important to. I mean normally I dont care at all, but I was pretty much telling him something that ment alot to me and he just fell asleep and didnt text me back. Is it stupid that it hurt? And is it stupid I'm kinda pissed off? Normally I wouldnt care, but....I dunno....I've been having a rough day...and it just sucks....but thanks in advance!

Aww hun, calm down. :]

It's no big deal. I'm sure he didn't do it on purpose. My guy does that to me all the time, and yeah.. it's annoying. But guys need their sleep, you'll learn this. I know it sucks cause it was important, but tomorrow's another day. Don't sweat it. :]

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ok...about 1 2 3 and home run, who knows the real one? or there isn\'t...b/c sooo many peaple say different things. like this is one that i heard, 1-kissing 2-touching 3-fingering and home run- is sex. is this right? if not please tell me the right one...

People are gonna have different views, but I've always gone by this one:

1 - Making out
2 - Touching (Fingering/Handjob)
3 - Oral (Eating out/Blowjob)
4 - Sex

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hello! :]] (14/female)

so, my hair is like a medium brown (natrually)
i want it to be darker, but my mom wont let me dye it :/.

so, i would like to know if theres anything i can use to like wash my hair or something that will make my hair darker without hurting my hair?!


thanks!!!!

There's also this stuff by John Frieda called Brilliant Brunnette. I tried a free sample of it once, and it seemed to make it look slightly darker. I have natural medium brown hair like you, so maybe it's worth a shot. :]

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how do you make words on myspace underlined

(what you want underlined here)

Just take away the parentheses and put whatever you want. :]

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My friends and I are 17. I'll be 18 soon. One of my friend's bf is 21. I always thought that was a little strange until one night him and a couple of his friends came over and they were all so nice. I can really see why she'd go for an older guy because they are so much more mature and interesting to talk to.

Anyways, me and one of his friends who is also 21 hit it off. He was really flirty and really nice. Everyone says hes a nice guy too. We've been talking and he wants to hang out and stuff.

When I was with those guys I felt like we were all the same age. I mean as the saying goes, age doesnt matter. Most of my friends think its great but a couple are like WHAT ARE YOU DOING? Idk I feel like as long as he doesn't make me feel uncomfortable it shouldn't matter... is there anything wrong with a fling with someone a few years older?

Thanks so much!

There's absolutely nothing wrong with flirting with a guy 3 years older than you. :]

Man, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 25. Most people I know, even my parents (although not at first haha), are perfectly ok with it, and that's TWICE the age difference as you and the guy you were flirting with.

Generally, guys mature slower than girls anyway, so it's almost like you're the same age. And like you said, as long as he makes you feel comfortable and is respectful of you, then it shouldn't matter. :]

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Has anyone been in an interracial relationship? Did you encounter any heat from your friends or family? Did you live in an area where there was a majority of one race?

Thanks

I personally have not, but my neighbor did. I live in the whitest county in America (history teacher told me this a couple years ago in school). So my neighbor started dating one of the only Africans in the school. I'm gonna say most people were either cool with it or just kept their mouth shut. There were only a few people who actually said something. My neighbor's parents ultimately caused their relationship to end though, because they were so against it. My opinion on the matter is, it shouldn't matter what race you or the other person is. As long as they make you happy, then that's all that matters. :]

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so there is 2 songs that I like soooo much, but have no clue what they are! Here are the lyrics to the first one:

#1-Closing time, let you out into the world, I know who I want to take me home

and here are the lyrics the second one:

#2-Moved west to California, became a center fold, remember holywood

please, please don't tell me to search google!! thanks!

Semisonic - Closing Time

Ferras - Hollywood's Not America

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Where can I get some plan colored cheap ones?

I just got a bunch of super cute ones for REAL cheap at Rue 21. :]

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okayy so im 15 and a female.. well i know for a fact, 100 percent that i want to wait until marriage before i have sex and i know that in the future guys will respect you more if yoou werent out and about being a little whore..but right now i feel like i cant get a boyfriend.. at all bc im just not like that idk im not ugly and im not shy but it feels likee every guyy just wants to have sex like all the time or something. idk what to do..is this just how they r at this age??

Oh, I was (still am) the exact same way. I really want to wait til marriage to have sex. And when I was your age, I felt like no guy would ever want me because all they want is sex.

Well guess what? It's not true.

I'm 19 now and I finally have a boyfriend who totally respects the fact that I want to wait. Not only does he have respect for my decision, but for me as a person.

So all I can say is to wait it out. As you get older, you'll find a more mature guy who will respect that decision.

The problem is, most guys your age are in the middle of puberty, so the only thing on their minds right now is sex. Once they get older, it will change. That is what I think anyway, considering my boyfriend is 24.

BUT, I will not rule out the fact that there are a rare amount of guys your age who will be mature about your decision. If you happen to find one, consider yourself lucky. And just remember, that if a guy you're with ever pressures you to do something you don't wanna do, get rid of them, because they're not worth your time. :]

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I dont know whats wrong with me but i'm like afraid of people touching me. I'm not like germophobic or anything. Seriously though like even just like if someone is sitting too close or something. Even with my best friend like we'll be sitting next to each other watching a movie and she'll be too close ( which is'nt even that close) and i move a little farther from her. I dont get any of this it's weird. I know alot of you are probably going to say like well if you have a problem with it then stop having a problem with it but i dont think it's that simple. Does anyone know whats wrong with me? Has anyone felt like this before? Help please!

Yeah, I doubt there's anything wrong with you. I'm the exact same way. Like the other day, I was watching a movie with one of my best friends, and she got too close, and I felt like she was all up in my space.

It's weird though, cause with my boyfriend, I'm fine, but anyone else, including my BEST FRIENDS, it's like, get away.. haha.

Anyway, I don't think there's anything wrong with you, it's just something you gotta live with. If it really bothers you, just let your friends know that you're uncomfortable sitting too close, and they should take the hint. :]

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I'm so virgin it's not evevn funny.

I've never had sex, never fooled around, never had a boyfriend, and I've never evven had a first kiss with anyone other than my Grandmother.

I've missed my period for over a week. I looked up the signs of pregnancy and I have them all...?

It sounds so silly for me to ask this but it's bothering me.

I think you're just stressing over this way too much.. there is absolutely NO possible way you could be pregnant if you've never been in sexual contact with a guy before.

Rarely, but it happens, if a girl really thinks she's pregnant, she can actually get the early symptoms of pregnancy. I don't know much about it, but I just thought I'd put it out there, just in case. Seriously though, I think you're just overthinking things.

Periods are not always regular, especially the first couple years, so try not to worry about it as much. Stress can actually make your period come later, so just relax, you're fine. :]

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ok so i'm on the shot birth control thingy and i know its not 100% effective so idk i could be pregnant but how would i know other then getting a pregnancy test because i don't get my period while i'm on the shot?

I took a look at this site and thought it seemed pretty helpful: http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/earlypregnancysymptoms.html

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Is there any kind of program/software that you can download for free that you can make a video of pictures (like a slideshow) but with music?

So I want to do one with me and my friends for graduation then have that sng graduation-vitamin C sng on there..


how do i do that?

Aww.. my friend did that for me, and it was really cute! All you need is the pictures and song you want to include in the slideshow saved to your computer and then go to this site: http://www.onetruemedia.com/

It will take you step-by-step on how to do it and then lets you e-mail it to your friends. :]

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I am a female and in the seventh grade....I have a problem in school and i'm hoping you can help me....there's a 8th grade boy in school who always flirts with me dirty and really freaks me out...he writes to me in notes that he likes the way I change in the dressing room: he sliped a note in my locker like this "Do you like maths, if so add a bed, subtract ur clothes, divide your legs and we can multiply!" ....another one like this ......."what did your left leg say to your right leg? don't know they never met! because my tounge is always down there" ....and he told me this in person ...."Do you know that you would look great with two pounds less ... in my opinion the clothes you're wearing weigh exactly two pounds!....it grosses me out and the worst part is My boyfriend says i'm acting weird so he thinks i'm cheating with him....i sure hope you can tell me the easiest thing to do.



This guy is a perverted jerk, and you shouldn't have to put up with it at all.

The easiet thing you can do is to let him know that his comments are not funny in the least and tell him to cut it out. If he doesn't stop this disgusting behaviour, don't be afraid to tell a teacher or the principal.

Once you've done this, let your boyfriend know that you've taken it into your own hands and have done something about it. This way, he'll know you're not cheating on him and aren't afraid to stand up for yourself.

Hope that helped some and good luck with the situation. :]

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You know you were kinda mean to that kid. Just because he he is a year too young for this site doesn't mean what he is feeling is not valid. We both know that in 4 days at that age it can't be love, but it is an emotion that has him confused and he reached out for some advice. What I don't understand is if you didn't have anything constructive to offer him why you didn't just scroll past his question? Was it really necessary to be so dismissive??

If I seemed offensive, I'm sorry, but you still have to be 13 to use Advicenators. I'm not here to be nice to everyone who asks a question on this site, I'm here to give my opinion and tell it like it is.

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ive been going out with this amazing girl for 4 days but the problem is i dont think she knows i love her /i dont think she loves me,can sum1 tell me a way to tell her i love her,by the way im 12 years old and we hav kissed twice like just a little pek though.

1) You're too young for this site.
2) You simply cannot love a girl after only 4 days.
Sorry.

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I am a senior girl getting ready to graduate, and I have never even been to a graduation party. It's not that I'm anti-social, the opposite actually, I've just never been to one. Just a couple graduation dinners.

My mom wants to have a party for me (family appropriate, no beer!), but I really don't know how to go about it, and neither does she. Most of my friends are having open houses, but I don't even really know that that is. My aunt is also graduating high school from the same school, so we are probably going to have one together, but she doesn't really know either. Can someone give me the info on this stuff? What do you do at grad parties, who comes, etc.?

& Personal experience is appreciated over links. Thank you so much!

Mine was awesome! We had the party at a really nice local park. If you're going to rent a certain place for a day, remember to do it in advance, to make sure you have it on the date you want your party, because it can fill up quickly. In fact, I'd do this asap.

I used a big decorated box for everyone to throw their cards in and I had an autograph dog (very cute idea, i loved it - my friends and family wrote a bunch of cute messages on it).

For games, we just had miscellaneous things like volleyball (for kids/teens) and horseshoes (for adults). I also had a DJ there to play cool music for each age group (this isn't TOO expensive, it depends who you get - my brother knew him, so it was about $100 for the whole day). It's also fun to just chill with your friends and take lots of pictures.

For food, we had Smokey Bones cater it for us, so there was plenty of really good food to go around. Everyone LOVED it! Just make sure you get enough food, because I had so many people there, we ran out and had to order more.

I didn't have any particular theme, except everything was decorated in green and gold, my school colors. We had lots of balloons, streamers, and confetti to make everything look festive.

Hope that helped and congratulations on graduating high school. :D

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in Superhero Movie, whats the song at the end when it shows the credits??
Thanks:)

Ahh that was the best movie! Anyway, me and my friend stayed to watch the credits cause we also wanted to know haha! I'm pretty sure it's called Superbounce by Drake Bell. I'm not sure it's downloadable yet, but the song is featured on Drake's official myspace as the Superhero song, so you can listen to it here: http://www.myspace.com/drakebellonline

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What is the name of the little girl who plays "Charlotte York Goldenblatt's" daughter in the upcoming "Sex and the City Movie"??

Thanks so much!!

Try looking here:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1000774/fullcredits#cast

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does anyone know where to get cheap jeans from abercrombie, pacsun, hollister, american eagle, delias ... etc.

and where can you get cheap hoodies by roxy or surf brands like that?

thanks

Plato's Closet. :]

http://www.platoscloset.com/

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