ok so i kinda know the answer to this kinda but i want some oppinions so theres this guy that i like and well basically my friend think i should ask him out and i dont he's just different then any other guy i've ever met i can be myself around him and yeah so my question is i want to be more comfortable before i get all involved in a relationship or anything so should i just keep trying to make myself more comfortable and then maybe next year sometime maybe i could ask him out or something and like stay friends with him also i wanna be really good friends with him cause i'm just used to being friends with a guy and then likeing him but i want to be the girl he'll tell something that he tell's no one else or like the girl he'll hug or something even though there just friends and stuff like that i know it might sound lame to some people but not me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? BEYONDxAMAZING answered Friday May 11 2007, 10:10 pm: well first off, you should always know that a relationship should start off as a friendship. basically be yourself. if you really like this guy, you shouldn`t push your self into becoming "good friends" with him so fast. cuz eventually you will get kinda old (does that make sense) have you told him how you feel ? try it. that always helps. the most he can say is " i just wanna be friends" right? well... one day you could be more to him && become the girl that he hugs. even if you find out that he don`t like you as a girlfriend, then it`s better that he tells you now && not lead you on for so long (guys do that.. ugh)but i doubt that he wouldn`t like you, you seem like a nice layed back kind of girl. and no hun you don`t sound lame. i hope i helped in anyway, if so feel free to IM me for any situation [ BEYONDxAMAZING's advice column | Ask BEYONDxAMAZING A Question ]
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