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Q: My friend always ditches me.
& today she wrote this hugeeee apology.
I don't feel like i should forgive her, if shes always done it & said the same thing before.
What should i do?
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Well, do you want to be friends with this girl? If you feel that she is worth your time, tell her that the only way you'll accept her apology is if she really does change.
If she does change .. good for the both of you. Maybe you can develop a stronger relashionship.
If she doesn't change, then lose her, she wasn't worth your time anyways.
Good Luck!
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Q: Hi. So, on myspace, you know how people take a put in [] the name of their myspace group? Well, me and some friends want to do that, but have no names. We want something cool and catchy. You know how some people take words and take the first letters to make a word. That would be awesome. Any Ideas?? Thanks!
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I don't totally understand the question. I'm going to give it my best shot and you can work with this =] I've seen some of these from my friends.
example name : alyssa
[alyssa] is the bomb
[alyssa] rocks your socks
[alyssa]! at the disco
[alyssa] gets crunk
[alyssa] ♥ [alyssa]
♥ [alyssa] ♥
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Q: My first serious boyfriend just broke up with me. We were together for almost a year, and it was a wonderful relationship until about a week ago when things went downhill. I lost my virginity to him awhile back and he was just the one person I could go to for anything. I'm just devastated and don't know what to do. I need suggestions on how to stay strong and how I should act if he happens to call.
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Me and a boy were together for 7 months. We were totally in love. About 2 weeks ago, he broke up with me with the reason, "I'm just not happy anymore, I want to see other people."
Of course you're going to feel horrible. I know I still do. The first week or so is the hardest. Looking at him will be painful. Seeing him with other girls will feel like your being stabbed.
I know this isn't what you want to hear. And I know you're not going to believe it. But time does heal everything. I didn't believe it at first. But it's true. You will learn to live without him. If you are meant to be together .. then things will work out. And if you're not meant to be together .. you'll have an opportunity to meet someone else. "I don't want anyone else, I want him!" yeah I know how it feels. But you'll move on, just as he is. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know it sucks but there's really nothing you can do about it. He has to take it upon himself to decide if he wants to get back together with you.
If he calls, just act like he's acting. IF he sounds all natural and like you're just friends, act like that. If he calls and wants to get back together, and you really want to, tell him. I overly suggest that you dont call him. If you call him, then you're letting him know that you're constantly thinking about him and that what he did to you is bothering you.
I'm really sorry.
I know how it feels =\
If you need any further help .. just drop one in my box.
--Ali
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Q: hey im trying to find a really good song that deals with this: Well my ex boyfriends till means a realyl lot to me and i still love him with all my heart. I was wondering if there was any songs that any of you know off the top of your head this like like i still want you back and i love you. etc even though he was someone new. It can be country because i love country. Or hip hop R&b anything like that. THANKS A BUNCH! I'll rate 5's!!!
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Want you Back - Mandy Moore
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Q: Anyone who has the LG Verizon phone "The V" the one where you flip it and there's a keyboard inside. I was wondering if that phone was able to transfer songs that you recorded as voice memos, to be your actual ringtone. Only answer if you have that phone.
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I have it and no you cant. I've tried so hard and asked others who have it and every sayd you cant.
On my old phone, all my ringtones were voice recordings.
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Q: Hey can someone tell me what's the song that comes after the "stop!"
watch this vid:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iXKM3JUNvqw&search=buttons%2C%20pussycat%20dolls
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Shake by the Ying Yang Twins.
But the normal version isn't so high pitched
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Q: Can you shave your legs using soap and will it give you razor burn?
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You can use soap and you can use shampoo too =]
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Q: 15/f
what are some GREAT tasting diet snacks that will be fun to make and are healthy for you (please include recipes if you can)?
thankss =)
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I'm not sure if you know, but there are 100 Calorie Snack Packs.
Sun chips, doritos, pretzels(i think), pringles, ritz mix, chips ahoy. there are a ton of them!
smoothies:
-frozen fruit & any kind of Crystal Light. (about 60 calories
Quaker rice puffs.
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Q: okay my parents are so annoying they won't let me do anything i mean anything. I wanted to go to my friends track meet and they wouldn't let me they said i'm to young. THey need to realize i'm 15 it's time they start letting me do my own things my own way.
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Bargain.
The only way you'll ever get to be able to do things is if you bargain. You give them what they want and you get what you want. It's a pretty simple concept.
Tell them that you'll study while you're there. Or you'll study extra hadrd when you get home. Tell them that you are 15.
If you tell your parents:
-Who you are going with
-Who is going to be there
- What time you are leaving
-What time you are coming back
-Who's driving there/back
-That you'll have access to a cellphone(and give them the number)
..you should be all set.
I think you're parents are just afraid of something bad happening to you. It's like .. an instinct.
Just make sure they know that you are going to be safe =)
good luck.
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Q: Okey, here's the thing. I can't sing.
No really, not that I don't sing GOOD, it's just that I sing...really bad. Like, really.
It sounds awful. Not that I think anyone would make fun of me..but still, I need to ask this question.
I've always been the shy quiete girl. And I don't want to be anymore. I want to be seen as a happy & loud person! So my class is doing this kareoke thing, and I want to be happy 6 up for anything 6 justa fun loving girl..but I can't sing!
So is there any fun or cool way of saying no to singing in front of the class? If I just say no everyones going to be all "c'mon, don't be like that.." not that they're gonna pressure me, but I'm going to feel like the boring girl who doesn't know how to have fun.
So can I say it in a fun way and turn this to my advantage?
Or atleast in a cool way so people will keep talking to me,. or atleats find me interesting??
Thank you.
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I used to think that my singing voice was terrible. The lady I took lessons from, in my opinion, sang worse than I did.
After about 2 years of singing every waking moment I could, I became much better.
Things to remember when singing:
-Breath right
-Keep on the beat
-Pick a song in you're vocal range
If there is a music program in your school, go to your music teacher and ask then to tell you you're range. They will probably be able to tell you by playing the piano and you will have to sing the notes as they are played.
I know this probably isnty what you wanted to hear .. but practice is the key! well at least it was for me. (that wasn't meant to ryhme lol)
good luck!
Ali
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Q: ok well i need more workout songs does anybody no anygood ones ....i want stuff like "every time we touch" i want stuff with thats kind of beat if ya no what i mean well i give 5s for people who give me 5 or more songs
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pump it - black eyed peas
walk away- kelly clarkson
lose control- missy elliot
barbie girl - aqua? lol
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Q: I want to go on a crash diet, yea its bad for me but w/e iDc. SO my meals everyday would consist of:
Breakfast: Some sort of fruit
Lunch: A small snack maybe a sandwhich or something of that sort
Dinner: Maybe a bowl of rice and some meat. or just anykind of plain meat.
That way i get some of the pyramid into my daily meals.. So tell me if that is good enough or not
and no i will not be throwing up any of this food. im not belimic or anorexic.
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Crash diets make you gain weight. no matter what anyone says .. its true. You don't eat for a while. Then any food you eat after that, your body hangs on to because it feels like it is not going to eat again for a while; that puts the weight on.
Eat 6 small meals a day. Just dont eat 3 hours before you go to bed. If you do eat 3 hours before you go to bed, then your body will hang on to all that food and because sleeping isnt exactly the bset form of "excersize", your body will hang on to all of that food and it will soon become fat.
good luck!
xO'ali
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Q: Okay im 14/f and im about to graduate 8th grade.... well this year has been very stressful for me and i mean latly everyhting has been catching up with me and i think im begeninng to feel the early signs of depression.... i think i need to go to a counsiler.... but i dont know i mean how do i ask my parents to go to a consiler without them freaking out
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I've gone through depression too. It's really hard to deal with especially when people don't know exasctly what you are going through. I know how difficult it can be when it seems like you want someone to talk to but no know can relate to you and give you advice.
Just do things that make you happy! WAtch a movie, play a game, hang out with your friends.
be happy
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Q: My man has just joined the army. He is going through basic trainning right now, which is something that is very stressful and hard (for y'all who dont kno.) I've been sending him letters, cards and pictures but i want to send him something special. Many items are not allowed (porno, drugs, tobacco, food, etc.) I need some ideas of "special" gifts to send him. (No big gifts though) Got any ideas???
18/f
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My cousin is in the army. Me and my mom send him a box every week. We usually fill the box with necessities such as:
-toilitries
-non-perishable foods
-paper and pens to write back to you
-portable media players.
just a bunch of little things that would make him think of you =)
good luck =)
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Q: hey, can you swim with tampons in? cait♥
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As opposed to pads, they are MUCH better.
Tampons are totally safe in water =)
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Q: Shoot some young teenages ways to kiss
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http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
xO'ali
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Q: um..... this may be a wierd question but i'll ask it. when is about the age girls start shaving their legs?
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There is truely no set age. Whenever the female starts to develop hair on her legs and feels comfortable enough to shave, thats when she should begin. It's not a mandatory thing, but a preference
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Q: excessive sweat glands (is that what you call it?) well, i always have these sweat circles under my arms and i have to always wear a sweater over my other shirts and here i live in Canada and its going to be spring soon and i'll need to find a way to stop sweating so much, and its not like i sweat because i'm very active or anything, i could be just doing normal day to day things like walking and i'd be sweating under the arms. i'd really like it if the people who knew what i'm going through could recommend some antipersperents that are strong and could keep the sweat away for atleast an 2 or more hours and i'd really like them to be like.. deoderant type things because i've heard of certain dri but i couldn't find it in the stores so please recommend some deoderants for me. so far i've tried lady speed stick and soft and dri but they never kept the sweat away so please help me, sorry for the length, thank you in advance.
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Been there! You MIGHT have what I have. It is called hyperhydrosis. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and he might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a heavier thing. Its a pill that dries out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning lol. But if it's not that, Ban and Certain Dry work good for most. Good luck. Anymore questions? IM me at gre3neyedxgirlx3 xO ali
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Q: ok. so ive been with this guy who lives in california for 2 years. and i live in tx. anyways we're really in love. the thing is i sent him a fake picture. i know it was wrong and the guilt is killing me. so i dont need it from anyone else.but i was wondering how i can break up with him..its not as easy as i thought it would be. im in love with him..i cant just end things, but it needs to be done..any advice?
thanks.
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If you love him, be honest. Tell him that you sent him a fake picture because you had such a strong attraction to him and that you didn't want to let him go. Make him understand where you are coming fromand that you just wanted to impress him. Then, send himn a real picture.
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Q: okay, i need help now. like it's 2:30 a.m. were i live rigt now and i can NOT fall asleep, what are some good ways to try and fall asleep?
i rate 5's!
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My theater teacher taught of this method of relaxing. It worked so well that some of us fell asleep.
What he told us to do was to lay down. Shut off all the lights. We closed out eyes. We imagined being on a trip, being in a boat, and many other things that would require a lot of details. Then see if you can feel yourself sinking into the ground.
I'm sorry you cant get to sleep. I hate that!
Good Luck!
Ali
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Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 667 Last Update: October 1, 2012 Visitors: 44399
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