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am i a....?
ok so this kid realllyyyy likes me. i used to really like him too but i got over him. but now my best friend likes him . he thinks i like him and my best friend knows i don't. i know she likes him though. but she doesn't know i told him she likes him. she told me not to tell him but i was mad at her at the time so i did. does that consider me a bitch? should i tell him i don't like him? if so, how?
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It doesn't make you a bitch but it does make you a bit of a snitch here. I think you answered your own question but just wanted confirmation from us that the best thing to do is tell the guy you aren't interested in him.
Then, tell him I know a wonderful girl who would really like to date you and talk about your friend and the fact she's really shy. Leave things to him and see what happens. If she gets the guy in the process she's not going to care that you told.
However, if he now knows you don't like him and that she does and he doesn't want her and she finds out you told him you have a problem.
She's likely not going to trust you for awhile with secrets as it was up to her to tell him and not you. In that case tell her it slipped out when you were angry at her and you never ever meant for it to hurt her or cause her embarassment. That's about all you can do.
But, I would tell the guy considering he knows everything now you have no interest in him but he should go after her as she's nuts over him. That would be the best way to turn this situation around in your favor. She's not going to give a damn you told provided he goes after her based on your suggestion.
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that don`t make you a bitch. but if your best friend wanted to keep it a secret then you should have. or let her tell him herself. you know? && if he knows that she likes him now, then maybe it`s a good thing && they could work something out. && with you not liking him thing. just tell him before it gets to late. it`s always better when it is just you && him sitting down talking. tell him that you wanna be just friends.
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well you should tell him you dont like him and make it on a day when you and him are alone. let him down easy by saying that you really like him as a friend but not in that kind of way. he'll get the message. reassure him by telling him that your friend likes him, but make sure you tell him not to tell her that he knows. probaably if they spend more time together, he will start liking her. that way everyones happy. hope it goes well.
SAM
oh well if you dont want her to like him then there its probably because maybe your a little jealous. maybe if your anything like me then you might not be completely over him. you say you are and think you are but a small part of you isnt so thats why you have these feelings. you cant control how she feels and its probably best not to mention her likeing him anymore. good luck. this stuff is always so confusing.
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