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Im Danielle and I smile alot (:
Im very happy and satisfied with my life.
I have my nose pierced. I enjoy having fun. I have the most amazing boyfriend ever. I believe in love at first site. I always try and make the best of a bad situation. I have a hard time trusting people. I get taken advantage of alot. People screw me over alot. I dont have a " best friend" My best friend is my brother. Im the type of person who doesn't have a good friend, but who is friends with everyone. But I do believe I'm a good friend. Im very well rounded, and I am friends with all types of people. I don't like sterotypes, and I don't consider myself as a "label" Im starting to learn to brush off peoples thoughts of me. At times I'm shy. Im sensative. I take everything to heart. I like to write. Chances are if I know you, I like you. Sometimes peoples oppinions change my own. Im very forgiving, epecially when I shouldn't be. I don't judge people by first impressions. When I'm set on something, I'm determined to make it happen. I won't give up until it does. I'm very trustful, and I don't tell secrets. Just my own. I have very strong self-control, and If I don't want to do something I won't do it. Im a strong person, but I can be weak. I guess depending on the situation. Im a nice person, and I care more about other people than myself. There isn't much more to say

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How do you shave? Can you list the steps? And also, does it hurt?

it would help if you putt your sex with this question.

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ok so this kid realllyyyy likes me. i used to really like him too but i got over him. but now my best friend likes him . he thinks i like him and my best friend knows i don't. i know she likes him though. but she doesn't know i told him she likes him. she told me not to tell him but i was mad at her at the time so i did. does that consider me a bitch? should i tell him i don't like him? if so, how?

that don`t make you a bitch. but if your best friend wanted to keep it a secret then you should have. or let her tell him herself. you know? && if he knows that she likes him now, then maybe it`s a good thing && they could work something out. && with you not liking him thing. just tell him before it gets to late. it`s always better when it is just you && him sitting down talking. tell him that you wanna be just friends.

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me and my boyfriend have been talking and we need a song! he likes kind of the songs by hinder and daughtry, which id ont mind, and i kind of like the more hiphoppy songs.Anyone have any suggestions??

"All of Your Love" by Hellogoodbye

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ok so I've been liking this guy for a year now! he's into everything i like and everything, yet he still doesn't like me back. hes had like two gf's this year. the first one dumped him and he's still with the other one. when the first girl dumped him, i was there for him and everything. and he thanked me for it, but he still doesn't like me. he almost came over to just hang out a couple times but hasn't yet. do you think if he got to know me better he would like me? what can i do to make him change his mind about me?
14/f if that helps.

it`s good that you are there for him & comfort him when he is in need for it. having a friendship is the most important thing in a relationship. and yes, i think that if he got to know you, he would most diffenetly like you. really you can`t change his mind. but you can help, by being yourself. and to get him to hang out with you. and by that i mean, invite him to the movies and to hang out with you and your friends. MAYBE you should even ask him to tag along his girlfriend. that might be a bit hard on you but i think it would let him no that, you are ready to be more involved with him and things that are in his life. sorry if i didnt help in anyway.

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ok so i like this guy and i kinda want him 2 notice me. but the thing is that i am NOT pretty. so what can i do 2 make him notice me? he's in a different grade so it'z kinda hard 2 talk 2 him and i don'T wanna talk 2 him yet , i just want him 2 notice me for now...
help??

well first you should be happy with yourself before you make him happy with you. baiscally when you do get a chance to talk to him be yourself. sometimes looks arent everything sweetie.

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hello iv been going out with someone for nearly 10 months and im ususally confident, i say what i feel and i dont let anyone walk over me. but i find it hard standing up for myself with my boyfriend if he saya or does anything i dont like i keep quiet and if he does something to upset me i dont say anything. i think im scared of saying anything incase it starts a argument ( we have never had a row or even shouted at each other). we are both very easy going and i think sometimes he deliberatly does not contact me and im left sitting around for hours and hours waiting to hear from him.can someone please give me some advice as im not sure what to do. thankyou

you seem like you have a badd case of fear. if you see him doing something that you don`t like, you should open up and tell him. if he respects you enough, then he wouldn`t do it. yeah... i know what you mean when you say that he don`t call you for awhile && you wait. i used to do that. but then i got tired of it, so now when he don`t call, i`m just like " it`s his loss " and go out and have fun with your friends. once you ignore him, he`ll want you more.

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what are some signs of skin cancer?

Signs of skin cancer include:

A firm, transparent bump laced with tiny blood vessels in thin red lines (telangiectasias).
A reddish or irritated patch of skin.
A new, smooth skin bump (nodule) with a raised border and indented center.
A smooth, shiny, or pearly bump that may look like a mole or cyst.
A shiny area of tight-looking skin, especially on the face, that looks like a scar and has poorly defined edges.
An open sore that oozes, bleeds, or crusts and has not healed in 3 weeks.
A persistent red bump on sun-exposed skin.
A sore that does not heal or an area of thickened skin on the lower lip, especially if you smoke or use chewing tobacco, or your lips are exposed to the sun and wind.

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i weigh 130 and i'm 5'5 with a 26 inch waist. im not sure if it is or not. so, is that normal, or not?

no hun. your not fat @ all.

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do i have a chance being a cheerleader if i cant do tumbles,pushups (i can do like 2), cartwheels or roundoffs, and i wanted to go for the 9th grade team? and i'm not light enough to be flipped in the air. should i still try out? but i dont want to waste my time or embarse myself... be brutely honest..thanxs

it`s ohkay if you can`t do roundoffs and tumbles, at the start but i`m sure you will learn. cuz i did. and even if you can`t be lifted, you`d be a backspot. if you think it is going to waste your time then i wouldn`t do it. and please don`t be embarrssed to try new things, be yourself. who cares what others think. most of the time, they could be jealous that they didn`t make the team.

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Me and this guy were making out and then we started dry humping and his pants were wet so is there any way I can get pregnant? I was in jean shorts and he was in khaki shorts so that's enough clothing to prevent it right?

you surely won`t get pregnant. that`s enough clothing, as long as his cum didn`t go into or near your girl areas.

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14/f well just yesterday my bf dumped me..this is how it went. We were online and lately he hasnt been talking to me and seemed really quiet.i asked him if he still loved me. hes like ive cheated on you since last saturday.i was like but do u love me and hes like of course not i cheated on you, you stupid little ass bitch and just left..but there is more to the story..does anyone wanna give me advice. ill tell you the rest if someone kind enough is willing to give me advice.

heartbroken girl...
ps i have AIM if some one wants to chat on there.

i would try not to let him get to me if i was you ( but im not ) because sometimes guys can be childish. if you know what i mean. && well if he cheated on you then you can do alot better, you seem like a cool laidback kinda girl. if he is treating you like this, just fuck him ( i mean like... oh you know. right? ) no guy should vere do that to a lady. your only 14 yrs old, there is alot of guys out in the world that are waiting to meet a nice girl like you. move on to a better one.

remember:

if someone breaks your heart, just punch them in the face. oh sure, it seems obvious now, but you'd be amazed at how many people dont think of it when its relevant. seriously, just punch them in the face & go get some ice cream LMFAO!

i always think of that when i go through a break up. sometimes it works, but don`t really punch him in the face. that makes it worse. lol. i hope i helped in anyway. if you wanna add me to your BL for AIM, you can. hautexmess

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You know how people say, "Oh, look what the cat dragged in." Isn't it really "drug in" ? Or can it be both? Just wondering...

both ways :) teehee

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hi guys
i've really started to give up on everything. i went out with this guy for almost a year(last year) i hoesntly think i was in love and i still am . i was forced to break up with him because he lied to me and went behind my back and i couldnt just let him get away with that thinking its okay. a little after that (beginning of this year)we were hooking up but we stopped because it wasnt a good time for us to get back. we were on and off i stil love him and i go to school with him have so mnay classes with him and see him every single day. i cant get over him and no matter what i do i want him. please try to help. i just dont know what to do anymore even if i'm better than him or if i deserve better it doesnt matter to me i miss him and our realtionship.

tell him how you feel. it helps :) && if he wants to be just friends, then remeber, it`s better to be friends then nothing to him @ alll.

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im 14/f 9th grade never had a boyfriend.

there's this guy that really likes me. he's always asking how i feel if i seem sad he asks me if im okay and whats on my mind. i'm friends with him but i never really thought of us as anything other than friends. i really want a boyfriend because i want to know how it feels, but then again i don't want to just date someone then break up with them in like a month because i feel no chemistry between us. but on the other hand i'm afraid of not having my first boyfriend until im like 20. i know it doesnt matter what age but i just want to experience it young so i know what its like...so with you knowing all this do you think i should go out with him or no? thanks soo much for answering.

a relationship always should start off as friendship. if you and this guy are friends enough that you think you are ready for another step up. then take the lift. having a boyfriend, could be kinda complicating but then again it feels good knowing that you have that one person, too look forward into seeing, and having one person on your mind for hours wondering what to say when you talk to him next. i think maybe, this guy would be great for you to experience dating with. he seems like a sweetie. and no age really don`t matter, it all depends on how your heart feels. everyone has thier own way of living, so don`t just date him because you feel left out of the crowd in high school. like i sed, if your ready for the next big thing, GOO FOR IT HUN. you only live once.&& if you think about it, soon you could waste your time, and he could move on. you will see him walking down the halls holding hands with some other girl, && you just thinking "damn that could have been me".lol. do what ever your little heart desires.

i hope i helped.

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how can you get prgenet? is it when a penis cums inside your vagina, also what are the safest way not to get pregenet & if a guy uses a plastic bag or like a plastic sandwithc bag other than a condom , would you might be able to get pregent? Thanks so muchh anways, Luvv Esty!

well... geez.

when you are having sex && a guy don`t use a condom && he says "i pulled out". well hun, you dribble before you spit. and but that i mean, a guy has precum which can also get you knocked up. i wouldn`t try to use a plastic bagg anthing, they have air and space. that could cause the cum to make contact with your female areas. i would stick with a condom. or have you considered the birth control pill. so far they work.

sorry if that made no sense or don`t help:)

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Hi, This might be a little long but i really need ya'll advice thanks!

I had broke up with my boyfriend because i didn't have as strong of feelings for him that he did with me. But, I still wanted to be friends. Well oneday me, him and my friend were talking on the phone after we got off, he had called my friend back and was acting like someone else at first then he told her who it really was. So then he kept asking her all these questions type of questions you would ask someone that you would like to get to know better. Then he said can Chris come see you( the boy he was pretending to see) she said yea he can come see me. Then he asked if he could see her she said no. Then she said shouldn't he be talking to me then she hung up on him and he called her back.
Then today he acted like nothing happend. So should I be upset and should i still try and make me and my ex's friendship work even though he tried to talk to my friend? i have an idea of what i should do but i need some other opinions.

well... if you didn`t have strong feelings for him, then you shouldn`t let little things like this that he does get to you. sometimes guys can be immature (what am i saying scratch that, all the time). if you can`t trust him, then he ain`t worth having. your friend sounds like, she really cares about you, so i think that, if he was to TRY to talk to her, she wouldn`t. IT`S A GIRL RULE. i think it would be possible to let it slide && actually still be friends with him. if he is ready to move on to another relationship then you should be there to support him on that, friend or not (but friends shouldn`t do that).

i`m not quite sure if that is what you wanted to hear && or if it would help. but i did what i could.

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http://www.picoodle.com/view.php?srv=img02&img=/8/5/11/f_l23ed3943d6m_5fca088.jpg

whats a free downloadable program that could let me do that?

www.blibs.com is a good one. i use it for my photos. it is downloadable but easy to do && fun to work with.

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ok so i kinda know the answer to this kinda but i want some oppinions so theres this guy that i like and well basically my friend think i should ask him out and i dont he's just different then any other guy i've ever met i can be myself around him and yeah so my question is i want to be more comfortable before i get all involved in a relationship or anything so should i just keep trying to make myself more comfortable and then maybe next year sometime maybe i could ask him out or something and like stay friends with him also i wanna be really good friends with him cause i'm just used to being friends with a guy and then likeing him but i want to be the girl he'll tell something that he tell's no one else or like the girl he'll hug or something even though there just friends and stuff like that i know it might sound lame to some people but not me

well first off, you should always know that a relationship should start off as a friendship. basically be yourself. if you really like this guy, you shouldn`t push your self into becoming "good friends" with him so fast. cuz eventually you will get kinda old (does that make sense) have you told him how you feel ? try it. that always helps. the most he can say is " i just wanna be friends" right? well... one day you could be more to him && become the girl that he hugs. even if you find out that he don`t like you as a girlfriend, then it`s better that he tells you now && not lead you on for so long (guys do that.. ugh)but i doubt that he wouldn`t like you, you seem like a nice layed back kind of girl. and no hun you don`t sound lame. i hope i helped in anyway, if so feel free to IM me for any situation

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so my girlfriend and i are really into eachother
and she's given one of her ex's blowjobs and handjobs before
but i've never been with anyone who would do that
whats the right way to ask for one or do i just wait till she goes for it on her own?
thanks

if i was you ( butt i`m not ) i would wait for her to be ready to russh into things such as that :) but to let her know that you are interested in going a step up into the realationship you should talk to her about it. but give her time ( make sure she feels comfortable ). really there is no right way to ask that type of question. i always get "suck it" but from a girls point of view, that`s kinda unattractive. i say, you should just let it fall into place. if it don`t happen then it don`t happen, but everything happens for a reason.

i`m not sure if that was what you were looking for in an answer but if it helps then your welcome &&& if it don`t go so well... i`m sorry buddy :(

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